peterpen:

If you are really concerned about helping, i would suggest you create a whatsapp group...easier i tell you

make baba harddy no catch you oo

BadBullet:

make baba harddy no catch you oo

liljboy:
your head will just hit a dead end.
your reasoning will just blackout.
your mouth will just go dry.... been there, yea I have.

read from page one to four, use something around her, what she's wearing etc, say something that'll seek for a reply from her, make her smile, be yourself.

wow liljboy you are really good at this, you should be harddon's right hand man

Nice

HARDDON:





She buys u lunch, take away, buh u already full, so u tuk it home n gave it to your dog

hello BOSS..!
I think it's actually possible if one is able to combine the punchlines very well..was chatting with one yesterday nd I ask her to get me something expensive,I know she's not broke thats y I decided to try it on her,or maybe my judgment was wrong,..either way...below was her reply..

what re the best possible response to that,cos is like she's trying to resist it..
And concerning the other girl I asked of her numbr.,what re the best possible response to that aswell...
Boss,pls help me on these two and I will STOP CRYING LIKE A BAiBY..!LOL

BOSS....
I was talking to one yesterday night..I noticed she was looking at me seductively nd I wasn't rily expecting anything cos she's somehow a target practice...

so I said: this one that you are looking @ me like you wanna have me all to yourself this night...you have to try harder...

the response was:
HER:Have you as how,..to do what?

I just went blank,so I spin..

BOSS I know there is something she wants me to say and what not to say..
what's ur take on that

brandon180:
bosses in da rum i hail oooo..
I have a problem, wen ever am with a gal, i always have this problem of not knowing wat to say, as in i think of topics to discuss i always come up with none..anyhelp?

GUYS CAN BE SO SO SO nd NO GO GO GO..!
©HARDDON

Dude you know what?
quit watching pornography for now,and stop those wankings of urs if ur into it..lol
And one more thing,whenever u re with her or talking to her,STOP thinking about PUSSY nd how you re going to Bleep her..lol

And one more secret, talk to her like u re talking to your SISTERS...@least ur JROD will respect itself when ur with ur sister..lol
thank me later...!

liljboy:
INTROVERT SPECIALIST.
you have to make a move before you lose this other lady, since she looks at you almost all the time, just dash into her office tomorrow and be like, I see you like wearing jeans/shirts/suits/t-shirts, am trying to get one for my sis or female cousin..... where do you buy yours and what's the price range like? she'll be free to tell you. then say something like, what if I give you some cash will you purchase it for me?, then immediately say something else like, NO NO DON'T BOTHER, (with a funny frowning face) YOU MAY JUST CHOOSE TO QUIT THE NEXT DAY AND RUN AWAY WITH MY 4K, ITS MY LAST CARD THIS MONTH, LET ME COME AND BE GOING. then you tell her, see you later madam jeans/shirt etc then bounce.

but guy you need to go back to your root and start having a decent convo with your siblings etc, tackling it from the root will help you a lot.

Bro, thanks a lot. But after I bounce out what next, what do I do next or the following day.

BTF, I can't keep little convo I have tried read books but yet can't sit beside my Father and Mother to discuss issues except politics with my pop.

brandon180:
bosses in da rum i hail oooo..
I have a problem, wen ever am with a gal, i always have this problem of not knowing wat to say, as in i think of topics to discuss i always come up with none..anyhelp?

I understand you my man but these are the real reasons why this is happening
1 you have set a standard that doesn't and shouldn't exist. Now this means that some how you have made it look like girls are different from guys and that talking to them needs some special line or something which is not true. Talk about the same interesting stuffs you talk with your sisters or female relatives + male buddies too

2. You're not confident or comfortable with yourself. Talk about things your passionate about and she'll love it.

But just to make it a bit more practical, here are some topics travel fashion food family. Above all make the conversation about her more

echobazz:
Harddon and co,i'm really impressed with the discussions in this thread,well there is this girl who is always asking after my babe but i always keep mute or become less concerned about the question,but she is always persistent about the question.What is she after?

What is she After?? She wants to be your gf man like the light has never been more green. She wants to know how easy for her it will be for her to be your gf. Basically she wants to know her chances and check if it's worth the shot. Now, you want to let her know she'll be your babe if she gives in her all that is basically it's not that easy to get you. We'll do that in some ways:

1 joke about having more than one. Like in a half serious manner something like I have 10.6 babes or something like that. Encourage her to enjoy the moment and let both of you see how bright the future is gonna be

2 tell her you have a gf maybe she traveled, she's not around or something but also let her know you find her interesting as well #fingers crossed

3 tell her plainly you don't have a girlfriend that relationships should be done the right way. Tell her "I'm the kinda person that likes to take things slow emotionally and fast physically" in a joking vibe/half serious tone. But give her the impression that she's under consideration.

Will add more later

pkang:


I really do appreciate your good gesture in trying to help some men out of their problems.

I have some too and your advise or anyone is highly appreciated.

I can hardly communicate with anyone; Mother, Father, Brothers, Sisters and Friends even to strangers.

Women love me but i am always shy and let them go

I have also lost a girl to a colleague at my place of work as well as my Quality Manager.

