Next time you enter the man's office or meet him anywhere for discussion, put on a voice recorder.
If the situation ever gets out of hand, you'll have proof.

layinks60:


Which school did you attend or are you attending, Don't you know the kind of power lectures have on their course or even their friends courses.. If she reports then she should've started nurturing a carryover and an extra year from hundred Level... Boo.. Pls try be jovial and take everything with him with a very light and jovial hands..

If he (the lecturer) insists he want to take you Out, Laugh and tell him father and daughter want to go and have fun, endeavor the place isn't a Hotel or even still emphasis that daughter and father ish, I'm sure he'll succumb.

Go out with her lecturer to prove what?My dear don't try it o.If his wife catches you,the story will change.
Everything is wisdom,apply wisdom to the way you chat with him to the way you behave with him.
A lecturer of mine that disturbs me,I prayed to God and by his grace I've been able to manage the situation.If he calls me to come to the office, I always bring up the talk ranging from his outfit something like "Ha,sir this your outfit is so fine o,hmmmm,your designer is good.How is your wife and kid?Sir can I help dispose your waste bin?". We just talk and talk,finally we talk academics.He asks me wat course I have a problem with so that he can help explain.And I love the aspect when he ask if I've eaten......Just play for wisdom

so because he approaches u means he is a pervert.....smh.....young gal recieve sense ijn.....cos ur jus overhyping....wat r u feeling lik sef

CaroLyner:
you should report to the school authority about his inappropriate behaviours.

you think the school is convenant university or redeemed univeristy?we are talking of satan college of education. Report ko,report ni

vonn:
Next time you enter the man's office or meet him anywhere for discussion, put on a voice recorder.
If the situation ever gets out of hand, you'll have proof.

My dear,I don't fancy that idea o.Especially wen he has not made a sexual advance at her.

Girls, whether you are a Virgin or not. It's not too late to make amends.
Please if you are reading this, don't allow guys deceive you anymore.
They'll tell you after all you not a Virgin, so why won't you give it to them. You can start now to value your body please.
@op, I hope God gives you the wisdom to go about this

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My dear,I don't fancy that idea o.Especially wen he has not made a sexual advance at her.

That's the idea...to always be on guard. Since she suspects the man wants something from her, there is no harm in using the recorder. The advances start in a day. Even he finally does and she 'decides' to take it up, its likely no one would believe her except she provides proof.

Damfostopper:
so because he approaches u means he is a pervert.....smh.....young gal recieve sense ijn.....cos ur jus overhyping....wat r u feeling lik sef

Abi o,a male lecturer might just want a friend.I wonder why some girl's mind always think bad out of every situation

BABANGBALI:
you think the school is convenant university or redeemed univeristy?we are talking of satan college of education. Report ko,report ni

satan college of education.that had me rotfl

Damfostopper:
so because he approaches u means he is a pervert.....smh.....young gal recieve sense ijn.....cos ur jus overhyping....wat r u feeling lik sef

young man receive brain.
why else would he be making passes at a student if he aint a perv?

vonn:


That's the idea...to always be on guard. Since she suspects the man wants something from her, there is no harm in using the recorder. The advances start in a day. Even he finally does and she 'decides' to take it up, its likely no one would believe her except she provides proof.

I don't fancy the idea,if only you know how she will be treated by other lecturers after the incident.Better still,meet with a female right activist to advice you.Don't take dangerous step when you know people don't have your back.......Just an advice though

quiinnBee:
Would explain this the best way i can.
A few weeks into the semester, my lecturer would begin lecture by entering the class, looking for me and saying, “How are you” and then “Hello class” After this happened for a few weeks in a row, I heard people began to whisper about the awkward greetings.

They started assuming things_which are despicable.
I was disgusted with the rumours. So i started sitting in the back row thinking that would stop him from noticing me.

This evening he called me to his office after class and said he wants to take me out. I didnt see that coming! I was shocked and i blurted it out to him immediately.He said i should go think about it.

