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Re: Why Are Wives Looking Older Than Their Husbands? by frankcofour: 10:42am On Dec 25, 2015
is very easy guy when u one 2 marry ur partner(the woman) d age different should not me less Dan 6yr as 4 me is 9 to 10yr.

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Re: Why Are Wives Looking Older Than Their Husbands? by Nobody: 10:43am On Dec 25, 2015
Demmocrats:
1. Child birth.
2. Lack of funds to maintain her.
3. Stress at work place.
4. Too much Gossip.
5. Too much Grudges and unforgiving spirits.
6. Too much quarrels.

Add yours.
shocked Too much " Nnyaashiing "

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Re: Why Are Wives Looking Older Than Their Husbands? by Nobody: 10:48am On Dec 25, 2015
grad2012:
Dey cook for u,dey bear children for u not one not two as many as u and ur family wants,sometimes dey face inlaws wahala, dey work and o if I may forget dey dear not say no when u want to make luv to dem. if only u know d strength it takes to carry one child u will salute every wonderful wife and mother u see out der. Stop stressing dem out and start giving dem peace of mind,stop cheating and making dem worried and start apreciating dem and be faithful,stop being selfish and start helping dem take care of der body and health becos dey forget to do dis sometimes becos der busy taking care of u and ur children.
Oya come marry me ma embarassed
Re: Why Are Wives Looking Older Than Their Husbands? by Nobody: 10:55am On Dec 25, 2015
Re: Why Are Wives Looking Older Than Their Husbands? by Nobody: 10:57am On Dec 25, 2015
Simplymeah:

Ur moniker says it all grin.
yeah!

Go eat some shiit and get the FVCK out of my side

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Re: Why Are Wives Looking Older Than Their Husbands? by TruthHurts1(m): 11:02am On Dec 25, 2015
Child-birth ages women. It takes a toll on a woman's youthful figure. When a woman has a number of children over a number of years, her original figure 8 will become a figure 0.
The cares and worries of raising children,waking up early in the morning to cook for the family, shopping for the families needs will create additional stress thereby further speeding up the aging process.Mothers sacrifice themselves for the well being of their families and that is where their true beauty lies.
That is why most Churches observe Mothers Day to remind us that we should always celebrate our mothers.

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Re: Why Are Wives Looking Older Than Their Husbands? by ATERI(m): 11:02am On Dec 25, 2015
Oliviaarims:




That's a very subjective stand. Some ppl would choose one over the other. For me, though... Choice of husband is more important.

No, an intelligent woman wouldn`t choose career over husband. One reason is that you can still start a career at 38, but should you wait till 38 to get married you may have to settle for no children of your own. So biology puts women at a disadvantage
The most extraordinary fraud men have been able to get away with is to convince modern woman that gender equaliry is good for her. If we look at it closely, it places enormous burden on women. The fact that men don`t become pregnant means that his life is an easy one. So the African culture tries to minimize the burden on women by saying that it`s the man that must be the provider. That doesn`t mean some women would not earn more than their husbands, but the bottom-line is providing is one of the primary responsibilities of the husband. Once the West came up with 50-50, a scam was born. I must add that even in the West the household that is most stable is the one that embraces the African model
This thread is about why women look older. Well, it is the type of question you expect from a man, isn`t it?
Let me just point out that notwithstanding the difficult nature of their lives, women still live longer than men

Season`s Greetings

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Re: Why Are Wives Looking Older Than Their Husbands? by Nobody: 11:04am On Dec 25, 2015
well..am happy been on this thread.. am single and this thread is very educating to me.
Re: Why Are Wives Looking Older Than Their Husbands? by lolaluv1(f): 11:04am On Dec 25, 2015
Not applicable to me and mine....
Re: Why Are Wives Looking Older Than Their Husbands? by nurseafrica: 11:06am On Dec 25, 2015
grad2012:
Dey cook for u,dey bear children for u not one not two as many as u and ur family wants,sometimes dey face inlaws wahala, dey work and o if I may forget dey dear not say no when u want to make luv to dem. if only u know d strength it takes to carry one child u will salute every wonderful wife and mother u see out der. Stop stressing dem out and start giving dem peace of mind,stop cheating and making dem worried and start apreciating dem and be faithful,stop being selfish and start helping dem take care of der body and health becos dey forget to do dis sometimes becos der busy taking care of u and ur children.
men huzzle to marry u people, go through stress to pay ur dowry, fix ashebi money. Bring you to a house, pay rents, suffer to build his own, and house u on it. Feed u, pay your health benefits bill, suffer stress at work to pay your anti natal bill, register you for child birth. Host your mum during after birth care. Take up responsibility in your own family despite the fact that he owns dem no responsibility. Pays the kids fee, and also makes love to you till satisfaction. And deposit his life as sperm into you. If he ever refuse you sex in your moment of heat you accuse him falsely of getting satisfaction elsewhere. Yet some of you women still go outside and have sex With other boys in the name of satisfaction. Please women change and think less of yourselfs alone. If you think life is all about child birth and raising kids if God gave us that role we will do it with ease and shit them kids. Some men stay pregnant all dia life.

