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Re: After Series Of Heart Break, I Am Confused by bobbybrown007: 10:37pm On Dec 05, 2016
prettyboi1989:
b4 u tink of relationships first ask ur sef "u don chop"? if no is the answer go get a job, live a fulfilled life and u'll meet the man u trully want.
O boi no man is an island
Re: After Series Of Heart Break, I Am Confused by paradigmshift(m): 10:38pm On Dec 05, 2016
heart break ain't in my dictionary... that's how we roll
Re: After Series Of Heart Break, I Am Confused by Nobody: 10:38pm On Dec 05, 2016
Broadsway:
tnx so so much


You are welcome dear smiley
Have been there before. Exactly the way u feel, so I know the remedy smiley
Have fun and be happy kiss

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Re: After Series Of Heart Break, I Am Confused by Lekozy(m): 10:39pm On Dec 05, 2016
Broadsway:
My name is Broadsway and this is a summary of my relationship life, please do read and give me a tangible advice. Tnx

I started dating In senior sec sch to a guy I loved and who never loved me back but only dated my cos of my popularity and the attention I gave him, breaking up with him I dated another guy just to forget the first guy and also hoping this wud be better but it didn't turn out well, he tried wooing my girlfrnd by insulting me, I confronted him, he apologized but I couldn't stay with him, I just zereod my mind off him even though he showed he was sorry. Some times later like 3yrs after met another guy but it didn't last, this last one was the most terrible but I wud ignore it cos it brings tears to my eyes.

So right now after 5yrs from my second relationship and days of training myself to avoid relationships and just be friends with guys, I find myself with people that love me and wud want to spend their life with me, but I can't reciprocate the love any longer, I feel like I am deceiving them, I like dem, even one has stayed with me through all my pains and lafta and also there is the guy who is the second guy who wooed my friend still asking for a second chance and a lovely guy dah I met recently who i see as an angel and lastly there is a guy who has spread my qualities to all his fam members and frnds and I know he loves me dearly.

My main reason for writing this is to know if its possible to make my heart love again and if it can which one of these four guys shud I stay with? Well to me I believe if a girl loved a guy befr it has hard or nearly impossible to love another guy...my dear guys who are serious or playing ...we can't know but if the ryt one comes it will surely be perfect nd u will love it.....tanks

Tnx
Re: After Series Of Heart Break, I Am Confused by ambs50: 10:39pm On Dec 05, 2016
I cn imagine ur pain. Bt my advice is just be optimistic nd dnt becloud your minds with d notion dat u may have anoda issue.
An adage in yoruba says- if we close our eyes because of bad people, we won't know wen d good ones will pass (interpreted).
Just giv d genuine one(s) a try bt dnt be carried away by d love therein at first.
NB: u seem to be highly emotional

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Re: After Series Of Heart Break, I Am Confused by bobbybrown007: 10:39pm On Dec 05, 2016
Draei:

As long as you table down time to get to
know more & more abt them. You should be
able to see who is who & also along the way,
some of them might change/give-up...
don't let her pick stones oooooo
Re: After Series Of Heart Break, I Am Confused by Nobody: 10:40pm On Dec 05, 2016
bobbybrown007:
O boi no man is an island
na persin wey don chop dey reason relationship o

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Re: After Series Of Heart Break, I Am Confused by samuelson06(m): 10:40pm On Dec 05, 2016
Go and make peace with the past guys then PM me for more counsels, other than that, I have nothing to say. You don't just work out of a relationship because you feel hurt else the abandoned relationship would hunt you.

Cc: broadsway
Re: After Series Of Heart Break, I Am Confused by bobbybrown007: 10:41pm On Dec 05, 2016
ambs50:
I cn imagine ur pain. Bt my advice is just be optimistic nd dnt becloud your minds with d notion dat u may have anoda issue.
An adage in yoruba says- if we close our eyes because of bad people, we won't know wen d good ones will pass (interpreted).
Just giv d genuine one(s) a try bt dnt be carried away by d love therein at first.
NB: u seem to be highly emotional
just go to the nearest woman dere and collect one bottle
Re: After Series Of Heart Break, I Am Confused by VictorRomanov: 10:41pm On Dec 05, 2016
Broadsway:
I don't think so, cos I really do want a beautiful relationship...
Most times I fantasize about it...
I really do need help cos I don't think I want to go through a hrt break again, I'm really scared.
I didn't want to bring this here but I had to, even as I type I'm in tears wondering y my relationship life is upside down and if I wud ever have a lovely relationship cry


