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Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by realmindz: 7:21am On Oct 04, 2016 |
ItsQuinn:Pls try deceive ur husband with age before talking of childishness... You might not be lucky to meet some1 has calm as the op who got scammed. everyone has their preferences and what they choose is not your damn business.. For a woman to deceive a man with 6 good years. That is integrity issue and it goes a long way far more than u are thinking if u are actually thinking.... #NairalandIdiots 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by realmindz: 7:26am On Oct 04, 2016 |
Develpeast:Thank you for this comment at least som1 is making sense. rly confrmed today that idiots have taken over nairaland...Legion of idiots 3 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by President99: 7:27am On Oct 04, 2016 |
Stop claiming holier than thou! Can u swear with Amadioha that in the yrs of courtship with her u never lied? Bros u. might have equally lied uncountable to girls, so stop professing saint here. 4 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Talk2CB: 7:27am On Oct 04, 2016 |
Most of the comments made against the Op is appalling and disgusting. Op was deceived into marrying an older woman and on finding out he is to be blamed for his outburst which is normal. Op...divorce is too extreme. You have every right to be angry but don't let your anger override your reaction. Shame on all those bashing the Op. Shame on you all. 4 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Gkemz: 7:28am On Oct 04, 2016 |
That's not a good reason for a divorce. Let her know that what she did was wrong and who knows how many other secrets she's still hiding from you. Maybe this one will make her begin to open up. |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Nobody: 7:30am On Oct 04, 2016 |
dollyjoy:stfu she a bloody liar. evil 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Nobody: 7:30am On Oct 04, 2016 |
So how old is she 24 to 30 or 30 or 36 |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by realmindz: 7:32am On Oct 04, 2016 |
Amelian:May our gods free u from stupidity... I don't want to belive ladies are this daft. This is Trust issue madam, address the topic and leave the personality. That people liked this comment shows idiots abound... and your type shall weep at the insincerity of our government. is this the future of nigeria? Get this into your head, this is integrity issue and it goes a long way.. he has every right to react. 6 good years ain't joke 4 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by realmindz: 7:35am On Oct 04, 2016 |
dollyjoy:what did I just read...are my eyes seeing double. ..wtf did I just read? is there anybody who understands should translate to a sane man's language 5 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by banio: 7:36am On Oct 04, 2016 |
EfemenaXY: Perfect answer. I concur 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by hylyne(m): 7:38am On Oct 04, 2016 |
dollyjoy: Please learn from this, and stop lieing about your age too. |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by phemolala07(m): 7:40am On Oct 04, 2016 |
Op r u sure of her genotype? because person way lie for age fit do anything |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by yoged(m): 7:42am On Oct 04, 2016 |
nickxtra:forgive and forget . See it as a mistakes on her part . If God can forgive us freely you should as well. I know it's hard but. Plus pray about it . What's the probability another girl you'll find won't lie to you ? |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by misjay333: 7:43am On Oct 04, 2016 |
I am not here to apportioin blame to anyone,neither you nor your wife.i have similar issue though.when I registered for my waec, I gave a correct details of my bio-data.however I was surprised when our exam number booklet was distributed before the exam, my surname was omitted,my date of birth was inaccurate,my dob was two years older than my correct age. I immediately report the issue to the school and I was asked not to worry that it will be corrected before the original result will be out. I waited patiently,only to find out that nothing was done about it.Till date I use an affidavit attached to all my documents.stating my surname and correct Dob. Atleast she should have told you about it. first time to comment |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Fawklicant: 7:44am On Oct 04, 2016 |
dollyjoy: No offense, but this an idiotic comment. As in enh, a very very stewpid one. Grow up kid! 4 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by cowmanager2000: 7:46am On Oct 04, 2016 |
In as much it was wrong for her to lie about her age ..it will be double wrong for you to divorce her base on that. You want to inform the parent?? Too wrong to do that either! 1. Just let her know what she did was wrong 2. Erase it from your memo .. and move on with your life.. That's the path of becoming a man!!! If for age you want to do this .. What will you do if you find a man on her on your bed Be a man! Be matured! 2 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Fawklicant: 7:47am On Oct 04, 2016 |
realmindz: Bros, me sef tire. Still shocked beyond words at that comment. Smh |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by banio: 7:47am On Oct 04, 2016 |
Men marry with the mind of looking out and eventually getting a divorce. Women marry to love and to live their years with their husband and children. Op please forgive your wife. |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by cyrilamx(m): 7:48am On Oct 04, 2016 |
Many forget to understand that honesty is one of the bases of marriage. In Catholic faith, once there is deceit from one party and later found out even if the marriage had been consummated, there was never a union from inception. It was all deceit. The woman lied cos she was deperate....though they have kids together, they weren't married in the eyes of God because one factor one party deceived the other into the union...if the woman has been honest with her age, and the man still went ahead with the marriage, then the man couldn't have been complaining now. There are so many things that make a supposed marriage a nullity...one of such is concealed lies. 2 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Nobody: 7:51am On Oct 04, 2016 |
dollyjoy: i can't believe I'm reading this... she got married through scamm and most of you will claim religiously religion small girl like you what did you know. 3 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Nobody: 7:58am On Oct 04, 2016 |
Ranchhoddas: o boy abeg no let this matter worry u..lots of this people here are kids let me just read some useless comments 2 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by freecocoa(f): 8:00am On Oct 04, 2016 |
Feanah:Yeah, lies in general are a turn off but I do believe some can be overlooked though, after all, we are guilty of one lie or the other. If I may ask, what would it change if you were older than he, assuming everything is going well? |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by QuietHammer(m): 8:00am On Oct 04, 2016 |
dollyjoy:So an adult male without a child is not a man. This is stupid 3 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Nobody: 8:02am On Oct 04, 2016 |
Lathunjimi:I've never written jamb in my life |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Nobody: 8:02am On Oct 04, 2016 |
queencalipso:It goes beyond what you think. It's better imagined than experienced. Instead of filing for a divorce, involving her family where he married her from will solve the problem. |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Topmaike007(m): 8:04am On Oct 04, 2016 |
Richy4:why is it that your own reply make sense alot..10000 likes 4 you |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by edbor(m): 8:07am On Oct 04, 2016 |
I broke up with my then girl because she was older than me with months, honestly 6years reduction in age?. . .what if she is now older? All those saying age is just a number "why is there a difference between 6 and half a dozen"? , to hell with you. .everyone is different Also, there is what is called trust. . .man I can't take it. But since OP has children, he has to take it and forgive her. 3 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Ranchhoddas: 8:08am On Oct 04, 2016 |
realmindz:Hahahaha. I can tell you that over 70% of Nigerian youths are certified morons. 3 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by manikspears: 8:08am On Oct 04, 2016 |
A creature that fails to accept destiny will accept despair. You are married already with kids accept that as your destiny. Embrace it ,age is just a number. If she didn't look too old for you before you went to toast her or got to know her actual age, bro enjoy your life. |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Aringon(m): 8:09am On Oct 04, 2016 |
nickxtra: Do you love her dearly? Then let your love for her cover such wrong and move on with your marriage because age is just a number |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by agesron(f): 8:12am On Oct 04, 2016 |
God bless u sir. Richy4: |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Nobody: 8:13am On Oct 04, 2016 |
I was shocked when I saw the first 7 or 6 comments blaming the man. I even thought probably I didn't read the story well but no I did. see leaders of tomorrow who can't even make a sound judgement, our future is already in shamble. damn 6 Likes |
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