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| I'm Beginning To Think My New Boyfriend Is Gay... by PrettyHausaGirl(f): 6:53pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
I’ve been dating this guy about a month and a half. Everything is great except for one huge issue…I’m starting to get perplexed as to if he is gay or a bisexual who is more inclined to men. A couple weeks ago, for the first time ever, I attempted to go down on him. Within seconds, he went from hard to completely flaccid. Nothing seemed to be able to get him hard again. I thought that was odd. The strange part is he gets aroused even from me just looking at him certain ways..Yet sexual activity happens and he immediately loses it? He wants to initiate oral on me, and seems really into it..But if I go to do it to him, it’s just over? He was raised very very very deeply religious, and is still active in church. With the doctrine “All sex outside of marriage is bad”..Could it really be a mental block thing? He was a complete virgin before I met him, so I seem to be the closest he has been to sexuality. He attended an all boys boarding school in his secondary school days so maybe he is more inclined to men 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: I'm Beginning To Think My New Boyfriend Is Gay... by Touchey: 6:54pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
Mhmm 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: I'm Beginning To Think My New Boyfriend Is Gay... by Nobody: 6:55pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
HE is not gay, its becaus he is still a virgin and a mental thing, well u have to rape him, dats d only way. 11 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I'm Beginning To Think My New Boyfriend Is Gay... by Nobody: 6:55pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
Naaa! Its just tension. And his conscience too. He'll get over it 3 Likes |
| Re: I'm Beginning To Think My New Boyfriend Is Gay... by vizkiz: 6:55pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
lol,they will accuse us of rape if we start furcking them hard. if we no furck them, them go talk say e be like say we no fit do or we be gay.  What the furck do you women want from us??!!!!!!!  40 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I'm Beginning To Think My New Boyfriend Is Gay... by Fulaman198(m): 6:56pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
PrettyHausaGirl: What the heck Just because he loses an er.ection doesn't make him a gay or bisexual. He could just be a nervous guy. An ere.ction is completely mental. Your brain affects the state of your er.ection. With that said, I'm not going to judge you on your own personal choice for having sex before marriage. Know that there are risks though. 1 Like |
| Re: I'm Beginning To Think My New Boyfriend Is Gay... by Nobody: 6:56pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
This one is more than me 1 Like |
| Re: I'm Beginning To Think My New Boyfriend Is Gay... by kossyablaze(m): 6:58pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
It was foretold! 3 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I'm Beginning To Think My New Boyfriend Is Gay... by EgusiSoup: 6:59pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
PrettyHausaGirl: Give your life to Christ and flee from fornication. Jesus loves you. Please don't ignore this comment. 25 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I'm Beginning To Think My New Boyfriend Is Gay... by PrettyHausaGirl(f): 6:59pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
Fulaman198: I know the risks and I always put measures to check them. I cannot risk the disappointment of a fatal-sexlife marriage. 1 Like |
| Re: I'm Beginning To Think My New Boyfriend Is Gay... by nobilis: 7:00pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
You label him gay and then you turn around to start wondering if it's a mental block thing and you later tell us the conditions under which he grew up. You leave what you should discuss with your so-called BF and bring the issue on Nairaland because you want to hear Nairalanders trash-talk him or advise you to leave him?? That's what you want to achieve, right? I can hazard a guess that you have not even bothered to sit him down and talk over this issue because if you have, you won't be opening a thread because of him. If you have, the best you could have done would have been to seek professional help from a sex therapist instead of Nairaland. Or better still, maybe u have no boyfriend and you're just trolling. 15 Likes |
| Re: I'm Beginning To Think My New Boyfriend Is Gay... by durubrian(m): 7:00pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
lol |
| Re: I'm Beginning To Think My New Boyfriend Is Gay... by 2dice(m): 7:03pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
firstEVA:uhn Aunty Janeti  |
| Re: I'm Beginning To Think My New Boyfriend Is Gay... by ITbomb(m): 7:03pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
I am very open minded. As long as the maga takes care of your finances, I can take care of the rest. Be the lucky girl, get the best from both sides 5 Likes |
