Zellie:
You are a stup.id person.

Slowpoke logic... She's six years older than he thought = She's six years older than him.

Can you now see how mentally ret.arded you are?

obowunmi:
OP: you married a liar, deal with it.

If you had known her to be a liar from the beginning, you would have married her anyways.

amunkita:


OMG!!!!

Dude ur moronic nature is genetic..

Can u point were I stated she is 6yrs older
Did u OP tell you he is a paedophile who married someone he is 20yrs older

Seems u grew amongst people with down syndrome for u ve learnt that word "Reta.rd"

All u fried mess supporting the lady, ve u dated a boy younger than you talkless an age gap of 6years..

nickxtra:
My marriage to my wife is facing a serious challenge, after I discovered from my wife's WAEC certificate, that the date of her birth on the result is 6 years more than what she told me and what has been in all her non academic documents, including her C.V. Actually, i have seen all her academic certificates, including her NYSC discharge certificate, but never saw her S.S.C.E and FSLC results that normally bear dates of birth. Each time i ask her for them in order to compile all the credentials for job application purposes, she would tell me that her WAEC, NECO and primary school results are in a box, with her mum in thier home town; that she would ask her mum to bring them. I gnomo her mum lager came with them for her.

Eventually, a serious sure job came for which i would need these credentials to forward to the organization. She gave me the WAEC result with the excuse that age forgot the NECO and FSLC in her current office, which she promised to bring. Lol and behold! What i saw on the WAEC result is a date of birth 6 years higher than what she told me and what is in her C.Vs.

I called her attention and she started giving me excuses that hold no water. She is saying that the same DOB were erroneously registerd for her when, perhaps they were registering her for both WAEC and NECO. That when the results came out and she noticed the errors, she complained and applied to correct same, but since then, the exam authorities have not corrected them. I have not come to terms with the this discovery. I think this may cause us peace, thrust and love in pur marriage.

My brothers and sisters, i think am contemplating of what action to take against her and am contemplating a divorce, but our two children are still very small for this. I want to report this issue to her family and mine. Am gradually withdrawing my trust for her.

I need matured advice and sugghiestions that will see me through this.

Amelian:
Op. u want to divorce your wife who bore two healthy kids because she lied about age.? I swear u r not serious.. U want to divorce her before, fucvk this age thing u r saying.. She's fertile, she appears young, if not for certificates u won't have known..

My guy u no serious...
If u know since the day u were born, uv never lied before? Thru dating and now married to her, uv not lied at all... Then by all means go ahead and divorce.

But remember . Karma is waiting for u calmly later in life... Smhhh..

Dey divorce nah.

When men brag about divorce over little things it's so annoying..

Zellie:


*double deep sigh*



You clearly do not know the meaning of age gap. Arguing with idio.ts is depressing. Moving on

kizyalex10:
That is it with women.they can never lay accusing finger on their fellow woman.imagine the nonsense,even some women with male body,also support the woman,making the guy look stupId.plz my question goes this way,do u think a woman capable of doing such,can't do worst things?mmy man don't be surprised to wake up one day nd see another man claiming ur kids.u re nt wrong in any decision u make but alway temper justice with mercy.can give her a lifeline nd also try to monitor her closely to knw if u can see more things she have been hiding.thanks

amunkita:


Chisos!!! Guy ur stewpidity has Patent..

How does that statement refer to the main subject of discuss..

How does asking the gals who ve dated a boy 6 years younger confer the same 6years to the subject of discuss..

Dude, now I see why blood is thicker than water, u gene is blessed with idiocy. ..

idu1:
u still dey drink coke this night?



My friend op don't divorce her u hear.

We know say the thing pain you

If na me e go pain me too.


But me like to marry older woman

Chubhie:
Sorry for the rude shock.You feel cheated right now that your wife over packaged and sold above the market value for her age?

You thought you were smart?Got outsmarted by the assumed weaker vessel?

I can tell you your wife is not proud that her sins has found her out this very moment.granted,she was over the moon when her dummy was sold at the beginning.

How is the body language of your wife with this discovery? Reassure her and give her genuine reasons not to further lie to you cos it insults your intelligence.