The problem is ur fantasies. U think and believe that a relationship will be all rosy like in the movies. The stress of daily living doesn't allow for that. However relationship can be enjoyed, only if you know how to find a good partner:

1. Define your relationship: know why u re going into one. It is with marriage in mind, or just for fun. Also ask ur would be partner what they want from the relationship. It's good u re on the same page to avoid heart break.

2. Do not go all out with your emotions. Learn to hold back and observe. True love is not base on how u feel or on what u see, but on what you know about the person. So learn about the person and ur love for who he is will grow.

3. Think about what u bring to a relationship and not just what u can get. A man will not readily leave if he counts u as an asset to his life. If u re just there like a trophy to be shown off, he will want to win another title and add to his trophy carbinet.

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Re: After Series Of Heart Break, I Am Confused by bobbybrown007: 10:42pm On Dec 05, 2016
samuelson06:
Go and make peace with the past guys then PM me for more counsels, other than that, I have nothing to say.
not only peace but anty peace
Re: After Series Of Heart Break, I Am Confused by Johnsown1(m): 10:42pm On Dec 05, 2016
U will still find love for sure,just don't behave so godly and treat everyman with respect. Just give ur self chance to love again with the right person
Re: After Series Of Heart Break, I Am Confused by Sotenna(m): 10:44pm On Dec 05, 2016
Broadsway, upload your DP I need to see you before I start talking. I've got my reasons.

Quote me when you do.
Re: After Series Of Heart Break, I Am Confused by Coldfeets: 10:45pm On Dec 05, 2016
Sometimes, I wonder...

How does it feel like to have a heartbreak?

Why can't I just experience this heartbreak so many people are talking about?

Could it be because I have a stone in place of a heart?

Yeah, more like it!
Re: After Series Of Heart Break, I Am Confused by samuelson06(m): 10:48pm On Dec 05, 2016
bobbybrown007:
not only peace but anty peace

You talk because you don't understand life.
Re: After Series Of Heart Break, I Am Confused by nicedaddy(m): 10:48pm On Dec 05, 2016
Contact me on whatsapp and let's talk about it and give you some advice. Here is my whatsapp number. 08149922488.
Broadsway:
My name is Broadsway and this is a summary of my relationship life, please do read and give me a tangible advice. Tnx

I started dating In senior sec sch to a guy I loved and who never loved me back but only dated my cos of my popularity and the attention I gave him, breaking up with him I dated another guy just to forget the first guy and also hoping this wud be better but it didn't turn out well, he tried wooing my girlfrnd by insulting me, I confronted him, he apologized but I couldn't stay with him, I just zereod my mind off him even though he showed he was sorry. Some times later like 3yrs after met another guy but it didn't last, this last one was the most terrible but I wud ignore it cos it brings tears to my eyes.

So right now after 5yrs from my second relationship and days of training myself to avoid relationships and just be friends with guys, I find myself with people that love me and wud want to spend their life with me, but I can't reciprocate the love any longer, I feel like I am deceiving them, I like dem, even one has stayed with me through all my pains and lafta and also there is the guy who is the second guy who wooed my friend still asking for a second chance and a lovely guy dah I met recently who i see as an angel and lastly there is a guy who has spread my qualities to all his fam members and frnds and I know he loves me dearly.

My main reason for writing this is to know if its possible to make my heart love again and if it can which one of these four guys shud I stay with?

