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Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by Nobody: 11:10pm On Oct 06, 2015
ronald4lif:


I'm pointing out her goof and ignorance about what feminism entails and like it's their stock in trade their ego would not submit to correction from a 'male'. It would have been acceptable if my gender was flipped. Feminist ko feminism my foot.
It's one of the not so good characteristic I've noticed with em' feminists too. A very large number of them DON'T take corrections from a guy.
Those double standard folks. Mtchew!
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by Nobody: 11:11pm On Oct 06, 2015
JeffreyJamez:

Brother Steven is on speed dial! angry
Stephen Na rakumi Na. E go take am ages
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by Nobody: 11:13pm On Oct 06, 2015
vizkiz:


I aiint cursing you. Its just like saying "dude/guy" undecided

Well whatever that means, I just stated MY opinion on this forum. You can agree with me or not but I think some will. I don't have to deactivate my account to make you feel better and you don't have to be angry all the time.
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by Nobody: 11:13pm On Oct 06, 2015
netizenbuzz:
I used to be an ardent reader of NL though I signed up officially last year. However, over the past couple of months, I have been disgusted by the ignorance, lack of empathy, chauvinistic and misogynistic behaviors displayed by the guys here to the ladies. This has kept me away from being active for some time now. Everyday on the front page, you must find not less than 3 topics on what a lady should or shouldn't do, blah blah blah. These topics are bait topics for views and I think the moderators know this. But is it really necessary for you to be gender-biased just so you can get more clicks? These has even turned into cyber-bullying. How do you think it is fair to female folks to be constantly reminded that they are nothing but objects of gratification that need validation from men in everything they do? You can't even come here just for the fun of social media again, your spirits are constantly brought down by comments here. This is really no different from racism if you ask me. We know it's a man's world. We are not competing with you. We just want to be loved, treated fairly and respected as humans first. It is that basic. Women don't owe men anything and vice-versa. No one created the other so none should feel entitled or superior. Our differences should be our strengths and not a room for oppression. Please NL guys, please learn a form of decency and decorum in your use of language towards ladies. Yo have mothers and don't forget that you'd have daughters too one day.

Lastly, the misconception that feminists are man-haters is a lie. Please don't make us one. It is easier to hate than too love but we are not cowards, hence we wold choose to do the other. Just know this, whether you like it or not, feminism has come to stay. You can choose to fight it or embrace it. We are not here to compete with you, so don't feel threatened. I hope this actually speaks to someone. Peace!!

Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by Nobody: 11:14pm On Oct 06, 2015
profojah:

Who you wan fcck?. Lemme guess?.. Pre********. grin I get Durex
you guessed right. Abeg port me 3 of your durex. Atleast e go carry us reach 5am
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by ronald4lif(m): 11:17pm On Oct 06, 2015
netizenbuzz:


wow.........you seem to know me more than I know myself. You also seem very angry. It is going to be okay dear.
Anyway, like I told a previous commenter, that phrase was to boost men's ego. The truth behind this thread is that the inspiration came just as I left another thread where a guy made that same comment, "it's a man's world". To me, I just quoted a popular saying. So I'm sorry if I'm not feminist enough for you. My apologies.

Conforming to type. Just like the rest of you are vicious women who would blame everyone but themselves. Bunch of confuse lot fill with anger and hate. You're the sad one who can't admit an error because it's from a man. You've been exposed for who you are - fake.
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by vizkiz: 11:20pm On Oct 06, 2015
netizenbuzz:


Well whatever that means, I just stated MY opinion on this forum. You can agree with me or not but I think some will. I don't have to deactivate my account to make you feel better and you don't have to be angry all the time.

being angry all the time

Lol, that's some funny shiit! cheesy
Those that know me off Nairaland knows most of my comments are out of sarcasm. I most time laugh out loud when I read some comments I posted grin

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Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by ronald4lif(m): 11:21pm On Oct 06, 2015
iAmCharis:
It's one of the not so good characteristic I've noticed with em' feminists too. A very large number of them DON'T take corrections from a guy.
Those double standard folks. Mtchew!

Which gives their struggle away as one of vengeance rather than equity. Feminist are engulf with men hate and resentment towards men and would never submit to a correction from one. Crazy bunch.

