tosyne2much:
This same thing happened to me recently

I dont know if sharing my experience will be necessary

tosyne2much:
This same thing happened to me recently
I dont know if sharing my experience will be necessary

Samostical:
SAME EXPERIENCE. She told me she was a virgin, that she don't want sex. so I went back to school, on my arrival I began seeing her attitude display. I know the did is done. Later she confess, but I know she is still cheating till date. I won't let her be till I collect my own share

tosyne2much:
This same thing happened to me recently

I dont know if sharing my experience will be necessary

Dozzmani:
Hello friends

I have been a reader in this forum for a while now,usually see the help through advise being given to people,which made me to bring this issue here because at this point,I don't know what exactly to tell this my guy becuase this issue is beyond me.

My friend has been dating his girlfriend for two years now,the babe is know to us(his friends) and his family as the only woman for him. It was a no sex relationship as the girl said her virginity is her pride. My guy accepted to wait till when they get married as he truly love this babe. Last year ending, one guy moved into the compound of this girl, that was when stories entered their beautiful relationship.

To cut the long story short, recently my guy's girlfriend that never wanted sex started disturbing him of sex, he was surprised about it, later agreed as she made him promise her to indulge in it with her. Alarm blew on the supposed day they were meant to have the sex as he wanted to cover his white sheets because of possible blood stains, she told him blood won't come out. He went in and blood never came out. Since then, she had been lying and swearing she was a virgin which my guy persisted she was not.

She opened up to him of recent that she lost it to the new guy in their compound who as of then almost made them to break up but was pleaded with him not to break the relationship by her aunt and some good friends of hers'.

She doesn't have anything to do with that guy she lost it to because the issue went out of proportion then in their compound, which made my guy to start growing faith in her again upon knowing she slept with that guy in her compound few times when she cheated with him.

She recently confessed to him she knew blood won't come out as she slept with the compound guy once before the day they had sex. The twist now is that who he met a virgin could not hold on to it for him but gave it away to another guy.he is questioning the girl's love on how she could have done such.he still loves her but can't say if he can trust her not to try such if eventually he marries her.she begged for forgiveness.but to be honest,I don't know what to say to this guy.

Please, friends, your candid advise will go a long way in shaping someone's future here as of life partner as he plans on getting married by next year ending..

prettyboi1989:
umm these girls that dont have the fear of God in them, they just cant be trusted to be faithful, be it virgin o, unvirgin o! if dat babe aint got d fear of God she'll cheat behind u n come crawling with her family members to beg.

tellwisdom:
Chai...This kain thing dey pain oo ...Person don chop my meat leave rice for me

tosyne2much:
Actually looking foward to the day OPs on nairaland will stop being cowards hiding under the canopy of "it happened to a friend"

It happened to your friend and you being the third party narrated it like you were actually te one that practically slotted your joystick into her kitty-cat? smh


I will advise you tell your friend to open the thread himself b4 i can offer my own advice

EggovinMma:



You don experience am before?

mactoni91:
samething happened to me...
Dumped her sha nd got anoda gf(anoda virgin).
Weneva am with ma present gf, atime i feel like lashing her with sex b4 1 sharp guy does bt at d 2nd tot, she's very religous, wanted d relationship to be sex-free(tho, we do smooch sha)
i still respect her decision to wait till her wedding nyt.
Wen conji calls, got flings to deconji

prettyboi1989:

lol u got jonzed? arent u d guy dat comes with the sweet talks bout how to handle girls. hehe guess no one is really safe from dose demons

prettyboi1989:

lol u got jonzed? arent u d guy dat comes with the sweet talks bout how to handle girls. hehe guess no one is really safe from dose demons

Owliver:
i have never dated one. but your advice? its a no no seriously. the said victim of scam(boyfriend) needs to move on.

EggovinMma:



You don experience am before?

Vikky014:
including your sisters right


op tell ur friend to make hay while the sun shines. Trust is so important in marriage. this girls act will make ur friend nt to trust her atall

tosyne2much:
You try to coarse a lady into sex, you are being tagged a person who's only in for sex



You practice celibacy, they still go at your back bleeping
somebody else


Ladies are confused set of beings and i doubt if God Himself understands them