OP,YOU DESERVE TO BE SLAPPED ,SIMULTANEOUSLY. YOUR BRAIN IS MALFUNCTIONING, HOW CAN YOU BE CHATING WITH YOUR EX AND CALLING HIM BAE,AND EXPECT YOUR TIANCE TO BE COOL WITH IT,DO YOU THINK HE IS A FOOL? INFACT YOUR JOBLESS ASS DOES NOT DESERVE HIM,BY GODS GRACE HE WILL FIND AN INDEPENDENT LADY WHO DOES NOT SIT ON HER ASS ALL DAY AND CHAT WITH HER EX.

[/quote]Personally I have always called my ex sweetie and bea and don't see why I should stop now. [quote]

this got me!

All of you people bashing me, thank you. I accept I maybe wrong but I'm the kind of person that doesn't like to push people away from my life.
Then why would my fiancé be going through my phone in secret.
I now feel like he didn't trust me enough and he found what he was looking for.

Sexxkillz:



Wait. . . Holup.

You're in a relationship with a man you consider a fiance, but you still initiate and chat with a man you broke up with, calling him sweetie, and bae? If he is your sweetie, and bae, why are you both not together? You leave the nonsense on your phone, and expect your fiance, a man that wants to marry you, to be cool about it?

Honestly ask yourself: would you be happy if your fiance has an ex he still refers to as sweetie, and bae?

Selfish human, you are. . . And yes, you are cheating on your fiance emotionally. So of all the friends you have in this world, it's ONLY your ex, that you want to talk to, every time you're bored? I'm guessing you're jobless. That's why you do not understand how busy your fiance always is. That's why you have so much time to chat unnecessarily with an ex. And that's why you always initiate the chat.

Your fiance is reacting, giving you the consequences of your actions, and you dare call him unreasonable? So, you actually want to eat your cake and have it, in 2017?

Chai!!!! Ekwensu e romancia mami water.

I'll personally lead the calvary to go congratulate your fiance a.k.a, your latest ex
, for having the guts to stand up to, and kick you out to the curb. . . Too early in the year to start 2017 with iranu. . .

Good riddance.

Infact you will make exploits this year. you took the words out of my mouth. the lady is not Worthy to be called a fiancée. She want to eat her cake and have it. In a relationship and still keeping tabs on your ex

kateskitty:
All of you people bashing me, thank you. I accept I maybe wrong but I'm the kind of person that doesn't like to push people away from my life.
Then why would my fiancé be going through my phone in secret.
I now feel like he didn't trust me enough and he found what he was looking for.

u ssure u ddidnt fall down as a child ? Where did u learn all these selfishness from. Iif ur the one on the pic its clear wat the issue is. Ur too young and immature to have a fiance. Break it off with ur fiance and go get a boyfriend. That's ur level. From how things turned out, won ur unfortunate fiance be unlucky and unwise to have trusted you and not snooped. You can't and won't take this if the ssituation was the opposite. If you ask my opinion. Leave ur fiance so he can move on in the new year to a better lady. Stick to ur level nd research more names to call ur EX and every other person in ur life which I admit to be difficult to leave. Don't forget to wish ur EX and soon to be EX fiance a happy married life with a sweetie and bae rhetoric when they get married to reasonable girls. Anu mpama

[/quote]I now feel like he didn't trust me enough and he found what he was looking for.[quote]

He found what he was looking for? Op, read that sentence again. You're going to get what's coming to you soon. You'll see.

kateskitty:
All of you people bashing me, thank you. I accept I maybe wrong but I'm the kind of person that doesn't like to push people away from my life.
Then why would my fiancé be going through my phone in secret.
I now feel like he didn't trust me enough and he found what he was looking for.

the fact that you are still trying to justify your actions makes me really worried for you. You need to be dumped ASAP, Wat rubbish.

TashaGirl:
Lemme talk to you as a lady. I don't see any reason you should still be talking to your ex and still calling him sweetie .

Imagine seeing your guy calling his ex sweetie, how will you feel? Use empathy in this situation madam.

Why can't you put that effort that you use to chat with your ex in your relationship and see how it's gonna GROW to something you always wanted .

I personally don't blame the guy if he drop your ass in 2016. Be wise lady, be very very wise!

Hatey??

