La we la no give la fvck!!

Go to oil mill market along abs road in ph you go see better and cheap clothes for him . and mind you where were you when he was bringing those oversize clothes home.

ajibolabd:
Divorce him, ASAP!

Are you sure you are a human being?



Dont bother to quote me because if you do, you will get "akanju"

Why are a lot of Nigerians stupid?


Some don't know what to say eg that man on his period, while some comment without thinking eg that atheist.



OP, change his wardrobe gradually, go shopping with him(if you can get him to)...and change his damn weapons even if it's the last thing you do!!!

YOU CAN'T CHANGE DAT MAN. if u like go shopping in Dubai. He already told u before marriage. WARNING: Any attempt to forcefully change him will lead to a divorce. just cope.

PaperLace:
I understand your concern_ it shows you care. I've seen women who don't care as long as it doesn't affect her own look.
Some men are like that, a woman would know the whole colour wheel (including cockroach brown and custard yellow) while a man is okay knowing just primary colours.

I'll edit if I remember anything else.

Please take my like and my share, and come and be going. Before you start to make me feel jealous.

My dear, marriage is a life-long learning. You will not stop till he change. You have actually thought right by buying some cloth for him BUT make sure you buy the combination you want to see him in and hang it together for him. Pls Note: Even if he wear colour riot, correct him Lovingly and not otherwise.

Thank You

ajibolabd:
Divorce him, ASAP!

this thread is not 4ur agemate

AntiWailer:



Ok let's see if we can help.

Look for a way to raise money. Get his measurements and swing into action.


1. Buy him the kind of shoes you like and clothes and keep the ones that annoy you away.

2. Buy him the kind of clothes you like also.

Select clothes for him when going out.

My baby does that almost all the time. Before I am out of the bath, she would have selected the shirts, jacket, even the color of socks and my tie.

I am left to make only decisions on the shoe I wear and trust me when she wants to limit my shoe options, she selects a brown belt.

And even if I dnt like what she selected, as soon as I am in front of the mirror, I hear waoo u look so good.

All those tea girls in your office should stay away else....

So over period , I have trusted her selection and I dnt complain .

So do so with wisdom.

Appreciate him as much as u can.


My 1 cent.

haaa!!! So you are a fully grown man? A working class! You are even married?
Wonderful! I swear, i'm still in shock!
Due to your comments, your monicker, and signature, i thought you were still a jambite.

What!!!

ajibolabd:
Divorce him, ASAP!

Worriedwife:
This issue has been disturbing me, I had to create a new id to get advice 'anonymously', maybe someone else who has gone through this can help. My husband's dress sense is poor, his shoes look like weapons...pointed mouth with very heavy soles. His colour combination is something else. He is a good-looking young man but dresses like an old man.

It makes me not to find him sexy, even his boxers look like soccer shorts.
Whenever we go out, people look at him like he's my gate man. The other day, we went to visit some family friends and someone there said, we don't look like we came out from the same house.

You know how people can be, news have been going around that I am spending all his money on myself while he goes about tattered. My in-laws are also part of the rumour mongers. I have tried to teach him, but he's not ready to learn. Before the usual didn't you know when you married him questions, I knew. He kept saying I am just a girlfriend and I want to change him. Now I am his wife, he still won't change.

Please, what can I do? Won't it be rude if I throw his old wears away?
We recently moved to PH, I don't know my way around yet. Things look expensive here, where can I shop at a fair rate?
I need practical solutions. Thank you all

Madame why dont you buy him nice clothes and gradually convince him ti gradually throw some not to nice clothes away. Infact spend more time buying nice clothings for him and by the time he notices, the ones he has before would be gathering dust and he would realize he doesnt need them anymore and he would be discarding it little by little. you have to teach him o!

lestat:


It's my opinion that marriage is for better for worse, now if he doesn't cheat, he doesn't beat her he provides for his family , he is caring but she is upset he doesn't look like he walked out of a GQ magazine?
The issue she should be facing is why isn't she happy with what she has and instead of bitching about it try and make things work ...
Trust me if she moves to another guy maybe the next issue will be why he doesn't shave his beard ?
She is shallow and naieve that's her issue .

Why are u drinking panadol for another person headache. She didn't ask u for advice, u don't have to be rude.

Abiagirl777:
lol,once when I was on I.T used to have this guy that was always disturbing me about marriage,so one day I decided to answer him at a nearby eatry on a weekend.mind you we were always on coveralls and safety boots so I didn't know what his dressing was like.
that day when I got his call that he was already there,I walked out .I almost retreated if not that he had seen me.omo! if you see his shoes,the soles were as big as with a very rigid square face. I walked in far ahead of him while he followed behind.i'm poor in the dressing dept and will not marry someone I'm better than.
memories...
but Op,you can help him,my husband buys most of my clothes,shoes,suggests hairstyles because he says I'm archaic,heck he even brought home some G-string panties home the other day.ppl compliment me more when I wear his than the ones I bought myself.you are his helpmeet,where he is inadequate you fill up for him

@ Op (worriedwife) as far as I'm concerned this remain the best advice so far.

Nairaland is gradually becoming a blessed online family where people of different race and culture meet to share ideas and rob minds together.

Op just take your time and do the needful, hit a boutique buy him your type of cloths and pack those rags (according to you) to the bin without him knowing.

May God continue to bless your marraige....

Shalom!!

Ginaz:
Lestat why are you rude to the poor woman seeking for advice?

I tired oh so rude for my liking

Pics of him looking like that or......

