Have you ever been cheated on by your partner you so much trusted, if yes how did you handle it. Were you able to forgive him/her and start all over again or was that just the end of the whole thing. A for me I have been cheated on before, though I have forgiven him but I just can't seem to forget the whole things even when I tried so hard to. Let's share your veiw on this

onstelly: Have you ever been cheated on by your partner you so much trusted, if yes how did you handle it. Were you able to forgive him/her and start all over again or was that just the end of the whole thing. A for me I have been cheated on before, though I have forgiven him but I just can't seem to forget the whole things even when I tried so hard to. Let's share your veiw on this

Women Forgive But Never Forget.


Ofcours I have been cheated on by someone I thought I could trust. Honestly it hurts, I was so angry, the sadness was so sorrowful that it nearly changed me. It got to the extent that I couldn't concentrate on anything, I then realised that I had to research everything until I have a complete understanding of it to be able to feel better. Alas I realised that I was the idiot, the signs were there in the beginning but love cloged my reasoning. As someone that likes putting God first in everything I had to forgive, forget and move on. I hold nothing against her rather I blamed myself for trusting the wrong person.

Tallesty1: Women Forgive But Never Forget.
Ofcours I have been cheated on by someone I thought I could trust. Honestly it hurts, I was so angry, the sadness was so sorrowful that it nearly changed me. It got to the extent that I couldn't concentrate on anything, I then realised to that I had to research everything until I have a complete understanding of it to be able to feel better. Alas I realised that I was the idiot, the signs were there in the beginning but love cloged my reasoning. As someone that likes putting God first in everything I had to forgive, forget and move on. I hold nothing against her rather I blamed myself for trusting the wrong person.

My own case is similar to yours, but just that I didn't see d sign in the first place or should I say it ws because there was no money then, money came so do many women. I was angry but I later decided to forgive but deep now inside of me it still hurts

Yes. Broke up with her

onstelly:
My own case is similar to yours, but just that I didn't see d sign in the first place or should I say it ws because there was no money then, money came so do many women. I was angry but I later decided to forgive but deep now inside of me it still hurts

Yea because you still remember/miss the good days which to me is wrong. Everything happens for a reason, sometimes it is because it supposed to be, sometimes because we are stupid and make wrong decisions or because it is going to teach us a lesson. I see yours as a lesson, weigh what you lost and wht you gained and you will that what you gain is more than what you have lost.

Tallesty1: Yea because you still remember/miss the good days which to me is wrong. Everything happens for a reason, sometimes it is because it supposed to be, sometimes because we are stupid and make wrong decisions or because it is going to teach us a lesson. I see yours as a lesson, weigh what you lost and wht you gained and you will that what you gain is more than what you have lost.

So true

For guys there is only one way to deal with it:
#Breakup.
Becos thats a sign of a potentially disatrous marriage if it goes ahead.but some guys are so dumb they succomb to her crocodile tears.

Thats my opinion.

I don't know what to say here.

^^

I haven't got hold of myself till now! She is a past tense though !!! Now I believe d saying! Don't trust 2much,don't love 2much cus that 2much kills so much!

100Cents:
I don't know what to say here.

When you phu.ck somebody's girlfriend, you guys shouldn't come here talking rubbish when your own girlfriend is phu.cked. It is a circle.

How many people remain faithful in their relationships ?

But when it comes to marriage, everything should be taken seriously. To me the most important factor is having a partner who is a conscientious person. Not someone who will willfully take a wrong step.

Nobody is above mistake. I cannot dump a girl because she cheated..

Otherwise, if most men get wind of what their wives and girlfriends do, hmmm, 70% of existing marriages and relationships will cease to exist..

Gbam!!!

Lisaflex:

Gbam!!!

I always knew a girl would be the first to quote and equally support 'that post' 100%.

Hmmm.... I can't be surprised!

starlingbawa:


I always knew a girl would be the first to quote and equally support 'that post' 100%.

Hmmm.... I can't be surprised!

Lol! prophet...Atleast ur own prophecy came 2 pass

onstelly:
Have you ever been cheated on by your partner you so much trusted, if yes how did you handle it. Were you able to forgive him/her and start all over again or was that just the end of the whole thing. A for me I have been cheated on before, though I have forgiven him but I just can't seem to forget the whole things even when I tried so hard to. Let's share your veiw on this

My long-lost friend

onstelly:
Have you ever been cheated on by your partner you so much trusted, if yes how did you handle it. Were you able to forgive him/her and start all over again or was that just the end of the whole thing. A for me I have been cheated on before, though I have forgiven him but I just can't seem to forget the whole things even when I tried so hard to. Let's share your veiw on this

Forgive and move on, no be new thing. But na after one year i go accept am back base on say i no expect am to do that kind thing. She go use the one year do i.t for the guy man wey she cheat with place.

onstelly:
Have you ever been cheated on by your partner you so much trusted, if yes how did you handle it. Were you able to forgive him/her and start all over again or was that just the end of the whole thing. A for me I have been cheated on before, though I have forgiven him but I just can't seem to forget the whole things even when I tried so hard to. Let's share your veiw on this

you are a beautiful lady,what will make a man cheat on someone like you?