Woman to woman, that is just wrong, how would you feel if it was the other way round? Them really say who get cap nor get head, who get head nor get cap, to think you don't see anything wrong with keeping you ex that close,fiancee for that matter, smh for you

kateskitty:
All of you people bashing me, thank you. I accept I maybe wrong but I'm the kind of person that doesn't like to push people away from my life.
Then why would my fiancé be going through my phone in secret.
I now feel like he didn't trust me enough and he found what he was looking for.

And you are still being defensive?

Don't you just get it?

I have had an ex like you and it's pretty frustrating when they do dumb things and still claim they are right. Nothing pisses one of than that. in order not to strangle her one day for her continous bad behaviours and claims of being right afterwards i had to leave her.


You called him ex. What else are you doing wirh someone who's from the past? Like you are driving a car and looking backwards instead of facing your front. Nothing good comes out of this ex friendship. i can guarantee you 100%. If they were that good, they shouldn't be your ex. Your ex is either nursing to have a reunion sex with you or one of you still has feelings for the other. Why go through that when you have a guy here?

Abeg give me your guy's number. he needs to dump you ASAP. You are not worth the trouble.

kateskitty:
All of you people bashing me, thank you. I accept I maybe wrong but I'm the kind of person that doesn't like to push people away from my life.
Then why would my fiancé be going through my phone in secret.
I now feel like he didn't trust me enough and he found what he was looking for.

u are still justifying ur action

u sound like my girlfriend who's about to become my ex

I will never date any girl that's below 25, they can't think properly

kateskitty:
I really need someone to tell me the truth if what I've done is bad even though I feel no guilt in it except for the fact that my fiancé is thinking of leaving me just at the beginning of this new year.

Some weeks back last year December, I asked my fiancé to update my Whatsapp for me so I could be able to video call him when we are far from each other and he agreed. Only for him to start snooping around in my messages, especially the ones between me and my ex. And this made him to confront me.
Now he claims he does't have any problem with me chatting with my ex but his problem is that first, I still call my ex sweetie when chatting with him and second, I'm always the first to initiate a chat with him.

Personally I have always called my ex sweetie and bea and don't see why I should stop now. And yes I do initiate most chat when I need someone to talk to and I know my fiancé will be too busy or unreachable. How is this a problem I'm not cheating on him with my ex But he is threating to quit our relationship Is he being unreasonable Or I'm the unreasonable one

*modified*
All of you people bashing me, thank you. I accept I maybe wrong but I'm the kind of person that doesn't like to push people away from my life.
Then why would my fiancé be going through my phone in secret.
I now feel like he didn't trust me enough, that he had to go through my phone and he found what he was looking for. Something to use against me to break us up.

hopefully he doesn't push away the females in his life as well.. he should be wise and understand that you are just a chick that should be used for killing time..

The op don see comments dey fear fear

kateskitty:
All of you people bashing me, thank you. I accept I maybe wrong but I'm the kind of person that doesn't like to push people away from my life.
Then why would my fiancé be going through my phone in secret.
I now feel like he didn't trust me enough and he found what he was looking for.

you must be a _fool , if he never trusted you before you just proved him right and I hope he snaps out of it and leaves you immediately beforehand.. you are still a Teen/child.

OK

.

Kateskitty

If i was your fiance, my first royal act this year wud be dump your dumb a33

I wudnt be so much bothered you initiating chats with ur ex apart from all d females frnds u got

I wudnt be so concerned wit u calling him sexy names

I wudnt be so annoyed wit u cheating on me emotionally


Know why id dump you?

Cos of your remorseless reaction n for the fact that you see nothing wrong wit ur action!
Then there is the litle issue of fault finding cos he went tru ur phn! It is either u r a very terrible person or a very naive one. So a man shouldnt finD out the type of woman he is about hooking in?


It shows u dont luv me. Heck you dont luv him.


Do both urselves some gud,
Dont Bother appologizing. You know u dont luv him! Go back to your eX

Oboy see bashing frm left right centre...

TrapQueen77:



Ooh dear ..
Don't welcome 2017 with same old problem.

If u don't want ur fiancé to end ur relationship, u have to limit chatting or calling ur ex and calling him with sweet names as well...juz simply avoid all these complicated things coz u may lost the person that really loves u.

U may lost d person? Which kin English be DAT naaa!

kateskitty:
All of you people bashing me, thank you. I accept I maybe wrong but I'm the kind of person that doesn't like to push people away from my life.
Then why would my fiancé be going through my phone in secret.
I now feel like he didn't trust me enough and he found what he was looking for.

