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Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Nobody: 7:03pm On Aug 27, 2016
thesuave10:
The black skin undoubtedly is beautiful but speaking realistically from a male's perspective, fair girls are generally more attractive than dark girls

No. Speaking from your own subjective perspective. You are not an authoritative voice on male universal perception of feminine beauty.

And please, stop generalizing. Attractiveness is subjective, there is nothing like a general, objective opinion on physical attractiveness.

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Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Chrisrare: 7:05pm On Aug 27, 2016
thesuave10:
The black skin undoubtedly is beautiful but speaking realistically from a male's perspective, fair girls are generally more attractive than dark girls
Lol... Finally someone has decided to be realistic...
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by thesuave10(m): 7:05pm On Aug 27, 2016
Caravan:


No. Speaking from your own subjective perspective. You are not an authoritative voice for the a male's perception of feminine beauty.

All these careless talk. Men generally find fair girls more attractive than dark girls. It's a hard truth but that's as real as it gets.
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by thesuave10(m): 7:07pm On Aug 27, 2016
Chrisrare:
Lol... Finally someone has decided to be realistic...

Yup bro. It's the truth most guys just see it that way grin
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Nobody: 7:09pm On Aug 27, 2016
thesuave10:


All these careless talk. Men generally find fair girls more attractive than dark girls. It's a hard truth but that's as real as it gets.

"Generally," is an objective term. You don't have the right to make objective claims on subjective qualities. You don't have the right to say "generally". What you can say is, "most men you know," because you don't have an authoritative, documented, statistical proof for the assertion you are boldly making.

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Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Chrisrare: 7:09pm On Aug 27, 2016
thesuave10:


All these careless talk. Men generally find fair girls more attractive than dark girls. It's a hard truth but that's as real as it gets.
Dis is an obvious fact, but trust africans, dey alwasy bring sentiments into everything.
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Chrisrare: 7:12pm On Aug 27, 2016
Caravan:


Generally is an objective term. You don't have the right to make objective claims on subjective qualities. You don't have the right to say generally. What you can say is, "most men you know," because you don't have an authoritative, statistical proof for the assertion you are boldly making.

D fact dat ladies r bleaching their skin despite d negative consequences is a solid proof dat men generally find light-skinned ladies more beautiful and attractive dan d dark ones. So i dont know what other proof ur luking for.

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Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by thesuave10(m): 7:15pm On Aug 27, 2016
Caravan:


Generally is an objective term. You don't have the right to make objective claims on subjective qualities. You don't have the right to say generally. What you can say is, "most men you know," because you don't have an authoritative, statistical proof for the assertion you are boldly making.


I can say generally to a whole lot of things but when it comes to skin colour preference everything changes huh? Keep it real man. Let me rephrase, in this world men consider fair girls more attractive than dark girls. It's the truth. PERIOD grin
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Nobody: 7:19pm On Aug 27, 2016
thesuave10:


I can say generally to a whole lot of things but when it comes to skin colour preference everything changes huh? Keep it real man. Let me rephrase, in this world men consider fair girls more attractive than dark girls. It's the truth. PERIOD grin
Speak for yerself. You prefer them. PERIOD
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Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Beamborla(f): 7:19pm On Aug 27, 2016
Chrisrare:
D fact dat ladies r bleaching their skin despite d negative consequences is a solid proof dat men generally find light-skinned ladies more beautiful and attractive dan d dark ones. So i dont know what other proof ur luking for.
Tenk you for being objective!

Maybe when they unashamedly agree that fair skin is often favoured over dark skin, the way forward to curbing bleaching amongst ladies might present itself.

I've said it time and time again, why would a lady bleach her skin if the society/men do not place more value on a fair skin
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by thesuave10(m): 7:20pm On Aug 27, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
Speak for yerself. You prefer them. PERIOD
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Sentiment should be considered a sin grin
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by LuvU2: 7:24pm On Aug 27, 2016
thesuave10:


Sentiment should be considered a sin grin
So u are saying men find rita dominic more attractive than Genevieve? smiley
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Nobody: 7:25pm On Aug 27, 2016
Chrisrare:
D fact dat ladies r bleaching their skin despite d negative consequences is a solid proof dat men generally find light-skinned ladies more beautiful and attractive dan d dark ones. So i dont know what other proof ur luking for.

Again, stop using the term "generally." Reread my previous comment as to why you shouldn't.