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Re: Why Are Wives Looking Older Than Their Husbands? by emperorchedda(m): 11:09am On Dec 25, 2015
grad2012:
first off I never said men don't go through stress too,op asked why women grow older dan men and I made my opinion known.mind u I did not mention in any of my statement dat men do not go tru stress too.
So what's with the 'taking care of YOUR children' you keep mentioning?? Like the child ain't the woman's.

The way you pushed everything to child bearing is appalling

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Re: Why Are Wives Looking Older Than Their Husbands? by emperorchedda(m): 11:10am On Dec 25, 2015
nurseafrica:
men huzzle to marry u people, go through stress to pay ur dowry, fix ashebi money. Bring you to a house, pay rents, suffer to build his own, and house u on it. Feed u, pay your health benefits bill, suffer stress at work to pay your anti natal bill, register you for child birth. Host your mum during after birth care. Take up responsibility in your own family despite the fact that he owns dem no responsibility. Pays the kids fee, and also makes love to you till satisfaction. And deposit his life as sperm into you. If he ever refuse you sex in your moment of heat you accuse him falsely of getting satisfaction elsewhere. Yet some of you women still go outside and have sex With other boys in the name of satisfaction. Please women change and think less of yourselfs alone. If you think life is all about child birth and raising kids if God gave us that role we will do it with ease and shit them kids. Some men stay pregnant all dia life.
Tell her

I got fed up when her major excuse was 'taking care of your children' like the kids ain't also hers

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Re: Why Are Wives Looking Older Than Their Husbands? by ucnwafor(m): 11:10am On Dec 25, 2015
cruzita:
na people wey marry dia age mate.if the man dey 27 the woman suppose dey 22 so DAT dem go age together.but my mama na every year young and I'm happy we carry DAT body.
if u be every year young pm me so we can tango very soon
Re: Why Are Wives Looking Older Than Their Husbands? by jabojafa(m): 11:13am On Dec 25, 2015
bright007:
The most important and obvious reason for your observation is childbirth.

The stress of carrying pregnancy for nine months multiplied by the number of children surely leaves frails and weakness on the woman.

if you want to prove this, go and compare a woman who has not given birth and a man of the same age
has Omotala not given birth? Has Kim K not also given birth? Wot abt Genevieve etc

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Re: Why Are Wives Looking Older Than Their Husbands? by Adeboyefa(f): 11:16am On Dec 25, 2015
bright007:
The most important and obvious reason for your observation is childbirth.

The stress of carrying pregnancy for nine months multiplied by the number of children surely leaves frails and weakness on the woman.

if you want to prove this, go and compare a woman who has not given birth and a man of the same age

Women develop fibroids if they don't have children by a certain age. They will have big bellies like pregnant women.
Re: Why Are Wives Looking Older Than Their Husbands? by banio: 11:21am On Dec 25, 2015
ATERI:


No, an intelligent woman wouldn`t choose career over husband. One reason is that you can still start a career at 38, but should you wait till 38 to get married you may have to settle for no children of your own. So biology puts women at a disadvantage
The most extraordinary fraud men have been able to get away with is to convince modern woman that gender equaliry is good for her. If we look at it closely, it places enormous burden on women. The fact that men don`t become pregnant means that his life is an easy one. So the African culture tries to minimize the burden on women by saying that it`s the man that must be the provider. That doesn`t mean some women would not earn more than their husbands, but the bottom-line is providing is one of the primary responsibilities of the husband. Once the West came up with 50-50, a scam was born. I must add that even in the West the household that is most stable is the one that embraces the African model
This thread is about why women look older. Well, it is the type of question you expect from a man, isn`t it?
Let me just point out that notwithstanding the difficult nature of their lives, women still live longer than men

Season`s Greetings

Nice
Re: Why Are Wives Looking Older Than Their Husbands? by Bgorgeous: 11:22am On Dec 25, 2015
kstadaura:

Valid: I concur.
Exactly
Re: Why Are Wives Looking Older Than Their Husbands? by nurseafrica: 11:22am On Dec 25, 2015
hope43:
that's very very true my dear
I know a woman that didn't give birth eleven years into marriage. Her husband was so nice and loved her daily the man family was supportive cos she always testify to this. But you need to see her looking 60 years unlike her husband of same age. The all you women saying child bearing I wish you all to know nothing about pregnancy stress and child birth so you will remain fresh ennn. Just like most foolish women that give there kids cow milk in a bid to keep their breast arrow like. Sadly after 30 weather you like it or not the breast begins to show HUMILITY. Fall without stumbling

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Re: Why Are Wives Looking Older Than Their Husbands? by agarawu23(m): 11:26am On Dec 25, 2015
tobillionaire:
Because thy lose their beauty nd strenght to d children dy bear
Even those who are yet to born and even have 2 housekeeper do look old too

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Re: Why Are Wives Looking Older Than Their Husbands? by jidebaba69(m): 11:27am On Dec 25, 2015
Behira:
Prolly because of the too many stress and troubles u men give us

Wrong.
1. Having kids takes a lot out of a woman hence she ages a bit faster.
2. Nigerian women let themselves go once they're married. No exercise to keep trim and beautiful for their husbands. Meanwhile the husband still looks trim and good looking.

