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Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by ronald4lif(m): 12:01am On Oct 07, 2015 |
netizenbuzz: Your anger card doesn't also fly, if anyone is angry should be you who doesn't want to state female prejudice let's put to test what you really want. We're not brought up to shift the buck of our problem to someone else. We take responsibility and are aware of our prejudicial treatment just as we understand that nothing is perfect and take our challenges as a strength to our development, not go bishing about like you lots who would blame everyone but yourselves and play the perpetual victim card. Typical. They're always aloof whenever they're challenged to list their challenges so men can list theirs too let's square up and scrutinise who the victim truly is. No surprise. 1 Like |
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by Nobody: 12:09am On Oct 07, 2015 |
netizenbuzz:I know I believe in equality and I even preach it here when discussing with women. I practice it in my life. However, understanding the nitty-gritty of what feminism stands for is tantamount to some form of discrimination against men, which many of them are not seeing. What most of them see is that men are oppressing and violating women rights and to fight back is by taking opposite action and form a movement based on such ideology instead of working with men to find solution to gender discrimination. Men are going through some violations in the hand of women too but not in the same magnitude as in the other way round. |
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by kishimi8(m): 12:10am On Oct 07, 2015 |
netizenbuzz: What you should know is that the anonymity the Internet grants people make your cause a failed one from inception, . You can't change a faceless forum for all you know many guys here could be ladies in disguise. People come online to be jerks and release some pent up frustration, even the most logically presented argument can be totally disregarded and the poster insulted is one of the rules of the Internet, Just preach to your brothers and close friends at home where your words might make a difference and let the guys here have their fun. |
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by Nobody: 12:11am On Oct 07, 2015 |
ronald4lif: Dude, I'm trying to be as civil as possible but I can see that the hatred in you knows no bound. I am not here to play the victim card. Note that I used the words "bashing" and "shaming". It is not the same thing as giving constructive criticism that would really motivate a person to change their negative behaviours. It is only cyber-bully. But wait a sec, are you not being hypocritical here. This is a negative vice I pointed out but you are here being defensive, continually putting the blame on women. Na wa o. 2 Likes |
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by tosyne2much(m): 12:11am On Oct 07, 2015 |
Vinshu:hmmm mm |
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by Nobody: 12:13am On Oct 07, 2015 |
kishimi8: If you call this fun, who am I to say otherwise? It's a sad world really. 2 Likes |
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by tosyne2much(m): 12:14am On Oct 07, 2015 |
netizenbuzz:hmmmmm |
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by Nobody: 12:23am On Oct 07, 2015 |
netizenbuzz:What do you call that? That is profiling indeed. |
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by ronald4lif(m): 12:23am On Oct 07, 2015 |
netizenbuzz: I pointed out a bluff of yours and rather than take it in good faith you conspicuously became defensive, which it's not uncommon with your cliques. It became pertinent I press further to expose your false feminism tirades. Relating on equal pedestal with women has never been a problem, feminism is the problem. It's an extreme charade that has nothing to do equality but rather design to give women edges and favoritism over men. We'd continue to expose the movement for the fraud that it is. The vice you highlighted is something I have been fighting for and on daily basis I ruffle feathers with members of my sex to tone down the women hating. Countless women including some known feminist on NL can testify to my claims. I do it at my own command, and don't have to tailgate your post. |
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by tosyne2much(m): 12:32am On Oct 07, 2015 |
All I can say is that, for the decades I have spent on the surface of the earth, I have been able to observe that specifically ladies detest the truth, hence, making them have you hated When you use sarcastic words or a sort of exaggeration to appraise them, they will so much like you and want you around. But when you are that type that of a person like me who doesn't hesitate speaking the truth in its unclothedness, they tag you a misogynist OP, you all complain that the misogynist attitude of guys in recent time calls for urgent attention but the truth of the matter is that, though I won't deny that fact that guys are quick to rubbish and mouth-thrash ladies, but if you are sensible enough, you would see that for every so called bashing female bashing thread, an atom of truth of at least 70% is contained The problem ladies are having is that their minds are conditioned to the belief that anybody that hurt ladies with the truth, is actually a misogynist Few minutes ago, I saw a thread titled "how to keep your joystick clean" and I saw a point where the OP made a maximum generalization that guys wear their boxers for a week. You wouldn't believe that guys couldn't but accept the fact that they are guilty of it, but if it were to be otherwise, the ladies would start saying that that assertion is to demean their gender. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by Nobody: 12:36am On Oct 07, 2015 |
ronald4lif: and I know your type who think they are supporting women but in truth are only there to make themselves feel better. It is really not about you dude |
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by Nobody: 12:38am On Oct 07, 2015 |
tosyne2much: most of you on this thread have totally missed my point. I am never against correction when they are constructive. However, when they are not constructive, they become bashing, shaming and cyberbullying. |
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by Vinshu(f): 12:38am On Oct 07, 2015 |
Buhari must see this |
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by Vinshu(f): 12:41am On Oct 07, 2015 |
tosyne2much: Hmmmm. |
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by ronald4lif(m): 12:42am On Oct 07, 2015 |
netizenbuzz: You're entitle to your thought and I don't give an ounce of fcvk what they might be. |
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by yomi007k(m): 12:42am On Oct 07, 2015 |