That's where you are getting it wrong. The women you see changing their skin color on a daily basis, aren't actually doing so because they took a statistical assessment of what skin colors Nigerian men prefer, they are doing it, because society has conditioned them to believe that dark skin is inferior to the lighter skin tones, particularly through media: the cosmetic adverts, the music videos, the magazines, the fashion blogs, etc. This is where the problem stems from.

There are many men who prefer dark skin to light skin. But the minds of these women, have been reconfigured to adopt the notion, that men would prefer them if they were lighter.

I prefer dark skin to light skin. Explorers, formerly sile12, a very popular and inspirational Nairalander, early this year, got married to an extremely beautiful dark skin lady, and guess what? He is light skinned. What I gave you, is proof, and you are throwing terms like generally all around your post, when you've got no proof whatsoever to back up your outrageous claims.

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Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Nobody: 7:26pm On Aug 27, 2016
thesuave10:

Sentiment should be considered a sin grin
Chrisrare:
D fact dat ladies r bleaching their skin despite d negative consequences is a solid proof dat men generally find light-skinned ladies more beautiful and attractive dan d dark ones. So i dont know what other proof ur luking for.
Hi. smiley my name is Valerie and I live in the USA.
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And did you know that there is a skin darking epidemic amongst whites
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They darken there skin with the sun at the risk skin cancer.
And they crave a deeper shade so badly they put tanning beds in there colleges.
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There fashion magazines ,clothing site and TV screens are full of men and women who altered their skin 2 be dark by tanning.

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Tell me? Are there larger number of alterations a indicator that dark skin is best??
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Tell me also does bleaching look like that big if a problem
compared 2 the way whites global alter themselves 2 be darker?

Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by thesuave10(m): 7:28pm On Aug 27, 2016
LuvU2:
So u are saying men find rita dominic more attractive than Genevieve? smiley

Lol.. Nope . this is a now a direct comparison between individuals. I'm saying generally a fair skin will attract men more than a dark skin with all other physical features being equal grin
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by thesuave10(m): 7:34pm On Aug 27, 2016
Caravan:


Again, stop using the term "generally." Reread my previous comment as to why you shouldn't.

That's where you are getting it wrong. The women you see changing their skin color on a daily basis, aren't actually doing so because they took a statistical assessment of what skin colors Nigerian men prefer, they are doing it, because society has conditioned them to believe that dark skin is inferior to the lighter skin tones, particularly through media: the cosmetic adverts, the music videos, the magazines, the fashion blogs, etc.

There are many men who prefer dark skin to light skin. But the minds of these women, have been reconfigured to adopt the notion, that men would prefer them if they were lighter.

I prefer dark skin to light skin. Explorers, formerly sile12, a very popular and inspirational Nairalander, early this year, got married to an extremely beautiful dark skin lady, and guess what? He is light skinned. What I gave you, is proof, and you are throwing terms like generally all around your post, when you've got no proof whatsoever to back up your claims.

So in your mind you've made a point. Because you and that nairalander prefer dark skin you feel you've made sense grin. Don't get it twisted dude there are many men that prefer dark skin but most men prefer fair skin. Men can't equally want both. So that's why the fair skin has an advantage
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Chrisrare: 7:36pm On Aug 27, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
Hi. smiley my name is Valerie and I live in the USA.
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And did you know that there is a skin darking epidemic amongst whites
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They darken there skin with the sun at the risk skin cancer.
And they crave a deeper shade so badly they put tanning beds in there colleges.
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There fashion magazines ,clothing site and TV screens are full of men and women who altered their skin 2 be dark by tanning.

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Tell me? Are there larger number of alterations a indicator that dark skin is best??
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Tell me also does bleaching look like that big if a problem compared 2 the way whites global alter themselves 2 be darker? [/color]
Good thing u said dey darken/tan their skin to prevent cancer and not to attract guys... Black ladies on d other hand bleach in order to attract guys.
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by LuvU2: 7:39pm On Aug 27, 2016
thesuave10:


Lol.. Nope . this is a now a direct comparison between individuals. I'm saying generally a fair skin will attract men more than a dark skin with all other physical features being equal grin

Rita is beautiful and fair
Gene is beautiful and dark

Gene wont be as beautiful as we see her if her dark skin didnt accentuate her looks. Same with Rita's fair skin. Why do they mouthiest people only give credit to fair skin?

