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Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by tosyne2much(m): 9:04pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
Omotayor123:B4 nko? |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Nobody: 9:06pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
Ehem I just noticed the Reply button has reappeared on my account. It has been missing for 2 days... I even thought it will debit one of my bank accounts but it didn't ...can u imagine? You see how safe it is to break one or more of NL rules So back to the OP...now listen carefully let me advice that your friend through you... And also allow me advice all Nairalanders who are still saving their girls virginity. Ladies are naturally faithful and I disagree that they are W*ores. No virgin decides to just give out her virginity to the guy next door instead of her man. The only part of her body a lady can control 100% is her an*s quote me. Every other part of a lady doesn't belong to her...quote me again. A virgin sees a nice dick, believe me she wishes she could suck or touch it. A guy touches a virgin who is having temporary issues with her man she falls apart. Its not a ladies fault that they are created with so many touch sensitive parts on their body? Coupled with a fish brain how can she overcome such a temptation. I respect ladies that manage to keep it till wedding night o! I respect them a lot because every part of their bodies are working against them. Its not easy abeg; we guys should learn to appreciate their little effort towards faithfulness its not easy for them. If God created guys with half the sensitive spots a lady has, we would be raping dogs I swear. Please please I beg all of you that are sincerely dating virgins, please try and disvirgin them please because their p***y doesn't belong to them. Please becos they have little control over their p***y. They never planned to cheat on u abeg, the only fell victim to their nature and its not their fault. Pls disvigin her, she may not like it afterwards but she will surely love you afterwards. The p***y has a spirit of its own claim it now b4 a badt guy claims it b4 u. The girl has little choice in the matter. Lastly OP tell your friend to marry the girl, I understand why it happened, its not her fault totally. Even married women that their husbands travel out for a year, a teenager can even straff them without much effort. Name so God created woman no blame them abeg. Marry her na you make the mistake. 29 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Omotayor123(f): 9:07pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
tosyne2much:Chai 1 Like |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Owliver(m): 9:16pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
F50:NO NO 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by baralatie(m): 9:29pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
a boy get girlfriend na another man they y.an.sh am. you are talking of of marriage! how? 11 Likes |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Cutehector(m): 9:29pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
Op you are d one dat deflowered her |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Nobody: 9:50pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
Owliver: Have u dated a virgin before? If not learn from my experience. Not all virgins have the will to succeed till wedding night. |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Owliver(m): 9:53pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
F50:i have never dated one. but your advice? its a no no seriously. the said victim of scam(boyfriend) needs to move on. 3 Likes |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by ifoundmyperfect: 10:09pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
We humans can be so judgemental. The girl flawed, we all do... Forgive her and move on... If you can't bring yourself to trust her again, set both yourself and herself free by ending the relationship. 3 Likes |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by yinkeys(m): 10:37pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
morethanadoll:Blunt chick, 1 Like |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by flokii: 10:57pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
omo see Gobe.. you met her a virgin.. so where you come run go wey another guy deflower am? dem don close lap trick this OP... mayb na secondary virgin... WOMEN.... fear them.. 2 Likes |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Flashh: 10:59pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
She starved the main guy sex, but had it with another guy, just in few time of meeting him. That's very obnoxious mehn! A guy should always have it in mind that the girl/lady he is dating might fĂșck-up anytime. So that she won't hurt your feelings after cheating on you. Dumping her will be like dumping a refuse without getting hurt, because it doesn't come like a surprise to you. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Missy89(f): 11:00pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
Your friend is a slow a5s negro. Next story please 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by MAYOWAAK: 11:01pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
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Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Vikky014(f): 11:04pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
fxbot:including your sisters right op tell ur friend to make hay while the sun shines. Trust is so important in marriage. this girls act will make ur friend nt to trust her atall |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by westlius(m): 11:04pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
Don't marry her 2 Likes |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by oluseyiforjesus(m): 11:05pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
Case close |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Emilord(m): 11:05pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
Fvck shit! He should fvcking dump her hot sorry ass. That b|tch was never a virgin when he first met her. This is why some guys don't believe in all these platonic stuffs,whether virgin or not. We are dating,I bleep you or we are not dating at all. Imagine!the guy might have been faithful all these while. 5 Likes |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by ussv: 11:06pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