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Re: Why Are Wives Looking Older Than Their Husbands? by sexylips6186: 11:32am On Dec 25, 2015
Abeg I dey look for sugar daddy to marry since u na don conclude say make ladies marry men dat r atleast 10yrs older dan dem.
Re: Why Are Wives Looking Older Than Their Husbands? by ifyan(m): 11:32am On Dec 25, 2015
Re: Why Are Wives Looking Older Than Their Husbands? by jidebaba69(m): 11:33am On Dec 25, 2015
tomdon:
Lack of self care. simple and short.
not all women though.
solution: marry a lady u are 10-15 years older than

My Wife is 13 years younger than me but I can still wear the suit that I wore on our wedding day meanwhile she can't fit into clothes made for her early this year.
She looks much older!

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Re: Why Are Wives Looking Older Than Their Husbands? by sexylips6186: 11:35am On Dec 25, 2015
[size=14pt] Abeg I dey look for sugar daddy to marry since u na don conclude say make ladies marry men dat r atleast 10yrs older dan dem.[/size]

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Re: Why Are Wives Looking Older Than Their Husbands? by Nobody: 11:35am On Dec 25, 2015
cozykozy:

na lie bro...na because she no marry u..why u cm dey abuse am
to marry na by force?weda she don turn 48 dat one no concern you...na ha husband property b dat...#comot ur face frm anda man wife#...ur own tym don expire

Abeg oh, na question I answer I come use my ex as example oh. Nor vex.

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Re: Why Are Wives Looking Older Than Their Husbands? by menesheh(m): 11:41am On Dec 25, 2015
michael142:
This is because Naija women don't take care of themselves after child birth. My ex is married, she has 4 kids now, she is 31 years and married for 6 years now. She old like old mama. Naija girls nor dey care for themselves after child birth.

Too many children coming out of the body degradates the whole system. A fresh girl will within ten to fifteen yrs of marriage deliver 6 to 8 children. The worst is the limited resources to take care of those worn out tissues.

White that have appropriate level of income and health care delivery system still reduce the number of children she bears while opposite is the case here.

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Re: Why Are Wives Looking Older Than Their Husbands? by Reference(m): 11:44am On Dec 25, 2015
Moana:


To look like Kim Kardashian you will need 4-5 rounds of liposuction and brazilian butt lift you are looking at between $5,000-$15,000 perer session depending on the surgeon you go to. Botoxs shorts here and there +$1,000. Tummy tuck after birth we are looking at nothing below $5,000 for a really good job.

Now Mr Man who is struggling with $500 rent per month is that something you can afford for your wife to go through to keep up with foreign counterparts? undecided I'm sure if you hear $50 per month for gym and $200 per month to buy healthy food, you will end up on ICU sef

You know how to quote money, money, money. Now get a pair of $5 sneakers and hit the road. The botox won't matter.

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Re: Why Are Wives Looking Older Than Their Husbands? by Amberon: 11:44am On Dec 25, 2015
are you kidding me?? why would I lie on a faceless forum?? my mom really looks way younger than her age.
Emeskhalifa:

ur jus bn selfish and not sayin d truth
Re: Why Are Wives Looking Older Than Their Husbands? by Tobium1(m): 11:50am On Dec 25, 2015
Amberon:
Wrong!! my parents have been married for about 33 yes and my mom looks like a sweet 16.

Picture!!!
Re: Why Are Wives Looking Older Than Their Husbands? by teebee22(f): 11:55am On Dec 25, 2015
some could possibly be stress but some re still very young just like my MUM. in our newest pix I can't believe she gave birth to us cos she looks like our elder Sister even with grandchildren. so op not in all cases.
Merry Xmas
Re: Why Are Wives Looking Older Than Their Husbands? by sukkot: 11:55am On Dec 25, 2015
grad2012:
Dey cook for u,dey bear children for u not one not two as many as u and ur family wants,sometimes dey face inlaws wahala, dey work and o if I may forget dey dear not say no when u want to make luv to dem. if only u know d strength it takes to carry one child u will salute every wonderful wife and mother u see out der. Stop stressing dem out and start giving dem peace of mind,stop cheating and making dem worried and start apreciating dem and be faithful,stop being selfish and start helping dem take care of der body and health becos dey forget to do dis sometimes becos der busy taking care of u and ur children.
dayum, you got more excuses than dasuki in efcc interrogation room

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Re: Why Are Wives Looking Older Than Their Husbands? by DMerciful(m): 11:57am On Dec 25, 2015
How many kids mercy Johnson get in few yrs of marriage? It is better to give like 1.5yrs gap and be done with it and face other milestones in life.
mandonnels:

6yrs? 4kids.
she be robot?
lemme just assume dat she gave birth to twins

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