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| I'm Beginning The Year Without My Fiancé by kateskitty(f): 4:21am On Jan 01, 2017 |
I really need someone to tell me the truth if what I've done is bad even though I feel no guilt in it except for the fact that my fiancé is thinking of leaving me just at the beginning of this new year. Some weeks back last year December, I asked my fiancé to update my Whatsapp for me so I could be able to video call him when we are far from each other and he agreed. Only for him to start snooping around in my messages, especially the ones between me and my ex. And this made him to confront me. Now he claims he does't have any problem with me chatting with my ex but his problem is that first, I still call my ex sweetie when chatting with him and second, I'm always the first to initiate a chat with him. Personally I have always called my ex sweetie and bea and don't see why I should stop now. And yes I do initiate most chat when I need someone to talk to and I know my fiancé will be too busy or unreachable. How is this a problem  I'm not cheating on him with my ex But he is threating to quit our relationship Is he being unreasonable Or I'm the unreasonable one *modified* All of you people bashing me, thank you. I accept I maybe wrong but I'm the kind of person that doesn't like to push people away from my life. Then why would my fiancé be going through my phone in secret. I now feel like he didn't trust me enough, that he had to go through my phone and he found what he was looking for. Something to use against me to break us up. |
| Re: I'm Beginning The Year Without My Fiancé by Nobody: 4:34am On Jan 01, 2017 |
 Ooh dear  .. Don't welcome 2017 with same old problem. If u don't want ur fiancé to end ur relationship, u have to limit chatting or calling ur ex and calling him with sweet names as well...juz simply avoid all these complicated things coz u may lost the person that really loves u. 19 Likes |
| Re: I'm Beginning The Year Without My Fiancé by yomi007k(m): 4:36am On Jan 01, 2017 |
Dear kate, how wud u feel if ur fiance maintained a friendly relationship wt his ex? 21 Likes |
| Re: I'm Beginning The Year Without My Fiancé by Sexxkillz: 5:06am On Jan 01, 2017 |
kateskitty: Wait. . . Holup. You're in a relationship with a man you consider a fiance, but you still initiate and chat with a man you broke up with, calling him sweetie, and bae? If he is your sweetie, and bae, why are you both not together? You leave the nonsense on your phone, and expect your fiance, a man that wants to marry you, to be cool about it? Honestly ask yourself: would you be happy if your fiance has an ex he still refers to as sweetie, and bae? Selfish human, you are. . . And yes, you are cheating on your fiance emotionally. So of all the friends you have in this world, it's ONLY your ex, that you want to talk to, every time you're bored? I'm guessing you're jobless. That's why you do not understand how busy your fiance always is. That's why you have so much time to chat unnecessarily with an ex. And that's why you always initiate the chat. Your fiance is reacting, giving you the consequences of your actions, and you dare call him unreasonable? So, you actually want to eat your cake and have it, in 2017? Chai!!!! Ekwensu e romancia mami water. I'll personally lead the calvary to go congratulate your fiance a.k.a, your latest ex , for having the guts to stand up to, and kick you out to the curb. . . Too early in the year to start 2017 with iranu. . . Good riddance. 120 Likes 5 Shares
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| Re: I'm Beginning The Year Without My Fiancé by owelle22(m): 5:08am On Jan 01, 2017 |
OK, I'm going to put it to you straight .... Ur d unreasonable one here: At this point I don't see any reason why you should be chatting with your ex talk more of always starting the chat with him which simply means that your still into your ex..Ur ex is ur ex and his role in your lyf should be well defined....your engaged for crying out loud. If you think he is not giving you attention please talk to him about it and let him know that's the reason why you still talk to your ex trust me he ll sit up if he still loves you....remember he is your finace not boy friend so if your still on this stage whereby ex this ex that still causes problem then your not ready for marriage ni...please apologize to him and stop that nonsense. 8 Likes |
