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Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Chrisrare: 5:48pm On Aug 27, 2016
....Most guys no longer find dark-skinned ladies appealing, and the majority of guys are now going for the light-skinned ones. Because of this fact, women have now resorted to bleaching their skins to satisfy men's desire. And some women have perfected the art of skin bleaching to the extent that its difficult to tell if a lady is bleaching or not.

.....But if u find out the light-skin lady ur dating is actually bleaching her skin, can u marry such a lady??
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Nobody: 5:50pm On Aug 27, 2016
Nah
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by johnpaulo(m): 5:50pm On Aug 27, 2016
Never

Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Nobody: 5:52pm On Aug 27, 2016
no I will not!!!!! angry her skin is beautiful as is
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by ojun50(m): 5:52pm On Aug 27, 2016
No no no, i don't need a woman who will be using feeding money to buy bleaching. D odur in there body self no be here

op No N0 Noo0000
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Nobody: 5:56pm On Aug 27, 2016
The real question is, how will you be able to tell, if a woman is bleaching, or has bleached her skin? Because from the way women are bleaching their skins these days, and the various cosmetic products that are available in the market, it's quite difficult to distinguish a naturally light skinned women, from a light skinned woman who was formally darker.
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Nobody: 6:01pm On Aug 27, 2016
johnpaulo:
Never
I think this is ridiculous.
Make up does some women transform though.
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Caravan:
The real question is, how will you be able to tell, if a woman is bleaching, or has bleached her skin? Because from the way women are bleaching their skins these days, and the various cosmetic products that are available in the market, it's quite difficult to differentiate a naturally light skinned women, from a light skinned woman who was formally darker.
And that's tragic. I loathe bleaching.
I hate they felt the need to strip their skin of it's color.
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Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by cyprus000: 6:03pm On Aug 27, 2016
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I never thought I'd say this; “over my dead body,” but, heck.

Beings suffering from racial inferiority complex, irritate my soul.

I can't cope with such show of vapidity, and ignominious display of hopelessness

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Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by onyedika946(m): 6:03pm On Aug 27, 2016
Personally i don't think i can.
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by obiorathesubtle: 6:07pm On Aug 27, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
no I will not!!!!! angry her skin is beautiful as is
Shut up val.. Stop lying..
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by obiorathesubtle: 6:09pm On Aug 27, 2016
I will not! A bleacher reeks of inferiority complex.. Not exactly my spec..
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Nobody: 6:09pm On Aug 27, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:

And that's tragic. I loathe bleaching.
I hate they felt the need to strip themselves of it's color.
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Like I'll always say, these days, society, dictates and modulates our thoughts and actions, and particularly, how we perceive ourselves and our environment.

There is nothing inherently unattractive about the dark skin, but society has conditioned young girls and women to believe that having a lighter skin tone, is more attractive. And as humans, we are very impressionable, and our decisions are by a large extent, guided and informed by public opinion. So when you think about it, it's not really the fault of those women who bleach. It's the fault of society, and it's pet bull dog; the media.

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Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Nobody: 6:13pm On Aug 27, 2016
Caravan:


Like I'll always say, these days, society, dictates and modulates our thoughts and actions, and particularly, how we perceive ourselves and our environment.

There is nothing inherently unattractive about the dark skin, but society has conditioned girls and women to believe that having a lighter skin tone, is more attractive. And as humans, we are very impressionable, and our decisions are by a large extent, guided and informed by public opinion. So when you think about it, it's not really the fault of those women who bleach. It's the fault of society, and it's pet bull dog; the media.
smiley I know all this but I'm pleased that you.... As a man
know all this.
They usually cry bleach and dog the woman but never take the time 2 understand why she does it.
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Because she's internalized the lie that lighter is better
a lie breed from racism mind you.
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Lasveg(m): 6:17pm On Aug 27, 2016
johnpaulo:
Never
dat man is a big fool, he done enter one chance
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by YourMajesty(m): 6:19pm On Aug 27, 2016
"Low self esteem"