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Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by Nobody: 11:22pm On Oct 06, 2015
Vinshu:
smiley


Feminism has come to stay! Let them spew their trash on the front page. It changes nothing!
It is unnecessary for OP to cry about criticizing women when feminism is here to stay? Go feminists! Bwahaha...
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by Nobody: 11:23pm On Oct 06, 2015
ronald4lif:


Conforming to type. Just like the rest of you are vicious women who would blame everyone but themselves. Bunch of confuse lot fill with anger and hate. You're the sad one who can't admit an error because it's from a man. You've been expose for who you are - fake.

you know what is funny? I actually thought you were female until you pointed out that you are male. I guess you are one those who think feminists are looking for the downfall of the male folks. Now I see.
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by Nobody: 11:25pm On Oct 06, 2015
all4naija:

It is unnecessary for OP to cry about criticizing women when feminism is here to stay? Go feminists! Bwahaha...

I'm sorry but how does feminism and not bashing women correlate? I don't know the type of feminists you roll with but I can assure you that not all are here to hate men. We can get quite defensive if you put us in that position but besides that we are chill grin grin

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Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by Nobody: 11:29pm On Oct 06, 2015
ronald4lif:


Which gives their struggle away as one of vengeance rather than equity. Feminist are engulf with men hate and resentment towards men and would never submit to a correction from one. Crazy bunch.

that is a misconception that I hope you CORRECT if we are truly talking about correction here.

But wait o! Men are angry o.......just look at the comments cry cry shocked shocked

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Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by AfroKnight: 11:29pm On Oct 06, 2015
Talk to your fellow ladies who drag your gender through mud by being beggarly.
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by JeffreyJamez(m): 11:30pm On Oct 06, 2015
STFUareyouGod:
Stephen Na rakumi Na. E go take am ages
Lol story
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by JeffreyJamez(m): 11:31pm On Oct 06, 2015
netizenbuzz:


that is a misconception that I hope you CORRECT if we are truly talking about correction here.

But wait o! Men are angry o.......just look at the comments cry cry shocked shocked

I'm not sad

*chews carrot *
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by ronald4lif(m): 11:32pm On Oct 06, 2015
netizenbuzz:


you know what is funny? I actually thought you were female until you pointed out that you are male. I guess you are one those who think feminists are looking for the downfall of the male folks. Now I see.

You can assume whatever you want of my sex. At least my sex can be identified unlike yours that can be mistaken for anything, transgender..haemophrodite etc.

Feminists are seeking for edges over men. You front as agents of equality but we can scratch beyond the surface and know what you lots are aiming for. When you're for equality you fight for rights for everyone, male and female alike including kids.

Men faces gender prejudice too so how can there be equality when your course is female-focused and lopsided? Bring up 10 areas where women face discrimination let me bring up 10 you feminist are evasive about, let's brainstorm.

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Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by Nobody: 11:33pm On Oct 06, 2015
netizenbuzz:


I'm sorry but how does feminism and not bashing women correlate? I don't know the type of feminists you roll with but I can assure you that not all are here to hate men. We can get quite defensive if you put us in that position but besides that we are chill grin grin

Bashing correlates with masculine(man's world in this forum).Even women create threads to do the same thing here. As long as feminists are what they are there is no reason, whatsoever, to complain about threads created to bash women. Excepting they are trying to tell us they are not feminists but submissive ladies(which I don't agree with). grin cheesy cool

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Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by Nobody: 11:33pm On Oct 06, 2015
STFUareyouGod:
you guessed right. Abeg port me 3 of your durex. Atleast e go carry us reach 5am
You sure say 3 go reach you?.. Make I send 5. I have more than enough
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by porozhniy(m): 11:40pm On Oct 06, 2015
*exhales* when will ladies learn to see life outside the victim-ville and perpetual victim-hood? i guess it ain't male bashing when they create threads to call all guys rapists, peadophiles, woman beaters, broke asses, imature, cheats, unromantic and ...not man enough. dear cry babies, if the internet is to hot for y'all, go get ANITA SARKEESON.

