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Should I Choose Brains Over Beauty? by Valeros: 6:30am On May 05, 2016 |
I have an issue that I really want people to contribute, I have a girlfriend, she is a very responsible girl and extremely brilliant(She has lived almost all her life on scholarship and finished with a first class),a very good cook too and loved and respected by all my friends cos she is very good at making friends. I love everything about her values. BUT to tell you the honest truth, my ultimate problem is that she is not endowed at all , she is always willing to change and try about anything I want but I am not sure I can do anything about this. She is pretty tho but I am afraid I might cheat on her if she doesn't add a little bit of curves, I see some ladies and just wish she had a little of theirs. We are set to marry soon but I am becoming skeptical. I really do not want to break her and I really need to be helped on this! Should I go ahead with a lady I don't find sexually attractive just because she is responsible? |
Re: Should I Choose Brains Over Beauty? by madridguy(m): 6:32am On May 05, 2016 |
So NL should tell you to cancel your wedding plan? > |
Re: Should I Choose Brains Over Beauty? by nigeriancritic1(m): 6:33am On May 05, 2016 |
Valeros:"E ma t'ori ewa f'aya s'ile, iwa ni ewo... Iwa ni ewo oo j'are"_King Sunny Ade |
Re: Should I Choose Brains Over Beauty? by Valeros: 6:35am On May 05, 2016 |
nigeriancritic1:Easy to say, but I believe this is part of the reason married people cheat also |
Re: Should I Choose Brains Over Beauty? by chriskosherbal(m): 6:37am On May 05, 2016 |
Hello my dear, beauty is good, but can also fade away with time, especially if such lady lacks good character, with time her beauty becomes ugly to you. As for this not too curvy lady, according to you, but brilliant and responsible, I don't think she is that bad, my friend work on her, her diet should be changed, give her food that will produce more flesh, which can be converted to curves in the gym, let her work out and I promise she will look good. Just try and invest on her. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Choose Brains Over Beauty? by SlimmB(m): 6:41am On May 05, 2016 |
Bro, if you haven't taste a girl with good enough curves before then your mind won't let you be, not until you have a taste and see your girl is better... Life's so unfair, sometimes we just can't help it... 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Choose Brains Over Beauty? by Adonis3: 6:42am On May 05, 2016 |
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Re: Should I Choose Brains Over Beauty? by lardeipo(f): 6:42am On May 05, 2016 |
oju kokoro kii tan lara omo eniyan. |
Re: Should I Choose Brains Over Beauty? by Mimienudles(f): 6:44am On May 05, 2016 |
Should you choose vexation over food? |
Re: Should I Choose Brains Over Beauty? by Nobody: 6:45am On May 05, 2016 |
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Re: Should I Choose Brains Over Beauty? by donholy28(m): 6:47am On May 05, 2016 |
Bros biko marry d beautiful girl o...but abeg just give me d intelligent great cook..make i marry dat one 1 Like |
Re: Should I Choose Brains Over Beauty? by kiddoiLL(m): 6:50am On May 05, 2016 |
this is what we call ojukokoro... my neighbour's 4 years old little daughter will scream "Atenu".... you know you value everything she is and even your friends do? Why cant you focus on her strengths..though am not saying not being endowed is a flaw, just dont loose a precious diamond because you're seeing bling blings outside..wetin full there after all? na shiiit full d nyash, d bobby na water full am..guy use ur brain 1 Like |
Re: Should I Choose Brains Over Beauty? by Valeros: 6:56am On May 05, 2016 |
chriskosherbal:Thanks a lot for this, I think I will act on this advice lardeipo:lool I rather seek help about my "Ojukokoro" than cheat on her atleast |
Re: Should I Choose Brains Over Beauty? by queenoflafia(f): 6:59am On May 05, 2016 |
Let her go please.don't make it seem as if you are doing her a favor.there are plenty guys out there that need her attention |
Re: Should I Choose Brains Over Beauty? by Adaezeagu(f): 7:21am On May 05, 2016 |
What do men really want? Always looking for complete package when they are not complete 1 Like |
Re: Should I Choose Brains Over Beauty? by Akposkool(m): 7:44am On May 05, 2016 |
