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Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by histemple: 11:26am On May 09, 2016
HornyTiwa:


You were saying something cool until the bolded.
this just expanciates the hypocrisy of "some men"
you accuse women of feminism meanwhile its this same you men who insult the intelligence of women because you believe they are beneath you.
we could have gone with your logic but then,some men has made it a point of duty to rubbish the female gender and you expect them to suck it in and take the sh!t?

this kind of question will not stop been asked as long as "some men" will not stop seeing women as lesser beings and worst sex objects.

Tiwa, I wanted to ask why you are so angry but then I saw your moniker.
Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by Nobody: 11:26am On May 09, 2016
Debbywills:
If You Have Two Or More Boyfriends And You Sleep With All Of Them, Girl You're A Prostitute angry

Amen sistuh

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Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by IRserveMyComent(f): 11:28am On May 09, 2016
Even my self dont think its fair. I guess its very dark.
Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by cooluc(f): 11:32am On May 09, 2016
There is nothing to think about there op..do you want a rebranded name to wipe away the shame in it?
Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by Nobody: 11:33am On May 09, 2016
HornyTiwa:


You were saying something cool until the bolded.
this just expanciates the hypocrisy of "some men"
you accuse women of feminism meanwhile its this same you men who insult the intelligence of women because you believe they are beneath you.
we could have gone with your logic but then,some men has made it a point of duty to rubbish the female gender and you expect them to suck it in and take the sh!t?

this kind of question will not stop been asked as long as "some men" will not stop seeing women as lesser beings and worst sex objects.

No one can make U feel small unless you let them
If a woman has something to offer apart from sex she is respected e.g we have the likes of NOI etc who are well known for their brains and not what lies between their legs.
You cant dress and act like a slut, contribute nothing meaningfult to society (except looking good on instagram), then expect the same respect bestowed on some of those women to be bestowed on you. You want to look like a sex object men will treat you like one.

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Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by nkemdi89(f): 11:38am On May 09, 2016
unapapadeycraze:



This got me gigglingcheesy. You murdered it nor be small.
I try joor.
Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by Debbywills(f): 11:40am On May 09, 2016
Babzilla:


Amen sistuh

grin grin grin I Resemble T.B.Joshua For Your Eye?? grin
Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by swaggprofessor(m): 11:45am On May 09, 2016
farano:
In my own opinion, I don't think it's proper to call only the promiscuous girls prostitutes and the guys are referred to as players, a term applied to boost their confidence angry . Both women and men who sleep around should be called 'Prostitutes'

What do you think?
If u ain't sleeping around it shouldn't be an issue.
Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by MrXlim5618: 11:46am On May 09, 2016
All I have read so far is everyone misunderstanding the meaning of the word "prostitute"

A gurl who sleeps around and doesn't get paid for it isn't a prostitute.

A guy who gets paid for Sex is also a prostitute.
Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by Nobody: 11:49am On May 09, 2016
swaggprofessor:
If u ain't sleeping around it shouldn't be an issue.

Word!

Let me use this opportunity to say this
Its not the men's fault U can whine and carry placards all you want wont change a thing
Girls love the players. Girls will never be attracted to a decent man. the Players get all the girls
on the other hand
Guys will NEVER date a girl who sleeps around he might keep her for his amusement but never for anything serious.
When girls change their mindset them we can talk

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Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by Nobody: 11:50am On May 09, 2016
Debbywills:


grin grin grin I Resemble T.B.Joshua For Your Eye?? grin

Hehehe
Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by 3rdlegxxx(m): 11:52am On May 09, 2016
LordIsaac:
...because a key that opens all locks is a master key; a lock dat all keys open is useless! Think about it! "Lock and Key hypothesis!''

I don't even understand how this even got so many likes, what is the correlation with locks and keys and attitude of males and females sex life, it's not a material thing pls, now that hypothesis is flawed, i think it is more of the way it's been for a long time, in most parts of the world people still frown on women having more than one partner but praise their male counterpart (us grin) in the end people date, break up, have new partners, ladies don't fvck themselves (apart from the bu and lez which constitute a little amount) the guys do the fvcking, the guys take the glory and it kinda discourages girls from being sexually open about their wants and sexual interest, we both have urges, both have fantasies, yes they seem to be the weaker sex so they still need to be conscious, all over nl guys use degrading words to insult ladies once they here she is dated this and that guy but praise the guys (like the likes of D'banj and Wizkid) but look down on the ladies they have been with.....
Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by cao(f): 11:55am On May 09, 2016
Miggs:

I have never met any woman that is upto my level;intellectually or otherwise.women are to be seen not heard.they are playthings to be toyed with and not taken seriously.
As for the second bolded,your nairalnad monicker "HORNYTIWA" and your provocative display picture explains itself.self-sabotage at its finest.next time,use your brain and not your big nyansh to think before posting garbage
Interesting, I'll not even talk about your misplaced punctuation or how you thought a semicolon and full stops were effective replacements for space. Your pedestal must be very derelict. Anywho, on to the actual matter at hand, from your own meagre utterings, it appears you disregard women in general, your mother and your female relatives must be proud of the man you've become. I'm sure your daughters will be proud of you too.

