Dexema:
Good grounds for divorce

Oh really?A few days ago,a thread about a man with the monicker "wonukwuru" complaining about his wife not being the woman he married reached the frontpage.That thread reached over ten pages and 97% of the posts told the man not to divorce his wife.So why should this woman?Please let her continue with the marriage.Afterall,according to the majority of Nlanders on that thread,"God hates divorce"

Miggs:
Continue playing the role of "mr gentleman" and dont correct her misdeeds with a few hot slaps you hear?
One day,one day,like play play, she go carry kitchen knife chuk you for belle

Nah bro, she's is a sweet lady just that women will occasionally be women. What i do works for me because i discovered that when i initiate peace after every quarrel, it wont be long before she starts misbehaving again but if the reverse becomes the case, the peace interval lasts a longer time

No normal man beats his wife this way. The question is what transpired between them? Many women now our days are devils incarnate hiding under the umbrella of being a woman and aims at taking their husband's life at any opportunity given.. Let's hear from the man to know what really happened. How sure are we that the man doesn't have a broken head or pierced skin.. Domestic violence shouldn't not be judged one sided it should involve both parties.. Domestic violence against men and women..

anitank:


People like you are what's wrong with our society today. People like you are the reasons ladies and women don't speak up about räpë and domestic abuse. Would you say the same if this was your own sibling?? Do you know if she knew the man was a woman beater and willfully went ahead to marry him? How can you see such gory pictures and still say you don't have pity for anyone involved in domestic violence. You're just pure evil and wicked!!!

when I was much younger a girl rained abuses on me, just one slap she collapsed. I was the villain.

she caused me pain, I caused her pains too. that's how I see it. doesn't matter how I did it.

you people need to watch your actions and understand that we men also have feelings. we ain't stones. you hurt me verbally I hurt you physically.

this law will be properly spelt out to whoever I settle down with. might be you though Lolz.

rosalieene:

even if it were the fault of the lady, courtesy demands that he ignores her, that's Wat a matured and sensible man does....
From your previous comment, I can deduce that you are in support or you will do that to your wife and you don't see anything wrong with it.
I have come to realize that there are so many crazy men out there.... Men who wants their wives to prostrate before them all the time, men who wants their wives to always keep quiet whenever they are talking or shouting at them even when wrong, men who want their wives to abide only by their rules, men who want their wives to ........ name them. the list goes on and on.

"Even if it were the FAULT of the lady" That is a very heavy statement and an express permission to women to be continuously unreasonable. So for how long would you continue to ignore a recalcitrant unreasonable woman at FAULT?

rosalieene:

its needed, just look for the man for me,lemme do the needful

Wetin consign me for this one? Make I go dey look for man wey do his wife like dis, I dey craze? I'm sorry I cannot help you beyond providing matches and petrol

ObiOmaMu:
Yebowale shared these photos of her friend whose husband beat to a pulp till he broke her ankle a day before last Christmas on Twitter.

http://www.lailasblog.com/2017/01/nigerian-man-brutally-beats-wife-breaks-ankle-photos.html

though it is written God hates divorce, but I think it's better than murder.

cococandy:
So men are not annoying? Who beats them when they annoy their wives.
Irresponsible a**** all over the thread trying to justify the unjustifiable.
Any married person who can swear that they have never annoyed or been annoyed by their spouse is probably married to angel Michael or an angel themselves.

Otherwise everyone has encountered some form of annoyance in their marriage. If your wife doesn't hit you when you annoy her, then you can't use her annoying you as excuse for this rubbish. It is condescending and very very xtupid.

This is new year. Some of you should leave foolishness behind and use your god-given brains for goodness sake!

OK what if the wife hits the husband who annoyed her, is he justified to hit back?

Honestly it's not easy to cope with women and their annoying attitude... Until my dad tutored me on d acts of patience... But bullying a woman like dis is an interpretation of d fact Dat d man is either cursed or is being closely monitored by a member of d house police.. (home problem)..