Don't try to impress me, just be yourself and i will accept you that way.
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Chrisrare: 6:23pm On Aug 27, 2016
Caravan:
The real question is, how will you be able to tell, if a woman is bleaching, or has bleached her skin? Because from the way women are bleaching their skins these days, and the various cosmetic products that are available in the market, it's quite difficult to differentiate a naturally light skinned women, from a light skinned woman who was formally darker.
Actually there r signs dat can tell u if a woman is bleaching her skin, if u r observant.
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by LuvU2: 6:23pm On Aug 27, 2016
If u remove the first layer of ur skin u remove the first layer of beauty in u. If u cant see that u are just not mature yet.


Nd sincerely women who bleach have to hv some "underneath" confidence, when she walks the street with inferior waxed skin. Maybe, the society makes it easy for bleachers. (Cos in a normal society, its not easy walking on the road, with an "i have an inferior complex" written all over u)

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Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Nobody: 6:25pm On Aug 27, 2016
Chrisrare:
....Most guys no longer find dark-skinned ladies appealing, and the majority of guys are now going for light-skinned ones. Because of this fact, women have now resorted to bleaching their skins to satisfy men's desire. And some women have perfected the art of skin bleaching to the extent that its difficult to tell if a lady is bleaching or not.

.....But if u find out the light-skin lady ur dating is actually bleaching her skin, can u marry such a lady??
How did you come about this research?, ladies who tone their skin are suffering from low self esteem, who said majority of guys go for fair skin ladies?, is all about preference.

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Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Nobody: 6:27pm On Aug 27, 2016
obiorathesubtle:
Shut up val.. Stop lying..
undecided
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Nobody: 6:29pm On Aug 27, 2016
I despise ladies that bleach their skin


I can't marry one, cause that marriage won't last
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Nobody: 6:31pm On Aug 27, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:

smiley I know all this but I'm pleased that you.... As a man
know all this.
They usually cry bleach and dog the woman but never take the time 2 understand why she does it.
•••••••
Because she's internalized the lie that lighter is better
a lie breed from racism mind you.

Yes, I agree with you entirely. What's uncommonly beautiful about the human species, and what separates us from other species, is the fact that we are unique in a lot of ways. We evolved consciousness, we evolved speech and we are able to internalize thoughts. Something no other specie can boast of. Another aspect of our uniqueness is race, and the colour disparity even within those races. But even despite the colour differences, no race is more aesthetically superior to the other, a fact, that has been distorted over time, through various devises, like racism and the likes.
And it's quite sad that Africans who have been blessed with such a beautiful dark skin tone, can't appreciate it, and would rather turn it into something else. This is really sad and disturbing.

There is this girl on NL, Suzan404, she is dark skinned, but she is one of the most attractive persons I have ever seen. Just imagine if people like her, decide to change their skin colour, then they would be depriving the world of such ravishing, rare beauty.

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Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by LuvU2: 6:34pm On Aug 27, 2016
Caravan:


Like I'll always say, these days, society, dictates and modulates our thoughts and actions, and particularly, how we perceive ourselves and our environment.

There is nothing inherently unattractive about the dark skin, but society has conditioned young girls and women to believe that having a lighter skin tone, is more attractive. And as humans, we are very impressionable, and our decisions are by a large extent, guided and informed by public opinion. So when you think about it, it's not really the fault of those women who bleach. It's the fault of society, and it's pet bull dog; the media.
Well said smiley
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Nobody: 6:36pm On Aug 27, 2016
Chrisrare:
Actually there r signs dat can tell u if a woman is bleaching her skin, if u r observant.