No one is perfect. I don't think the other girl is so bad. Fact is if you marry the beautiful one you will be going out to eat and probably have another relationship outside. If you marry the one not Sexually attractive, you will eat well but go out and look for a pretty girl that you find Sexy. So it's a circus. My advice is leave both of them. The complete package will come just wait Cus guy if you marry a pretty woman who can't take care of you then you are doomed and if you marry an ugly woman who doesn't appeal Sexually to you, that's even worse. So ditch em both and wait. I have said mine. Hit like if you agree and hit share if you agree. No disagree Abeg. Good morning |
Re: Should I Choose Brains Over Beauty? by Nobody: 8:22am On May 05, 2016 |
choosing beauty over brains is like choosing Alomo over Vodka, Mr Ibu over Denzel Washington or edible catering over Tiwa Savage The truth is most times the content is more important than the container because like everyone else has opined, outward beauty will fade with time and you'd be left with the husk 1 Like |
Re: Should I Choose Brains Over Beauty? by Oahray: 8:31am On May 05, 2016 |
Na wa o. So there are humans that would see brains and instead choose beauty for long-term commitments? Beauty that's a fading illusion? Op, have you ever wondered how intelligent, resourceful or sexually attractive she finds you? The truth might be a bit humbling. If you aren't sure about someone, let her be. Stop acting like some flawless human searching for his equivalent. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Choose Brains Over Beauty? by joseph1832(m): 8:40am On May 05, 2016 |
skarlett:I knew it! I knew there was a reason why I don't like this girl. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Choose Brains Over Beauty? by Valeros: 8:42am On May 05, 2016 |
Oahray:Thanks a lot for this post, I think I am appreciating the perspective of asking her what she also thinks skarlett:Appreciate the humor in the response and message is passed also! thanks Adaezeagu:Well, life is all about choices and healthy compromise ma'am. That I am not perfect does not deny me of thinking of what I want 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Choose Brains Over Beauty? by Nobody: 8:45am On May 05, 2016 |
Re: Should I Choose Brains Over Beauty? by joseph1832(m): 8:48am On May 05, 2016 |
skarlett:OMG! You didn't see the irony in what I said? With you, like is an understatement. |
Re: Should I Choose Brains Over Beauty? by lufemi(m): 8:50am On May 05, 2016 |
OP, I will start by saying that what you are thinking about is not wrong we all want the best things out of life. The only challenge is that the best things don't look like it in their raw forms most times. Gold has to be processes for its beauty to show. Rather than focus on her flaws, focus on her strengths. Grow together in love and you will realize all these things are variables that might come along. The irony is that when she eventually has all the physical attributes you want, it will not even be a concern to you anymore. I wish you the best. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Choose Brains Over Beauty? by Nobody: 8:53am On May 05, 2016 |
joseph1832: I'm flattered |
Re: Should I Choose Brains Over Beauty? by Nobody: 9:00am On May 05, 2016 |
Valeros:I understand yu OP Buh did u ask her out..cos if u did,m sure u wuld av known u dnt lik her body shape Or was it justa frnd tin dat turned to a relationship nd den commitment Again is she stick thin or wat |
Re: Should I Choose Brains Over Beauty? by Adaezeagu(f): 9:11am On May 05, 2016 |
Valeros:Think well |
Re: Should I Choose Brains Over Beauty? by Exponental(m): 9:14am On May 05, 2016 |
yesno |
Re: Should I Choose Brains Over Beauty? by joseph1832(m): 9:16am On May 05, 2016 |
skarlett:Hoping when I finally kiss you, you won't be martyred. Lol. |
Re: Should I Choose Brains Over Beauty? by Nobody: 9:20am On May 05, 2016 |
Valeros: Ahhhhhhhhh! |
Re: Should I Choose Brains Over Beauty? by Nobody: 9:22am On May 05, 2016 |
joseph1832: Kiss? Joseph, Joseph you're taking the dreamer part of your name way too seriously |
Re: Should I Choose Brains Over Beauty? by joseph1832(m): 9:27am On May 05, 2016 |
skarlett:Hope you didn't forget all the dreams Joseph dreamed came to pass? |
Re: Should I Choose Brains Over Beauty? by Nobody: 9:32am On May 05, 2016 |
joseph1832: there's always an exception to the rule |
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