You must induce her to come clean and also spill any other best secrets of her.If you can get her to this state,you would have my respects.

Divorce shouldn't be an option.Manage this well as the man of the house.Be strong for her and the kids.

Passing shot......You could hear her burdens and stuffs that could break you and that marriage if your shock absorbers ain't strong.Dont judge her but try and understand her.

She would be lighter,more trusting and a better wife once you midwife her through this process.

Are you man enough?

ItsQuinn:
if I were in his shoes it won't even bother me one bit....how's lying evil?

nickxtra:
My marriage to my wife is facing a serious challenge, after I discovered from my wife's WAEC certificate, that the date of her birth on the result is 6 years more than what she told me and what has been in all her non academic documents, including her C.V. Actually, i have seen all her academic certificates, including her NYSC discharge certificate, but never saw her S.S.C.E and FSLC results that normally bear dates of birth. Each time i ask her for them in order to compile all the credentials for job application purposes, she would tell me that her WAEC, NECO and primary school results are in a box, with her mum in thier home town; that she would ask her mum to bring them. I gnomo her mum lager came with them for her.

Eventually, a serious sure job came for which i would need these credentials to forward to the organization. She gave me the WAEC result with the excuse that age forgot the NECO and FSLC in her current office, which she promised to bring. Lol and behold! What i saw on the WAEC result is a date of birth 6 years higher than what she told me and what is in her C.Vs.

I called her attention and she started giving me excuses that hold no water. She is saying that the same DOB were erroneously registerd for her when, perhaps they were registering her for both WAEC and NECO. That when the results came out and she noticed the errors, she complained and applied to correct same, but since then, the exam authorities have not corrected them. I have not come to terms with the this discovery. I think this may cause us peace, thrust and love in pur marriage.

My brothers and sisters, i think am contemplating of what action to take against her and am contemplating a divorce, but our two children are still very small for this. I want to report this issue to her family and mine. Am gradually withdrawing my trust for her.

I need matured advice and suggestions that will see me through this.

nickxtra:
My marriage to my wife is facing a serious challenge, after I discovered from my wife's WAEC certificate, that the date of her birth on the result is 6 years more than what she told me and what has been in all her non academic documents, including her C.V. Actually, i have seen all her academic certificates, including her NYSC discharge certificate, but never saw her S.S.C.E and FSLC results that normally bear dates of birth. Each time i ask her for them in order to compile all the credentials for job application purposes, she would tell me that her WAEC, NECO and primary school results are in a box, with her mum in thier home town; that she would ask her mum to bring them. I gnomo her mum lager came with them for her.

Eventually, a serious sure job came for which i would need these credentials to forward to the organization. She gave me the WAEC result with the excuse that age forgot the NECO and FSLC in her current office, which she promised to bring. Lol and behold! What i saw on the WAEC result is a date of birth 6 years higher than what she told me and what is in her C.Vs.

I called her attention and she started giving me excuses that hold no water. She is saying that the same DOB were erroneously registerd for her when, perhaps they were registering her for both WAEC and NECO. That when the results came out and she noticed the errors, she complained and applied to correct same, but since then, the exam authorities have not corrected them. I have not come to terms with the this discovery. I think this may cause us peace, thrust and love in pur marriage.

My brothers and sisters, i think am contemplating of what action to take against her and am contemplating a divorce, but our two children are still very small for this. I want to report this issue to her family and mine. Am gradually withdrawing my trust for her.

I need matured advice and suggestions that will see me through this.

TV01:

Hi Nick,

Sorry to hear your plight. Your wife has broken trust - and in a way that could have affected the fundamentals of your decision to marry her. Please forgive her, strongly impress upon her the kind of openness and honesty you expect in your relationship, and help her work towards it by showing her you are committed to her come what may. Do not take this issue to any outside parties.

Lies & betrayal can come much worse than this - more later. She was attractive enough for you to marry and not suspect anything. Work with her to ensure she retains her youthfulness - do likewise yourself. Continue to delight in her physically. Hopefully your sexual journeys will perfectly align.

Thank you for putting your children first,but I'm actually asking you to put your wife first regardless. I sense you believe - be that Godly man.


