skarlett:


there's always an exception to the rule

skarlett:
choosing beauty over brains is like choosing Alomo over Vodka, Mr Ibu over Denzel Washington or edible catering over Tiwa Savage
The truth is most times the content is more important than the container because like everyone else has opined, outward beauty will fade with time and you'd be left with the husk

quoting me was sorta unnecessary cos you can make your point if you want to make it...to the Op!

DragonReborn:
Hmmm. In your quest to show the shallowness of beauty, you made references to 'beautiful' people who had people with less beauty chosen over them. This may sound controversial, but the worth of something may not be equal to the value placed on it by its beholder. If I give my dog a pearl necklace to play with, it would gladly shit on it for a juicy bone. This does not mean pearls are worthless, it just means my dog couldn't appreciate its worth. OP's fiancee is no doubt a great catch and any man would be lucky to have her, but what sense is there in appreciating something because others find it precious? This is a man who knows physical attraction is vital and he doesn't want to cheat. He can get an intelligent woman he finds attractive, unless curvy intelligent women have gone extinct.
This is why many marriages fail, because people consider values other people appreciate; "don't be foolish he's a nice man, they're rare", "she's from a good family" etc. All those things are important, but above all, make sure you're satisfied with the person physically, emotionally and mentally.

skarlett:
quoting me was sorta unnecessary cos you can make your point if you want to make it...to the Op!

Adaezeagu:
What do men really want?
Always looking for complete package when they are not complete

DragonReborn:
Hmmm. In your quest to show the shallowness of beauty, you made references to 'beautiful' people who had people with less beauty chosen over them. This may sound controversial, but the worth of something may not be equal to the value placed on it by its beholder. If I give my dog a pearl necklace to play with, it would gladly shit on it for a juicy bone. This does not mean pearls are worthless, it just means my dog couldn't appreciate its worth. OP's fiancee is no doubt a great catch and any man would be lucky to have her, but what sense is there in appreciating something because others find it precious? This is a man who knows physical attraction is vital and he doesn't want to cheat. He can get an intelligent woman he finds attractive, unless curvy intelligent women have gone extinct.
This is why many marriages fail, because people consider values other people appreciate; "don't be foolish he's a nice man, they're rare", "she's from a good family" etc. All those things are important, but above all, make sure you're satisfied with the person physically, emotionally and mentally.

Valeros:

This was exactly what I thought before the question was asked......But after hearing all these. I think I will do my best to sincerely discuss the issue with her in a way that she would not take offense and maybe we start visiting the gym together. I am just very happy that you were very real about the approach. This was a very practical approach, thanks

Valeros:

This was exactly what I thought before the question was asked......But after hearing all these. I think I will do my best to sincerely discuss the issue with her in a way that she would not take offense and maybe we start visiting the gym together. I am just very happy that you were very real about the approach. This was a very practical approach, thanks

bardella1:
I understand yu OP
Buh did u ask her out..cos if u did,m sure u wuld av known u dnt lik her body shape
Or was it justa frnd tin dat turned to a relationship nd den commitment

Again is she stick thin or wat

bardella1:
nd op didn't reply me

firstking01:
See this one ...this is purely misplaced priority...are you marrying the girl or her shape...
Too Many Nonsense Threads Since Todae

lufemi:
fd