vivypretty:
nice list.unless u are blindly in love to overlook this attributes.

wristbangle:



Lol. But I play video games a lot. Does it mean I will not be a responsible husband?

ronald4lif:


Should I recommend you past-time activities? Get a kettle, fill it up with water and put on the gas until it dries up. Repeat the process till you're exhausted. Thank me later.

Midehi:

wristbangle:


Well analysed bro. The thing is if one consumes alcohol or smokes moderately, there is tendency such habit will become addictive as it may stare up that ugly attitude in him hence resort into derogatory acts on his love ones most especially his love partner.

bqlekan:
Truth! Truth!! Truth!!!

ronald4lif:


True that tobacco consumption can influence one's behaviour and attitude but a compulsive indulger can still be responsible, collected and calm. Bro, I hope you're aware there are top professionals like doctors, lawyers, engineers etc who indulges to enhance their capacity and efficiency before undertaking uphill task of the day. And not all of them can be said to be irresponsible.

By the way, how come tosyné2much plot was hijacked by redgém. Would you guys be instituting for litigation against her for trespassing?

wristbangle:


She stole the space but only to say BRB. Yes we will charge her for trespassing

Meanwhile tosyne2much may not be online for a while now.

A Thief stylishly stole his phone and power bank.

Quite painful.

wristbangle:
The way some guys act clearly indicate that they will end up as chronic headache for their wives in the nearest future if care is not taken.

I can't really blame guys who are involved in the act of humiliating ladies in public and online because these ladies in question must have torment their heart but going to the extent of destroying their intrinsic values is the major concern here.

Therefore let's take a look at signs that indicate a guy will become an irresponsible husband.

1. Extremely stingy

Some guys are so stingy to the extent that they can't call their girlfriends for just 1minute in a day. The only time they call for long period is during free night calls or bonus awarded from telecom providers. If they call for 30secs, they will hang up and later explain through whatsapp/BBM that it was network failure.

2. Highly promiscuous

This issue is common to perverts who has never zipped up for once in their life by chasing every tom and harry in skirt. These are the kinds that will eventually become sugar daddy, chasing ladies who are young enough to be their daughter in future.

3. Very lazy

Some guys are so idle to the extent that they have no goal, vision and purpose in life. They are just too lazy to seize opportunities around them as they are only seen in betting shops like nairabet, etc. to make money.

4. Ridicule ladies

I hate when a guy beat or disgrace his girlfriend in public just because she hangs out with a guy. I consider this as a dysfunctional act because a man in making will not stoop so low to involve himself in this thrash. Meanwhile on nairaland some consider all ladies as whores of which we still have the rare and good ones like mhizkel, prettythicksme, redgem, aminat508, midehi, adeh39 and others.

5. Habit of alcoholism and smoking

For a guy that consume too much alcohol and smoke probably in the bid to control his anger is not a man. Such guys cannot become responsible husbands to their wives because they can use children's school fee and other budgetary money to drink and smoke.

6. Wrong lifestyle

Some guys rock and roll with the wrong peer groups who have influence them to have shameful lifestyles like yahoo yahoo occupation, rape gangs and area touts.

7. Careless attitude

The way some guys behave can be likened to a voracious animal. They dump and change ladies like sanitary pads as they care less about their emotion by suggesting abortion for any sex journey that becomes foetus.

8. Poor financial planning

Some guys blow money like trumpet without thinking about future investment. They spend their money on vague things like phones, prostitutes, etc. Such guys will eventually become an irresponsible husband.

wristbangle:

It's being a while dear.

ronald4lif:


Damn. Not again. This is the second time in less than 6months this is happening. Sad.

sonofananimal:
WHAT OF WE WERE WE DON REPENT BUT I STILL DEY DRINK SHALL


Hope i will make a good husband

Midehi:

yea, not my fault o,

wristbangle:


Baba, I trust. U will be a good father. Don't mind those ladies that did not appreciate your unique character.

redgem:
Bad listening habit: most guys have this habit and it results in ineffective communication, which usually have an adverse impact on the productivity of the individual and their relationships. Poor listening definitely make a huge, negative impact on team morale and productivity. This situation usually results in conflicts and misunderstandings among partners , and it creates a negative environment.


Lack of Self control : some guys lack the ability to control their emotions, behavior, and desires. Guys should constantly be striving towards self-control and discipline, because these are foundations of integrity. One thing they need to understand about self-control is that it is not as much about saying no to certain fleshly desires, lusts
and cravings but more about living and abundant life free from addiction regret and shame.


Interrupting a conversation: guys are good at Interrupting a conversation with improper body language or inappropriate words and this has a negative impact on their relationships. My bf does this a lot and it annoys me... I've told him severally yet, he can't stop it.

sonofananimal:
I NO MIND THEM AGAIN, IN FACT! MIND NO DEY NEAR THERE

redgem:
Bad listening habit: most guys have this habit and it results in ineffective communication, which usually have an adverse impact on the productivity of the individual and their relationships. Poor listening definitely make a huge, negative impact on team morale and productivity. This situation usually results in conflicts and misunderstandings among partners , and it creates a negative environment.


Lack of Self control : some guys lack the ability to control their emotions, behavior, and desires. Guys should constantly be striving towards self-control and discipline, because these are foundations of integrity. One thing they need to understand about self-control is that it is not as much about saying no to certain fleshly desires, lusts
and cravings but more about living and abundant life free from addiction regret and shame.


Interrupting a conversation: guys are good at Interrupting a conversation with improper body language or inappropriate words and this has a negative impact on their relationships. My bf does this a lot and it annoys me... I've told him severally yet, he can't stop it.


Dirtiest: so

prettythicksme:
hmmmmm nice one op btw where is Tosyne to add sauce to dis thread? cc:wristbangle

sonofananimal:
you really don't know anything about guys. If a guy is interrupting you in a conversation that means he really don't understand the subject or trying to fit in with the discussion.


As for the listening part, a guy tend to listen in a different way. You don't expect him to keep looking at you with all eyes on deck and you think he have your full attention. We are the silent listener, we don't listen with gesture as you women do.

redgem:
Bad listening habit: most guys have this habit and it results in ineffective communication, which usually have an adverse impact on the productivity of the individual and their relationships. Poor listening definitely make a huge, negative impact on team morale and productivity. This situation usually results in conflicts and misunderstandings among partners , and it creates a negative environment.


Lack of Self control : some guys lack the ability to control their emotions, behavior, and desires. Guys should constantly be striving towards self-control and discipline, because these are foundations of integrity. One thing they need to understand about self-control is that it is not as much about saying no to certain fleshly desires, lusts
and cravings but more about living and abundant life free from addiction regret and shame.


Interrupting a conversation: guys are good at Interrupting a conversation with improper body language or inappropriate words and this has a negative impact on their relationships. My bf does this a lot and it annoys me... I've told him severally yet, he can't stop it.


Dirtiest: so

wristbangle:


Lol. Bros mi. How are u sir?

starpon1:
see ya mouth

wristbangle:


Most times ladies want you to listen to their plights and that has a long way to satisfy their emotions.

They are such a funny being.

wristbangle:


Lol. Dem don steal him phone oo.

Meanwhile the FTC lady try gan