| Re: I'm Beginning The Year Without My Fiancé by Solowande(m): 5:18am On Jan 01, 2017 |
Just imagine he is the one calling his ex sweetie and alway chatin with her, hw will u feel? Try to make amend 4 Likes |
| Re: I'm Beginning The Year Without My Fiancé by TashaGirl: 5:19am On Jan 01, 2017 |
Lemme talk to you as a lady. I don't see any reason you should still be talking to your ex and still calling him sweetie  .Imagine seeing your guy calling his ex sweetie, how will you feel? Use empathy in this situation madam. Why can't you put that effort that you use to chat with your ex in your relationship and see how it's gonna GROW to something you always wanted .I personally don't blame the guy if he drop your ass in 2016. Be wise lady, be very very wise! 14 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I'm Beginning The Year Without My Fiancé by femolacqua(m): 5:22am On Jan 01, 2017 |
Well said guys, u all have spoken well. 2 Likes |
| Re: I'm Beginning The Year Without My Fiancé by Nobody: 5:29am On Jan 01, 2017 |
Sorry girl but you're not loyal. You shouldn't do anything that would hurt the man you love and who loves you. Instead of making him feel important and secure in the relationship; you made him feel second best. Also you don't even regret how you made him feel. Maybe you're not in love him. 15 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I'm Beginning The Year Without My Fiancé by Nobody: 5:39am On Jan 01, 2017 |
Your fish brain is incredible. 15 Likes |
| Re: I'm Beginning The Year Without My Fiancé by ironheart(m): 5:46am On Jan 01, 2017 |
You have someone your dating and still foondling with your ex. You are a typical example of whats wrong with women. Soon you loose a loving guy cos you still hold on to someone who doesn't care about you. 6 Likes |
| Re: I'm Beginning The Year Without My Fiancé by Olami90: 5:49am On Jan 01, 2017 |
The Ifa priests up there av all spoken very well. If u call ur ex sweetie, wot is left for u to call ur fiance as u said?? Anything ex should forever be ex. *You don't av any reason to share personal issues with ur ex. Most exes are not always objective nd if opportunity present itself, u will be brainwashed just to get in back with u. *Another point is that unconsciously,u will start seeing ur fiance as not being capable thereby leading to unnecessary comparison. In truth u are wicked and u are still trying to justify ur bad deed.You are abusing him emotionally. If you know u actually still want him, bury ur ego and apologise with sincerity and start doing what is right. All the best 6 Likes |
| Re: I'm Beginning The Year Without My Fiancé by Nobody: 6:01am On Jan 01, 2017 |
kateskitty:c talk...u still call ur ex those names n u dnt want hm to talk.so if he marries u ,u wld still call ur ex those names.my dear u r at fault u neva ready for something serious 4 Likes |
| Re: I'm Beginning The Year Without My Fiancé by Nobody: 6:22am On Jan 01, 2017 |
Go and marry |
| Re: I'm Beginning The Year Without My Fiancé by alex81(m): 6:34am On Jan 01, 2017 |
op sharap! ur flirting with ur EX & u want ur fiance to b cool abt it for what na...7 Likes
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| Re: I'm Beginning The Year Without My Fiancé by IamLEGEND1: 6:35am On Jan 01, 2017 |
Something dey do you for head......you ear me? I say something dey do you for head.......mtcheeeeeewwwwww. 4 Likes |
| Re: I'm Beginning The Year Without My Fiancé by JeffreyJamez(m): 6:57am On Jan 01, 2017 |
Interesting Problem |
| Re: I'm Beginning The Year Without My Fiancé by Eleganza33(f): 7:07am On Jan 01, 2017 |
Nne you typed this? Oya come,to slap you they hunger me. You mean you are in a relationship that is leading to marriage and you are still talking to your ex not only dat you they even sweetie and honey him snice you still love him just go back to him till the scales in your eyes fall leave your so called fiance alone,am sorry to say this but you are foolish 15 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: I'm Beginning The Year Without My Fiancé by Nobody: 7:09am On Jan 01, 2017 |