Princedapace:



No Godly woman will bad mouth her hubby.. Some women are evil and I can never judge those man until I hear his own side of the story..

That is how we were calling one man an animal for doing thesame thing to his wife until we heard the full gist.

Dude caught his wife sending nu.de pics to some random dude and in the heat of an arguement she told him point blank that he thinks he is a man when he has a small dick and started comparing him to the other dude. The guy turned into a monster like a case of provoked insanity.

Many people here 'making mouth' will even commit murder in such situation

cococandy:
So men are not annoying? Who beats them when they annoy their wives.
Irresponsible a**** all over the thread trying to justify the unjustifiable.
Any married person who can swear that they have never annoyed or been annoyed by their spouse is probably married to angel Michael or an angel themselves.

Otherwise everyone has encountered some form of annoyance in their marriage. If your wife doesn't hit you when you annoy her, then you can't use her annoying you as excuse for this rubbish. It is condescending and very very xtupid.

This is new year. Some of you should leave foolishness behind and use your god-given brains for goodness sake!

gerrout!!

Some men....Some husbands....Some women....Some wives....Some children...Some babies...Some people get you so mad that you would want to commit murder.



Yarn another thing abegi

DIKEnaWAR:
Some of these women can really get a man so mad that you'd want to commit murder.

The solution is ; when you get so mad with them ladies, kindly take a walk and leave them for that moment. Go somewhere and let your temper simmer down or if you can't put up with it, simply divorce the person and let her be. It is the most cowardly act to beat a woman.

To men that beat women; how would you react if your son in law beats your daughter?

ZoneBslayer:

OK what if the wife hits the husband who annoyed her, is he justified to hit back?

Yes, but his retaliation should be equal to what she did.
If she insults you, insult her back...that's how it works legally. A broken ankle can never be equal to insult.
Even self-defence has rules guiding it...you can't defend a slap with a gun or machete!!!

This would only be right if he also has a broken ankle or some other vital part broken.

You no get mother ba? If you do, ask am if your papa never annoy am enough for her to wan poison am.

Abi you know dey annoy yoke friends... Not to mention you sleep and wake up with. Ijio..t!

warriorPedigree:

gerrout!!

Accordingto you men do not annoy......You must be some form of super human. Wow! I wonder how the world is what it is.

It won't hurt to use a lil bit of sense.

jfleece:
Honestly it's not easy to cope with women and their annoying attitude... Until my dad tutored me on d acts of patience... But bullying a woman like dis is an interpretation of d fact Dat d man is either cursed or is being closely monitored by a member of d house police.. (home problem)..

Mchweew, she should go and beat the man back. There's gender equality.

1stCitizen:


That is how we were calling one man an animal for doing thesame thing to his wife until we heard the full gist.

Dude caught his wife sending nu.de pics to some random dude and in the heat of an arguement she told him point blank that he thinks he is a man when he has a small dick and started comparing him to the other dude. The guy turned into a monster like a case of provoked insanity.

Many people here making mouth will even commit murder.

Don't mind them.. I tire for people.. Women forget that just as their tongues remain their weapon.. So is a man's hand remains his weapon..

That u can walk away when u are insulted badly doesn't mean Everyman can do same... And that doesn't make the man who walked away a better man..

Both men and women should simply respect themselves... Becus I am tired of women giving me this stupid excuse that it is their birthright to insult and verbally humiliate any man and expect the man to walk away in order to be pronounced man enough..

I repeat.. No Godly woman will insult her hubby.. Na all these demons do that and whatever they get as a result of their uncontrolled tongues... Is their own cup of tea.. There is always a pay back for every action..

The wife should not allow herself be killed by the husband.

She should get sense.

