Oga I think it is a mistake for buying an intimacy gadget for your wife in the first place, that is masturbation for crying out loud. Just imagine! Your wife using a gadget while you are around, it is so irritating and disgusting. Why not channel the whole effort to your sexual capability to ensure you are giving her maximum satisfaction. Remind you that whatever she starts doing now will be very hard to stop it once she becomes used to it, whether anal sex or whichever I think it should be done with your manhood, if anything should be worked on I think it should be your manhood and sexual capability. Please oo this is my opinion I am sorry if I have in any way sounded somehow abeg, just that I really felt for you after reading your story, I almost shed tears because I can't imagine myself being in that position for any reason.

Dera25:
Oga I think it is a mistake for buying an intimacy gadget for your wife in the first place, that is masturbation for crying out loud. Just imagine! Your wife using a gadget while you are around, it is so irritating and disgusting. Why not channel the whole effort to your sexual capability to ensure you are giving her maximum satisfaction. Remind you that whatever she starts doing now will be very hard to stop it once she becomes used to it, whether anal sex or whichever I think it should be done with your manhood, if anything should be worked on I think it should be your manhood and sexual capability. Please oo this is my opinion I am sorry if I have in any way sounded somehow abeg, just that I really felt for you after reading your story, I almost shed tears because I can't imagine myself being in that position for any reason.

I actually don't see anything wrong in their sexual life

The only thing I will frown at is disposing them anywhere
And cheating

You can hardly find a man that's ready to explore and have it all

Openness in marriage is what keeps it going
You get tired of sex
Boredom sets in
And then reality hits you both

But when you have a friend as a partner, talk about anything and everything
Marriage will be √√√√√

Dera25:
Oga I think it is a mistake for buying an intimacy gadget for your wife in the first place, that is masturbation for crying out loud. Just imagine! Your wife using a gadget while you are around, it is so irritating and disgusting. Why not channel the whole effort to your sexual capability to ensure you are giving her maximum satisfaction. Remind you that whatever she starts doing now will be very hard to stop it once she becomes used to it, whether anal sex or whichever I think it should be done with your manhood, if anything should be worked on I think it should be your manhood and sexual capability. Please oo this is my opinion I am sorry if I have in any way sounded somehow abeg, just that I really felt for you after reading your story, I almost shed tears because I can't imagine myself being in that position for any reason.

Its a strap on, I wear it and tuck in my mandhood into it. Its not used for masturbation, am the one that uses it/ Sorry bro, there is nothing my manhood can change in getting her 3 times stronger orgasm. My manhood can only get her 1 time strong orgasm which is what we do most of the time.

smokeydrinky:


lemme tell u a story. a man went to see his dr nd while having a chat, he gisted the doctor about their ex neighour who was very close to his family especially his wife while they lived in a particular area nd birthed their kids. years after, dey relocated and the wife kept lamenting that she missed their good neighbor. he wanted more kids but couldn't have any. dat particular visit to.d dr had revealed that he was unable to impregnate a woman nd he was Gisting the Dr that the birth of his kids was a miracle since he was impotent. aftet the gist, der was a minute of silence as he himself figured out who the real father of the kids are.

my dear, hmm.....check well well. use ur tongue to count ur teeth. im not insinuating anything o.

Your story is upside down. dont get it.

Typing...

Who decides the satisfaction ?

You because u dey show muscle or her for hitting the right place ?

Not married, just Here to learn

Deep and wide, deep and wide there's a river flowing deep and wide......bros your wife has tasted Madingo and Lex Steele combined, she's just managing your kini eventually, water will find its level....a word is sufficient for the wise go and get her her 12" kini back or face the consequences...Ibrahim the mai'gard is packing heat and chewing Burantashi with suya

Its your marriage, so u shud keep it to u. But as a man, never make it obvious to a woman that you have insecurities especially in the sexual department. Going desperate miles is doing just that. Sometimes your confidence alone is a good turn on....don't push that woman to go thirsting for real blooded 11 inches o.lol. about the gaping an.....u...u...s, its probably her sphincter recovering from 11 inches. Lol. But damn it...sexual compatibility shouldn't be trivialized with

