Your number 5 is very correct for my type of guy . If ua girl say no to me I will assume she hate me ,even if u later say yes ,definitely after sexxxx I will dumb your sorry ass

They will never hear word.

dollyjoy:
I don't know what op means by "ladies should stop over forming " but one thing i know is, I'd always "think about it" even if i know the answer already.

Lol, but think fast o!

Hmmmm. I hear u

Nwanne,girls mata taya me no be small


If at first attempt i try to talk to u nd u act like u no dey shiiit,forming unneccessary,,ahswerugod ama ignore u when next we see..i knw other guys will stick to u,but not my type

LadyAimy:
You want ladies to accept anyone that comes their way cos they are getting old. No make me laugh abeg

I sentence this thread to Nl dump!

Taaa!

Khd95:
Nwanne,girls mata taya me no be small


If at first attempt i try to talk to u nd u act like u no dey shiiit,forming unneccessary,,ahswerugod ama ignore u when next we see..i knw other guys will stick to u,but not my type

The best thing

Frankraj:
Your number 5 is very correct for my type of guy . If ua girl say no to me I will assume she hate me ,even if u later say yes ,definitely after sexxxx I will dumb your sorry ass

I wish they can see this...

Nickymezor:
Hmmmm. I hear u

Yes dearie

This op brain dey pain am. Ahswearr..

ChemicalReaction:
This op brain dey pain am. Ahswearr..

Lols...seriously

emusmithy:


Lols...seriously

yhh.. seriously. Oya lemme woo you and observe your reaction..

ChemicalReaction:
yhh.. seriously. Oya lemme woo you and observe your reaction..

I'm all ears...

emusmithy:

I'm all ears...

Lol. Biko not on NL. Cuman carry ursef and be goin.

ChemicalReaction:
Lol. Biko not on NL. Cuman carry ursef and be goin.

lol...ok. I'll message you na, shuu!

emusmithy:
lol...ok. I'll message you na, shuu!

Drop ur email address instead, I'll message you. The email I used in creating this NL account isn't working.

ChemicalReaction:
Drop ur email address instead, I'll message you. The email I used in creating this NL account isn't working.

bbm?

emusmithy:
bbm?

Email.

ChemicalReaction:
Email.

lol ok

emu.smithy@yahoo.com

if a girl accept to date me so fast, i tag her cheap, she will loose her value so fast in my sight, so i prefer the tough girls but not too tough tho...

KissChrix:
Lol.... Let them continue forming


We shall meet at shiloh 2030

Lol

emusmithy:

Oftentimes, when a girl is approached she begins to dramatize same old line.
I don't think there is need for that anymore.
I'm supporting the motion that ladies should stop giving fake green lights; they should start blasting white halogen lamps. In other words, if you truly truly love a guy and see him as a potential mate, get close to him and act it out. If he is who you think he is; mature, he will welcome the idea. What happens when he turns you down? Nothing happens.

Seven Reasons Ladies Shouldn't Be Over-Forming.

1. That guy also has admirers

You've been telling him to hold on a bit for months now and you think he's a fool. Who knows if you're preparing a day to break his heart after many weeks of waiting? He loves you BUT many girls abound who would kill to get him. He is pushing them away but you ain't being reasonable. You are pushing him away by your attitude. If he gives in to one of those chicks now, you'll start talking. Stop over-forming!

2. Marriage has enough stress on its own

You form go here and go there; what exactly do you want? There is a lot in marriage already, if you are ripe for marriage, as oliviaarims told me today, "Get Married Already." You can't learn all about guys in a year. Among all your numerous boyfriends, pick one who loves you and respect your most core values. Stop dancing that you're in a relationship; its a cheapest place to get to. Stop stressing him out; stop dramatizing; stop over-forming; stop wishing he were on your bed at night when you bullshitted him by day.

3. You also have weaknesses.

So you have weaknesses too and you're forming posh! You're not so pretty and you're insulting guys who approached you? Your legs are kinda- K and you detest guys with same? Haba! Stop over-forming unless you're suffering from complex.

4. You're not getting any younger.

Time is of the essence, sisie.
Some girls won't accept to marry a gentle and loving man who earns lesser than 100k. There are many families with 3 kids whose parents live happily with lesser income. The number of guys only you have looked upon and blocked on Facebook pass 50, just this year alone. Now your prayer request remains the same in Shiloh 2016. Smh!

5. The "Main Guy" may not be a persistent pursuer.

I dunno the content of the 'Girl's code' but seriously, you telling a guy, NO the first time may kill his enthusiasm forever. Not all guys are persevering. Not all guys are into ladies. Some are actually shy and reserved! Not every time you make him toast you and when he does, you open wide your mouth and say, No. Okay...

6. Over-forming breeds high expectation which if not met, leads to frustration and disappointment.

Imagine the disappointment on a guy's face after thinking his girl was a virgin, then after marriage he discovers she had a borehole underneath. Be real girl. Tell your guy what your past was like. If that's not True Love, what then is it?

7. You could be assisting your "village gods" in delaying your marriage.

Don't laugh o . It might be true. Like someone once tweeted, "The spirit that tells you to block a guy who's harmlessly asking you out is the spirit of delayed marriage."