Majority of us have had our own fair share of heartbreak

Wen we sit nd think of how our trust was betrayed by the person we gave it to, it's very painful

I can forgive, but can't go back to him

Which guaranty is dere dat he won't break dat trust again

onstelly:
Have you ever been cheated on by your partner you so much trusted, if yes how did you handle it. Were you able to forgive him/her and start all over again or was that just the end of the whole thing. A for me I have been cheated on before, though I have forgiven him but I just can't seem to forget the whole things even when I tried so hard to. Let's share your veiw on this

It was a painful experience, i lamented and forgave her, we moved on or so i thought until she did it again. I just couldn’t take it anymore. Had to let go. But thinking about it carefully hepled me understand something. Some people are just damaged, they cant help it. If the chance presents itself they must indulge. The wounds have healed, but the scars are still visible.

onstelly:

My own case is similar to yours, but just that I didn't see d sign in the first place or should I say it ws because there was no money then, money came so do many women. I was angry but I later decided to forgive but deep now inside of me it still hurts

if the guy is very cute,pls don't blame him,cute guys are vulnerable...moreover,don't ever expect a handsome guy to be faithful cos as he FINE for your eyes,na so other ladies see him too.

I couldnt forgive or forget. I broke it off imediately. I know my deal breaker 'cheating' no 1 on top of the list.
Amidst all the tears, friend intervention and all. I stood my ground cuz there is no point.
The relationship can never be the same again. I was too hurt to even consider a 2nd chance. It was unbelievable and i could never trust some one like that again.
It was one of the hardest decision i have ever had to take in my life. I survived just fine & i was happier being single than if i had continued with that relationship.
I look back now and i am glad i broke it off. Let me tell u why?
People rarely change.. I left her to go date the guy she cheated on me with.
Months later, we hooked up and have been shaggin since then.
Now she is cheating on the guy with me.
That episode taught me a very important lesson in life:
if a person can cheat on their boyfriend with u, they will cheat on u with another person.
Suffice to say now, the other guy doesnt suspect anything. She has found a way to keep it underwrap.
Sometimes, after 6ex, i just look at her and wonder alot. What if i had forgiven her then and take her back?
This is how she will still be whoring around wit another person.

My advice to you: move on from that kind of person. The relaionship is damaged. There is not much u can do.
U will never forget. The relationship will never be the same.
It might be hard at 1st, but u will do just fine. Love will find u again.

If you can't forget about it let go,its easier to forgive than to forget,memories last longer,don't let any crocodile tears decieve you,

onstelly:
Have you ever been cheated on by your partner you so much trusted, if yes how did you handle it. Were you able to forgive him/her and start all over again or was that just the end of the whole thing. A for me I have been cheated on before, though I have forgiven him but I just can't seem to forget the whole things even when I tried so hard to. Let's share your veiw on this

I forgave her doesn't mean I still trust her...
A cheat remains a cheat

I friend zone her and she's now paying for her sins

Nigga made her a toy machine

Youngpo413:
if the guy is very cute,pls don't blame him,cute guys are vulnerable...moreover,don't ever expect a handsome guy to be faithful cos as he FINE for your eyes,na so other ladies see him too.

I wish you can say the same when is the other way around my dear, any way I have come to realize that is very hard for one to see a man who is faithful

Youngpo413:
you are a beautiful lady,what will make a man cheat on someone like you?

Lol you should know that it doesn't work that way

onstelly:

I wish you can say the same when is the other way around my dear, any way I have come to realize that is very hard for one to see a man who is faithful

I will still say the same with ladies too,super cute ladies cheats a lot,that's why I can never be serious with them...as for faithful guys,we still have them plenty,they are the jobless ones,they are faithful to pieces.

Youngpo413:
I will still say the same with ladies too,super cute ladies cheats a lot,that's why I can never be serious with them...as for faithful guys,we still have them plenty,they are the jobless ones,they are faithful to pieces.

Lol more reason why I won't date a jobless man, not about the money oh don't get me wrong but you can never know a man until he makes money. I have been there before and I know what am saying

younghartz:


I forgave her doesn't mean I still trust her...
A cheat remains a cheat

I friend zone her and she's now paying for her sins

Nigga made her a toy machine

Good you forgive cos that's the hardest part of it. It was so hard for me to do but I later did n move on, and right now am so glad I was able to forgive him

Lisaflex:

Gbam!!!

sooo.... are you agreeing with this because it validates your cheating ways or...??

it is easier to forgive but hard to forget.

Qualer:



sooo.... are you agreeing with this because it validates your cheating ways or...??

Not at all...I agree wt it, cos der's sense in it...Dude didn't cm in here acting lyk he is perfect, or lyk say na im holy pass lyk d rest of u hv done

RiffRaff:
I couldnt forgive or forget. I broke it off imediately. I know my deal breaker 'cheating' no 1 on top of the list.
Amidst all the tears, friend intervention and all. I stood my ground cuz there is no point.
The relationship can never be the same again. I was too hurt to even consider a 2nd chance. It was unbelievable and i could never trust some one like that again.
It was one of the hardest decision i have ever had to take in my life. I survived just fine & i was happier being single than if i had continued with that relationship.
I look back now and i am glad i broke it off. Let me tell u why?
People rarely change.. I left her to go date the guy she cheated on me with.
Months later, we hooked up and have been shaggin since then.
Now she is cheating on the guy with me.
That episode taught me a very important lesson in life:
if a person can cheat on their boyfriend with u, they will cheat on u with another person.
Suffice to say now, the other guy doesnt suspect anything. She has found a way to keep it underwrap.
Sometimes, after 6ex, i just look at her and wonder alot. What if i had forgiven her then and take her back?
This is how she will still be whoring around wit another person.

My advice to you: move on from that kind of person. The relaionship is damaged. There is not much u can do.
U will never forget. The relationship will never be the same.
It might be hard at 1st, but u will do just fine. Love will find u again.

Go for Hiv test asap!!!!!