By the way, nice profile, you appear to be self aware, "Miggs is a pompous git...". Good for you, knowing you have a problem is half the solution.

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Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by omobaekiti: 11:56am On May 09, 2016
FARANO:Is it fair to call girls that sleeps around prostitute while the boys are called players
ME:yes nah...
FARANO:Why if I may ask
ME:Both words start with the letter P
FARANO:be serious nah
ME:okay lemme be serious...its not fair oh,how can you call one prostitute the other player?both should just be called sleepers,after all they both sleep around
FARANO: I GIVE UP.
Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by melinga(m): 11:57am On May 09, 2016
Any padlock dat can be opened wit so many keys is a weak padlock Buh any key dat can open may padlock is a Master key!!!
Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by Kyllahmc(m): 12:08pm On May 09, 2016
halfricanadian:
My question what is the need to sleep around?
my type of woman...
Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by repogirl(f): 12:10pm On May 09, 2016
Woman wrapper,man whóres, oshomo, Fuckboy etc.
Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by 3rdlegxxx(m): 12:11pm On May 09, 2016
But seriously i hardly hear the word prostitute used on regular girls, apart from the ones that are really into prostitute, the worse i hear is loose, sluts and hoes, i actually can't relate to what 'Ferano" is talking about, i mean the prostitute part, anyways dear if guys have called you a prostitute or still call you so, it's maybe because you are too open about sex life, date far away and if you have crazy slutty desires try your adventures in other states and avoid all these stress, the same guys that would be nice to you, mention you on here, say sweet things to you will also be the same ones that would call you loose if they get to sleep with you, to the ladies in the house, this is Nigeria, domestic violence against married happens alot, ladies get raped and the guys feel on top of the world and argue that the lady deserved it, we all get to have sex and date and get naughty and wild but some guys feel some what of pride telling all who cares to listen that they have slept with this girl, that girl is loose, i have come across a few on nairaland and it still beats me why they do it, i am a sexuality active guy and i know myself, the girls i've been with most of them i am still friends with, i can talk about how great the sex was with her and all that but now going behind her back and say she is a prostitute because she is had more partners is just shallow, true some ladies need to watch it, they open up too easily, anyways nice topic by the day, a good way to ease my stress of mondays work..
Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by 3rdlegxxx(m): 12:12pm On May 09, 2016
coolluk:
To b a player u would have a certain charm, confidence, swag, to make babes fall for u

for a girl she just has to visit a guy and spread her legs


lolz, you point is funny but true, it's a lot harder to be a player.
Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by 3rdlegxxx(m): 12:18pm On May 09, 2016
Dexter247:
Any lady that sleeps around for money is a prostitute, guys can be prostitutes also when they indulge in sex for monetary rewards...

But in this case, any guy that bleeps around, paying various girls to share a bed with them is simply a player.
Well, women should be accorded some respect, never in my life will i pay a lady for sex. That's stupidity and no value for money spent.

It still beats me till date why lots of guys pay for sex, i mean a whole lot of them, maybe it's a confidence thing tho but man, how would the conversation even go?? it would be so awkward for me, hmmm babe hmmm how much or 5k or 10k for u tome, lolz the kind of girls i know i can only imagine the look of disgust that guy would get, that's maybe why i don't do ashis, i would enjoy it at all, i believe sex should be fun, let's turn ourselves on and explore, all these paying 4 sex ish is a turn off not to talk of calling regular girls prostitutes, to me they like you and one thing led to another and if the sex is good, we doing it again cool
Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by 3rdlegxxx(m): 12:20pm On May 09, 2016
TheSpellChecker:


For crying out loud, please the word is EXPATIATE.

LOLs, @ the SpellChecker, guy pls don't kill me with laughter abeg grin cheesy grin

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Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by llprincztonp(m): 12:21pm On May 09, 2016
Pls Synzu and Lordisaac call me via 081551589577. Like ur contribution

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Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by 3rdlegxxx(m): 12:28pm On May 09, 2016
Debbywills:
If You Have Two Or More Boyfriends And You Sleep With All Of Them, Girl You're A Prostitute angry

hmm even tho you do have a point dear, in real life things happen, you have a crush, your bf may be be really bad in bed, you could love head but he hates and a new guy loves it, you do it but just once, sometimes it's your ex, sometimes an unplanned sex, this things do happen, unless you and your guy are sexually adventurous and please yourself well and are open then that limit the chances of sex happening with other people, some girls have 2 or 3 bf, one main guy and two side k=just like guys also babe one girl and 1 or 2 side chicks, it doesn't make it right but balances it things up sometimes, babe couls be beautiful but a bad cook and side chick loves to cook, bae could dislike sex and never gives head while bf loves it but doesn't want to leave bae so he lets side chick give him all the good sex, trust me dear in the real work 1+1 doesn't always two.... cool
Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by 3rdlegxxx(m): 12:32pm On May 09, 2016
lepasharon:


If men could easily get sex like women do, you men would have no inhibition in who you choose to sleep with. Unlike women, we select our mates.