AngelsAndStars:
oh please shut it

in as much as violence is bad. you don't love someone that is misbehaving. you correct them.

why would you make such statement, every human being is meant to be loved. if someone misbehaves you deal with the issue not love them.

where do you get this kind of silly idea

So one cannot correct with love? do u correct in hatred or cruelty? Think before you talk, and pls dont shut me up or mention me if u cnt make ur point politely

EMXTAN1:


So one cannot correct with love? do u correct in hatred or cruelty? Think before you talk, and pls dont shut me up or mention me if u cnt make ur point politely

when someone does wrong you correct them not love them. if you fail to correct them they'll do more. simple

AngelsAndStars:
when someone does wrong you correct them not love them. if you fail to correct them they'll do more. simple

am nt saying ua wrong, am saying you correct in love, otherwise it is wrong. that man is possibly trying to correct her, but it wasnt done in love hence that horrible incident

EMXTAN1:


am nt saying ua wrong, am saying you correct in love, otherwise it is wrong. that man is possibly trying to correct her, but it wasnt done in love hence that horrible incident

yes clearly he went too far. na now you talk something

Later you will say he is the best man on earth. . .

Sorry Sha but this is no love my sister, l feel for you, l also have sisters and in no way can a man do this to her, except he is ready for the battle. . .

THIS GUY IS A COWARD, IDIOT AND BASTARD. HOW CAN YOU DO THAT TO A FEMALE.

Barney11:
this is wrong! women can at times be annoying but your ability to check ur anger makes u a better man.

The best way to cure there annoyance is combo of 5 bottles of Golberg, 1 plate of extra large cat-fish and a pack of B&H.

Walahi! You will forget she annoyed you when u get back home

daretodiffer:
You no get mother ba? If you do, ask am if your papa never annoy am enough for her to wan poison am.

Abi you know dey annoy yoke friends... Not to mention you sleep and wake up with. Ijio..t!

you drink codiene? why you incoherent?

pocohantas:

Yes, but his retaliation should be equal to what she did.
If she insults you, insult her back...that's how it works legally. A broken ankle can never be equal to insult.
Even self-defence has rules guiding it...you can't defend a slap with a gun or machete!!!

This would only be right if he also has a broken ankle or some other vital part broken.

your first sentence is all the answer I needed..BTW I agree with the rest too...

EMXTAN1:
just cruel!!! when he sees his fellow men, he will turn pure water, women are meant to be loved even when they are obviously misbehaving

EASY 4 U TO SAY. I HOPE U WOULDN'T MARRY A CRAZY WOMAN, DATS IF UR NOT YET MARRIED.

DIKEnaWAR:
Some of these women can really get a man so mad that you'd want to commit murder.

The solution is ; when you get so mad with them ladies, kindly take a walk and leave them for that moment. Go somewhere and let your temper simmer down or if you can't put up with it, simply divorce the person and let her be. It is the most cowardly act to beat a woman.

To men that beat women; how would you react if your son in law beats your daughter?

I will tell my daughter to behave herself, to watch her tongue and to remember that the husband is the head of the home just as Christ is the head of the church. I will then tell my son-in-law that even God regretted creating women, so he should just keep his regret to himself and hold his anger.

You must be surrounded by a lot of unreasonable women.

histemple:


"Even if it were the FAULT of the lady" That is a very heavy statement and an express permission to women to be continuously unreasonable. So for how long would you continue to ignore a recalcitrant unreasonable woman at FAULT?

#team
#Single4life

F uck, f uck and f uck marriage.

cococandy:
So men are not annoying? Who beats them when they annoy their wives.
Irresponsible a**** all over the thread trying to justify the unjustifiable.
Any married person who can swear that they have never annoyed or been annoyed by their spouse is probably married to angel Michael or an angel themselves.

Otherwise everyone has encountered some form of annoyance in their marriage. If your wife doesn't hit you when you annoy her, then you can't use her annoying you as excuse for this rubbish. It is condescending and very very xtupid.

This is new year. Some of you should leave foolishness behind and use your god-given brains for goodness sake!

And I taught your god given brain will work more properly since those that oppose ur opinion are brainless... tuazagha... ewe