1.Let's talk family issues

2.How to stay hopeful within first year of marriage (pregnancy/fruit of the womb)

3. Healthy ethics and norms in first year of marriage

4.Transitioning from single to newly married

5.Male of female child

6.Advice and tips on determining child sex (sex styles and positions)

7.Planning for pregnancy

8.Prenatal and post natal care

9.Delivery in US

10. Faith in marriage

**choose a topic/number and enlighten us based on your experience or life stories around you**

Been married since Nobember, its been fun, taking it a day at a time.It is really good to marry ur friend, GOD will always send a friend to you when you seek him and wait patiently....we decided to go about our courtship GOD's way by keeping the bed undefiled.And it feels so great cos we can always remind GOD of our obedience whenever we need to bring some petitions to HIM.I hear the first year is the most difficult, im yet to experience that.We never lived together before we tied the knots, we are both learning and taking it a day at a time but certainly not without the help and guidance of GOD, HE has been our help and shield.Enough said, i need to sit back and read from others.Aside Prayers, i will say Patience, Humility, Respect, Submission & communication plays a huge role in the marriage institution.

You better face your marriage and stop looking for what's not lost

Dyt

Rukemi291:
Dyt

Yes na


If she's so happy about her marriage and wants the world to know, she should go diary sections
And if she wants To read others either good or bad. She should be jumping on peoples married thread
Oshisko

Illiteracy is a disease I must say. Some people just don't understand what a platform means. Anyone can learn from anywhere. Experience they say is the best teacher. If married people can have thier platform and share experience and learn from one another it isn't a crime. Atleats we can see how the first commenter has sense and understanding to respond and know why the op initiated this conversation.
In additon, that is why alot of Nigerians don't leave the same spot they are for years. They don't know how to diversify. .. Nairaland platform is for topics that one can learn from eachother.

ardel:
Been married since Nobember 2014, its been fun, taking it a day at a time.On d 12th of Feb will make our friendship one yr.Its really good to marry ur friend, GOD will always send a friend to you when you seek him and wait patiently....we decided to go about our courtship GOD's way by keeping the bed undefiled.And it feels so great cos we can always remind GOD of our obedience whenever we need to bring some petitions to HIM.I hear the first year is the most difficult, im yet to experience that.We never lived together before we tied the knots, we are both learning and taking it a day at a time but certainly not without the help and guidance of GOD, HE has been our help and shield.Enough said, i need to sit back and read from others.Aside Prayers, i will say Patience, Humility, Respect, Submission & communication plays a huge role in the marriage institution.

I cannot but agree with you. Marrying ones friend is a good thing tho some people disagree with it. A lot of things can be understood and learned while u are dealing with a friend and not a stranger trying to work things.
I also agree and believe in faith. Praying togther as a couple is like eating together. There is always love in sharing. So when couple prays together is like they are sharing their time and faith together.
Tho my Husband and I are not together, I make it a duty to pray together.
Lastly I agree the first year ain't joke. We fight like Alvin and his friend the chipmunk . So all these little activities can easily make the bond in no time

Lizypumping:
Illiteracy is a disease I must say. Some people just don't understand what a platform means. Anyone can learn from anywhere. Experience they say is the best teacher. If married people can have thier platform and share experience and learn from one another it isn't a crime. Atleats we can see how the first commenter has sense and understanding to respond and know why the op initiated this conversation.
In additon, that is why alot of Nigerians don't leave the same spot they are for years. They don't know how to diversify. .. Nairaland platform is for topics that one can learn from eachother.

Why you mad?


I understand the mochie cochie feeling
Enjoy every moment of it
Kikikikikiki

Lizypumping:
Illiteracy is a disease I must say. Some people just don't understand what a platform means. Anyone can learn from anywhere. Experience they say is the best teacher. If married people can have thier platform and share experience and learn from one another it isn't a crime. Atleats we can see how the first commenter has sense and understanding to respond and know why the op initiated this conversation.
In additon, that is why alot of Nigerians don't leave the same spot they are for years. They don't know how to diversify. .. Nairaland platform is for topics that one can learn from eachother.

my dear when aunty gwengwe never marry na 2 beef the younger ones.
i am learning, your thread is very on point.

nasha1:


my dear when aunty gwengwe never marry na 2 beef the younger ones.
i am learning, your thread is very on point.