Of course there are signs, but not every one is observant, and not everyone knows these signs.
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Nobody: 6:37pm On Aug 27, 2016
Caravan:


Yes, I agree with you entirely. What's uncommonly beautiful about the human species, and what separates us from other species, is the fact that we are unique in a lot of ways. We evolved consciousness, we evolved speech and we are able to internalize thoughts. Something no other specie can boast of. Another aspect of our uniqueness is race, and the colour disparity even within those races. But even despite the colour differences, no race is more aesthetically superior to the other. And it's quite sad that Africans who have been blessed with such a beautiful dark skin tone, can't appreciate it, and would rather turn it into something else. This is really sad and disturbing.

There is this girl on NL, Suzan404, she is dark skinned, but she is one of the most attractive person I have ever seen. Just imagine if people like her, decide to change their skin colour, then they would be depriving the world of such ravishing, rare beauty.
NL Onstelly is dark skin and beautiful.
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Lots of dark skin some are.
It's truly a mental thing to believe 1 race/color superior physically or otherwise.
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But it can be correct this thinking
. They only need feed their eyes on beautiful displays of dark beauty.

Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Chrisrare: 6:37pm On Aug 27, 2016
asuo27:
How did you come about this research?, ladies who torn their skin are suffering from low self esteem, who said majority of guys go for fair skin ladies?, is all about preference.
As someone said above, society has made it so. Most guys now prefer light-skinned ladies to d dark ones. Ladies know dis fact, hence there resorting to bleaching to attract guys.
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by LuvU2: 6:38pm On Aug 27, 2016
Caravan when i see a beautiful dark skin girl bleach her skin, i almost would want to cry because we just lost a lot in the "world of beauties"
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Nobody: 6:46pm On Aug 27, 2016
Caravan:


Yes, I agree with you entirely. What's uncommonly beautiful about the human species, and what separates us from other species, is the fact that we are unique in a lot of ways. We evolved consciousness, we evolved speech and we are able to internalize thoughts. Something no other specie can boast of. Another aspect of our uniqueness is race, and the colour disparity even within those races. But even despite the colour differences, no race is more aesthetically superior to the other, a fact, that has been distorted over time, through various devises, like racism and the likes.
And it's quite sad that Africans who have been blessed with such a beautiful dark skin tone, can't appreciate it, and would rather turn it into something else. This is really sad and disturbing.

There is this girl on NL, Suzan404, she is dark skinned, but she is one of the most attractive person I have ever seen. Just imagine if people like her, decide to change their skin colour, then they would be depriving the world of such ravishing, rare beauty.
cool
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Nobody: 6:50pm On Aug 27, 2016
LuvU2:
Caravan when i see a beautiful dark skin girl bleach her skin, i almost would want to cry because we just lost a lot in the "world of beauties"


I completely sympathize with your point of view.

The black skin is beautiful. It's an amazing skin colour, and our young girls and boys need to know that, cause they are the future of our race. Our parents need to tell it to them and we the older siblings need to set good examples, and let our younger siblings, and the younger generation, know that there is nothing wrong with being dark, and there is nothing to be ashamed of with being naturally dark skinned.
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Chrisrare: 6:53pm On Aug 27, 2016
suzan404:
cool
madam make ur head no swell too much o..
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Nobody: 6:57pm On Aug 27, 2016
Chrisrare:
madam make ur head no swell too much o..
grin grin
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by thesuave10(m): 6:58pm On Aug 27, 2016
The black skin undoubtedly is beautiful but speaking realistically from a male's perspective, fair girls are generally more attractive than dark girls
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by LuvU2: 7:00pm On Aug 27, 2016
Caravan:


I completely sympathize with your point of view.

The black skin is beautiful. It's an amazing skin colour, and our young girls and boys need to know that, cause they are the future of our race. Our parents need to tell it to them and we the older siblings need to set good examples, and let our younger siblings know that there is nothing wrong with being dark, and there is nothing to be ashamed of with being naturally dark skinned.
Many many black people will agree with this but yet again, many wont.
The ones who wont are unfortunately the loudest.


Another very beautiful one is makydebbie

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