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Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by kilode100(f): 5:50pm On Nov 22, 2015
nobeku:
You're obviously NOT married and really sounding like a youngster.. Using your post, what also is the woman bringing to the table? Well, I can't even begin to explain to you.. A 4 by 5 mind can NEVER understand a 15 by 16 concept..


Stay away from drugs Son.

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Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by mitchyy(f): 5:51pm On Nov 22, 2015
@op, i would have loved to share my story with you but Nairaland has ears. The truth is, a wife who truly loves you and has even seen what you've done for her in the past, won't utter that demeaning statement. Its even worse she gave you an ultimatum.
You both are partners. Yes i know a husband is responsible for providing, but when he's unable to due to unfortunate circumstances, the partner steps in to help. That is true love and friendship.
I think you should talk to her and air your mind. Don't be quick to take any advice that involves divorcing her.
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by adexolu: 5:52pm On Nov 22, 2015
kilode100:
Yeye dey smell.

You expect your wife to feed, cloth and house you?

Olorunmajebadthing biko!! So your only mission in life is to bang her?? He might even be lousy in bed with bad breath and all.. You have misplaced priorities jawe.

Wetin I dey read bikozienu shocked shocked, the only thing he's bringing to the table is his blockous..

Tafia.

Ms. Brothel, didn't she know he was jobless before she opened her legs and still accept ring? So many ladies out there willing to foot the bill of a virile guy, after renting aa shop and paying house rent, is it too much for the 'wife' to support the guy till he gets something tangible? Ladies of nowadays shaaaaaaa!!!

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Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by Sammyblaq(m): 5:52pm On Nov 22, 2015
Man is the head we know... but in this time, she have to be supportive and encouraging as a wife enjoying a hairshop opened by the same man.
Decision shouldn't be biased but effectively reached. She wants Abuja in this present economy.. her father na senator?.
Now she wants to leave. *shakes head*.

Op am foreseeing you getting a job(Good) if she leaves; and she will try coming back.

Focus and direct ur plans... don't be distracted by her mere threat.

blaquest

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Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by therapistmrs: 5:54pm On Nov 22, 2015
Women of today must learn to be patient with their partners.its not easy.Mr man don't loose any sleep on this matter,that fantastic job you are looking for will come eventually with or without her support.all the best.
Therapistmrs..com

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Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 5:57pm On Nov 22, 2015
Nova15:
But OP why should you even be thinking of marrying when you haven't secured a job?


You should get your priorities striaght!
He is already married, what should he do?
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by kilode100(f): 5:57pm On Nov 22, 2015
adexolu:


Ms. Brothel, didn't she know he was jobless before she open her leg and still accept ring? So many ladies out there willing to foot the bill of a virile guy, after renting aa shop and paying house rent, is it too much for the 'wife' to support the guy till he gets something tangible? Ladies of nowadays shaaaaaaa!!!


You believed his embellished stories? That guy no get shimgba and the poor woman is tired.
Wetin he dey marry for now?.. This guy is a sexual freak o.. Instead of him to go to brothel and relieve himself, E go carry carry another person pikin dey suffer am all in the name of nonsense marriage.

Virility without Money is like giving a toothless man corn to chew.
Smh.

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Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by olashas(f): 5:57pm On Nov 22, 2015
What manner of man gets married without a job? And why would a lady marry a jobless man and complain about his joblessness afterwards? Na wa o

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Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by Nobody: 5:58pm On Nov 22, 2015
This are the type of women that makes men to abuse women. A woman's prayers and encouragement goes a long way in helping the family. #My mama didn't raise me to leave him after saying 'I DO'

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Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by pedrilo: 6:00pm On Nov 22, 2015
Omotolu:
...are you insinuating one should not marry because one has not got a job? Anyway,there is no specific scenerio that will determine when or whether a man should get married. Nigerian economy can make one single till old age.
gettin married n bringin a child into dis world wen wen wen jobless will make d economy worse. Pls save d unborn child from such hardship! Why r some pipo dis wicked?
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by kilode100(f): 6:00pm On Nov 22, 2015
I think his wife should divorce this broke ass virility bastard..

Wait till he makes money, and his wife is worn out from stress, he will so dump her and marry a fresh Babe.

No woman should ever suffer with any morafucking man.

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Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by pedrilo: 6:02pm On Nov 22, 2015
kilode100:
I think his wife should divorce this broke ass virility bastard..

Wait till he makes money, and his wife is worn out from stress, he will so dump her and marry a fresh Babe.