I find it annoying the way some ladies crave for big monster cocks; they forget that it's not always by size but by stamina and style. Take note@Bella

women in a relationship want rocks (or diamonds) while men seek gold. Rocks, for a woman, are wonderful nights out, romantic attention, and emotional connection. Gold for a man is sex. If you give a woman only gold or a man just rocks, neither will be satisfied. There must be an exchange - #TheGame

darsool500:


I commend your post. She revealed almost everything about her past to me, reason why I cherished her the more. Though the anal part, she didnt divulge, probably because it might be too heavy to say which I understand. But you see your emboldened part is real, I'll tell you a little story.

Before I met my wife, I had a lady I was dating back then. We used to have anal, infact I was the first person to do it. 2 years after, I traveled for 6 months, by the time I came back, I kept calling for her to come around, she kept making different excuses, i.e, I am almost there, I am not feeling fine, time has gone and all that. Then I became suspicious, went down to her store, and then found out she was married and heavily pregnant. Result of the findings, she wanted to give birth, and probably come back to me coded to enjoy anal, probably because it aint what the new husband is doing or known to be doing. So I pretty much understand your line there.

them don Bleep your wife pussy and asshole comot line, tufiakwa, god forbid that kind woman, see why virgins are good, she will only be used to your dick once you deflower her.

Lo

Hmmm

Dyt:
Omo mehn
Different marital issues everywhere

You mean your wife takes 8 in her an.us?


And 11 deep down her punny?


Sisisioge

How many inches do you take in each.

Seriously serious

I will give my words as follows:
1.You failed to really understanding the woman before marriage.
2.Marriage is not to re-build a man rather is an institution to further cope with one and another,because you can never get a change woman after marriage rather you gets a change woman from old ways before marriage.
3.You failed to understand sex satisfaction of the woman before marriage,dick size is not the problem rather is the contempt that you have a loving husband that matters.
4.Solution,take the woman to well believing&deliverance church e.G M.F.M for delivarance and also go for counselling in Happy home ministry both in MFM.

darsool500:


I commend your post. She revealed almost everything about her past to me, reason why I cherished her the more. Though the anal part, she didnt divulge, probably because it might be too heavy to say which I understand. But you see your emboldened part is real, I'll tell you a little story.

Before I met my wife, I had a lady I was dating back then. We used to have anal, infact I was the first person to do it. 2 years after, I traveled for 6 months, by the time I came back, I kept calling for her to come around, she kept making different excuses, i.e, I am almost there, I am not feeling fine, time has gone and all that. Then I became suspicious, went down to her store, and then found out she was married and heavily pregnant. Result of the findings, she wanted to give birth, and probably come back to me coded to enjoy anal, probably because it aint what the new husband is doing or known to be doing. So I pretty much understand your line there.

You seem to be building your life around sex and women of sex. Ease up and do better things with your life, instead of trying to satisfy a woman sexually or materially. As an endowed man down there, I have found out that women will complain it's too big when you start with them, grow to love it later and transform to want it every time any time, more, more, more, and more. My brother, you will start running then and they will be wanting more. Will a man kill himself? Sometimes, I tell them, see this d11ck, I know you like it, please take it home and leave me here to rest and conserve my small energy.

Bottom line is, no woman has ever been admitted into a hospital because her toto is filled up with sperm or with too much d11ck. Do your best to satisfy her, if she wants hercules to ride her, na she sabi. Don't let that woman kill you with sex and emotional and complex problem. She has infected you with an insecurity that will soon drive you to taking enhancing drugs that might stop your heart in the middle of sex one day.

You married her cos she got you in bed. Such women might be good as girlfriends, but not as wives.

thorpido:
All I can say is more grease to your elbow.
Remember to buy a pestle and keep.You might need it in the future.

More grease to her Anu.s, u mean?

OMG.
Does she pad her anus? it's supposed to leak cos of too much anal sex.

Unbelievable.... Just unbelievable . This one pass me.

moshino:



How many inches do you take in each.

Definitely not your baby finger size


You still dey here?

