Omotayor123:
The last line got me cracked up.. Lol

Wow.. That's Educative. These days people go to hospital for tests before marriage. They should have done that. Well, the deed has been done And I pity the woman.

She should have at least open up to her family. God knows how she was able to endure up to that point. The husband wicked no be small

I pray she finds Happiness.
Thanks OP for sharing this.
Lesson learnt!

dharay99:

lemme †ry read.
#0k modified#


Uhm der ain† non lesson here,
dem no dey romance b⁴ marriage ni.?
Tho I'm in support of no sex b⁴ marriage
buh i & my wife-†o-be mus† underqo thorough
screening in & ou† b⁴ we even†ually qe† locked up.!

proxillin:

How will you do the screening if I may ask ?

omo see o0,
Spiritual screeninq, medical screeninq
& las†ly physical one...
{Every†in ain† abt banqinq jare}

dharay99:

omo see o0,
Spiritual screeninq, medical screeninq
[i]& las†ly physical one...
{Every†in ain† abt banqinq jare}[/i]

proxillin:


Physical one...

yeah na,
Sex wun† happen
buh sumfin sumfin qo happen...

spacyzuma:


This is hilarious.

Sorry for the woman, but me...I have little sympathy for her. She put herself in that position. And she choose to remain.

I'm not a religious person. It irritates, infuriates and entertains me when I see such cases of how irrational and illogical people can be/do because of their religious beliefs.

proxillin:
I remember a man that have sex with his wife 8 times a day. Whenever he is coming back from work, his wife will be crying.

TrishaP:

8 times a day! Now that's just being heartless.

AfricanApple:
na wetin religion don turn some people to be that, if you no wise you go suffer, they say its survival of the fittest

I dont know the validity of this story. First u mentioned deeper life and didnt mention ur church. so does it mean ur church encourages pre marital sex?

Since u know so much about this woman and her hubby, u should have given us the church address and ur church address so we can verify for ourselves.

A picture should have also gone a long way in validating this story.

Verdict: I dont believe ur story because of lack of convincing evidence

My opinion: While I dnt support the action of the husband, saying that the whole incidence happened because of their belief(decision not to have sex outside marriage) is unacceptable.

The whole issue is as a result of lack of good moral conduct simply put Lies and Deceit. Instead of encouraging promiscuity and fornication how about encouraging people to become more sincere about issues during courtship.

Sincerity and openness is what we need during courtship cos it will contribute more to our building a strong and happy marriage. Sex during courtship wont. You can have all the sex in the world and find out after marriage that hubby or wifey is a murderer or into one evil or the other. What then will u attribute that to?

We need sincerity during courtship and not sex.

Peace.

charsola:



@Africanapple,what you need to know is Religion on based on choice,what you believe might not be what someone else believe,To you sex is nothing just to satisfy our pleasure or urge,but to others sex is sacred and should not be consumed outside marriage.So do as it pleases you.

masterchi:
I dont know the validity of this story. First u mentioned deeper life and didnt mention ur church. so does it mean ur church encourages pre marital sex?

Since u know so much about this woman and her hubby, u should have given us the church address and ur church address so we can verify for ourselves.

A picture should have also gone a long way in validating this story.

Verdict: I dont believe ur story because of lack of convincing evidence

My opinion: While I dnt support the action of the husband, saying that the whole incidence happened because of their belief(decision not to have sex outside marriage) is unacceptable.

The whole issue is as a result of lack of good moral conduct simply put Lies and Deceit. Instead of encouraging promiscuity and fornication how about encouraging people to become more sincere about issues during courtship.

Sincerity and openness is what we need during courtship cos it will contribute more to our building a strong and happy marriage. Sex during courtship wont. You can have all the sex in the world and find out after marriage that hubby or wifey is a murderer or into one evil or the other. What then will u attribute that to?

We need sincerity during courtship and not sex.

Peace.

Omotayor123:

Chai.. Bring convincing evidence on top woman wey no even know say her story don enter Nairaland.

stupidity:
Una see why I don't spare any p*ssy that comes ma way? Testing mode#

bronzegoddess:
This guy is foolish shaa. Why is this post directed to the ladies

proxillin:


I addressed it to ladies especially sane ones (I guess you dont fall in this category) who will be getting married . Impotency is a male disease not for female. So the Onus is on females/ladies to look well before they leap.

Ginaz:
if I were in her position, I won't have known what to do. God please give me a husband that is good in bed o, that can satisfy his wife in everything. amen!

Ngwanu lukat tit...
U don't even have nose in ur dp, how wl u smell shitty dudes when they approach
Be real bae

masterchi:
bro, how does a lady do that---look well before leaping?

eyinjuege:
What exactly are ladies to learn from this story? Are you saying virginity is overrated, and no point keeping oneself before marriage? Pls come out plain and let the ladies know exactly what you think they ought to learn.

proxillin:


I addressed it to ladies especially sane ones (I guess you dont fall in this category) who will be getting married . Impotency is a male disease not for female. So the Onus is on females/ladies to look well before they leap.

Zuria:


Don't mind the op, probably he's looking for a willing virgin to disvirgin...are you one?

proxillin:


Likes

You dont have to sex before you know if you are dealing with an impotent or not.

1shortblackboy:
Ok so how u want make dem dey check without pre marital sex ? Abi na operation show ur erect1on

bronzegoddess:




I still don't see why you are addressing the ladies Still not making any sense, tbh.


I expected u to also urge guys who are impotent to open up to their partners. U are simply asking us to "look before we leap". No sense whatsoever. No sense.

eyinjuege:
I'm yet to see or know of any medical test that can determine a man's sexual prowess. I know of fertility tests. Infertility and impotency are two very different distinct entities and it seems a lot of people on this thread are not even aware of this!