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5 Reasons Why Your Ex Boyfriend Will Definitely Come Back by Smoke2015: 2:05pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
My sisters, men who have broken your heart will always come back. ALWAYS. It may take weeks. It may take months. It may take years. It may take decades. But these jokers always tend to pop up at some point. Whether it’s a random “I miss you” text, or a comment on a Facebook pic that you posted 4 years ago, they always resurface. And usually, it’s when you least expect it. Now, before you respond to his “How R U” text, consider how he treated you while you were going through the breakup. I believe you definitely learn more about a person AFTER you breakup than you did while you were together. But why do most guys come back? Here Are My Top 5 Reasons Your Ex Will Come Running Back: 1) He wants to ensure that you haven’t moved on before he does. He can’t stand the thought of you moving on without him. This type of ex really doesn’t want to be with you. He simply wants to do just enough to ensure a new man doesn’t come along and pick up the pieces that he shattered. This way, he can always use you as a back up plan if he needs to. 2) He KNOWS that you will take him back. No matter how bad he messed up, he knows that you will give him another chance because you have done it so many times before. Sis, every time you take a guy back after he has dogged you, you will lose more and more value in his eyes. A woman who truly respects herself is not going to stay in, or give 5th and 6th chances, to a man that has treated her terribly. 3) His “rebound” relationship failed, so now he’s back to make you his “rebound’s rebound”. I will be doing a post on rebounds (and how to avoid becoming one), soon. 4) He knows that he was wrong and the guilt is eating him alive. In an attempt to make himself feel better, he wants you to validate that he is not as horrible as he feels. When this type of ex reappears and you entertain it, it clears his conscience and makes him feel that his behavior towards you was acceptable. No one wants to “feel like a mumu”, even if they behave like one. He’ll do his best to get back into your good graces. And then shortly after, he’ll disappear again. 5) He genuinely is sorry and realizes what he had. He has taken the time to mature and reflect and he knows that he lost a good thing. But you must remember, the relationship ended for a reason. As tempting as it may be, it’s probably best to leave this door closed. His change will be evident by him making better decisions in the future. And unfortunately, your situation may be what he needed to grow and make better decisions with the next woman- not you. I hope you have learnt a thing or two. Do leave your comments dearies. http://mojidelano.com/2016/08/reasons-why-your-ex-will-surely-come-back/ Cc lalasticlala
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Re: 5 Reasons Why Your Ex Boyfriend Will Definitely Come Back by Pouyan: 2:55pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
Lol. Some people want to remain at a spot until heaven falls down. Me, I don't and will never go back. |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Your Ex Boyfriend Will Definitely Come Back by Nobody: 3:13pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
I will never go back to my VOMIT!!! If you are out, you are out! There are guys waiting for just one chance and WTF will I be doing by giving you second chance after messing up the first . I don't roll that way biko. Don't quote me 1 Like |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Your Ex Boyfriend Will Definitely Come Back by Nobody: 3:15pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
Going back to an ex is the worst mistake anyone could ever make, makeup sex is usually great, but the relationship is never the way it was, lack of trust creeps in and the moment it falls apart again, you will hear things like...you're unstable that's why you took me back, or you're cheap that's why i got you back. Your ex will say what ever makes him sleep. will never go back to an ex. |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Your Ex Boyfriend Will Definitely Come Back by jamalnation(m): 3:44pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
MissHatey: cum beat me. |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Your Ex Boyfriend Will Definitely Come Back by Nobody: 6:01pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
jamalnation:you this boy again |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Your Ex Boyfriend Will Definitely Come Back by Flashh: 6:09pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
MissHatey:Here comes a small girl who's full of herself. Easy with the rant, I know the country economy is kinda frustrating. 8 Likes |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Your Ex Boyfriend Will Definitely Come Back by jamalnation(m): 7:28pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
MissHatey: |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Your Ex Boyfriend Will Definitely Come Back by Nobody: 7:50pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Your Ex Boyfriend Will Definitely Come Back by Nobody: 7:51pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
Flashh:*yawns* |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Your Ex Boyfriend Will Definitely Come Back by jamalnation(m): 7:56pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
MissHatey:i don't take pictures |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Your Ex Boyfriend Will Definitely Come Back by Nobody: 8:03pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
jamalnation: |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Your Ex Boyfriend Will Definitely Come Back by Flashh: 8:13pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
MissHatey:Cover that mouth with clean handkerchief because of those around you. You were talking about "ex" like being an ex is an evil thing or crime to be. If your exes were evil, that shouldn't give you the guts to talk in a rude way. Some became ex based on the relationship wasn't going on well for both. Have you ever sit down and ask yourself why your exes left you? There's tendency the fault might be from you. But I did expect you to coverup your part though. BTW...Learn to pass your messages pleasantly without foul. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Your Ex Boyfriend Will Definitely Come Back by Nobody: 8:18pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
Flashh: |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Your Ex Boyfriend Will Definitely Come Back by Flashh: 8:20pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
MissHatey:Receive sense. 2 Likes |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Your Ex Boyfriend Will Definitely Come Back by Nobody: 8:21pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
Flashh:you need it more. Keep it please |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Your Ex Boyfriend Will Definitely Come Back by Flashh: 8:23pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
MissHatey:I noticed you are pained. What's the problem? Tell us, we can help you. 1 Like |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Your Ex Boyfriend Will Definitely Come Back by Nobody: 8:26pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Your Ex Boyfriend Will Definitely Come Back by Flashh: 8:32pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
MissHatey:Now it's being proven by your moniker. Just go... 1 Like |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Your Ex Boyfriend Will Definitely Come Back by Nobody: 8:33pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
Flashh:Are you tired already |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Your Ex Boyfriend Will Definitely Come Back by Flashh: 8:41pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
MissHatey:Do you think I have time to waste on you here? My attention on something else now. 2 Likes |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Your Ex Boyfriend Will Definitely Come Back by Nobody: 8:43pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
Flashh:k *dialing a number* Iamnawty, bestie. TGIF NAH |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Your Ex Boyfriend Will Definitely Come Back by Flashh: 8:47pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
^^^ I can clearly deduce she's living a banal life right now. Not liven at all. Sorry! 4 Likes |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Your Ex Boyfriend Will Definitely Come Back by IamNawty(f): 9:16pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
MissHatey:bestie am here oya lets cause trouble |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Your Ex Boyfriend Will Definitely Come Back by Nobody: 9:18pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
IamNawty:oya nah Lemme go and open thread |
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