Tnx
Re: After Series Of Heart Break, I Am Confused by odrims: 10:49pm On Dec 05, 2016
I posted this...dunno if it delivered.... I'd post it again....I have a friend who was hurt some months ago owing to the fact that she liked a guy but the guy did not like her ...she later saw me as a potential "candidate " cos she was upset about the whole thing .....but rather than telling her lies and be "bleeping" her , I told her to take off her mind from the matter...she did that..got a new job at a bank and now she's having an awesome experience with people around her in the industry she's working now...so am sure you'd be fine too.
Re: After Series Of Heart Break, I Am Confused by ims80s(m): 10:50pm On Dec 05, 2016
what is this one saying Yes you can love again but for now stay away from relationships divert your energy and time on something meaningful.[/quote]
Re: After Series Of Heart Break, I Am Confused by wristbangle: 10:51pm On Dec 05, 2016
Broadsway, what exactly do you want?
Re: After Series Of Heart Break, I Am Confused by bobbybrown007: 10:56pm On Dec 05, 2016
samuelson06:


You talk because you don't understand life.
common, don't say such thing. What do you even no about life? Have you ever been rejected before all because of love?
Re: After Series Of Heart Break, I Am Confused by Nobody: 10:57pm On Dec 05, 2016
E be like recession no dey blow reach these babes lipsrsealed
Re: After Series Of Heart Break, I Am Confused by Lucasinho(m): 10:59pm On Dec 05, 2016
U are far 4rm ur creator....datz why it looks to U that U r struggling on relationship Matter...

James 4:8 New King James Version (NKJV)

Draw near to God and He will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners; and purify your
hearts, you double-minded.
Re: After Series Of Heart Break, I Am Confused by funkyibodude(m): 10:59pm On Dec 05, 2016
Broadsway:
My name is Broadsway and this is a summary of my relationship life, please do read and give me a tangible advice. Tnx

I started dating In senior sec sch to a guy I loved and who never loved me back but only dated my cos of my popularity and the attention I gave him, breaking up with him I dated another guy just to forget the first guy and also hoping this wud be better but it didn't turn out well, he tried wooing my girlfrnd by insulting me, I confronted him, he apologized but I couldn't stay with him, I just zereod my mind off him even though he showed he was sorry. Some times later like 3yrs after met another guy but it didn't last, this last one was the most terrible but I wud ignore it cos it brings tears to my eyes.

So right now after 5yrs from my second relationship and days of training myself to avoid relationships and just be friends with guys, I find myself with people that love me and wud want to spend their life with me, but I can't reciprocate the love any longer, I feel like I am deceiving them, I like dem, even one has stayed with me through all my pains and lafta and also there is the guy who is the second guy who wooed my friend still asking for a second chance and a lovely guy dah I met recently who i see as an angel and lastly there is a guy who has spread my qualities to all his fam members and frnds and I know he loves me dearly.

My main reason for writing this is to know if its possible to make my heart love again and if it can which one of these four guys shud I stay with?

Tnx
I have one question for you are u a medical student?
Re: After Series Of Heart Break, I Am Confused by Slimpotter(m): 11:06pm On Dec 05, 2016
The fact is dat gals pick d wrong guys even with obvious reasons showing he's not worth it.... To prevent dis,tink logically next tym rather than feel emotionally

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Re: After Series Of Heart Break, I Am Confused by heayernu56(m): 11:12pm On Dec 05, 2016
Broadsway:
My name is Broadsway and this is a summary of my relationship life, please do read and give me a tangible advice. Tnx

I started dating In senior sec sch to a guy I loved and who never loved me back but only dated my cos of my popularity and the attention I gave him, breaking up with him I dated another guy just to forget the first guy and also hoping this wud be better but it didn't turn out well, he tried wooing my girlfrnd by insulting me, I confronted him, he apologized but I couldn't stay with him, I just zereod my mind off him even though he showed he was sorry. Some times later like 3yrs after met another guy but it didn't last, this last one was the most terrible but I wud ignore it cos it brings tears to my eyes.

So right now after 5yrs from my second relationship and days of training myself to avoid relationships and just be friends with guys, I find myself with people that love me and wud want to spend their life with me, but I can't reciprocate the love any longer, I feel like I am deceiving them, I like dem, even one has stayed with me through all my pains and lafta and also there is the guy who is the second guy who wooed my friend still asking for a second chance and a lovely guy dah I met recently who i see as an angel and lastly there is a guy who has spread my qualities to all his fam members and frnds and I know he loves me dearly.

My main reason for writing this is to know if its possible to make my heart love again and if it can which one of these four guys shud I stay with?

