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Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Has Finally Charmed Him, Help Me Ooo by fkdmods: 7:59pm On Dec 29, 2016
ikombe:
Na dem be dis undecided


Op dey fear dis set of people undecided

Na you dem suppose to de fear pass. Why una be like this na? So, if someone come tell you say dem jazz am na so you go open your mouth de talk nonsense. Na people like you de go the so called babalawo house. Upon all the useless jazz wey una believe in, how that one take improve una lives? When it comes to bad thing na jazz, but when una de look for development una go run towards science. Can't you people think like normal people for God's sake?

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Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Has Finally Charmed Him, Help Me Ooo by okowande(f): 8:00pm On Dec 29, 2016
From what i see you n your sibling were brought up with love and unity. And that is while even aftr ur folk's death you were able to leave togerther until an intruder( permit me to use the word) came in. All you need to do is to dialogue with you bro. Let him know how you feel, ur observation & plz be blunt. Secondly, try and make the girl your friend too plz, this will enable you to study her more including your sistr too. Dnt let things get out of hand before you resolve this issue. Your brother might be carried away with passion right now but you can make him to see your point. Otherwise she might come and set confusion nto your family and disunite you people!
Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Has Finally Charmed Him, Help Me Ooo by hardewalleh(m): 8:02pm On Dec 29, 2016
2shur:
and you think nairaland can solve the problem.
whu dont yoy move out
be a man
get an apartment and be independent bro.
mature

He is a kid grin
2shur:
and you think nairaland can solve the problem.
whu dont yoy move out
be a man
get an apartment and be independent bro.
mature

He is a kid

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Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Has Finally Charmed Him, Help Me Ooo by Nobody: 8:02pm On Dec 29, 2016
Believe me, that your broda na fool... To buy common "girlfriend" infinix zero 4 for this recession... na confam jazz that gal use .. if u think i dey yarn BS enta Konga first.
Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Has Finally Charmed Him, Help Me Ooo by bigerboy200: 8:02pm On Dec 29, 2016
She has washed kpekus inside efo riro for ur broda to chop...sorry...Just bone the situation and roll along no matter how bitter u feel...
Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Has Finally Charmed Him, Help Me Ooo by Bukybabe(f): 8:03pm On Dec 29, 2016
Since you can't pack out of the house and he is your elder brother I will suggest you live with the present situation..adjust some things...like if you don't like her food,don't eat...if you feel na charm...mind your business till your bro learns the hard way..Leave them ooo.Before your brother will push you out when his girl reports you...

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Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Has Finally Charmed Him, Help Me Ooo by Tjohnnay: 8:04pm On Dec 29, 2016
Odi egwu

Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Has Finally Charmed Him, Help Me Ooo by NosaHenry(m): 8:04pm On Dec 29, 2016
From your account alone, i do not see where the lady is at fault here. She cooks which is a pass mark although unfortunately do not like the kind of soup on a particular instance, but certainly not her fault. If your brother chose to buy her the moon how is that a problem if he can afford it. If you have a need why not just approach him?
I think you and your sister need to go out and look for partners instead of over focusing on your brother's relationship and allowing petty jealousy to blur your sense of judgement.

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Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Has Finally Charmed Him, Help Me Ooo by IamLEGEND1: 8:05pm On Dec 29, 2016
DancingSkeleton:
he said touchpad not screen dumbo
Touchpad.
shey na wetin you wan see be that.
he can't afford a touchpad.

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Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Has Finally Charmed Him, Help Me Ooo by chiraqDemon(m): 8:05pm On Dec 29, 2016
Ao u dont like her because she does not want to come and be ur housegirl to be sweeping floor for u because she stayed over
Or is it because ur bro ate her food which he previously didnt like
Free the guy stop acting like he will marry u
If the girl later fail am na him go know grin

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Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Has Finally Charmed Him, Help Me Ooo by Rahmoney(m): 8:05pm On Dec 29, 2016
ikombe:
This only happens in an afonja's family

RECEIVE SENSE....

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Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Has Finally Charmed Him, Help Me Ooo by 3sexy: 8:06pm On Dec 29, 2016
Go and marry and leave ur bro alone !
Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Has Finally Charmed Him, Help Me Ooo by moghulis: 8:07pm On Dec 29, 2016
If I say afonjas no sabi food cook now some people will come for my head undecided
Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Has Finally Charmed Him, Help Me Ooo by yetseyi(f): 8:07pm On Dec 29, 2016
Orishirishi grin cheesy

Does the bro announce all he buys for his girlfriend to his siblings, that's how siblings hate wives oo.