Women need a reason to have sex, you men just need a place.

this is true but not entirely true, some of us guys also get turned off by some girls even they offer themselves easily for us, some of us actually like to have a reason why, maybe cos she is damn sexy or freaky or likes what we like, or adventurous like we do or something fun, naughty or crazy about her now this just some of us, i know the majority that are usually sex starved would do any girl they meet, even tho i know you ladies get sex easily i wonder what u girls take into consideration while selecting your mates.....? cool
Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by 3rdlegxxx(m): 12:35pm On May 09, 2016
Babzilla:


No one can make U feel small unless you let them
If a woman has something to offer apart from sex she is respected e.g we have the likes of NOI etc who are well known for their brains and not what lies between their legs.
You cant dress and act like a slut, contribute nothing meaningfult to society (except looking good on instagram), then expect the same respect bestowed on some of those women to be bestowed on you. You want to look like a sex object men will treat you like one.

Word!!!!!! In a nutshell women stop being boring, bring something to the table, trust you would earn your respect fat and for life..

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Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by johnson232: 12:40pm On May 09, 2016
farano:
In my own opinion, I don't think it's proper to call only the promiscuous girls prostitutes and the guys are referred to as players, a term applied to boost their confidence angry . Both women and men who sleep around should be called 'Prostitutes'

What do you think?
how many men do u see on the streets, in brothels or massage palours, trading their body to make profit? undecided
Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by Richydos(m): 12:43pm On May 09, 2016
Lolzzzzz @ op.... 'Do u sleep around N if u do, please kindly choose any of the aforementioned names u just stated "PROSTITUTE OR PLAYER"..... The choice is yours but d end justifies d means.#sleeping around..... My 2 cents for u
Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by kleppur: 12:43pm On May 09, 2016
yes it's fair.
next pls.
Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by Debbywills(f): 12:58pm On May 09, 2016
3rdlegxxx:


hmm even tho you do have a point dear, in real life things happen, you have a crush, your bf may be be really bad in bed, you could love head but he hates and a new guy loves it, you do it but just once, sometimes it's your ex, sometimes an unplanned sex, this things do happen, unless you and your guy are sexually adventurous and please yourself well and are open then that limit the chances of sex happening with other people, some girls have 2 or 3 bf, one main guy and two side k=just like guys also babe one girl and 1 or 2 side chicks, it doesn't make it right but balances it things up sometimes, babe couls be beautiful but a bad cook and side chick loves to cook, bae could dislike sex and never gives head while bf loves it but doesn't want to leave bae so he lets side chick give him all the good sex, trust me dear in the real work 1+1 doesn't always two.... cool
Sweedie, There are no Two ways about it. If you do not find Your Partner Compatible sexually or maybe she isn't up to your standard, You try to teach her, (After all we're meant to learn certain things in relationships). Or if You think You can't Condone with her Laxity, You call it a quit rather than Cheating.
You Don't Have a single Excuse for cheating
Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by PussyKrook: 1:02pm On May 09, 2016
JoeBlocks:
The dictionary define prostitute as a man or woman who sleeps with another, in exchange for money.

So, a woman being promiscuous doesn't mean she's a prostitute, neither does it mean a man who is promiscuous is a prostitute.

I personally call girls who are promiscuous, cheerful givers, because they save me a whole lot of headache.

So, get your facts right girl. Lol.

You sir, you get sense well well walahi. I Like your simple approach
Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by 3rdlegxxx(m): 1:06pm On May 09, 2016
Debbywills:

Sweedie, There's no Two ways about it. If you do not find Your Partner Compactable sexually or maybe she isn't up to your standard, You try to teach her, (After all we're meant to learn certain things in relationships). Or if You think You can't Condone with her Laxity, You call it a quit rather than Cheating.
You Don't Have a single Excuse for cheating

Lol, babe i've been there and done that, not everyone is willing to learn this things, we all have different sex drives and high or low ones @ that, some people hate the idea of giving head, others love, you make it sound so simple, sometimes they are other things you love about the person just like you girls love money, good shoes, nice outfits and cinemas outing and all that but he doesn't satisfy you, you tell him but it hurts his ego so you don't say anything and u can't leave because you are enjoying other benefits, same with guys, just because the sex is bad won't make them call it quits, not saying cheating is good but the world isn't always in right and wrongs, the more older and experienced you get you would understand these things, a lot of people date but aren't really sexually compatible but maybe he is fun to be around, treats her nicely and buys stuff for her they are dating, same with guys also.......
Re: Is It Fair To Call Girls Who Sleep Around 'Prostitutes' And Guys 'Players' ? by ReorxTohGan(m): 1:08pm On May 09, 2016
SMH...idk wah to say sha!!...(yawns)

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