Am no woman beater but u deserve this......

As funny as girls can be...

This op shouldn't even be in a relationship to start with, I wonder what the guy was thinking proposing to her

Happy new year all. Contact me for your architectural drawings, site analysis and site plan design.

kateskitty:
I really need someone to tell me the truth if what I've done is bad even though I feel no guilt in it except for the fact that my fiancé is thinking of leaving me just at the beginning of this new year.

Some weeks back last year December, I asked my fiancé to update my Whatsapp for me so I could be able to video call him when we are far from each other and he agreed. Only for him to start snooping around in my messages, especially the ones between me and my ex. And this made him to confront me.
Now he claims he does't have any problem with me chatting with my ex but his problem is that first, I still call my ex sweetie when chatting with him and second, I'm always the first to initiate a chat with him.

Personally I have always called my ex sweetie and bea and don't see why I should stop now. And yes I do initiate most chat when I need someone to talk to and I know my fiancé will be too busy or unreachable. How is this a problem I'm not cheating on him with my ex But he is threating to quit our relationship Is he being unreasonable Or I'm the unreasonable one

*modified*
All of you people bashing me, thank you. I accept I maybe wrong but I'm the kind of person that doesn't like to push people away from my life.
Then why would my fiancé be going through my phone in secret.
I now feel like he didn't trust me enough, that he had to go through my phone and he found what he was looking for. Something to use against me to break us up.

Hi miss.
I normally dont do this but seeing your modified post triggered me to comment.

You must be very sturborn ooo. You see numerous comment reprimanding you. And all you could say is why would he check your whasapp messages.

Presh9OO:

what's the meaning of that bro

i don laugh tire, throway. lol .


Hilarious comments .

op you are not loyal .
we know your type .. am sure you have even sent him unclad pictures in your previous chat ..
that your ex knows your mumu button .. remove the button and you will be fine

kateskitty:
I really need someone to tell me the truth if what I've done is bad even though I feel no guilt in it except for the fact that my fiancé is thinking of leaving me just at the beginning of this new year.

Some weeks back last year December, I asked my fiancé to update my Whatsapp for me so I could be able to video call him when we are far from each other and he agreed. Only for him to start snooping around in my messages, especially the ones between me and my ex. And this made him to confront me.
Now he claims he does't have any problem with me chatting with my ex but his problem is that first, I still call my ex sweetie when chatting with him and second, I'm always the first to initiate a chat with him.

Personally I have always called my ex sweetie and bea and don't see why I should stop now. And yes I do initiate most chat when I need someone to talk to and I know my fiancé will be too busy or unreachable. How is this a problem I'm not cheating on him with my ex But he is threating to quit our relationship Is he being unreasonable Or I'm the unreasonable one

*modified*
All of you people bashing me, thank you. I accept I maybe wrong but I'm the kind of person that doesn't like to push people away from my life.
Then why would my fiancé be going through my phone in secret.
I now feel like he didn't trust me enough, that he had to go through my phone and he found what he was looking for. Something to use against me to break us up.

errrm hello sis, if you think you are typing this in ur right state of mind, then you need to visit a psychiatrist. You are not 100000% ok.
It's obvious you haven't gotten over ur ex. Goosh this ur writeup is irritating.
Now I read on front page this morning when a lady with black eye said her husband always beat her.. It started from something like this.
Betrayal is what u get when u bring ur 2013 back into 2017.
Don't go into a relationship u are not comfortable with.

Eleganza33:
Nne you typed this? Oya come,to slap you they hunger me. You mean you are in a relationship that is leading to marriage and you are still talking to your ex not only dat you they even sweetie and honey him snice you still love him just go back to him till the scales in your eyes fall leave your so called fiance alone,am sorry to say this but you are foolish

Gbam! take 5

Yes yah mad! Am going back to bed.

2dugged:
Woman to woman, that is just wrong, how would you feel if it was the other way round? Them really say who get cap nor get head, who get head nor get cap, to think you don't see anything wrong with keeping you ex that close,fiancee for that matter, smh for you

Nice one! you too, take 5

real691:

Nice one! you too, take 5

thanks, happy new year

2dugged:
thanks, happy new year

Same 2 u, ur dp is funny o, well! I will be expecting 2 C how girls 2'll resist TEMPTATION........