As for your sister although I dont support punching but doesn't she know its rude to show attitude to your bros girlfriend or fiance or wife.

If the girl had sat in her fathers house will all these happen.

All of you are not serious
Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Has Finally Charmed Him, Help Me Ooo by jswaggz98(m): 8:07pm On Dec 29, 2016
Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Has Finally Charmed Him, Help Me Ooo by Rahmoney(m): 8:07pm On Dec 29, 2016
YOUR BRO DON CHOP EFO!!!!

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Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Has Finally Charmed Him, Help Me Ooo by faitheverest(f): 8:09pm On Dec 29, 2016
Na una type self una girlfriends dey worry pass,as you don dey see your brother babe as bad luck now, your own self fit tell you make you pursue your siblings comot for house...you are a man,learn to control situations! If it means minding your own business, you do it. And if it also means talking to them, kindly to that..

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Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Has Finally Charmed Him, Help Me Ooo by sirscripture: 8:09pm On Dec 29, 2016
Love comes in many ways. Your brother is just purely in love. He is in love with a woman whose beauty and admiration he sees like privileges, so such afiliation would make him be protective of that lady.
All you need to do is to give him some time to rediscover his own importance; the moment he does, he is back to you. Give me like 3months.

As per your case, if you are as old as i think you are you shld wake up. I am not saying it is a wrong thing to be dependable on someone's brother but you gonna have a problem if your brother decides to get married. There is no way you wont have a problem with his wife because his responsibility towards you would reduce the moment he is married and his wife would be the reason - that is already a problem for you.
So be awake and wisen up
Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Has Finally Charmed Him, Help Me Ooo by pennytrate: 8:10pm On Dec 29, 2016
♣ • → nigga this ya cue for u to wake up and Hustle, and don't forget to take it to the Lord in prayers ™ °°
Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Has Finally Charmed Him, Help Me Ooo by Worksunlimited: 8:10pm On Dec 29, 2016
ikombe:
This only happens in an afonja's family

Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Has Finally Charmed Him, Help Me Ooo by victorazy(m): 8:10pm On Dec 29, 2016
baby124:
Ewedu causing problems...lol. She has cooked vegetable for your brother. It's over OP. Give up!

grin grin grin
Only ewedu is causing prob!
If she cook vegetable na world war go happen. grin

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Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Has Finally Charmed Him, Help Me Ooo by AgentGoat: 8:11pm On Dec 29, 2016
You might not like the girl because of some kind of bad behaviours on her side. Good.



She use juju on your brother? No!




But I think you are jealous because he is stealing your brother's attention.

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Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Has Finally Charmed Him, Help Me Ooo by AlphaStyles(m): 8:12pm On Dec 29, 2016
make u and ur sister gang up 1 night when ur bros no dy catch her put her inside sack I mean thick 1 go far away go donate her for any place write homeless put for the bag if that 1 no work go donate her for yaba hospital as run away mad person when ur bros return tell am say she left without anybody seeing her SHIKENA

easy as pie
Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Has Finally Charmed Him, Help Me Ooo by Padua30: 8:12pm On Dec 29, 2016
My brother call ur brother and talk to him privately about the things u feel or think about the girl and let him know that since u guys have been living together he has not beaten any of u but because of a girl he is not married yet he did it to ur sister what happens when he finally marries her. That's means he will chase u all out of the house .the worst any girl can do in a family is to cause qurel between sibling

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Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Has Finally Charmed Him, Help Me Ooo by ebonflexy(m): 8:14pm On Dec 29, 2016
Freak101:
This is the genesis of the whole issue and I would appreciate your sincere answer if you were in my shoes.

I have two siblings,including me we are 3 altogether and our mom is late, so the three of us stay together in one house we built together.

My brother has a girlfriend that spent a week with us this month and the first day, she was kinda sluggish which I hate like waking up around 7am and staying in bed till 11am, as expected, when you go to people's house, you do what they do, if they use only maggi to cook, you don't add your own seasoning, even if its not your boyfriend you're expected to do what they do and assist in every chores they do.