The guy Bleep up , dem suppose flog am , OKOBO !!! |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Iamthoney(m): 11:06pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
fxbot:Henceforth I name you Chris Forcar 3 Likes |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by olajorn(m): 11:06pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
I will never accept no sex relationship even for a day 1 Like |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Muhylonaire(m): 11:07pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
I just hate that scenario. ....been dating her for years as a virgin, we agreed not to have s3x, something happened along the line we broke up,she spent closely 6months outside and when she came back, she came back as a fairly used product.. I even accepted her back but I won't lie to u. the love is no more there. coz if I could spend more than 1year without touching u,and u spent below 6months outside and u were touched then u are telling me that I don't worth it.. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by adazinnie(f): 11:08pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
Haba all dese guys self how many of una b virgin... torqque7: |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Nobody: 11:08pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
SAME EXPERIENCE. She told me she was a virgin, that she don't want sex. so I went back to school, on my arrival I began seeing her attitude display. I know the did is done. Later she confess, but I know she is still cheating till date. I won't let her be till I collect my own share 18 Likes |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by wagazala: 11:08pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
fxbot: You do have a good point. Good girls like bad guys. I realized this in my school days when I lost my gf's to bad boys. I was the love forming romantic mushy mushy guy. Stories, changed when I changed hand though... OP, my question is have you also slept with another woman within this period? What intentions do you have towards this lady (to marry?). If you forgive, would you ever forget? There's no template to relationships, the answers to your questions lie within you. Be wise. 3 Likes |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by LOUIS6(m): 11:08pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
fxbot: Pls can u show me d link to d good guy bad guy thread |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Zikdik(m): 11:08pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
[/quote]I have been a reader in this forum for a while now,usually see the help through advise being given to people,which made me to bring this issue here because at this point,I don't know what exactly to tell this my guy becuase this issue is beyond me. My friend has been dating his girlfriend for two years now,the babe is know to us(his friends) and his family as the only woman for him. It was a no sex relationship as the girl said her virginity is her pride. My guy accepted to wait till when they get married as he truly love this babe. Last year ending, one guy moved into the compound of this girl, that was when stories entered their beautiful relationship. To cut the long story short, recently my guy's girlfriend that never wanted sex started disturbing him of sex, he was surprised about it, later agreed as she made him promise her to indulge in it with her. Alarm blew on the supposed day they were meant to have the sex as he wanted to cover his white sheets because of possible blood stains, she told him blood won't come out. He went in and blood never came out. Since then, she had been lying and swearing she was a virgin which my guy persisted she was not. She opened up to him of recent that she lost it to the new guy in their compound who as of then almost made them to break up but was pleaded with him not to break the relationship by her aunt and some good friends of hers'. She doesn't have anything to do with that guy she lost it to because the issue went out of proportion then in their compound, which made my guy to start growing faith in her again upon knowing she slept with that guy in her compound few times when she cheated with him. She recently confessed to him she knew blood won't come out as she slept with the compound guy once before the day they had sex. The twist now is that who he met a virgin could not hold on to it for him but gave it away to another guy.he is questioning the girl's love on how she could have done such.he still loves her but can't say if he can trust her not to try such if eventually he marries her.she begged for forgiveness.but to be honest,I don't know what to say to this guy. Please, friends, your candid advise will go a long way in shaping someone's future here as of life partner as he plans on getting married by next year ending..[/quote] So close, yet so far away. This is why I tell ladies not to objectify their virginity. It never ends well, either before or after marriage. If you want to stay celibate before marriage, do so, but do not make it the focal point of your life. Some ladies simply can't construct two sentences without squeezing in the fact that they are still a virgin. Why should the physical condition of your hymen be the epicenter of your existence? 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by dtermined(m): 11:08pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
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Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by MrMcJay(m): 11:09pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
OP, don't worry, the girl would change. Pls, gimme her number let me advise her. >: Instead of your friend to let her go, he's still dating her. Very soon, he'll start insulting Buhari for not making Anti Retroviral drugs available. 2 Likes |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by sleek82(m): 11:09pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
sebyt4u:and if he ddnt touch her, wont he be discovering the secrets after marriage.....do you think thats when the guy would be willing to forgive? 1 Like |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by pweedyuz(f): 11:12pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
Eiyah |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Nobody: 11:12pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
Dozzmani:HMMM. IT ALWAYS HAPPEN WITH NAIJA WOMEN. YOU JUST GOT YOURSELF AN ANIMAL AND YOU NEED TO GET RAID OF THAT ANIMAL. THATS HOW THERE ARE! ANIMALS |
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