ladyF:
Hmmm....but they said when ur wife gives birth, she should resign to take care of the kids some time ago on this nairaland...ok bye

Modified: I was the FTC on Oga Nairaland's thread for super moderator although my comment is now hidden, but if u check his profile you will see my name as the last commenter. I'm highly honoured Oga Nairaland

Its [size=20pt]LadyF[/size] again

emusmith:
So many relationship issues here and there. Guys and Ladies are asking so many questions such as:



a. Is it OK to date an undergraduate with the aim of marrying her?

b. How old is modest for a girl to get into a relationship?

3. I caught my girlfriend with another guy, should I break up with her?


A lot of salient and underlying factors exist why relationships of many years 'dilapidate' in a twinkling of an eye.

I'm not against dating an undergraduate but I'm against dating one with an undergraduate's mindset. There are quite many who believe they are not yet ready for this whole relationship saga hence doing you a favour hanging out with you. Shocking, but true. To such, I say, Bon Voyage!

As the age long mantra says, Only time will tell.

When these girls behave that way, some times, you don't get to blame them even as Ladies in general believe you know what you're up to coming to ask them out...The crux of this thread is Dating a Working Class Lady Has More Advantages And Better Chances Of A "Safe Landing"Than Dating An 'undergraduate'. Let's see some of my reasons:


1. Good Money Management Skill.

A working class lady better understand how hard it is to make money. Yes, she buys shoes and some times engage in profligate spending but with caution. She tries to keep a part for the rainy weeks, LOL. With this attitude of hers, you can hand your ATM to her without worries


2. Maturity

Maturity is built in her through the stress at work. Though girls will be girls but there are some things you won't see her get involved in. Imagine her working and schooling at same time, you'll hardly even see her in social networks sef. How we need mature ladies in the dating game and not just recharge card beggers.


3. Her Generosity Is Heightened

It is expected she has conquered the "Me Alone" attitude because a part of her salary goes to her family, supposedly. Some times, she sends some to her siblings. Most times, she is left with a little. At those moments, her dp will change, "Family is everything". True! Those guys in her work place wondering, "what's she doing with her money?". Now you know. You can be sure she will be of financial help to both in-laws.


4. She Has A 'better' Idea On What She Really Need In Her Man.

She has met several kinds of guys, so her choosing you is more of her "last resort". Having dated "many guys", you're one lucky dude. o:
You can't count on an undergraduate that much. She still has many choices to make: Uni, Masters, NYSC, Work place etc. Oh mehn!


5. Financial Assistance

She can be of great help when the burden of pre-marriage activities come knocking. Also, she won't just come into your house with her GMG, but with some of her things too that will benefit all. It's not compulsory but it's relieving, you know.

6. Less Time for Casual/Childish Stuff

It's hard to find a working class Lady who is engrossed with work find time to live carelessly (partying). It might exist but only in rare cases. More often than not, she spends time with her closest besties not with any T, D & H. If she is ALWAYS on Social Network, forget it. At least, you can tell she has a dream, a passion, a drive. Even if she is less busy, she tries to perfect her tailoring, dancing or designing skill. She hates being idle. Above all, childish stuff like being the FTC or making money out of guys on internet or real life disgusts her.


7. Work Exposure

Having to work with other married colleague of hers, she gets to know the real needs of every man thus coming into marriage with some form of relevant information. Just hope she doesn't meet the wrong women sha.


Have a good evening
#covers blanket#

luthorcorp:
emusmith certainly has a way of creating a trend and getting the traffic he needs all in a wrap...nice points though but not entirely true

ladyF:
Hmmm....but they said when ur wife gives birth, she should resign to take care of the kids some time ago on this nairaland...ok bye

Modified: I was the FTC on Oga Nairaland's thread for super moderator although my comment is now hidden, but if u check his profile you will see my name as the last commenter. I'm highly honoured Oga Nairaland

Its [size=20pt]LadyF[/size] again

ladyF:
Hmmm....but they said when ur wife gives birth, she should resign to take care of the kids some time ago on this nairaland...ok bye

Modified: I was the FTC on Oga Nairaland's thread for super moderator although my comment is now hidden, but if u check his profile you will see my name as the last commenter. I'm highly honoured Oga Nairaland

Its [size=20pt]LadyF[/size] again

ladyF:
Hmmm....but they said when ur wife gives birth, she should resign to take care of the kids some time ago on this nairaland...ok bye

Modified: I was the FTC on Oga Nairaland's thread for super moderator although my comment is now hidden, but if u check his profile you will see my name as the last commenter. I'm highly honoured Oga Nairaland

Its [size=20pt]LadyF[/size] again

ladyF:
Hmmm....but they said when ur wife gives birth, she should resign to take care of the kids some time ago on this nairaland...ok bye

Modified: I was the FTC on Oga Nairaland's thread for super moderator although my comment is now hidden, but if u check his profile you will see my name as the last commenter. I'm highly honoured Oga Nairaland

Its [size=20pt]LadyF[/size] again

Cyriloha:




wetn that girl do you ?

why did you talked to her in that manner ?

fajani:
The first duty of a man is to pray seriously when planning to choose someone who he intends marrying,the fact a lady is undergraduate or working class has no positive or negative impact in a man's life, provided that you have dated the right girl... I am dating an undergraduate girl and she is not a burden on me, If we are truly meant to be, i don't see any reason why the relationship won't be a successful one....

ladyF:
Hmmm....but they said when ur wife gives birth, she should resign to take care of the kids some time ago on this nairaland...ok bye

Modified: I was the FTC on Oga Nairaland's thread for super moderator although my comment is now hidden, but if u check his profile you will see my name as the last commenter. I'm highly honoured Oga Nairaland

Its [size=20pt]LadyF[/size] again

vizkiz:


marrying someone as jobless as you are will be the biggest mistake of one's life

vizkiz:


marrying someone as jobless as you are will be the biggest mistake of one's life

emusmith:


Lalasticlala: Please save NL from kids like this.

This is a TROLL!

Moana:
well considering you have the time and energy to follow a " jobless geh" on nairaland, what does that make you?

seems you don't know her. Ok bye

peeparty:
on point, so no hope for lazy gehs lol

ronald4lif:


Lol @ main chick and side chick.

Main chick is enough load needless to plus a side one.

There's a chick in the frame.

Cutehector:
lol d stvpid idiot came to my thread and derailed it.. He thought I'd hav his time to reply him

400billionman:
Very nice thread. .

I dated an undergraduate and found that attitude of I am doing you a favour. Now I have built a strategy to beat that. I have dated most working class.. They are saucy. They feel arrived financially yet it's peanuts still depending on men to stay afloat. Most women have a false consciousness about money. I will prefer sponsoring a girl and have her respect 100percent than if she brings in N10k, she starts dictating for you. You never see anything..

damose12:
Nice write up OP. Had it in mind b4 nw but this serves as a reminder
Ladies una better work hard bc men no dey take chances again
My own working class sef get level o

Ephemmm:


By the time you marry a working class finish, it is then you will realize that no matter how rich a woman is, the little money that comes from her husband meant a lot to him.