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My Girlfriend Confesses How Her Ex Force Sexed Her. / She Cheated With Her 'Cousin'. I'm Finding It Hard To Forgive Her / Should I Forgive Her Again (2) (3) (4)
Re: If Your Girlfriend Confesses She Slept With Another Man – Will You Forgive Her? by kaycodes: 6:37am On Oct 16, 2016 |
WackyJ1: Bros I had absolute trust in her, I was her first, if you know what I mean. She was the perfect definition of decent and homely. No, she did it with a guy she barely knew, who her friend introduced to her while I was away serving my father's land. Worse was that she did it on our 5th year of dating. I just couldn't understand how she held out that long only to get influenced by her friend. After she told me, I could tell she was very sorry for her actions and she knew it was a mistake, she practically confessed to all my friends who she knew could talk to me but I just couldn't take it. Problem was, I was the one woman at a time kinda guy back then. Anyways like I tell all present ladies in my life, if you do the crime, better die with the guilt and don't tell me, I don't want no mother confessor. Only problem is, I can't seem to trust any beautiful or ugly girl for that matter anymore. The ex thing was what I learnt from further experience in the school of dating. After Exes, fear her friends too, especially the close ones they can make or Mar your relationship. 2 Likes |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Confesses She Slept With Another Man – Will You Forgive Her? by kaycodes: 6:39am On Oct 16, 2016 |
sheyizy1: Problem is there is no better candidate, it's just a matter of time, chance, and circumstances. |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Confesses She Slept With Another Man – Will You Forgive Her? by Felixtuta(m): 6:41am On Oct 16, 2016 |
I have already, and will still forgive if need be. Reasons, no one is perfect, not you not me. |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Confesses She Slept With Another Man – Will You Forgive Her? by kaycodes: 6:48am On Oct 16, 2016 |
Yewandequeen: On the contrary, I am more inclined to forgive my wife especially if there are kids involved, although it will take time and therapy. However, if gf does it, that will be the end of whatever I feel for her, but out of decency I'll end the relationship, rather than keep her to satisfy my urges... |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Confesses She Slept With Another Man – Will You Forgive Her? by WackyJ1(m): 7:07am On Oct 16, 2016 |
kaycodes: Mehn Same thing happened to me. You even had used the same phrase, A guy she "barely knew" Mine is still as recent as Aug 28th. She didn't sound remorseful. So I stopped calling. She has called twice to try to form talk with me by asking obviously stupid questions. Did she tell you whether she enjoyed it or not because that's what I tried to find out. (To know the likelihood of her doing it again) And how long did she know the guy for it to qualify as barely knew? 5 years is a long time to have had to let go of. Do you guys still talk? |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Confesses She Slept With Another Man – Will You Forgive Her? by remedick: 7:38am On Oct 16, 2016 |
adepeter26:As much as I appreciate your "gentleman-ess" In their book, you are a weakling. She did that because she knows you will do NOTHING. You insulted yourself bro, you insulted the man in you. 1 Like |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Confesses She Slept With Another Man – Will You Forgive Her? by remedick: 7:40am On Oct 16, 2016 |
Yewandequeen:so it is good for her to cheat because she is a girlfriend eh? what happened to charity begins at home and a journey of a million miles begin with a step? |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Confesses She Slept With Another Man – Will You Forgive Her? by olac21(m): 7:56am On Oct 16, 2016 |
prela:Pardon my curiosity miss.. are you alright? 1 Like |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Confesses She Slept With Another Man – Will You Forgive Her? by remedick: 8:00am On Oct 16, 2016 |
kaycodes:My first heart break happened because of same reason--friend influence. Most girls lost their virginity because of this same influence lol. |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Confesses She Slept With Another Man – Will You Forgive Her? by Yewandequeen(f): 8:39am On Oct 16, 2016 |
kaycodes: Yea ure right. |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Confesses She Slept With Another Man – Will You Forgive Her? by Yewandequeen(f): 8:42am On Oct 16, 2016 |
remedick: I Didn't say that oooo. For me, seeing into in the perspective of a guy. I will forgive but will use and dump her. Chikena. #no love for unfaithful babes |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Confesses She Slept With Another Man – Will You Forgive Her? by Youngpo413: 11:19am On Oct 16, 2016 |
mrsefan:I won't be surprised since ladies are always not faithful, even without confessing, I know another guy somewhere is also pounding that pusy...... Three or more guys sef, no be naija we dey. The most unfaithful worldwide. |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Confesses She Slept With Another Man – Will You Forgive Her? by prela(f): 1:24pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
olac21:I'm perfectly ok hope nothing? why do you ask please |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Confesses She Slept With Another Man – Will You Forgive Her? by kaycodes: 1:46pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
WackyJ1: She met the guy in a different school, and the next time they saw about a month later she DID IT. She denied enjoying it claiming the dude forced her, but the whole story she told me was simply a matter of the guy being sharp, and she being willing case closed. Yes, 5 years is a lot to let go of, but I value my sanity, and if I can't trust her, I cannot love her. Well, we don't talk the last time I heard from her was when she was about getting married last year. Funny thing was that when she was about getting married everyone was surprised I wasn't the one, and when her sister asked her what happened, she made up some story that my mother was the cause. Only me and her elder brother really knew what went down. Only God can save someone from a cheating gf. After her I can't even hold a relationship for 3 months, once the fire dies down I am already looking for a way to RUN. |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Confesses She Slept With Another Man – Will You Forgive Her? by Senipapa(m): 2:02pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
End the fucking relationship. What's the point of moving on and forgiving what cannot be forgotten. |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Confesses She Slept With Another Man – Will You Forgive Her? by bonfreregong: 2:07pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
It's all game,che #proudly Yoruba Demon. |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Confesses She Slept With Another Man – Will You Forgive Her? by harffie(m): 2:09pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
Yewandequeen:
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Re: If Your Girlfriend Confesses She Slept With Another Man – Will You Forgive Her? by kaycodes: 3:48pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
Thread reopened |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Confesses She Slept With Another Man – Will You Forgive Her? by WackyJ1(m): 4:37pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
kaycodes: Smh Girls. I can Imagine your disappointment kaycodes: Bruh. You guys didn't talk for a long time. |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Confesses She Slept With Another Man – Will You Forgive Her? by Nobody: 9:24pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
kaycodes:That jst it. I dont trust exes. Tho in the past now sha |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Confesses She Slept With Another Man – Will You Forgive Her? by Nobody: 9:25pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
remedick:You're right bro. I learnt later how to treat ladies like her. She took my meekness for granted. |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Confesses She Slept With Another Man – Will You Forgive Her? by remedick: 9:48pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
adepeter26:They always do. My own ex did same thing for same reason. |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Confesses She Slept With Another Man – Will You Forgive Her? by WackyJ1(m): 10:56pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
adepeter26: And how did you end up treating her? Did the treatment make her stop keeping in contact with her ex? |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Confesses She Slept With Another Man – Will You Forgive Her? by Nobody: 8:42am On Oct 17, 2016 |
WackyJ1:I didn't do much but they say silence is the best ans. I cut my calls. I never called her anymore and also stopped giving her attention. That was how her brain got restored to default |
Re: If Your Girlfriend Confesses She Slept With Another Man – Will You Forgive Her? by Nobody: 6:52pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
firstking01:friends who moving in the direction i want to move or those who are already there. |
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