First night she cooked, she used something like onga to cook although it's not onga which purged me during that week but i endured. And she cooked "ewedu" that we don't eat at home, my brother never eats ewedu, but he ate it because of her, I was really shocked because even if he's hungry, he'll never eat your ewedu soup, but he ate it, I just assumed that it's love and I cleared it from my mind.

Until last week, he fought with my sister and punched her because she wasn't happy with the girl and she was giving her attitude, even me, I'm not happy with her, but I don't show it, but she showed it because she can't take it, so he punched her and she started bleeding profusely on her nose, and that was the first time I would see them fight though, they don't fight at all

That's not the end, he got her an infinix zero 4 in that same week, meanwhile my phone's touchpad is bad and he hasn't even said anything about it, he got her a 90k+ device, seriously guys, I'm angry and sad, I think this is getting out of hand already.

And he'll be asking me every time that "do I like her" but I really don't have an answer because I don't want to break his heart, I really don't have an answer for him, but I'm not happy with her vibe at all. She's a badluck.

Please what do you think?

I don't understand, why aren't you out there making your own money?
Why are you bothered with what a man is buying for his woman?
The fact that he is your brother does not mean his money is yours to spend.

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Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Has Finally Charmed Him, Help Me Ooo by cococandy(f): 8:16pm On Dec 29, 2016
Your brother should not have punched your sister no matter what.
That's unacceptable and she should report him to maybe your uncle or elders in your family so that they will sanction him.

As the rest of the matter, you guys mind your business and let him love his girlfriend the way he likes. I can't even see what she did wrong in your post. She cooked with a seasoning you didn't like? She woke up at 7:00am? Your brother ate something he doesn't normally eat because she made it? He gave her a phone? Where's the offense in any of that?

People please. Stop complicating simple matters because of your bias. That girl has done nothing to you guys. You just don't like her because you feel your brother won't be spending as much on you as he used to.
So maybe you people are the gold diggers here. Not her.

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Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Has Finally Charmed Him, Help Me Ooo by kkboy(m): 8:17pm On Dec 29, 2016
That's life lesson no.1. This shoes that as you are 3 siblings you will eventuality turn out to be 3 families. Tell him your sincere views, but you must start working hard to setup your own family, same how's for your sister.

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Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Has Finally Charmed Him, Help Me Ooo by Bobbyjay001(m): 8:20pm On Dec 29, 2016
IamLEGEND1:
let me see if i can condense everything I saw up there into 5 sentences.
>Your brother is a pussyy who got pussy-whipped by a girl with an even larger pussyy.at this point,she can poison him and he'll die with a smile.
>Your sister has got bigger balls than both of you put together.
>Your brother is an abusive fool whose mumu button is being used to kill mosquitoes by one random ashawò
>You are one broke mofo.common phone screen.HaBa!
> You're a pussy......or have I mentioned that already?

Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Has Finally Charmed Him, Help Me Ooo by Bobbyjay001(m): 8:21pm On Dec 29, 2016
IamLEGEND1:
let me see if i can condense everything I saw up there into 5 sentences.
>Your brother is a pussyy who got pussy-whipped by a girl with an even larger pussyy.at this point,she can poison him and he'll die with a smile.
>Your sister has got bigger balls than both of you put together.
>Your brother is an abusive fool whose mumu button is being used to kill mosquitoes by one random ashawò
>You are one broke mofo.common phone screen.HaBa!
> You're a pussy......or have I mentioned that already?




iLegend, take am easy now
Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Has Finally Charmed Him, Help Me Ooo by CRAPHA96(m): 8:22pm On Dec 29, 2016
some dude's are mad lovers..they dnt consider anybody whenever their lover is involved.... grin grin grin







AMA LIVING WITNESS...THE FIRST BRUTAL FIGHT WITH MY ELDER BROTHER THAT'S SENIOR ME WITH 10YEAR'S IS CUS OF A WOMAN..... grin




But the match was draw both of us was full of blood

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Re: My Brother's Girlfriend Has Finally Charmed Him, Help Me Ooo by jerryfisher(m): 8:22pm On Dec 29, 2016
dollyjoy:
I think you should man up and tell him how you feel,if you can't then please allow sleeping dog lie.


About the phone he bought I don't think that should be a cause to worry about. You are a man, take care of your responsibilities abegi.
seconded!!!

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