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The basic/carnal women will lie about inter-alia;

The length, volume and even origin of her hair
The fullness and curve of her eyebrows
The plumpness and shape of her lips
The perkiness of her breasts
Her looks generally, and her height and weight
The flatness of her tummy and the narrowness of her waist
The "sticky-outiness" of her bottom
The length and leanness of her legs
Her shoe size - hence the numerous callouses and bunions
The number of lovers she has had
The number of abortions she has performed
How many children she has - if she actually tells at all
How many friends she has, how in demand she is, the men after her, her job
She'll lie about how good a person she is, how loyal, how committed and how hard-working
She'll lie about why she got divorced, why she stole her friends man

She'll lie to herself about how the lies are actually good, for the best and really a form of "attenuated truth"
She'll not only overlook, she'll actually support the lies of other women at a "group" level, for that validates and justifies her own lies (manifold examples on this thread alone)

Oga, if that's the only thing, you actually got off pretty lightly


TV

kizyalex10:
That is it with women.they can never lay accusing finger on their fellow woman.imagine the nonsense,even some women with male body,also support the woman,making the guy look stupId.plz my question goes this way,do u think a woman capable of doing such,can't do worst things?mmy man don't be surprised to wake up one day nd see another man claiming ur kids.u re nt wrong in any decision u make but alway temper justice with mercy.can give her a lifeline nd also try to monitor her closely to knw if u can see more things she have been hiding.thanks

freecocoa:
Well, I don't know how old you are now and what you've achieved, assuming you set goals for yourself using time frame.

You see, there's this need to grow with others, do things while your mates are doing it and believe me my sister, if you are lagging behind then it wouldn't be a surprise to reduce your age, hoping to give yourself more time, the society comes in because they judge you by some yardstick and age is an essential, if not the most important one they use.

So far, I've not reduced my age but who knows tomorrow?

Although, I do think one shouldn't lie to their partner but there are some lies that you just can't take back, especially if they've been there before you met him/her.

My solution for this is, if you see a person you like, no need to ask their age, just love yourselves, with the exception of women who have hit menopause o(incase he wants kids), this way, even if you find out she's older, it wouldn't matter.

nickxtra:
My marriage to my wife is facing a serious challenge, after I discovered from my wife's WAEC certificate, that the date of her birth on the result is 6 years more than what she told me and what has been in all her non academic documents, including her C.V. Actually, i have seen all her academic certificates, including her NYSC discharge certificate, but never saw her S.S.C.E and FSLC results that normally bear dates of birth. Each time i ask her for them in order to compile all the credentials for job application purposes, she would tell me that her WAEC, NECO and primary school results are in a box, with her mum in thier home town; that she would ask her mum to bring them. I gnomo her mum lager came with them for her.

Eventually, a serious sure job came for which i would need these credentials to forward to the organization. She gave me the WAEC result with the excuse that age forgot the NECO and FSLC in her current office, which she promised to bring. Lol and behold! What i saw on the WAEC result is a date of birth 6 years higher than what she told me and what is in her C.Vs.

I called her attention and she started giving me excuses that hold no water. She is saying that the same DOB were erroneously registerd for her when, perhaps they were registering her for both WAEC and NECO. That when the results came out and she noticed the errors, she complained and applied to correct same, but since then, the exam authorities have not corrected them. I have not come to terms with the this discovery. I think this may cause us peace, thrust and love in pur marriage.

My brothers and sisters, i think am contemplating of what action to take against her and am contemplating a divorce, but our two children are still very small for this. I want to report this issue to her family and mine. Am gradually withdrawing my trust for her.

I need matured advice and suggestions that will see me through this.

lawlahbammy:

The best comment so far, Take a cyberhug for this, you're a Darling.
God bless you.

pjsmart:
My own advice is this: why not believe her first, instead of just jumping into conclusion of what happened. Really it's painful to know that the one u trusted the most has been receiving u, so in order to have your peace deliberately choose to believe her then do your investigations. I know someone born in 1997 but her waec certificate says 1993. it's actually a cousin so I know her age from childhood. so it happens. but to be sure check when she wrote the waec and her new date of birth, u don't write waec at age 12