Thought you were buzuked some years back

smokeydrinky:


lemme tell u a story. a man went to see his dr nd while having a chat, he gisted the doctor about their ex neighour who was very close to his family especially his wife while they lived in a particular area nd birthed their kids. years after, dey relocated and the wife kept lamenting that she missed their good neighbor. he wanted more kids but couldn't have any. dat particular visit to.d dr had revealed that he was unable to impregnate a woman nd he was Gisting the Dr that the birth of his kids was a miracle since he was impotent. aftet the gist, der was a minute of silence as he himself figured out who the real father of the kids are.

my dear, hmm.....check well well. use ur tongue to count ur teeth. im not insinuating anything o.

so this one possibly fictional story that probably didn't even happen is what you are going to use to judge the OP's wives fidelity?
whats wrong with you guys over at family section?

Op i commend you though, but i cannot give advise on your post as i have absolutely no experience with this issue

i don't think this can be tackled logically, as one need to have encountered similar situation before they can.

She has not gotten over her ex with his big cassava and she will likely not. I like that you tried to satisfy her, that's great for your marriage but husbands should have limit with their wives. Goodluck

Sooner or Later, either of you will start cheating on each other if you two haven't started yet.

With your detailed story about her, OP there's no way I mean No way you can satisfy her alone.

darsool500:
Hi Nairalanders, Good morning and I hope you all had a great night rest? I just wanted to seek a quick opinion here if any of you married guys were in my own shoes, which I feel no-one or probably few might be in the same shoes as I am in now. During the short time we courted before we married, she was always opened to me, and that made me sort of more attracted and glued to her, because thats my type of person. She told me about her ex, most especially their sexual past, infact while with me then, the ex used to call, and then she'll pass the phone to me to answer, but I wouldnt. She opened up as to how big his manhooooood is, and how it took her months when they started dating to adjust to his size. I am just a normal sized person, with lots of skills and stamina to make any woman whose appetite for big manhood satisfied regardless, and this is exactly what my wife portrayed while dating her, she made me feel she was satisfied.

On one faithful day, we were doing it, then suddenly my pe.niis had entered her an.us, oh my, it was so wide that I felt maybe my pe.nis had mistakenly throbbed her butttt cheek, cos she has a massiveness butttt. I didnt say anything, then she later on sent me a text right after I left the house that I did I notice we just had anallll sexxxx, I was like, it cant be that if that was ur an.usssss, then its damn toooo wide. By the time I got back, I started to question her that in my life, though I have had few anallll intercourse, but I have never come across an.us as wide as that, asked if she has been doing it b4, she said NO, claiming it was the kind of body she has. I was stuck to believing her, even though I was not convinced. Few months later, we got married, then she started opening up the more. Funny thing months after marriage, we started having more of anallll intercourse, the an.us is now back to what I can call normal, tight and enclosed, and then I asked how come ur an.us is now tight considering the fact you told me thats how your body is, she said well, she doesnt understand why its all tight up now. That I just put aside and didnt want to worry about, knowing fully well, she was probably doing it while she was dating me or whatever.

Almost a year entering into our marriage, she started talking about how she loves to have his man have a kind of di.ccckk that can handle her fat asss, bla bla bla, though we were just having a flirty chat while she was abroad to give birth, going deep into the convo with her, I decided I'll buy penile extension, the type that a man wears, like an artificial diccck, to give that deep and widening feel that she has always been used to. I am this kind of man that wants to bring fulfillment and happiness in terms of sexual contentment not thinking if I am less of a man or allowing complex to hold me down, Infact I was happy we agreed to start making use of it. Lo and behold, she was back, and we started using this stuff, 11 inches of penile extension, up to 8 inches up her butt, for the first time, my wife was all smiles and very happy after the first try. Then I knew this was what she has been missing all these while. It now came to a level where after usage of the penile, she can drop it anywhere around our bathroom where our kids do go into, and I have been complaining that this is a private tool that needs to be kept and secured for no one to see, the kids can mistakenly take it when visitors are around which can be seen. This has been happening over and over again, the last time when I decided to throw the tool away was when she had dumped it in the visitors bathroom after usage for 2 days, I just figured it out the third day, I was furious and I threw it away, because nobody should see it.

