kilode100:
Yeye dey smell.

You expect your wife to feed, cloth and house you?

Olorunmajebadthing biko!! So your only mission in life is to bang her?? He might even be lousy in bed with bad breath and all.. You have misplaced priorities jawe.

Wetin I dey read bikozienu , the only thing he's bringing to the table is his blockous..

Tafia.

u have killed me wit lafta #bringin blockous to d table

I so love ur comment.. same mistake many young people make out there. I wonder what's responsible 4 d rush.. Get at least a source of livelihood b4 venturing into marriage

Nova15:
But OP why should you even be thinking of marrying when you haven't secured a job?


You should get your priorities striaght!

ogawisdom:


Simple go and find job, hw could u have married without one

I Taya oh, @op wat were u tinkin? U nor knw say life nor be beans? Times r hard oh

Nova15:


Aspirations to get married without a job?

...read the opinion trail. Every man is entitled to his opinion on what is good or bad. I won't impose my opinion on others....

fajani:
who established d business for her

Na wa!
The woman had that biz before he met her jawe. He was schooling, while she went for hairdressing and after freedom, her parents, sugardaddy, enieleni anybody might have set her up but not this Op.

Na wife he suppose marry now?..

My candid advise to you brother is if you can't secure any job, learn a business that involves less capital to kick-start.
If she is indeed your REAL WIFE, she will stay with you no matter what... If I were to speak from an ungodly heart, I would ask you to leave her to go but honestly speaking, no matter the years you search for real job, she must endure all moments with you.
I got married with no real job, my wife was financing the home then...What she was telling me then was that... SHE CAN SEE A GREATER TOMORROW AHEAD OF US...
Today, to GOD be the GLORY, am in charge as the Husband and man of the house and she remains humble.

Don't give up... All will be well... But never you for any reason steal or rob to satisfy her. Remain optimistic and all will be well.

God's blessings upon you.

Omotolu:
...read the opinion trail. Every man is entitled to his opinion on what is good or bad. I won't impose my opinion on others....

Oga nobody is imposing anything on anybody.

We are just stating facts here. The OP made a terreible mistake that any reasonable person can see.

Lagusta:


U shouldn't have said that.....

My Love, and you just disappeared

I had one massive boil for that place and you were not reachable


Lagusssssta

gentlesinna:
Jack ruby her ass out of ur life dude.
She is not a wife material.
Hope u dnt need me to tell u dat somebody is Bleep her outside.jst let her go,den focus on ur life.



There are billions of girls everywhere who are even prettier nd better dan her.

I think that billions of girl is an exaggerated statement cos good girls are very very hard 2 find dz end time days....just reduce it to hundreds of girls pls

kilode100:




I don born your mate for house and btw, I'm on my second marriage.

Lmao!!! When u enter 4th marriage, lemme know....shameless

adexolu:


Lmao!!! When u enter 4th marriage, lemme know....shameless

What's shameless about remarriage? If E no pay me, I waka nooni

No time for iranu things

Bro,really sympathise with u on ur travails. But den,d threat from ur wife isnt d best she can do in this situation.
Provided u r hardworking and u keep trying without giving up,i think u should let her go if she insists! Who knows,she might b d one killing ur luck all ds while.
Shes meant to b a helpmate not a liability,and definately not meant to add more problems to d already difficult situation.
I believe u will overcome ds soon....just dnt give up on life and ur efforts.
Gudluck brother!

kilode100:
Yeye dey smell.
You expect your wife to feed, cloth and house you?
Olorunmajebadthing biko!! So your only mission in life is to bang her?? He might even be lousy in bed with bad breath and all.. You have misplaced priorities jawe.
Wetin I dey read bikozienu , the only thing he's bringing to the table is his blockous..

Tafia.

woman! tell me you are joking, what happened to their marriage vows?




End time women!

Oyind17:

woman! tell me you are joking, what happened to their marriage vows?




End time women!

Joke bawo?..


End time Men o...

thelish:

He can't go into keke driving n other menial jobs but arm robbery. E dey he blood before. nonsense

u too get mouth ohhh

Nova15:

Oga nobody is imposing anything on anybody.

We are just stating facts here. The OP made a terreible mistake that any reasonable person can see.

...oga,how do know the op makes terrible mistake? Every man to his decision.

kilode100:
Joke bawo?.. End time Men o...

you are joking joor
End time kilode

kilode100:
I think his wife should divorce this broke ass virility bastard..

Wait till he makes money, and his wife is worn out from stress, he will so dump her and marry a fresh Babe.

No woman should ever suffer with any morafucking man.

kilode wetin be your own na why u con carry am for head, your sick n twisted thoughts is getting to you

adexolu:


He's already married Mr. Oga, you don't have to chastise him all over again. I'm sure he's blaming himself for getting married already.

Op sit your wife down and talk to her, if she refuses, leave the decision to her. A yoruba adage says, 'if you wife to leave you, trouble has left you be that'. Marriage is for better for worse, if she can't endure the worst, then she's not fit to be a wife.

Simple!!!!!

StPete:
She should be ashamed of herself for even making such statements. A wife is a helpmate. If you are down, she should be there to assist pending wen u get back on ur feet. Not making threats and giving u ultimatums

Na LADIES for you.
Their BRAINS ARE ALWAYS GROWING.

That's why I will never settle for less.
They are fluttering around me because I have a lucrative Job.
Some are doing RESIDENCY TRAINING IN my kitchen

I will keep dumping them until I get to my wife

Nova15:
But OP why should you even be thinking of marrying when you haven't secured a job?