Threads are created to learn from. Some of the thread also bash males Buh generally I think we're jus trying 2 learn in a fun environment. We love our NL ladies, I know I do. Apologies on behalf of the gents |
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by tosyne2much(m): 12:51am On Oct 07, 2015 |
netizenbuzz:there's no point starting what you cannot finish. However, even if you open more of threads like that, it will do nothing to reduce the menace of cyber bully Let's even face reality, why won't guys bash and ridicule ladies when they all come here to give reasons as to why their financial standing rest on the competence of the guys pocket.. Today you hear them saying, I can't date broke guys, tomorrow they say, they can't date jobless dudes, next tomorrow, they say they can't date a guy whose salary is below 6 digits... I mean these statement triggers enmity, so you don't necessarily have to blame guys Prof Ronald4lif I throway salute 3 Likes |
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by tosyne2much(m): 12:53am On Oct 07, 2015 |
Vinshu:why hmmmmming ? |
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by porozhniy(m): 1:07am On Oct 07, 2015 |
next they'll create a thread to ask men to stop objectifying women whilst they're doing a very good job @ objectifying 'emselves. 1 Like |
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by Nobody: 1:08am On Oct 07, 2015 |
tosyne2much: I'm sorry but how does that justify female-bashing? I think you are only looking at it from one side of the spectrum. I for one would not date a broke or jobless guys at a particular stage in my life for the sake of his ego and the sake of my peace. If I've got a job, why would I want to date a man who doesn't have one? You won't wish that for me if I'm your sister na. Or maybe what you really mean is dependency on guys. Then that I can understand. My primary reason for not wanting to date/marry a broke guy is because of my kids. That cannot come and suffer na. In fact, I always tell my folks that I won't have kids on till I'm sure I can care for them on my own. As for myself, I can take care of me because I hate feeling indebted to someone else in the first place. On this issue of dependency, it goes both ways really. For men it is financial, for women it is in other areas of life. Till tomorrow, I still don't understand why my dad would wait for my mum till midnight before he eats. I'm always like, do you want to die of starvation? Is it not basic human instinct to eat when hungry? So that type of dependency is a turn off to me. When I raised it in a seminar not long ago, it was brushed up as not important. But believe me, a lot of ladies think that way. I feel that is why some feel entitled to your finances. It's like give and take. I am of a different opinion but unfortunately my type is lumped up with the rest and breeds of stereotype just like many other things. That's really the point I'm trying to make on this thread. 1 Like |
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by ronald4lif(m): 1:10am On Oct 07, 2015 |
tosyne2much: Greetings boss. I have zero tolerance for arrogant fellows who never admit to errors. I wasn't bullying nor abusing her, was only blunt. |
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by Dumkele1: 1:13am On Oct 07, 2015 |
vizkiz: In as much as nairaland is a public forum, I believe moderators are here to maintain decorum. Saying derogatory words to any gender male or female or any group should be discouraged as much as possible. 1 Like |
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by tosyne2much(m): 1:34am On Oct 07, 2015 |
netizenbuzz:well, I understood every of your words, phrases and sentences If I'm to summarize what you wrote up there, it means your discretion is never to date a broke or jobless dude,, well, that's good In as much as every lady is entitled to her own interest or criterion to choosing a man, but do you know that if you post that discretion of yours of being allergic to dating broke and hustling dudes, regardless of the manner in which it was said, I guess you know that it will hurt those who are unable to find jobs, and will however trigger bashing and cyber bully That being said ! As a guy, it's also my discretion to say that I cannot date a lady who mounts financial pressure on me. But do you know that if I utter this statement in the presence of the ladies, they are most likely to tag me a stingy or an uncaring boyfriend That being said ! My dear, that is the way it will be and will forever be. Things like this would have been on the decrease if the ladies have shown to us that they are always ready to fight back against all odds rather than opening a thread like this just to tell us their pains on their palm When guys drop female bashing thread, we expect the ladies to counter it. This sort of competition will not only make the forum lively but also make the ladies have equal chance My dear, what I'm trying to drive at, is that, no matter how pleasing your comment is, some people are definitely going to pick offense in it and vice versa Even if Jesus Christ Himself registers on nairaland and posts a comment or creates a thread, some people are still going to mouth-thrash him And lastly, no amount of war wag on ladies on nairaland will decrease its population. These so called misogynistic threads (according to you), are what keeps some guests stay glued to nairaland, hence, making some of them become registered members 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by Nobody: 2:21am On Oct 07, 2015 |
Neitzsche |
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by naijaboiy: 5:46am On Oct 07, 2015 |
tosyne2much:Chai! Oga you finish work for here! 1 million likes |
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by Owliver(m): 6:10am On Oct 07, 2015 |
netizenbuzz:if a rich guy can date a poor girl which u see as normal then why cant u date a poor guy as an employed lady? equal? you are not ready for equality trust me 1 Like |
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by tosyne2much(m): 7:33am On Oct 07, 2015 |
Neitzsche:there are subtle ways to communicate your mind rather than roaring 1 Like |
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by Nobody: 8:47am On Oct 07, 2015 |
Neitzsche |
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by tosyne2much(m): 10:51am On Oct 07, 2015 |
naijaboiy:thanks you jawe my personal person |
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by tosyne2much(m): 10:52am On Oct 07, 2015 |
Owliver:Hahahaha roflwkmd |
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by Vinshu(f): 12:08pm On Oct 07, 2015 |
tosyne2much: I'm short of words |
Re: Female Bashing/shaming On Nairaland Is Pathetic. It Needs To Stop! by Nobody: 1:14pm On Oct 07, 2015 |
Neitzsche:You are the man. He is a boy! |
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