My fellow nairalanders, judging from my write up, many will think, I probably have a small manhood, in all sincerity, I dont, infact my wife is the only woman in my entire life that I had to go and extra mile for, because of the experience she had with her ex who she claims has an extremely huge manhooood, so it made my case very different. Also, my experience and skills and stamina does work, but sometimes, she just needs that deep feeling so her orgasm can be 3 times more powerful than the orgasm she gets from my own normal penetration. My fear now is, regardless of the fact that I see as a faithful woman, is there a probability that she'll cheat? Because the constant carelessness of the tool was better off for me to have thrown it away, also if we had sex 10 times in a month, we only make use of the toy twice.

I need response from experienced married men please.

if you like get 21 inches dic.k a cheat would always cheat.

Dera25:
Oga I think it is a mistake for buying an intimacy gadget for your wife in the first place, that is masturbation for crying out loud. Just imagine! Your wife using a gadget while you are around, it is so irritating and disgusting. Why not channel the whole effort to your sexual capability to ensure you are giving her maximum satisfaction. Remind you that whatever she starts doing now will be very hard to stop it once she becomes used to it, whether anal sex or whichever I think it should be done with your manhood, if anything should be worked on I think it should be your manhood and sexual capability. Please oo this is my opinion I am sorry if I have in any way sounded somehow abeg, just that I really felt for you after reading your story, I almost shed tears because I can't imagine myself being in that position for any reason.

oga e better say my wife use intimacy gadget than human toy.

I usually don't comment on issues like this, but from your 2 threads, it is not difficult to imagine she's cheating. It is yours for the finding out if can stomach it. If her ex lives in the same city or state where you live, she will go get it since it feels more natural than your strapon. Like I said, it's yours for the finding out if you can pull it through..

thorpido:
All I can say is more grease to your elbow.
Remember to buy a pestle and keep.You might need it in the future.

Something tells me (if this story is not made-up!), that this guy has started something he cant finish!

Op will likely die, trying to fulfil the sexual fantasy of his wife........and it still wont be enough!

Though sex is important in marriage but please, it is just one of the things that makes marriage work, not even the most important!

TRUST!
LOVE!!
COMMITMENT!!!
CONTENTMENT!!!!
DEDICATION!!!!
SELFLESSNESS!!!!
COMMUNICATION!!!!!
e.t.c are even much more important than sex, in later life of any marriage.

A time will come when even your body cant cope with the energy required for all these romp sex that you need to wear "attachment" to do!

Your wife should be contented with the size and performance of your manhood, just like you should be contented with the size of her punny. That is commitment in a marriage.

Anyway, if you have a cardiac arrest while trying to "do pass yourself" all in the name of l want to show her l can satisfy her, that "Ex" with a 10" co.ck is still not far away.
Who knows if the bagga is even doing top-up when you return late from work!
Sex is good but should not be the focus of any matured marriage.

You will get over it one day....... or die trying!



Lastpage!

DIKEnaWAR:



You seem to be building your life around sex and women of sex. Ease up and do better things with your life, instead of trying to satisfy a woman sexually or materially. As an endowed man down there, I have found out that women will complain it's too big when you start with them, grow to love it later and transform to want it every time any time, more, more, more, and more. My brother, you will start running then and they will be wanting more. Will a man kill himself? Sometimes, I tell them, see this d11ck, I know you like it, please take it home and leave me here to rest and conserve my small energy.

Bottom line is, no woman has ever been admitted into a hospital because her toto is filled up with sperm or with too much d11ck. Do your best to satisfy her, if she wants hercules to ride her, na she sabi. Don't let that woman kill you with sex and emotional and complex problem. She has infected you with an insecurity that will soon drive you to taking enhancing drugs that might stop your heart in the middle of sex one day.

You married her cos she got you in bed. Such women might be good as girlfriends, but not as wives.

There is light here

See question

thorpido:
All I can say is more grease to your elbow.
Remember to buy a pestle and keep.You might need it in the future.

This actually got me laughing
And each time I read it