You should get your priorities striaght!

all dis girls na temptation,thy go do lik angels until thy catch u 4dia trap called marriage.......Na then u go see dia true colour

Its a shame we can't hear her own part of the story. This woman married you straight out of NYSC when you had very little doing. She knew your financial status and married you like that. Which means she accepted you that way. OP, I believe that you are not telling the full story here. Personally, i hate a man who is stinginy but the size or quantity of money doesn't matter to me. But very important: I like a man who can hustle, I mean real hustle to bring something home without giving excuses
Some men are lazy and full of excuses.
Once they see the woman bringing in something and taking care of some responsibilities they just sit back and relax. The man could be sitting his increasing fat ass and waist line playing draft at home or borrowing from her to go drinking or to go out with his friends. Most times the mood of a jobless man is unbearable. Everything makes them angry and insulting. She may be reaching her limit already. Communication is key here though. Talk to her. And even if you got no job yet every morning go out as a man and look for something. When she sees you trying she will definitely understand

Dominionhost:
My candid advise to you brother is if you can't secure any job, learn a business that involves less capital to kick-start.
If she is indeed your REAL WIFE, she will stay with you no matter what... If I were to speak from an ungodly heart, I would ask you to leave her to go but honestly speaking, no matter the years you search for real job, she must endure all moments with you.
I got married with no real job, my wife was financing the home then...What she was telling me then was that... SHE CAN SEE A GREATER TOMORROW AHEAD OF US...
Today, to GOD be the GLORY, am in charge as the Husband and man of the house and she remains humble.

Don't give up... All will be well... But never you for any reason steal or rob to satisfy her. Remain optimistic and all will be well.

God's blessings upon you.

Nice one bro, the best advice I've seen so far. Believe me Op, getting married with no real job is not "chin-chin" but I feel your pain just try more to get a good job and as for your woman try talk to her but if she insist just let her go.

my advice...divorce the b*tch,put yourself through school again(if you can),study either chem,mech or pet eng,geology,come out with some firstclass shi*,and u're made or.... i dunno

Nova15:

He should go out and find something doing.

you have nothing to say

kilode100:




I don born your mate for house and btw, I'm on my second marriage.

Hope you're making money from marriage business sha? Seems u're a professional...

Nova15:


Oga now that he got married without a job and going this this shit. Which is better?

Did you even read his story?

I did read his story and I understand very well but wat I can c is that u ain't married and ur view if from a single person view.
Will wait for u to get married and then we will continue from where we paused.
Thanks

stop referring to her as ur wife again.. biiko!

fm7070:


Pls do not castigate the guy for marrying without stable job.
is marriage all about bearing the woman's burden.
Men are not burden bearer. We want partners. Not some lazy woman who wants magic overnight

The honest truth is that marriage is completely different from dating. Marriage comes with responsibilities. It is in a man's best interest to delay marriage until he is in a position to be responsible for the welfare of his household.
But situations may arise where a husband is incapable of providing as he should. In such situations, the wife should stand by him and support him, not threaten to leave.
Marriage is about responsibility, both the man and woman are responsible for the home they have created by getting married. Where there are issues, they should work as a team to fix their issues.

OP, this is what your wife needs to understand. I am a wife too. We all wish things could be rosy always, but life isn't always like that. A wife should be there for her husband. She should support him in good times and bad. Same goes for a husband.
I hope you find a good job soon.

crowns2:
Its a shame we can't hear her own part of the story. This woman married you straight out of NYSC when you had very little doing. She knew your financial status and married you like that. Which means she accepted you that way. OP, I believe that you are not telling the full story here. Personally, i hate a man who is stinginy but the size or quantity of money doesn't matter to me. But very important: I like a man who can hustle, I mean real hustle to bring something home without giving excuses
Some men are lazy and full of excuses.
Once they see the woman bringing in something and taking care of some responsibilities they just sit back and relax. The man could be sitting his increasing fat ass and waist line playing draft at home or borrowing from her to go drinking or to go out with his friends. Most times the mood of a jobless man is unbearable. Everything makes them angry and insulting. She may be reaching her limit already. Communication is key here though. Talk to her. And even if you got no job yet every morning go out as a man and look for something. When she sees you trying she will definitely understand

Madam I am very sure u still a teenager and still very immature.Ask urself is it hustling the main thing now.We av men over hustling and still their wives are threatening to leave because most or some women want things to be sweet but not ready to pay the price.Wat I know is this he has the head show call his wife cuz wat makes a man the head of a house isn't money at all but how he carries his family along .He must take charge as the head and carry her along...

Just my view

crowns2:
Its a shame we can't hear her own part of the story. This woman married you straight out of NYSC when you had very little doing. She knew your financial status and married you like that. Which means she accepted you that way. OP, I believe that you are not telling the full story here. Personally, i hate a man who is stinginy but the size or quantity of money doesn't matter to me. But very important: I like a man who can hustle, I mean real hustle to bring something home without giving excuses
Some men are lazy and full of excuses.
Once they see the woman bringing in something and taking care of some responsibilities they just sit back and relax. The man could be sitting his increasing fat ass and waist line playing draft at home or borrowing from her to go drinking or to go out with his friends. Most times the mood of a jobless man is unbearable. Everything makes them angry and insulting. She may be reaching her limit already. Communication is key here though. Talk to her. And even if you got no job yet every morning go out as a man and look for something. When she sees you trying she will definitely understand

Madam I am very sure u still a teenager and still very immature.Ask urself is it hustling the main thing now.We av men over hustling and still their wives are threatening to leave because most or some women want things to be sweet but not ready to pay the price.Wat I know is this he has the head show call his wife cuz wat makes a man the head of a house isn't money at all but how he carries his family along .He must take charge as the head and carry her along...

Just my view and if av insulted u am sorry

adexolu:


Beautiful, cute and virtuous woman(lady), you said it all. We guys wish all women are like you.... 2 gbosa for you!!!

Awwwwwwww. Thanks for d gbosa, my head is swelling