She that has ears, let her hear. .

As for me, I'm out!

number 2 and 4 though...... So op we should marry anyone that asks huh

Nma27:
number 2 and 4 though...... So op we should marry anyone that asks huh

Overforming is bad! Don't you know?

emusmithy:


Overforming is bad! Don't you know?

That she doesn't dig u doesn't mean that she's forming na

Nma27:
That she doesn't dig u doesn't mean that she's forming na

You are taking it personal...

emusmithy:


You are taking it personal...

naaa

[color=#000099][/color]Herlyne Thats the problem with you people. If she finished the thing now, you people would run your mouth that she's a glutton, no wonder she's so fat.

It's not forming, it's precaution







Precaution u said ma'am? Do u guys (ladies) knws wat it takes a guy to build up d feelings? den u are telling us abt protecting yrself frm danger make I hear word joor una too form dats d Gospel truth.

One minute, Nigerian girls are cheap, the next minute, they too form.

OP, while some of your points are valid, some are not.

Using age to threaten a lady into marriage is bad. It's responsible for the desperation of most ladies when it comes to marriage and why some end up with a beast. If she's not married at 40, it's wrong to assume that it's because she was forming away during her prime.

I don't support insulting a guy because he's physically flawed. But then, for any love relationship to boom, there must be physical attraction. And the fact that I'm not pretty or flawed as well does not mean I have to settle for what I'm not attracted to. We all have our spec.

I'm however of the school of thought that if you like him, don't waste the valuable time you could use in building the relationship on playing hard to get. The way you present yourself in the relationship is enough for him to respect or disrespect you.

Lastly, marriage is not a do or die affair. There are people whom if left alone, are comfortable being alone but our society pushed them into matrimonies that turn out well for some and other, not so good.

Beamborla:
One minute, Nigerian girls are cheap, the next minute, they too form.

OP, while some of your points are valid, some are not.

Using age to threaten a lady into marriage is bad. It's responsible for the desperation of most ladies when it comes to marriage and why some end up with a beast. If she's not married at 40, it's wrong to assume that it's because she was forming away during her prime.

I don't support insulting a guy because he's physically flawed. But then, for any love relationship to boom, there must be physical attraction. And the fact that I'm not pretty or flawed as well does not mean I have to settle for what I'm not attracted to. We all have our spec.

I'm however of the school of thought that if you like him, don't waste the valuable time you could use in building the relationship on playing hard to get. The way you present yourself in the relationship is enough for him to respect or disrespect you.

Lastly, marriage is not a do or die affair. There are people whom if left alone, are comfortable being alone but our society pushed them into matrimonies that turn out well for some and other, not so good.

About the cheap part, I never said so.


My point: Over-Forming? It's not necessary. If you read the thread very well you'll notice I was referring to a guy and a girl who are acquainted with each other.

Forming is different from Over-forming.
Carrying yourself with dignity IS NOT over forming.

Over forming is doing all possible to make a guy think you've got something even when you don't have such.

emusmithy:

Overforming is bad! Don't you know?

I know. Oya reply my pm jorr.

emusmithy:


About the cheap part, I never said so.


My point: Over-Forming? It's not necessary. If you read the thread very well you'll notice I was referring to a guy and a girl who are acquainted with each other.

Forming is different from Over-forming.
Carrying yourself with dignity IS NOT over forming.

Over forming is doing all possible to make a guy think you've got something even when you don't have such.

Dear, to me the thread is far from referring to people who are already acquainted. It's only point number 1&2 that is 100% inline with those who are already acquainted.

Beamborla:

Dear, to me the thread is far from referring to people who are already acquainted. It's only point number 1&2 that is 100% inline with those who are already acquainted.

Lemmie try to explain the points as was in my mind ...

3: She knows him and knows he likes her; they've been out a couple of times. Probably seem each other. She just wouldn't accept xoz of the guy's weaknesses (If you so hate that part of him, drive him, push him away...run away... Dont still hang around for money and sex.) She loves everyyother thing except that weakness. Is that what you call 'not my spec?' Don't you also have weaknesses? Marriage is made up of two weak people coming together to build a strong bond/family. Lets accept the fact. Some ladies have weaknesses they've been hiding too; eg, one boob is bigger than the other. Maturity overlooks all those physically stuff and really go for what actually matters. WHAT IS KUKU MY BUSINESS? AM I THE ONE BACHELORETTING FOR HER? LET HER WAIT FOR HER PERFECT MAN!

4. You're not getting any younger AND the reply, marriage isn't a must for everyone. I didn't say it was. I'm only speaking the minds of most of their mums. Besides, their minds too even if they hate to hear someone else say it.

5. Him being not a persistent pursuer; For example You, Abimbola. I know you offline. If after years we've known a bit of ourselves. I miss you, you rreciprocate. We're both not in relationships. I'm not a persistent pursuer...I ask you out on a serious note. You start playing me 10-10. Hmm, I feel somehow and heed to Jessica's call who's been asking me out. I marry her. You start saying, I broke your heart. I'll say, You were simply forming but to me, it's Overforming coz I'm not that pushy in women matters.

Bla bla bla...work calls. Ttyl. You dey make me talk o