For my quality manager, i told her that i would like her to visit my house and she preferred a hotel. I told her that i am allergic to hotel and i have not been there and she told me to try it once. Few days later, i called to her that i have booked a hotel that she should come her response, " do u think i will actually follow u there" then i switched of my phone because of fear and tension. I thought she would sack me at work b/c i am a contract staff but she didn't.

Now i have a girl who normally look at me each time i passes her office. The looking has lasted for some months and now we are greeting each other. I really want to go ask her name and know more about her and if possible take her out but fear of the right approach.
I can hardly give a genuine reply to any convo infact conversation is my biggest problem. I cannot just do it. I might loss this girl, but i don't want to do it in a nice guy's way. I just need some steps on how to do this.
I have been planning for a line like this," heh, u r under arrest by me and i wont leave here without u accompanying to the station except you tell me your name". If this works, what will be the very next word or action to take. Or better still, how do u think abt it.

I have been finding it difficult reasoning out some things even remembering names is a big problem to me. Most times i will chat with a girl and after ther chat my brain will remember how i would have said things instead of how i said it but then, it is too late, and i never chat with the person again.

This is my humble proble and although women complain that i don't always smile. Will smiling always not be look as silly?

We've dealt with this already. btw pg 1-25 i think .

brandon180:
bosses in da rum i hail oooo..
I have a problem, wen ever am with a gal, i always have this problem of not knowing wat to say, as in i think of topics to discuss i always come up with none..anyhelp?

Page 1-30 have your answers

IamAkinzy:
Baba Hardon I Hail o.thanks 4 d Tips & al..used some on my GF ex to be & it's workin nw..she just started actin strange on my cals & I could see where it was headn to. I had 2 switch! didn't Cal 4 like 5days and now am seeing about 7missed cals here tonyt..abeg next move Boss?

Keep ignoring. let her send text messages first.

pkang:


Bro, thanks a lot. But after I bounce out what next, what do I do next or the following day.

BTF, I can't keep little convo I have tried read books but yet can't sit beside my Father and Mother to discuss issues except politics with my pop.

you see, politics works for your dad. what works for your mum and siblings or even that girl at work, find out, research on it and use it to your advantage.

liljboy:
you see, politics works for your dad. what works for your mum and siblings or even that girl at work, find out, research on it and use it to your advantage.

pls liljboy what is the best way to call or message a girl whose number you got from her friend, I can't chat cause she's not on WhatsApp

pkang:


Bro, thanks a lot. But after I bounce out what next, what do I do next or the following day.

BTF, I can't keep little convo I have tried read books but yet can't sit beside my Father and Mother to discuss issues except politics with my pop.

Food fashion movies tastes in music, future ideas, her core values. Entertainment. Stay away from religion, politics, holocaust, terrorist at the beginning and middle of your journey. Act natural, don't over think it. She's a human being like you. Try linking every conversation.
You: all smiles, seems like you woke up on the right side of the bed today.
Her: smiles says something
What you do is to use what she says to flow.
She might say Yh.. Watched a movie last night or I slept like a baby last night.
From response 1: oh really you're a late night watcher, what movie? Or what movie kept you passed your bed time? Lol

From response 2: like a baby? Some back massages I suppose. Etc

My style tends to give you a very fast but smooth ride.. .

Enjoy!

liljboy:
you see, politics works for your dad. what works for your mum and siblings or even that girl at work, find out, research on it and use it to your advantage.

yea liljboy, thesuave10, hw do you chat up a girl via text, how do,you hold on a conversation with a girl without telling her you collected her number from your friend....we need texting drills also

liljboy:
you see, politics works for your dad. what works for your mum and siblings or even that girl at work, find out, research on it and use it to your advantage.

so I have finally gotten this girls number from her friend, who told me not to tell her who I got it from.

pls liljboy what is the best way to call or message a girl whose number you got from her friend, I can't chat cause she's not on WhatsApp,
pls I don't want to do it in a way that she will think I am unserious.


Harddon
Okwypascal
Ustec

Japhet04:
so I have finally gotten this girls number from her friend, who told me not to tell her who I got it from.

pls liljboy what is the best way to call or message a girl whose number you got from her friend, I can't chat cause she's not on WhatsApp,
pls I don't want to do it in a way that she will think I am unserious.


Harddon
Okwypascal
Ustec

I gave you a legit means to approach her and still have your balls intact, instead you sort for a 'perceived easier way'. Bravo!!! you've just sent a message over,
1. Am a weakling that can't talk to you face to face
2. Behind this my bossy facade, am just a boy

At first bolded, for her friend to give you her number means she sees you as someone who deserves her friend, someone 'okay' so to speak..... or possibly someone she and her friend have been gossiping about and admire from a distance.