You may say some men generally prefer this because they were conditioned to, fine. But not because they were born to. That will be absurd. smiley
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Nobody: 7:40pm On Aug 27, 2016
Chrisrare:
As someone said above, society has made it so. Most guys now prefer light-skinned ladies to d dark ones. Ladies know dis fact, hence there resorting to bleaching to attract guys.
You have no idea of what black women think of themselves.
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Nobody: 7:41pm On Aug 27, 2016
thesuave10:


Lol.. Nope . this is a now a direct comparison between individuals. I'm saying generally a fair skin will attract men more than a dark skin with all other physical features being equal grin
Talk about yourself and stop generalising this issue.
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Nobody: 7:46pm On Aug 27, 2016
thesuave10:

Sentiment should be considered a sin grin
Chrisrare:
Good thing u said dey darken/tan their skin to prevent cancer and not to attract guys... Black ladies on d other hand bleach in order to attract guys.
no. They darken their skin at the RISK of cancer.
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And uhm, I'm sure they darken their skin because they are told by media tan(dark) skin is what you should have
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what beautiful African women have naturally.

Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Nobody: 7:47pm On Aug 27, 2016
Caravan:


"Generally," is an objective term. You don't have the right to make objective claims on subjective qualities. You don't have the right to say "generally". What you can say is, "most men you know," because you don't have an authoritative, documented, statistical proof for the assertion you are boldly making.

Which brand of drinks do you take?, grin let me email you one.
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by makydebbie(f): 7:47pm On Aug 27, 2016
LuvU2:
Many many black people will agree with this but yet again, many wont. The ones who wont are unfortunately the loudest.

Another very beautiful one is makydebbie
hy sischeesy... thanks I'm humbledsmiley
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Nobody: 7:53pm On Aug 27, 2016
thesuave10:


So in your mind you've made a point. Because you and that nairalander prefer dark skin you feel you've made sense grin. Don't get it twisted dude there are many men that prefer dark skin but most men prefer fair skin. Men can't equally want both. So that's why the fair skin has an advantage

Now you are being reasonable. Unlike in your previous posts where you were using objective terms and making authoritative claims. But still, you are not arguing intelligently. All you are doing is making fallible assertions, without proof.

This argument is just like the big boobs, small boobs argument, where those in support of the notion that men prefer bigger boobs, would almost swear that a larger population of men, in their demographic, prefer women with big boobs. Which actually isn't the case. Same with this.
These kind of preferences are scattered evenly around the population, and people like you, are likely to jump into conclusions, because they, like those women who are bleaching, have been programmed by society, to confidently assume, that majority of men prefer lighter skin.

Just carry out an experiment and ask for sincere opinions from men, from different parts of the country, and you'll be stumped.
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by LuvU2: 7:53pm On Aug 27, 2016
makydebbie:
hy sischeesy...
thanks I'm humbledsmiley
U re welcome dear!
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Nobody: 7:55pm On Aug 27, 2016
Beamborla:

Tenk you for being objective!

Maybe when they unashamedly agree that fair skin is often favoured over dark skin, the way forward to curbing bleaching amongst ladies might present itself.

I've said it time and time again, why would a lady bleach her skin if the society/men do not place more value on a fair skin
I was forced to check your dp if you're fair, but the reverse was the case.

Society don't make people, people make societies, so stop blaming this on the society.

It has to do with these ladies perspective of themselves, bleaching is a thing of the mind and i hope you know there are black women who wouldn't dare use a bleaching cream and i'm one.
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by LuvU2: 7:57pm On Aug 27, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:

no. They darken their skin at the RISK of cancer.
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And uhm, I'm sure they darken their skin because they are told by media tan(dark) skin is what you should have
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what beautiful African women have naturally.
But they are still white people with a tan. grin
Sadly, their "white privilege" is still intact.
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Nobody: 7:59pm On Aug 27, 2016
asuo27:
Which brand of drinks do you take?, grin let me email you one.

Kunu. grin
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Nobody: 8:01pm On Aug 27, 2016
Caravan:


Kunu. grin
cheesy cheesy Let me look for mama Aisha and get one for you.
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Nobody: 8:03pm On Aug 27, 2016
asuo27:
cheesy cheesy Let me look for mama Aisha and get one for you.

Patiently waiting. cheesy cool

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Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by Nobody: 8:03pm On Aug 27, 2016
LuvU2:
But they are still white people with a tan. grin
Sadly, their "white privilege" is still intact.
true.
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Were is stupidinluv? It's been forever I seen her.
Re: Guys: Can U Marry A Lady That Bleaches Her Skin?? by makydebbie(f): 8:04pm On Aug 27, 2016
Chrisrare:
As someone said above, society has made it so. Most guys now prefer light-skinned ladies to d dark ones. Ladies know dis fact, hence there resorting to bleaching to attract guys.
will you eat skin colour... why discriminatesmiley

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