No woman should ever suffer with any morafucking man.
end time girl

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Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by Nobody: 6:03pm On Nov 22, 2015
pedrilo:
gettin married n bringin a child into dis world wen wen wen jobless will make d economy worse. Pls save d unborn child from such hardship! Why r some pipo dis wicked?
...that's your opinion. The world is entitled to its numerous opinions,so am i...
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by tolulope1990(m): 6:03pm On Nov 22, 2015
Please this is not a Wife.....she should go so that you can have a rethink and a replan of your life with the right woman. I pray she will be alive to witness your prosperity with your new found wife
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by adexolu: 6:05pm On Nov 22, 2015
Abbykem:
This are the type of women that makes men to abuse women. A woman's prayers and encouragement goes a long way in helping the family. #My mama didn't raise me to leave him after saying 'I DO'

Beautiful, cute and virtuous woman(lady), you said it all. We guys wish all women are like you.... 2 gbosa for you!!!
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by Nobody: 6:08pm On Nov 22, 2015
Nova15:


Yes there is. After marriage, the next step is to make a family which is having children and taking care of them. This is the main responsibility of the head of the family.
How's he going to do that without a job?
...every man should do what he or she deems fit before the "evil day" comes. Joblessness should not limit people's aspirations. Joblessness did not limit my aspirations. What will be, will surely come to past....
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by fajani(m): 6:09pm On Nov 22, 2015
Crying
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by Chukazu: 6:10pm On Nov 22, 2015
THIS TOO SHALL PASS

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Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by adexolu: 6:11pm On Nov 22, 2015
kilode100:
I think his wife should divorce this broke ass virility bastard..

Wait till he makes money, and his wife is worn out from stress, he will so dump her and marry a fresh Babe.

No woman should ever suffer with any morafucking man.

I'm sure ya na married yet.....odawise u go yarn better
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by kilode100(f): 6:12pm On Nov 22, 2015
adexolu:


Beautiful, cute and virtuous woman(lady), you said it all. We guys wish all women are like you.... 2 gbosa for you!!!


Mumu! I'm sure this what op's wife told him before they got married cheesy cheesy

That chick dey find Husband , That's why She's pretending and see as you fall yakata

Kikikikikiiki..

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Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by fajani(m): 6:13pm On Nov 22, 2015
They will forget the good things done in the past and judge with your present predicament

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Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by kilode100(f): 6:14pm On Nov 22, 2015
adexolu:


I'm sure ya na married yet.....odawise u go yarn better



I don born your mate for house and btw, I'm on my second marriage.

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Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by Nobody: 6:14pm On Nov 22, 2015
englishmart:
if you love her, then find a job. A man who can't provide for the family is worse than an infidel
what about a man that lost his job?
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by fajani(m): 6:16pm On Nov 22, 2015
kilode100:
I think his wife should divorce this broke ass virility bastard..

Wait till he makes money, and his wife is worn out from stress, he will so dump her and marry a fresh Babe.

No woman should ever suffer with any morafucking man.
fool....No lies, No prevarication, no mouth watered utterances you are a bitch of a stinking pussy. No wonder most men use someone of your type for ritual

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Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by Nova15: 6:18pm On Nov 22, 2015
Omotolu:
...every man should do what he or she deems fit before the "evil day" comes. Joblessness should not limit people's aspirations. Joblessness did not limit my aspirations. What will be, will surely come to past....

Aspirations to get married without a job?
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by odeku457(m): 6:18pm On Nov 22, 2015
DUNKA:
What happened to d vow of For better or worse?
These hoes ain't loyal grin

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Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by kilode100(f): 6:18pm On Nov 22, 2015
fajani:
fool....No lies, No prevarication, no mouth watered utterances you are a bitch of a stinking pussy. No wonder most men use someone of your type for ritual


His wife is also feeding him cheesy cheesy cheesy

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Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by Nova15: 6:19pm On Nov 22, 2015
ADAMUdaCOWBOY:

He is already married, what should he do?

He should go out and find something doing.
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by akposking(m): 6:19pm On Nov 22, 2015
Lalastiiclaia see better gist or you still dey on top mountain.
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by fajani(m): 6:20pm On Nov 22, 2015
kilode100:



His wife is also feeding him cheesy cheesy cheesy
who established d business for her
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by kilode100(f): 6:22pm On Nov 22, 2015
Nova15:


He should go out and find something doing.


No mind am jawe. Him own na to fvck and release..

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Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by Lagusta(m): 6:23pm On Nov 22, 2015
kilode100:




I don born your mate for house and btw, I'm on my second marriage.

U shouldn't have said that.....

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