repogirl:
Well...... Anybody can cheat, there is no saint anywhere..... This all comes down to your friend's instinct and conviction. Your friend should follow his mind because she may truly have changed or she may not.


Only him knows the girl, no one here does but I can assure you that chick lied saying that she only slept with that compound guy once.... ......cos if a virgin slept with a guy once, she wouldn't go running to her main guy immediately.... She and her compound guy might have done it a few times although she might lie to her main guy so that he doesn't feel too bad.

Anyway, that she slept with someone else doesn't mean much, people make mistakes but if they are willing to sincerely change, they should be forgiven.

So tell your friend to consider other factors, like her attitude and other stuff... Like I said earlier, only him knows who she really is and his instincts should lead his decisions.
Goodluck

By the way, I just got my next short story idea from this, lol.

Kazrem:

@the bolded, guy you wicked o. On a second thought, you only paid the guy back with his own coin. But the girl self na harlot o.

Fourwinds:
Nonsense.!!! virginity is attached to good character.. if a girl goes about banging every dick., where is d character. A girl with good character will not bang any guy even if it involves money

Youngpo413:
only a foolish guy will take back a cheating gf,any girl capable of cheating on you can also kill you with ease,cos she doesn't love you at all.

tosyne2much:
See my wifey sef dey view dis thread

luswitz:
U sleep with so many and expect to marry a virgin? Smh! I think it will be ideal if both are virgins. Before u make your decision ask yourself if u as a guy haven't cheated on a girl before and I bet u, u didn't have sincerity to tell her, we are all hypocrites and yet pretend to be saints.. my advice to your friend; if he knows he has not cheated on a girl before and won't cheat after marriage den he should quite and move on,but if otherwise... U know d rest.. peace!

Fourwinds:
Nonsense.!!! didn't u read were. d girl was quoted dat she will wait till marriage. so y d pretence if she knew she can not handle d urge.. y didn't she approach d guy in her life. nonsense again

Nickymezor:
Tosyne hw far?

Dozzmani:
Hello friends

I have been a reader in this forum for a while now,usually see the help through advise being given to people,which made me to bring this issue here because at this point,I don't know what exactly to tell this my guy becuase this issue is beyond me.

My friend has been dating his girlfriend for two years now,the babe is know to us(his friends) and his family as the only woman for him. It was a no sex relationship as the girl said her virginity is her pride. My guy accepted to wait till when they get married as he truly love this babe. Last year ending, one guy moved into the compound of this girl, that was when stories entered their beautiful relationship.

To cut the long story short, recently my guy's girlfriend that never wanted sex started disturbing him of sex, he was surprised about it, later agreed as she made him promise her to indulge in it with her. Alarm blew on the supposed day they were meant to have the sex as he wanted to cover his white sheets because of possible blood stains, she told him blood won't come out. He went in and blood never came out. Since then, she had been lying and swearing she was a virgin which my guy persisted she was not.

She opened up to him of recent that she lost it to the new guy in their compound who as of then almost made them to break up but was pleaded with him not to break the relationship by her aunt and some good friends of hers'.

She doesn't have anything to do with that guy she lost it to because the issue went out of proportion then in their compound, which made my guy to start growing faith in her again upon knowing she slept with that guy in her compound few times when she cheated with him.

She recently confessed to him she knew blood won't come out as she slept with the compound guy once before the day they had sex. The twist now is that who he met a virgin could not hold on to it for him but gave it away to another guy.he is questioning the girl's love on how she could have done such.he still loves her but can't say if he can trust her not to try such if eventually he marries her.she begged for forgiveness.but to be honest,I don't know what to say to this guy.

Please, friends, your candid advise will go a long way in shaping someone's future here as of life partner as he plans on getting married by next year ending..

EggovinMma:
No be your fellow man chop the hymen?Abeg go one side dey cry,no disturb us here.

Fourwinds:
Bad girl

Holuwakemmy16:
Virgin or no virgin good character is the best

EggovinMma:


i dey jare.
Don't mind all these guys wey dey form "my fiance".

Them don bastardize the word already!
AFTER ALL NO BE THE GIRL GET HER YANCHSHE GAVE IT OUT TO THE BEST SEX CANDIDATE HOOOOHAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!

GOD KNOWS I CANT HOLD MY VIRGINITY FOR A GUY,ONLY FOR MYSELF!!

I NO EVEN REMEMBER THE NIGGAR WEY DISVIRGIN ME,GOT TIRED OF HIM AFTER THE THIRD MONTH I THINK.

Fourwinds:
just heae urself.. NO BE SHE GET HER YANSH...y date one and then go to another to bang.

EggovinMma:


SWEETY I AINT THAT BAD

EggovinMma:


OYA MAKE THE GUY GO CALL POLICE FOR HER NA,OR BETTER STILL MAKE HIM GO COLLECT HIM BRIDE PRICE.

fxbot:
is she a virgin? I pity you. I once forked a girl early this year and later found out she has a guy, a serious one. She gave me all the styles and the serious guy never touch her.

Fourwinds:
d truth is I don't like complicated things... if u have a guy stick with him..if u like bang him from morning till nite.. but leaving ur guy and giving it to someone else because of VIRGINITY to hold d faithful guy down is wickedness.. if u know ur guy cheats quit d relationship.. let things b simple., clear and straight forward

Fourwinds:
u just dey pull my leg.. how was ur Sallah Celebration

otijah:
I once tried to Bleep her after I told her I wanted to quit due to dat same issue, she leta agreed to do it nd I swear d pain was too much for her to bear and I had to pull out nd let her be as I knew I was hurting her.

EggovinMma:


I CONCUR,BUT REMEMBER THESE,THERE REALLY IS NO DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE GUY THAT DISVIRGINED HER AND THE SAID BOYFRIEND.I DON'T BELIEVE IN THESE MY FIANCE SHIITE.

Fourwinds:
how do I marry u now if u don't believe in FIANCE.

EggovinMma:


Guy wey dey do Fiance no suppose to allow pass 4 months.Give a girl engagement ring when you know there are pls s underway to get married.Na for nigeria under graduates dey fo fiance inside one small hostel. Lmao.

tosyne2much:
This same thing happened to me recently

I dont know if sharing my experience will be necessary

tosyne2much:
im doing very fine jawe... How about u?

Fkhalifa:
hmmmm, just that i always get weak i read stories like this, this world don spoil finish,she didnt complain and wasnt rape..how old was she then?

EggovinMma:


NA UNA STILL MAKE US DUMB.yOU NO SAY WHEN GURLS DUMB E DEY PAIN GUYS FOR BODY

EggovinMma:


Guy wey dey do Fiance no suppose to allow pass 4 months.Give a girl engagement ring when you know there are pls s underway to get married.Na for nigeria under graduates dey fo fiance inside one small hostel. Lmao.

Fynpatra:

After yu don finish OP all for ur first post

fxbot:
You should make a woman wet, relax and comfortable before penetrating her.

I am sure you didn't do enough for-play before going in. That way there would be too much pains. And you don't slow your motion. Make her relax, very wet and in one thrust push. The blood will also help as a lubricant.