Tnx
1. asking fellow nairalanders who should stay with is so uncalled for... study them a little more only you can know them better

2. I already had 37 different heartbreaks yet it has not stopped me from loving, just that wherever my heart goes my brain must follow

...hope you get things right

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Re: After Series Of Heart Break, I Am Confused by goingape1: 11:13pm On Dec 05, 2016
Broadsway:
My name is Broadsway and this is a summary of my relationship life, please do read and give me a tangible advice. Tnx

I started dating In senior sec sch to a guy I loved and who never loved me back but only dated my cos of my popularity and the attention I gave him, breaking up with him I dated another guy just to forget the first guy and also hoping this wud be better but it didn't turn out well, he tried wooing my girlfrnd by insulting me, I confronted him, he apologized but I couldn't stay with him, I just zereod my mind off him even though he showed he was sorry. Some times later like 3yrs after met another guy but it didn't last, this last one was the most terrible but I wud ignore it cos it brings tears to my eyes.

So right now after 5yrs from my second relationship and days of training myself to avoid relationships and just be friends with guys, I find myself with people that love me and wud want to spend their life with me, but I can't reciprocate the love any longer, I feel like I am deceiving them, I like dem, even one has stayed with me through all my pains and lafta and also there is the guy who is the second guy who wooed my friend still asking for a second chance and a lovely guy dah I met recently who i see as an angel and lastly there is a guy who has spread my qualities to all his fam members and frnds and I know he loves me dearly.

My main reason for writing this is to know if its possible to make my heart love again and if it can which one of these four guys shud I stay with?

Tnx
wait make you enter 33 and above when nobody dey come smell your side, your body go tell you undecided


now you have numerous choice coming your way but you yourself are feeling proud or rather stupidity.






THE PROBLEM WITH GORILLAS IS THAT THEY DONT THINK.
Re: After Series Of Heart Break, I Am Confused by calabardick(m): 11:17pm On Dec 05, 2016
desquad:
you can ask me again undecided,,, come lemme finish your heart completely tongue


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Operation break and scatter

Re: After Series Of Heart Break, I Am Confused by kinibigdeal(m): 11:18pm On Dec 05, 2016
The world is coming to an end. How many minute do you take to read your bible or Quran? All you need now is God not man
Re: After Series Of Heart Break, I Am Confused by calabardick(m): 11:20pm On Dec 05, 2016
goingape1:
wait make you enter 33 and above when nobody dey come smell your side, your body go tell you undecided


now you have numerous choice coming your way but you yourself are feeling proud or rather stupidity.

THE PROBLEM WITH GORILLAS IS THAT THEY DONT THINK.

It's stupidity, I wonder why all these citizens of cucumber republic reasons with their pvssy

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Re: After Series Of Heart Break, I Am Confused by ibietela2(m): 11:20pm On Dec 05, 2016
Broadsway:
I don't think so, cos I really do want a beautiful relationship...
Most times I fantasize about it...
I really do need help cos I don't think I want to go through a hrt break again, I'm really scared.
I didn't want to bring this here but I had to, even as I type I'm in tears wondering y my relationship life is upside down and if I wud ever have a lovely relationship cry

Eh-yah kpele
Re: After Series Of Heart Break, I Am Confused by TheRealestGuy(m): 11:21pm On Dec 05, 2016
VictorRomanov:



The problem is ur fantasies. U think and believe that a relationship will be all rosy like in the movies. The stress of daily living doesn't allow for that. However relationship can be enjoyed, only if you know how to find a good partner:

1. Define your relationship: know why u re going into one. It is with marriage in mind, or just for fun. Also ask ur would be partner what they want from the relationship. It's good u re on the same page to avoid heart break.

2. Do not go all out with your emotions. Learn to hold back and observe. True love is not base on how u feel or on what u see, but on what you know about the person. So learn about the person and ur love for who he is will grow.

3. Think about what u bring to a relationship and not just what u can get. A man will not readily leave if he counts u as an asset to his life. If u re just there like a trophy to be shown off, he will want to win another title and add to his trophy carbinet.

Dear broadsway,

This op has said it all...

And when these three conditions are met, let go of your fears...

Your main challenge here is the fear of having another bad relationship.

Observe these three things stated here and then don't let your feat get the better of you, afterall, whatever is worth doing is worth giving it one's all, including going into a relationship.

Remember, courage is not the absence of fear, but victory over fear.

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