why would u marry someone u dont like? Why did u marry her? Sort urself out man

you obviously are not in love with her and i u think that you should probably leave her but i defiantly would still support the child and i would want to have a realtionship with the chil;d and i think that you would still be friends with the girl cause you have known each other for such a long time.

You are just being immature. You already have this one, so now you are whining, you want someone else. Love is not all about how good she makes you feel, love is a decision. You need to sit up and face up to your responsibilities. You have laid your bed, so you must lie on it.

Goodluck !

Richard you have what some men would kill for , I think you should teach your wife about everything that you like encluding politics, sports and any other thing that you like not only will you have a good wife but she will be what you have taught her ,you already have her love so add all of those things togother and your family life will improve and please move into the same bedroom just pratice birth control until you guys are ready for more kids. In short Train your wife to your likings.

vronnie:

Richard you have what some men would kill for , I think you should teach your wife about everything that you like encluding politics, sports and any other thing that you like not only will you have a good wife but she will be what you have taught her ,you already have her love so add all of those things togother and your family life will improve and please move into the same bedroom just pratice birth control until you guys are ready for more kids. In short Train your wife to your likings.

Wisely said

vronnie:

Richard you have what some men would kill for , I think you should teach your wife about everything that you like encluding politics, sports and any other thing that you like not only will you have a good wife but she will be what you have taught her ,you already have her love so add all of those things togother and your family life will improve and please move into the same bedroom just pratice birth control until you guys are ready for more kids. In short Train your wife to your likings.

damn d poster

must she like politics?i 4 one don't like discussing politics.
d guy doesn't appreciate her.finito!

beingme:

why would u marry someone u dont like? Why did u marry her? Sort urself out man

as simple as that

Nezan:

as simple as that

If it was that simple, he would have done that and never would have come for advice.

Damn!!! Why you impregnate her when u don't love her? Oh u just want a piece of her and now u have it. The prob is not LOVE but u don't like her!!! But why ar some guys such and hypocrites?

mad!mad!mad!

shoulda wrapped it up first.

was she attractive when u first slept with her?
and now?
i wonder y u forgot ur condom
since u said she got some inner beauty,then work on dat,
get close 2 her and make love 2 her.
be matured,if u try and u don't feel anything,let her go.
have it in mind "it's not easy 2 find a good wife".

True talk
you better get ready for worse if u let this one go,

the best advice i can offer to u as a friend is to let her go cos ur staying together can never work.but wait a minute how did u woe her wen u never felt anything 4her? omo guys are desperate in getting a lady but after dis dey turn to something else. good luk guy.

Most men dont love their wife they just try to understand them.

opuro:

Most men dont love their wife they just try to understand them.

U mean marriage is now abt love but understanding?

marriage is abt lov and understanding each other

aristocrat:

marriage is abt lov and understanding each other

thank you jare

Guy,work on ur sef.

For crying out loud, dis woman has remained faithful
inspite of the difficult nites u ve put her thru.

Am not convinced dat u aint the problem and not the poor woman.

Do people even bother reading the full posts?

prittigrrr:

Do people even bother reading the full posts?

i guess not

u're an as$hole

Had it been you are a Muslim it would have been very easy. first you will be punish for fornicating with someone not your wife and after that you still have the chance of marrying 3 other beautiful women you really love or you can divorce the woman for good. because if you don't love a woman and you are married to her in fact it is a calamity if you are force to stay with her for ever.

my guy i beg go remarry.

poster if you know what's good for you, ignore all the bulldozers with questionable lives who always want others to be failures like them.

And if you know you dont have a casanova heart, then stop listening to losers.

And grow up, for goodness sake. Be a man and responsible.

@tpia thanks and 4 u all who have responded thank you all,well i am beginging to apply the maxim which says "if you dont marry the one you love then love the one you marry"i came across this in a book,i want to belive that things will work out good for me,those things i didnt like about my wife i am begining to accept cos there is nothing i can do about them than pray and encorage her to change.
once again i have decided to accept my responsiblites so pls those insulting responses which i have noted from some members should pls stop,i know i messed up but then i have paid d price and still doing,i make sure my wife lacks nothing materially,i also take care of my inlaws very much,infact my faterinlaw said i am one of the most responsible son in laws he he has ever seen,so pls nobody should insult me here,i only stated my feelings which to me is not a sin,so please all da beefers get off my back,once again peace to you all

Richard , You have made a wise decision and forget about all the haters.press on young man press on

nice one

richard10:

@tpia thanks and 4 u all who have responded thank you all,well i am beginging to apply the maxim which says "if you dont marry the one you love then love the one you marry"i came across this in a book,i want to belive that things will work out good for me,those things i didnt like about my wife i am begining to accept cos there is nothing i can do about them than pray and encorage her to change.
once again i have decided to accept my responsiblites so pls those insulting responses which i have noted from some members should pls stop,i know i messed up but then i have paid d price and still doing,i make sure my wife lacks nothing materially,i also take care of my inlaws very much,infact my faterinlaw said i am one of the most responsible son in laws he he has ever seen,so pls nobody should insult me here,i only stated my feelings which to me is not a sin,so please all da beefers get off my back,once again peace to you all

You are a man.
It takes a real man to accept his faults and made it right.
You are a great man.
Wish you the best, and pls, when you born pikin, name the child FEMI.

Why have intimacy with her when you know u ain love her??(hisses) Now you  stuck. Well, we all make mistakes.  Talk to your parents and maybe your pastor about it. Its not worth living that way;im not a fan of divorce, but in ur case, I think it would result to a divorce.

Poster
Its easy for everyone to give advice, do this, do that. . .but you have to ask yourself '' do I have the will to work this out ?'' Even if your answer is yes , what about her ? Is she ready to meet you halfway ? If she's not you'll end up looking like a bigger mugg than at present.
At the end of the day miracles can still happen so PRAY one does.

HE LOVES HER already according to the WORD.
Love is Kind-AGAPE, phileo and Heros will grow later!