You call your ex 'sweetie' or 'bae'? Now picture your fiancé calling another lady 'sweetie' or 'baby' How does it feel? He's your ex, let Him stay as your ex.... He has moved on but you haven't 2 Likes |
| Re: I'm Beginning The Year Without My Fiancé by Osama10(m): 7:23am On Jan 01, 2017 |
kateskitty: A hot resounding slap would reset your brain back to the default settings. You can imagine what some women do these days. Your fiance is nice person trust me. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I'm Beginning The Year Without My Fiancé by nelson7777: 7:25am On Jan 01, 2017 |
op. there r up to 15 people above me saying u r wrong, jst accept it n fix ur relationship b4 it's 2 late 1 Like |
| Re: I'm Beginning The Year Without My Fiancé by nelson7777: 7:27am On Jan 01, 2017 |
op. there r up to 15 people above me saying u r wrong, jst accept it n fix ur relationship b4 it's 2 late bt me oo, I will be hurt if my gf calls her ex sweet names, to nw initiate conversation ah dats d worst 2 Likes |
| Re: I'm Beginning The Year Without My Fiancé by Nobody: 7:29am On Jan 01, 2017 |
Unwise fellow 4 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I'm Beginning The Year Without My Fiancé by Nobody: 7:30am On Jan 01, 2017 |
kateskitty:It will best for you to cut ties with your ex ma, so that peace will reign. Your attitude ain't fair you know? 2 Likes |
| Re: I'm Beginning The Year Without My Fiancé by seeniorboy(m): 7:32am On Jan 01, 2017 |
That's very wrong!its totally your fault!
Put yourself in your fiance shoe and experience how if feels
I advice u make a rapid change 1 Like |
| Re: I'm Beginning The Year Without My Fiancé by ebujany(m): 7:32am On Jan 01, 2017 |
Hmmmmmm.......this your village people strong o. See as they are remote controlling your brain. Don't worry, continue calling your ex sweet names. 2017 shiloh will soon come up while your still single 11 Likes |
| Re: I'm Beginning The Year Without My Fiancé by Vikky014(f): 7:38am On Jan 01, 2017 |
imagine you are callling ur ex swt names and initiating chats wt him and u expect him to b happy if he does same to you will u b happywell Sexxkillz said it all1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: I'm Beginning The Year Without My Fiancé by Nutase: 7:38am On Jan 01, 2017 |
Op you like drama in your life. Why can't you just let a sleeping dog lie? |
| Re: I'm Beginning The Year Without My Fiancé by NATIONALPASTOR: 7:42am On Jan 01, 2017 |
Girl, you are very unreasonable, irresponsible, shameless and without an atom of conscience. Haba, run to your fiance's house now and pleade for forgiveness. How can you have a fiance and still be f.u...cking another guy physically or emotionally. Stop seeing that your ex before thunder of love rips your brains apart. Please tell that your fiance to slap you for seven times and it will reset your brain. 4 Likes |
| Re: I'm Beginning The Year Without My Fiancé by jeyselassie(m): 7:53am On Jan 01, 2017 |
kateskitty:speaking from a guys perspective- if I was ur guy I will dump you before new year because you justifying this means you put your ex over me and I am just a number. NO guy likes to be a number. believe me this sweetie stuff you are doing will hurt u more if he decides to serve you chilled in your own plate because guys get it within the twinkle of an eye. 3 Likes |
| Re: I'm Beginning The Year Without My Fiancé by Mekzyzeus(m): 7:53am On Jan 01, 2017 |
I think you are the unreasonable one! Why do you even keep in touch with your ex That's plain stupid!! Really stupid. It shows ya so insecure and still pining for him. May God save your loyal boyfriend from disloyal girls like you!! 1 Like |
| Re: I'm Beginning The Year Without My Fiancé by joshboo(m): 8:07am On Jan 01, 2017 |
pls ts a new year,obviously u know u d problem why come hia to ask again biko? kuku go back to ur ex fa |
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