I didnt want to comment but i think i should.It amazes me when people see a thread with the topic clearly stated and just decide to make unnecessary comments that wont benefit any one.It clearly shows too much unproductive time they ve got. If u dnt ve anything to contribute you can read and proceed to the next thread but they choose to leave nasty comments and feel good afterwards. Low lives.Very pathetic indeed.Such people cant speak out in public always hiding behind their computers and phones to make nasty comments.The year is too new to continue with such derogatory way of behaving.I pray to GOD to visit such heart with love.There is so much bitterness in the heart.Pls always remember no matter what JESUS still loves you.
@nasha1 pls keep learning.Knowledge is power.

ardel:

I didnt want to comment but i think i should.It amazes me when people see a thread with the topic clearly stated and just decide to make unnecessary comments that wont benefit any one.It clearlt shows too much unproductive time they ve got.If u dnt ve anything to contribute you can read and proceed to the next thread but they choose to leave nasty comments and feel good afterwards. Low lives.Very pathetic indeed.Such people cant speak out in public always hiding behind their computers and phones to make nasty comments.The year is too new to continue with such derogatory way of behaving.I pray to GOD to visit such heart with love.There is so much bitterness in the heart.Pls always remember no matter what JESUS still loves you.

u dont know them? the brain of a child is more efficient i tell u.don't mind such people.
@ardel thank u sweetheart,ur story was beautiful,had me smile all through.May God continue blessing your home.

nasha1:


my dear when aunty gwengwe never marry na 2 beef the younger ones.
i am learning, your thread is very on point.

What a shame!!! Truly low life. I wonder what the person go do. I forgive you cause you don't know what you doing.
It is better you hang in there and learn. Don't always be the one to bring people down such life or attitude is not good. Learn to tolerate and encourage people. Even if what the op is saying Is rubbish have a big heart to embrace people. Never ever bring down anybody with your actions, comments and decisions.
I hope you have heard

Putting it out there- for those that will be discourage by low lifers please dont. Don't be afraid to be put down... take a step and it will lead you to a journey. Alot of people are always afraid of failure. . If Linda Ikeji was ashamed or scared of her little followers then, she wouldn't have had billions of them now and even built a mansion.

What am I saying? People will come to say rubbish at you and try to make u think you are a fool or your opinion don't count. .. don't try to pay attention to people like that.
I was inspired when I created this thread and i know it will mean a lot or it is applicable to some people.

Buhahahahahahahahahaha


I love this

I got married December last year and its been pretty good so far.
when I was single I hardly cooked so I would say cooking everyday has been the biggest thing I have had to get used to.
DH is also from large close knit family so I have to always call all the siblings and their spouses often to "greet" them. I am Igbo and he is Yoruba, I also come from a polygamous dysfunctional family where everyone is minding their business while secretly hating and competing with you. He makes me call everyone often, says I have to get used to it, as per youngest iyawo. but his family is very easy to flow with, and they are not in our town, so if na call them want.....
I am barely 2 months in the game so sometimes I cant even believe I am married sef. till I go and look at the large framed wedding portraits hanging on the living room walls.
The most enjoyable thing is that I now have someone to share all my issues with, I am not used to that so its a very good feeling.
my hubby is over 6ft tall and huge, while I am about 5'2 and petite so I really enjoy the looks people give us when we are out together, I can also go out and look for trouble with all confidence now
Another thing is that I love the way people call me "madam" these days. My boss called me Madam yesterday and both of us burst into laughter. so yea, I am still transitioning into the association of "married women" and its been a smooth ride.

Lizypumping:


What a shame!!! Truly low life. I wonder what the person go do. I forgive you cause you don't know what you doing.
It is better you hang in there and learn. Don't always be the one to bring people down such life or attitude is not good. Learn to tolerate and encourage people. Even if what the op is saying Is rubbish have a big heart to embrace people. Never ever bring down anybody with your actions, comments and decisions.
I hope you have heard

sweetheart i know u are angry but you need to read my post slowly.I was trying 2 let u know that u should not mind people dat will come in ur thread and mock u.I am learning from your thread and i like the fact dat u open such thread talking about the changes in ur life after marriage.
cheers and have a blissful home.

Got married December 2014, my husband is a great man, blessed with a son, its been wonderful, doing things I dont do when I was single. Its really important to marry your friend. God have been faithful.

nasha1:


sweetheart i know u are angry but you need to read my post slowly.I was trying 2 let u know that u should not mind people dat will come in ur thread and mock u.I am learning from your thread and i like the fact dat u open such thread talking about the changes in ur life after marriage.
cheers and have a blissful home.

I think the poster is reffering to aunty gwengwe and not u?

If you a good sense of humour, you will see that dyt wasnt serious about what she said. Her post is a funny one.