Gofwane:
haaa!!! So you are a fully grown man? A working class! You are even married?
Wonderful! I swear, i'm still in shock!
Due to your comments, your monicker, and signature, i thought you were still a jambite.

If u say due to my moniker or signature , I will agree

But due to my comment , I do not agree unless the few ones I am playing around.

Jamb was more than 15 years ago.

skarlett:


He's on his period

Wtf

Syjibrin:
I tired oh so rude for my liking

I bet I make you weK in the knees?

mikezuruki:
How rude...

That's how a girl should quote me not a guy... Wow

lilyheaven:
I actually left my man because of this,
I was 29 and he was 32. But he always looks like a forty five years old man, he had a very great career, he won't even buy a cloth for himself, I kept buying all these things,
One day I said to myself, if I marry this Man, will I continue like this plus our kids .
I left him sha,
But my family were so angry with me.

Except there's something else you're not saying, I think if you were buying the clothes on his bills (since he's got a great career), it shouldn't bug you. Should it?

Is your husband Kcee?

but soccer shorts r sexy nah....specially if its Chelsea Blue...

What of men that wears wrapper

2SWT:
I just said what I had in mind if it doesn't make any sense to you then I don't have a solution to your problems besides are you the woman or the husband?

you didn't disappoint me in your response

Too bad

lady2lady:
I don't know why people are liking this post .. Like he is making some sense or what??

A woman asked for an advice and you're insulting her?

Hey,If someone made you angry previously,why not dispose the anger somewhere else.

You misunderstand me, I would have actually tried to explain to you further but hey no point there...Soooooo
Good bye

Abiagirl777:
lol,once when I was on I.T used to have this guy that was always disturbing me about marriage,so one day I decided to answer him at a nearby eatry on a weekend.mind you we were always on coveralls and safety boots so I didn't know what his dressing was like.
that day when I got his call that he was already there,I walked out .I almost retreated if not that he had seen me.omo! if you see his shoes,the soles were as big as with a very rigid square face. I walked in far ahead of him while he followed behind.i'm poor in the dressing dept and will not marry someone I'm better than.
memories...
but Op,you can help him,my husband buys most of my clothes,shoes,suggests hairstyles because he says I'm archaic,heck he even brought home some G-string panties home the other day.ppl compliment me more when I wear his than the ones I bought myself.you are his helpmeet,where he is inadequate you fill up for him

ur story got no Meanin.......u left d guy because he is poor

#weknow

Abeg madam if you wan buy jeans original stock, plain t shirts and your designers like gucci, Louis vouiton, dolce and gabana, abeg quote me. In short tell your husband say i get branded wristwatches, facecaps, chains, rayban eye glass, perfumes, original active man. Nnamdi youngmen boutique,

If you can't change him as a girlfriend what makes you think you can change him after being his wife mistakes young girls make.

Syjibrin:
I tired oh so rude for my liking

Me too o, all of us tire on top him matter.

Worriedwife:
This issue has been disturbing me, I had to create a new id to get advice 'anonymously', maybe someone else who has gone through this can help. My husband's dress sense is poor, his shoes look like weapons...pointed mouth with very heavy soles. His colour combination is something else. He is a good-looking young man but dresses like an old man.

It makes me not to find him sexy, even his boxers look like soccer shorts.
Whenever we go out, people look at him like he's my gate man. The other day, we went to visit some family friends and someone there said, we don't look like we came out from the same house.

You know how people can be, news have been going around that I am spending all his money on myself while he goes about tattered. My in-laws are also part of the rumour mongers. I have tried to teach him, but he's not ready to learn. Before the usual didn't you know when you married him questions, I knew. He kept saying I am just a girlfriend and I want to change him. Now I am his wife, he still won't change.

Please, what can I do? Won't it be rude if I throw his old wears away?
We recently moved to PH, I don't know my way around yet. Things look expensive here, where can I shop at a fair rate?
I need practical solutions. Thank you all

Some men are like that. keep talking to him everyday, and any of his dress u dnt like throw it away n replace it. You have alot to do, educate him on colour combination while dressing up. Tell him what pple have been saying whenever u pple goes out together & tell him how ashame u are about it.

Worriedwife:
This issue has been disturbing me, I had to create a new id to get advice 'anonymously', maybe someone else who has gone through this can help. My husband's dress sense is poor, his shoes look like weapons...pointed mouth with very heavy soles. His colour combination is something else. He is a good-looking young man but dresses like an old man.

It makes me not to find him sexy, even his boxers look like soccer shorts.
Whenever we go out, people look at him like he's my gate man. The other day, we went to visit some family friends and someone there said, we don't look like we came out from the same house.

You know how people can be, news have been going around that I am spending all his money on myself while he goes about tattered. My in-laws are also part of the rumour mongers. I have tried to teach him, but he's not ready to learn. Before the usual didn't you know when you married him questions, I knew. He kept saying I am just a girlfriend and I want to change him. Now I am his wife, he still won't change.

Please, what can I do? Won't it be rude if I throw his old wears away?
We recently moved to PH, I don't know my way around yet. Things look expensive here, where can I shop at a fair rate?
I need practical solutions. Thank you all

-Get a good fantastic Tailor, let him measure him , then sew him variety of clothes

-Start buying his the exact shoes you want...

- The help dress him up with love

Does he cheat on you? Does he treat you well? Are you married to him or your are married to his dress? Woman please be wise. Take him out but clothes of your taste for him that is all