gigdfhjjhvc:

Its had to find such man accept the one u find

redgem:


Lol..... So what can you say about it?

AfroKnight:
Yet another thread created by a WOMAN telling us who a REAL MAN is. Really?? Come on.

pickabeau1:


Yor statement was he was macho outside but butter in your hands...hence the ideal man?

Wanted to know if you were still together
One question please?

Did u respectt him

redgem:


Check it out...

pickabeau1:

So you also believe in the connotation real man

Well, some of us aren't ready to discard the african mentality na.
You know the premium placed on the male child by africans.

Well, not to put anyone down though...but the concept "real" doesn't really sound cool.
I think it creates a very obvious divide.

Pick, all I know is that there are men and there are men

How do they say it again? Experience speaks louder than voice

redgem:



Its only men who are the opposite of what I wrote above will find this thread annoying

daveP:
hmm, my take


not all real men are in control of their lives literally(his woman, lady has one aspect she controls.) Its what makes him who he is without having look back. She's there.


Besides about applicability of ideas; in some societies, some of your points arent reasons to put a tag and say 'be ye real a man, for thou hath justifieth the list'


real men trend on dynamism; what make Gbadebo a real man to the women around him isnt what make Akpors claim 'real man' to the 'umpire ladies'


have you seen cases where a man believes cos he's working and is a real man, he takes this confidence to another place and tries, only to meet a berlin wall?

It leaves me (wondering and pondering) but since i've (jot a thing or two), i'l drop my pen.

MizMyColi:



My list is tall and long o

Well, a real man is someone I can respect.
One that I can look up to.

I know that I am a leader.
A real man has to be someone who can lead me....I actually desire someone I can follow as per leader/follower r/ship.
The equality shii doesn't cut it for me menh Equity does it.

Every other thing on my list is secondary

daveP:
chai. Where is that 'i just dey look you' pix on my phone o. I need to use it for someone.........

redgem:



It wasn't a role sha.... Just trying to let you know that spending for your lady is worth it cos you are against it

misspicy:

I know you are lying jor....if i show u true love ehn,u will do more than that..

redgem:


A real man has control of his life no matter what you say cos he chose and let his lady have that aspect in his life she's in charge of.


You don't expect me to start listing all the qualities of a real man....

Every lady has a definition of her real man but this are at least the general definition

redgem:



There's nothing wrong with loosing my hair every month....

AfroKnight:


So maybe you think you're a real woman. Good. Emm, I don't think other "real" women would be as unreasonable to hastily label me as you have just done. Let's start with the etymology. There is no fake man anywhere. So who is your real man? Simplistic opening post from you. You can do better.

Just wondering... What makes you think a Man with all those noble qualities would ever lower his standards to be with you?

misspicy:

Yes i did even to a fault that got friends wondering if he jazzed me considering his outward disposition...

u might be jelly too in d hands of ur woman ...most men are

MizMyColi:

Well, some of us aren't ready to discard the african mentality na.
You know the premium placed on the male child by africans.
Well, not to put anyone down though...but the concept "real" doesn't really sound cool.
I think it creates a very obvious divide.
Pick, all I know is that there are men and there are men
How do they say it again? Experience speaks louder than voice

MizMyColi:

wristbangle:


Funny enough, I don't have that time. .

What is the purpose of hair dresser then?

How many ladies can cut their guys hair with clipper?

redgem:


Just saying there's nothing bad and not saying you should do it...

I can cut your hair

daveP:
ahhhh naaaah. Atall atall. If i agree with the bolded, then it means you are defining(emphasis) a DICTATOR. AND we all know what women think about dictators.... (swerves from tailing that road)


It still boils down to taste. That's why when Evelyn puts off akpors for not being 'real' , in comes Khadija to make him look real and make Eve rethink if she did the right thing by dropping akpors.

redgem:
He understands that beauty is evanescent and He falls in love with you because of your personality, intelligence, humor and the way you make him feel.

He takes responsibility for his mistakes cos he isn't perfect and is bound to make mistakes, he accepts his faults, makes an apology and means it. He doesn't shift blames or try to defend his mistakes.

He is confident, ambitious, passionate for other things besides his relationship and doesn't let the relationship define him.

He is honest and trustworthy, he values truth and lives by it. He always chooses to be honest no matter what the situation may be.

He is always ready to provide financial support and doesn't see you as a gold digger, he sees you as special and takes much pride in the way he treats you . Cutehector

He is hardworking and always strive to be the best in all he does.

He is willing to fight and wait for the woman he desires cos he knows nothing good comes easy..

He stands up for himself and defends his relationship even when he is among his family and peers, he speaks up and stands his ground in defence of his relationship with you.

He knows the value of his woman and never hesitates to appreciate her.

He is always ready to satisfy her sexually, he can risk his life just to give her the pleasure she desires tosyne2much

He doesn't use past relationship failures as an excuse to why he doesn't want to commit to a woman. TheSonOfMark

He doesn't see sleeping with women as fun and a game, he commits to a relationship.

He doesn't derive joy in degrading or ridiculing a lady. The sonofananimal

He doesn't care what people say or think about him and finds nothing wrong in washing his woman's undies and loosing her hair. Wristbangle

Cutehector:
hahahahahhahhahahhaha omgosh.. U female nairalanders r very funny I swear.. Its so amazing hw evryone just thinks dat wat people write online are a replica of their personality in reality. See red gem, I can write anythn I wana write here, I can portray a gentle guy and at d same time portray smth worse online.. So pls dnt be deceived red gem, u havnt met me yet

redgem:


I made a statement and there was no labelling directly...

Hey, I don't want to brag but I know I'm the kind of lady most noble men desires...and can't start listing them..

So you think exhibiting such, lowers a man's standard?

redgem:


I didn't say that's what you do....i said such cos of the post you made but no matter what, you can't hide your real self. What you post defines a part of you

sonofananimal:
this your story, one can interpret it 2 ways


First! Where are you going to see that kind of a man
Paradventure you find that kind of a man (teddy bear) did you think he too will just accept anyhow WOMAN or WOMAN WHO don't possess thesame 14 character you mention?


Second: were did you get that ideal that I derive JOY in degrading or ridiculing a lady

AfroKnight:


Lol. I said why would a Man (with high standards) who has all those qualities lower his standards by choosing to be with you cos obviously you don't have sufficient qualities to match those which you listed up there. If such Real men were to find a match they would not pick you cos you don't measure up. And if he did, he would no longer be a real man cos he just made a terrible decision to be paired with you.

See the futility in stating absolutes? Real men this, real men that.... Do me a favour please. Gerrarrahie mehn, for real.

No offence.

redgem:



Lol.... Like I said earlier, every lady has a definition of the man she desires

Cutehector:
gosh, she still doesn't get it.. I love d way I mislead people sha...

daveP:



(the snoring court clerk, oblivious of the 'court proceedings', hears the prosecuting counsel say the aboved words and in a jiffied haste jumps up and shouts)

C/clerk: Coooooooooooouuuuuurrrrt!!!!!


Judge: (looking perplexed) erm, i havent hit my gavel or given my.... (unable to proceed further as crowd starts dispersing. Hurriedly attempts to at least control before his court goes empty, he hits the gavel) This case is erm(rubs forehead to remember) this case is dismissed.


D/counsel: (a group of 9guys, stand and park their outdated suitcases, leave the court premises chanting 'aud lang sung' in baritonic unison)


curtain falls

redgem:


Lol Cutehector I think you are a cool guy no matter what you post.... I understood every bit of what you said

Cutehector:
lol .... Just so u knw, off nairaland, I"m a giver.. Unless maybe I"m broke.