Adaobi12:
If you a good sense of humour, you will see that dyt wasnt serious about what she said. Her post is a funny one.

When they get to my age and experience, they will know the best things to do in life is always wear a smile

That particular nasha1 is so obsessed with me

For 1 year or less only? make I just dey zoom nah.

Adaobi12:
If you a good sense of humour, you will see that dyt wasnt serious about what she said. Her post is a funny one.

Nothing funny about her posts, it rather sounded angry and bitter. . Except my sense of humour is on vacation?

Make una enjoy una marriages please and if you want to talk about it, feel free..

PresVA:
Nothing funny about her posts, it rather sounded angry and bitter. . Except my sense of humour is on vacation?

Make una enjoy una marriages please and if you want to talk about it, feel free..

Yes
I am very bitter
Cos you married?


Jokers everywhere

Ok ok let's refresh. Let's create room for jokers e.g @dyt Cuz Cuz I think we have too many fans and those that wants to have a put, kindly join. Married for more than a year is a blessing join us and share your experience.

@nasah1 + @ardel i was reading it wrong perhaps.
@adaobi no hard feelings

PresVA:
Nothing funny about her posts, it rather sounded angry and bitter. . Except my sense of humour is on vacation?

Make una enjoy una marriages please and if you want to talk about it, feel free..

PreaVA nawa o.. angry and bitter is a very strong word in case you don't know. Bitter for wetin? Nairaland abi real nairacash

Lizypumping:
Ok ok let's refresh. Let's create room for jokers e.g @dyt Cuz Cuz I think we have too many fans and those that wants to have a put, kindly join. Married for more than a year is a blessing join us and share your experience.

@nasah1 + @ardel i was reading it wrong perhaps.
@adaobi no hard feelings

Funny woman

Btw are you not supposed be gisting with hubby?
Don't forget to tell him about this thread and the joker
At least I am giving you guys something to talk about for the night

Dyt:




Funny woman

Btw are you not supposed be gisting with hubby?
Don't forget to tell him about this thread and the joker
At least I am giving you guys something to talk about for the night

Leave me o! I will tell my husband for you now now.

byvan03:
For 1 year or less only? make I just dey zoom nah.

You better zzzoom come here now... where u think u going

Lizypumping:


Leave me o! I will tell my husband for you now now.

But on a very serious note
Marriage is beautiful
I took time to ask my friends today why they are married and why they wanna get married
Most beautiful responses so far

Made me rem each time I fell in love


Enjoy your marriage
Make everyday like you just met

MzStunner:
I got married December last year and its been pretty good so far.
when I was single I hardly cooked so I would say cooking everyday has been the biggest thing I have had to get used to.
DH is also from large close knit family so I have to always call all the siblings and their spouses often to "greet" them. I am Igbo and he is Yoruba, I also come from a polygamous dysfunctional family where everyone is minding their business while secretly hating and competing with you. He makes me call everyone often, says I have to get used to it, as per youngest iyawo. but his family is very easy to flow with, and they are not in our town, so if na call them want.....
I am barely 2 months in the game so sometimes I cant even believe I am married sef. till I go and look at the large framed wedding portraits hanging on the living room walls.
The most enjoyable thing is that I now have someone to share all my issues with, I am not used to that so its a very good feeling.
my hubby is over 6ft tall and huge, while I am about 5'2 and petite so I really enjoy the looks people give us when we are out together, I can also go out and look for trouble with all confidence now
Another thing is that I love the way people call me "madam" these days. My boss called me Madam yesterday and both of us burst into laughter. so yea, I am still transitioning into the association of "married women" and its been a smooth ride.

All you said is very important but two things stood out to me
1. Everyone thinks marriage is a competition. Even ladies that are not family related thinks it's a competition and they end up rushing in. I can't imagine the stress of a polygamous home. My hubby too is from a polygamous family, although him and his brother got married around the same time. Who knows if it was for beefing sake
2. I like that madam stuff. .. but I will really be ashamed, I meant shy to the extent that I may burst out laughing. Cuz seriously transiting from single to married seem like a piece of cracker to me.. I still think say na play play

Lizypumping:


You better zzzoom come here now... where u think u going

Dyt:


But on a very serious note
Marriage is beautiful
I took time to ask my friends today why they are married and why they wanna get married
Most beautiful responses so far

Made me rem each time I fell in love


Enjoy your marriage
Make everyday like you just met

Neat!!!!
So are you still with the person you fell in love with? And can you share some of thier responses with us??