HateU2:
Hi all.
I have read so many threads about ladies on this forum and sometimes I just waka pass because there are lots of things you guys don't understand. Lemme put you through.

We are Nigerians(Hausa, IBO or Yoruba) and somehow our culture is still the richest so far.

Now, some guys will open threads to complain a bout ladies and all that.

First of all check yourself. Most of you guys brags a lot. Lemme use an example, A guy was asking me out and can you guess his 'lines'? 'Baby, I will take care of you' Really , take care of me Is that the new line? I quickly told him to fcck off because I detest guys with that mentality. All I'm saying here is that don't try to impress any lady with your money and that's why most of you come here to cry whenever a girl asks you for #100 recharge card. Check your 'toasting skills'.

I also read a comment about a guy that said he can't date a girl with some investments, really? You guys are the most complicated person God gave this world. Yes! Lemme back it up. We all know guys dont like it when Ladies are more successful than them Or is it the society that frowns at this That's why single ladies are afraid to buy cars and build houses because no man will like to marry a Lady that already has it all with the mentality that she will not be submissive bla bla like that. Examples are Linda Ikeji, Funke Akindele and others. You guys that are 'crying upadan' here, go to them please. Nobody is stopping you and remember they are single.

And for a man to feel like 'Man', he wanna provide for his family and while doing this, he Will also be complaining of too much of liabilities. SMH

Now, a lady is successful, she's termed 'Career woman' or even ' Feminist' simply because she's not married. Then our parents will start their wahala of 'Don't do this to me', ' Have mercy on me', 'Your mates are getting married' Bla bla like that. And Society too will start looking at you with 'some kind eyes' Chai! What exactly did the society wants from us

Okay, She's married now. To start running the house, she has to resign so as to take care of her home and if she disagrees, family meeting na the next thing. SMH. Or she's given the option of getting a maid . To save her home from the second wife popularly called 'Maid', she resigned and that does not stop 'Uncle' from cheating and complaining about her new weight and almost everything. *Signs*.

I learnt about from my mama and I'm still learning thou. She's an independent woman. When I was growing up, she usually hammer something in my brain.

'Ajike, don't rely on a man either his money, his wealth or his happiness (mind you, we are happy family with my Dad). To earn respect from a man, you must be able to bring something to the table also. Have a source of income before thinking of getting married, they are not predictable'.
And mind you oooo, when a lady is getting close to 26/27, Our same parents will start questioning us. *signs* Serious ly, what do you want from us

That statement is kinda stuck in my mind.
I don't really know what this thread is all about, I'm just trying to say 'Our society is kind if affecting us in everything or everywhere we find ourselves'. Before you open your mouth to talk, think twice.


I rest my case.
Bashings are allowed.
Lalasticlala, what do you think

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obiorathesubtle:
no vex.. After the first paragraph.. I just weak..


HatejU2.. Boo boo, Try add colour.. That black no sweet to read..

BoboFashion:


Nobody will bash you ok, I blame the society (African culture). But, its good to be Miss Independent no matter what.

BiafraBushBoy:
I think you should go back to your Basic English class before wasting your Data and posting Bullcrap

How does it sound?

slimthugchimee:
too long didnt read all

STFUareyouG0d:
What are we to learn from this?

Debbywills:


Was she forcing you to read at all?

HateU2:
Sounds good. Can u be my teacher
Oponu radaraadaa

HateU2:
how did u graduate

slimthugchimee:
did o force you to quote me

BoboFashion:

halfricanadian:


Wahalai ur boiling can fry yam

HateU2:
Done, honey. Now, goan read it again