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Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by Nobody: 11:46pm On Oct 06, 2015
profojah:

You sure say 3 go reach you?.. Make I send 5. I have more than enough
I go really appreciate cheesy grin cheesy you be correct friend
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by Nobody: 11:46pm On Oct 06, 2015
JeffreyJamez:

Lol story
cheesy cheesy
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by Vinshu(f): 11:48pm On Oct 06, 2015
hottest111:

U said ' Most genuine ladies do not visit the forum anymore... '
wat d Bleep re u saying...as u visited nw, i guess u'r not genuine

Lol don't take things "as-is"
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by Nobody: 11:49pm On Oct 06, 2015
porozhniy:
*exhales* when will ladies learn to see life outside the victim-ville and perpetual victim-hood? i guess it ain't male bashing when they create threads to call all guys rapists, peadophiles, woman beaters, broke asses, imature, cheats, unromantic and ...not man enough. dear cry babies, if the internet is to hot for y'all, go get ANITA SAEKARSON.
when hair starts growing on the palm and pikin begin breastfeed mama

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Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by Nobody: 11:49pm On Oct 06, 2015
ronald4lif:


You can assume whatever you think of my sex. At least my sex can be identified unlike yours which can be mistaken for anything, transgender..haemophrodite etc.

Feminists are seeking for edges over men. You front as agents of equality but we can scratch beyond the surface and know what you lots are aiming for. When you're for equality you fight for rights for everyone, male and female alike including kids.

Men faces gender prejudice too so how can there be equality when your course is female-focused and lopsided? Bring up 10 areas where women face discrimination let me bring up 10 you feminist are evasive about, let's brainstorm.

baba calm down. If you feel male folks are not treated well, simply start your own campaign. you don't have to be downright rude and abusive to make your point. Feminists are not stopping you. Look for a good name to call your movement and then boom!

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Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by Nobody: 11:51pm On Oct 06, 2015
netizenbuzz:


baba calm down. If you feel male folks are not treated well, simply start your own campaign. you don't have to be downright rude and abusive to make your point. Feminists are not stopping you. Look for a good name to call your movement and then boom!
We can form the 'movement for male chauvinism'. I know all ladies(I mean all feminists) are going to cry foul over that one. Hahaha...
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by kishimi8(m): 11:51pm On Oct 06, 2015
Op it's one of the many laws or rules of the Internet, just deal with it or go offline
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by Nobody: 11:56pm On Oct 06, 2015
I completely support gender equality. I think all women are equal to me. Feminists are just different breeds of women who believe in opposite thing but discriminating ideology.
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by Nobody: 11:58pm On Oct 06, 2015
all4naija:

We can form the 'movement for male chauvinism'. I know all ladies(I mean all feminists) are going to cry foul over that one. Hahaha...

well that is to be expected. see what feminists are facing. But just so you know, you might end up sounding as ridiculous as white people who shout reverse-racism.
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by Nobody: 11:58pm On Oct 06, 2015
gbam grin
vizkiz:
I am not with the whole idea of "bashing" women but the truth hurts so much. And these guys creating those "bashing" threads are typing the basic truth!! undecided

Most girls in Nigeria are pathetic and are a very bad image to the good responsible ladies! So you expect us to keep ass licking and praising them right

Nairaland is bigger than you dawg! If you are not ok with the way things are done here, just deactivate your account and buzz off! angry
gbam
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by Nobody: 12:00am On Oct 07, 2015
all4naija:
I completely support gender equality. I think all women are equal to me. Feminists are just different breeds of women who believe in opposite thing but discriminating ideology.

I beg to disagree. Feminism as you see it today is a stereotype people have made it to be. Even women are confused about what it really means. Hence, being dismissive of every feminist before you even hear what they have to say is really not the right way to go.
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by Nobody: 12:00am On Oct 07, 2015
netizenbuzz:


well that is to be expected. see what feminists are facing. But just so you know, you might end up sounding as ridiculous as white people who shout reverse-racism.
Really? But, you ask us to form a movement. What else do you expect of me? grin grin grin cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by Nobody: 12:01am On Oct 07, 2015
kishimi8:
Op it's one of the many laws or rules of the Internet, just deal with it or go offline

That something is normal doesn't make it right.

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