| Re: I'm Beginning To Think My New Boyfriend Is Gay... by gab264(m): 7:04pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
<b> PrettyHausaGirl:$ay something am giving up on you Swallow yaa pride and ask him wats the problem if he needs a tutorial you can be at ease to lecture him since he is your boo. But again he is not gay. Just being the way he was meant to be at that time in his human life. #Humans and there kind shaa# |
| Re: I'm Beginning To Think My New Boyfriend Is Gay... by NifemiOlu(m): 7:04pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
Nairaland... 1 Like |
| Re: I'm Beginning To Think My New Boyfriend Is Gay... by jmoore(m): 7:04pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
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| Re: I'm Beginning To Think My New Boyfriend Is Gay... by Fulaman198(m): 7:04pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
PrettyHausaGirl: It's not only STDs, but also unwanted pregnancies as well. There are many things you have to be aware of, and maybe you will find a Husband also that doesn't care whether you are a virgin or not (many men could care less). I also believe that if a man wants a virgin, then he too should be a Virgin. 1 Like |
| Re: I'm Beginning To Think My New Boyfriend Is Gay... by Fulaman198(m): 7:04pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
jmoore: I hope you too my friend are a Virgin, so before judging her, think of the things you have done as well and don't be a hypocrite. 3 Likes |
| Re: I'm Beginning To Think My New Boyfriend Is Gay... by Nobody: 7:06pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
Are you sure you're doing it right & not chomping down at the guy? Maybe he's not gay, but just afraid of being grated to a stump 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I'm Beginning To Think My New Boyfriend Is Gay... by vizkiz: 7:07pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
ITbomb: weyrey 1 Like |
| Re: I'm Beginning To Think My New Boyfriend Is Gay... by Jorussia(m): 7:10pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
PrettyHausaGirl:you want spoil the guy abi? |
| Re: I'm Beginning To Think My New Boyfriend Is Gay... by dkronicle(m): 7:12pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
Com and try It on me first.. Maybe u may need lectures about Bleep stuff. U aint doing it good dats y |
| Re: I'm Beginning To Think My New Boyfriend Is Gay... by PrettyHausaGirl(f): 7:16pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
Fulaman198:Noted but don't worry I'm fine. I'm not a novice in sexuality or love. 2 Likes |
| Re: I'm Beginning To Think My New Boyfriend Is Gay... by Fulaman198(m): 7:19pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
| Re: I'm Beginning To Think My New Boyfriend Is Gay... by donholy28(m): 7:20pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
D guy get curse 4 his head...how man ordinary eye dey give am erection but when he see d main koko him soldier go take cover |
| Re: I'm Beginning To Think My New Boyfriend Is Gay... by Mznaett: 7:20pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
Sex is not food I know you want to be sure of d product you're buying against the future But my advice to you is Op repent before it'd be late I say repent! I say repent o! In fact! Just close ur eyes lemme pray for U sef  1 Like |
| Re: I'm Beginning To Think My New Boyfriend Is Gay... by PrettyHausaGirl(f): 7:22pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
Mznaett:Lol okay. I haf close my eyes. Pastor deliver me :p 1 Like |
| Re: I'm Beginning To Think My New Boyfriend Is Gay... by Fulaman198(m): 7:24pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
Mznaett: Hopefully your advice isn't hypocritical as well. I'm a Virgin myself, though a Muslim (it shouldn't matter what religion I am). But I'm not telling the OP what to do or not to do. Everyone was given a brain by God to reason for themselves. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I'm Beginning To Think My New Boyfriend Is Gay... by Nobody: 7:26pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
PrettyHausaGirl:he is deeply religious and yet he gives you an head abi!!!E be like say una 2 lack manners for elders on NL abi. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I'm Beginning To Think My New Boyfriend Is Gay... by faith551(m): 7:28pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
@prettyhausagirl your guy is just scared, he is obviously inexperienced, so I guess he's not gay. I remember the first few times I tried out my hand on the stuff, it was frustrating, I was sweating due to my fears and curiosity, but this was a girl I could tell anything and do virtually anything with prior to our escapade, maybe I thought I have built up enough confidence and the truth was that she didn't even know I was a virgin, so that might actually be the case with your guy, just have a conversation with him. so chill your guy is not gay, carry on the good work he'll soon find his foot1 Like |
| Re: I'm Beginning To Think My New Boyfriend Is Gay... by Nobody: 7:29pm On Oct 06, 2015 |
PunkyVeer:maybe you should give her some tutorials on how to do it right 1 Like |
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