HARDDON:

Aiit guys, lets do this together.

a) You Supply Hookup Places

b) I supply possible convo fUn lines. N their responses based on experience .

So

Drop places you mostly meet ladies , the 5th person to drop, wins d round! N id flow fun convo based on that.
After that we take inputs n questions, then move to d next round.

Perfect?

Round 1:
let the suggestions begin!

thesuave10:
THE GOLDEN RULE "CARE LESS SHE CARES MORE, CARE MORE SHE CARES LESS"

Gassa007:

A suya joint and she is with her friend

Emasel:


Approaching a girl with her friends at a suya joint,that means you go buy suya for all of them

nop mehn,they ar buying dat suya for me.am da chief officer of suya control

.
they ar guilty of eating suya using their teeth. and for their jaw dancing sekeemising .



and da only way for them not to spend da night out in suya krikri is for them to hehehehe

Emasel:


Not always true, it works only when the girl is also interested in you.

Emasel:


Approaching a girl with her friends at a suya joint,that means you go buy suya for all of them

Adasun:
nop mehn,they ar buying dat suya for me.am da chief officer of suya control

.
they ar guilty of eating suya using their teeth. and for their jaw dancing sekeemising .



and da only way for them not to spend da night out in suya krikri is for them to hehehehe

HARDDON:





She buys u lunch, take away, buh u already full, so u tuk it home n gave it to your dog

peterpen:

Chatting is no p, buh texting and calling, i need to improve, the last time i called two girls, i noticed i was free sassy and witty with one i was familiar with buh the other one i wasn't familiar with was a bit boring, i had to cut the call and jit myself with a pitch book, i am beginning to think i m not the problem buh the girls i approach

thesuave10:
THE GOLDEN RULE "CARE LESS SHE CARES MORE, CARE MORE SHE CARES LESS"

thesuave10:
OK.. . I think I got a few things to add here that's really gonna speed sh*t up
1 the op and others should start teaching with videos or something it works better that way and helps learning. Videos of themselves in action would be the best. Videos that shows all sides because no one can boast of 100% success rate in approaching girls or a smooth ride either. Such videos would let others know how to act and react.

2 still on the videos but from a different angle. Telling someone things like "come in confident" "be direct" " be observant" "show her who you are" doesn't just cut it.Because how does one even freaking do it. I hope you see my point. Like it doesn't show the HOW factor. Like referring to the guy that asked about some online stuff: what do you say when she says "this one you remembered me.. .." . Before I jump on this let me just say that she's into you on some sort of level for her to ask you this.
Now there's a thousand ways to reply but most of these replies depends on the connection you're at with her.
You could say "I caught you spying on my fb page"
My baby cousin just said something you always say

Etc. Notice how the replies are different. The first one is a bit more fun and witty. The 2nd one is a bit more touchy or romantic if you'd Wanna call it.
There's more you can come up with. Focus more on the connection level you are and the kinda feeling or emotions you wanna create in that moment. Always remember "it's not about the lines but the mentality behind them"

#peace..

mctowel01:

You made a lot of sense gaan.I ve always known most of the dating tips are not really practical tothe person learning them. It takes an added form of social understanding to be able to communicate same things with words and signs, thereby creating more attraction. Its not always learned online, its natural to some and takes lots of practice for many to develop.

Ustec:
Her:y re u so different nd stubborn for a Goddess lyk me dat evry guy worship....whats dat ur name again.?

LOL,i just dey play around ni o..
Harddon fr33 browsing Cheat is Still Blazing.!

Ustec:


Lol...
The rate at which it UNLOCKS and dowNload heaVy and classiFied FILES is SUPERSONIC...!

HARDDON:


About a lady been defensive, i can assuredly tell u, u spiked d defense mechanism by wrongly mixed fun jab.

Or outright crudeness.

In picking ur way tru a bomb mine , u must not step on one.

U must learn to fly , like d Blackbird, undetected by radars while wrecking havoc .

Buh, as one still wobbling, this is expected.

U already knew what u said wasnt very kul hence u cudnt say it here

peterpen:
HARDDON, Ustec, okwypascal and other Don in the house, in kind of a dilemma, How do you reply a girl who says, "This one you remember me today, am i safe or something like that How do collect number frm a girl you have been chatting with on facebook

Ustec:


BOSS''
Am still waiting..!way forward

Ustec:



Like seriously!?

She's gonna do all that in the 1st approach.

U dis BOSS ehn.!
Na CHARM u dey use ni?

Dont forget to give us somthing related to this on the aproach drill o.!

HEFNER is a no mere man,he deserves the award.!

HARDDON:
Sense Pill 2: THE WAY UP, IS D WAY DOWN

For ladies r like money, the more u chase them, the harder it gets

Rather learn to set traps... Sassy/fun traps

HARDDON:



Approach? Qhat a tensed official name: i dont approach ladies, i only give em d privilege of meeting me n i hv first time convo wit em like we've known for years!
Yea, thatz the charm.

Wit this, it always feels like a dream afterwards

maestromicky:
Bosses Boss i hail ooo... Actually there is dis gurl in my class we have been fwends for over a year now... She comes to my lounge stay for longer hours... Actually i have dis sendless lifestyle towards her...nd i think its digging her... Buh nytime she comes around i dont have d sex feelings but dis gurl go wer die... How can initiate dis feelings nd how can i also initiate such feelings in her head....

pkang:


I really do appreciate your good gesture in trying to help some men out of their problems.

I have some too and your advise or anyone is highly appreciated.

I can hardly communicate with anyone; Mother, Father, Brothers, Sisters and Friends even to strangers.

Women love me but i am always shy and let them go

I have also lost a girl to a colleague at my place of work as well as my Quality Manager.

For my quality manager, i told her that i would like her to visit my house and she preferred a hotel. I told her that i am allergic to hotel and i have not been there and she told me to try it once. Few days later, i called to her that i have booked a hotel that she should come her response, " do u think i will actually follow u there" then i switched of my phone because of fear and tension. I thought she would sack me at work b/c i am a contract staff but she didn't.

Now i have a girl who normally look at me each time i passes her office. The looking has lasted for some months and now we are greeting each other. I really want to go ask her name and know more about her and if possible take her out but fear of the right approach.
I can hardly give a genuine reply to any convo infact conversation is my biggest problem. I cannot just do it. I might loss this girl, but i don't want to do it in a nice guy's way. I just need some steps on how to do this.
I have been planning for a line like this," heh, u r under arrest by me and i wont leave here without u accompanying to the station except you tell me your name". If this works, what will be the very next word or action to take. Or better still, how do u think abt it.

I have been finding it difficult reasoning out some things even remembering names is a big problem to me. Most times i will chat with a girl and after ther chat my brain will remember how i would have said things instead of how i said it but then, it is too late, and i never chat with the person again.

This is my humble proble and although women complain that i don't always smile. Will smiling always not be look as silly?

brandon180:
bosses in da rum i hail oooo..
I have a problem, wen ever am with a gal, i always have this problem of not knowing wat to say, as in i think of topics to discuss i always come up with none..anyhelp?

echobazz:
Harddon and co,i'm really impressed with the discussions in this thread,well there is this girl who is always asking after my babe but i always keep mute or become less concerned about the question,but she is always persistent about the question.What is she after?