Am totally confused right now. Please how do i handle this situation properly and stop him from ever disturbing me?

Obey him till he gets to the side of the story that he wants to sleep wit u. He will even force u. Den record the whole conversation.

CaroLyner:
you should report to the school authority about his inappropriate behaviours.

My sister, report ke! I sense a big problem.

pretydiva:
Let ur NO be NO...shikena

I think u have said it all, but in a polite way.

simplisity:
I think u have said it all, but in a polite way.

i doubt saying "no" would change anything.men can be persistent

CaroLyner:
you should report to the school authority about his inappropriate behaviours.

there's nothing inappropriate about his behavior, hes only asking her out which to the best of my knowledge is allow


hes not forcing her yet

simplisity:
My sister, report ke! I sense a big problem.

alright.wat do you think?

Blast his head if you want it the quick way, if you want it the mild way, tell him to help you financially so you could get your retroviral drugs. That you tested HIV positive for the past 3years.

keep posting him.... just be postponing the "date" till you write your exams.

From the picture of your ripped jeans & footwear you must be a very fine girl . I dont blame the lecturer . He is not a pervert ; only a normal male with good sex drive . If you are truly not interested pls let him know and he should let you be...if not you may have to report him then .

CaroLyner:
you should report to the school authority about his inappropriate behaviours.

This is a very delicate situation that must be handled with care. These crazy lecturers don't operate alone. They work in group. If she denies him or report then the others will finish the girl in that school, they might frame her up for exam malpractice or her scripts will start to miss while she will be passing this main lecturer's course(s) with ease. She should pray. It only God ooo. And she should mind those she move with and her dressing.

PrimeMinisterr:
there's more to this story than what you want this peeps to believe.

Thought as much

CaroLyner:
you should report to the school authority about his inappropriate behaviours.

[b][/b]who is this?

truthhurts2:
[b][/b]who is this?

uh ?

CaroLyner:

young man receive brain.
why else would he be making passes at a student if he aint a perv?

so are lecturers not human being...dnt dey av feelings ?....havent u seen a lecturer marrying a student ?....wats wrong dere....wat makes him a pervert ?....abeg no daft quotes if u dnt av beta tins to say

Maximus85:


This is a very delicate situation that must be handled with care. These crazy lecturers don't operate alone. They work in group. If she denies him or report then the others will finish the girl in that school, they might frame her up for exam malpractice or her scripts will start to miss while she will be passing this main lecturer's course(s) with ease. She should pray. It only God ooo. And she should mind those she move with and her dressing.

i agree totally.they could do her some bads

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Abi o,a male lecturer might just want a friend.I wonder why some girl's mind always think bad out of every situation

i wonder

Damfostopper:
so are lecturers not human being...dnt dey av feelings ?....havent u seen a lecturer marrying a student ?....wats wrong dere....wat makes him a pervert ?....abeg no daft quotes if u dnt av beta tins to say

so because hes human he has to make his feelings known to the whole school?
you got no point

CaroLyner:
you should report to the school authority about his inappropriate behaviours.

Report him to other perverts?

Ajinoride:
her profile says it all !!!!!!

rily? I didnt botha checkin'

Isaacmacdon:
do fasting 6 to 6 everyday... Buh wait. Truth be told.. Are u decent? In al ramificatns.. Do u dress like amber rose or miley cyrus? There's a law that states, "Whateva u are determines who u attract".. #shikena

look at her profile pic and u will get ur answers. I think the op does not dress very modest. She appears to be vain too.
Now @topic, I don't know what to say. But OP shud be glad d lecturer is being a gentleman about the whole thing. At least he asked nicely. She can tell him NO in a nice way too. Maybe he will let it go quietly.

vonn:
Next time you enter the man's office or meet him anywhere for discussion, put on a voice recorder.
If the situation ever gets out of hand, you'll have proof.

u girls like overflogging issues. The lecturer asked nicely. He has not started threatening her or anything. Why can't she agree (if she is so inclined) or nicely say NO?