At second bolded, you rightly pointed out its hard for you to hold a convo, how do you want to go about talking to her on phone, I know your type will just black out, EM EM I JUST CALLED TO SAY HI, I AM...... YOUR COLLEAGUE AT SO SO SO PLACE, THE TALL BLACK BLA BLA BLA, OK BYE GOODNIGHT......


mtchew, you just fall my hands.

peterpen:

yea liljboy, thesuave10, hw do you chat up a girl via text, how do,you hold on a conversation with a girl without telling her you collected her number from your friend....we need texting drills also

whats the circumstances surrounding your taking the number from a friend.... she dey live far from you or not? una get vibe together? una don talk before ?

liljboy:
whats the circumstances surrounding your taking the number from a friend.... she dey live far from you or not? una get vibe together? una don talk before ?

Saw her photo on my guys phone and was interested, she is kinda far from me and the probability of seeing her is slim

liljboy:
I gave you a legit means to approach her and still have your balls intact, instead you sort for a 'perceived easier way'. Bravo!!! you've just sent a message over,
1. Am a weakling that can't talk to you face to face
2. Behind this my bossy facade, am just a boy

At first bolded, for her friend to give you her number means she sees you as someone who deserves her friend, someone 'okay' so to speak..... or possibly someone she and her friend have been gossiping about and admire from a distance.


At second bolded, you rightly pointed out its hard for you to hold a convo, how do you want to go about talking to her on phone, I know your type will just black out, EM EM I JUST CALLED TO SAY HI, I AM...... YOUR COLLEAGUE AT SO SO SO PLACE, THE TALL BLACK BLA BLA BLA, OK BYE GOODNIGHT......


mtchew, you just fall my hands.

boss relax

I just want to know what I can use to start the first convo then I can take it from there, since she is not on WhatsApp i can only call or message, i don't know which would be more appropriate. Pls help

funny to see guys still have time to study how to make moves#lemme come nd be going shaa#

Edubrazilnwa:
funny to see guys still have time to study how to make moves#lemme come nd be going shaa#

@thesuave10

As much as i appreciate your contribution( though most r weak n dont fully rep our beliefs here) to this thread,

kindly desist from requesting followers of this thread to send you email or any form of contact away from this thread!

I have aforetimes told you to create your own thread and do your things over there.Most of your ideas are different from mine and i see no reason why you wud be mixing them in here. Create Your Own Thread.
This is the last time i would say this.

And for every1 else, kindly note that i have not assigned anybody to represent me in any capacity as such be very careful who you relate wit thru this thread.

I would not be held liable for ANY eventualities that springs forth from your exchanging contacts tru this thread nor physical meeting.
BE WARNED
DO ANY OF THE ABOVE AT YOUR OWN RISK!


A word is enuf for the wise........

HARDDON:
@thesuave10

As much as i appreciate your contribution( though most r weak n dont fully rep our beliefs here) to this thread,

kindly desist from requesting followers of this thread to send you email or any form of contact away from this thread!

I have aforetimes told you to create your own thread and do your things over there.Most of your ideas are different from mine and i see no reason why you wud be mixing them in here. Create Your Own Thread.
This is the last time i would say this.

And for every1 else, kindly note that i have not assigned anybody to represent me in any capacity as such be very careful who you relate wit thru this thread.

I would not be help liable for ANY eventualities that springs forth from your exchanging contacts tru this thread nor physical meeting.
BE WARNED
DO ANY OF THE ABOVE AT YOUR OWN RISK!


A word is enuf for the wise........

Dude chill. Let it be clear that Harddon has not assigned me to do all these as you can see our methods are different. Mine is faster and definitely more accurate. It's very practical and very informative. I don't jump around the bush with statements like "do it right, show confidence all that crap. I let you develop yourself as a person Cuz self fulfillment is the key to success and therefore become Your Own guru one of the things I like to do is to give you every possible response a girl can give you and every possible statement to respond. So that you find your own style that works for you. As regards people meeting me, dude I'm at a greater risk than practically everyone but I have used this as a medium so that people can learn the best ways. Online tutorial doesn't cut it. Showing people the real stuffs live is way better than anything else. Body language, touch. Eye contact are extremely important and these things are not properly taught here. My method is by far one of the most practical out there, very fast and effective. Less talk required too much is not good in gaming. No risks, no bullshit. You Harddon try it out yourself and see how it works. Fashi all these online stuff. Show them the real stuff. #peace

thesuave10:


Dude chill. Let it be clear that Harddon has not assigned me to do all these as you can see our methods are different. Mine is faster and definitely more accurate. It's very practical and very informative. I don't jump around the bush with statements like "do it right, show confidence all that crap. I let you develop yourself as a person Cuz self fulfillment is the key to success and therefore become Your Own guru one of the things I like to do is to give you every possible response a girl can give you and every possible statement to respond. So that you find your own style that works for you. As regards people meeting me, dude I'm at a greater risk than practically everyone but I have used this as a medium so that people can learn the best ways. Online tutorial doesn't cut it. Showing people the real stuffs live is way better than anything else. Body language, touch. Eye contact are extremely important and these things are not properly taught here. My method is by far one of the most practical out there, very fast and effective. Less talk required too much is not good in gaming. No risks, no bullshit. You Harddon try it out yourself and see how it works. Fashi all these online stuff. Show them the real stuff. #peace

As much as you think you are tryin to help, which you are, i would advice you respect His space, you are encroaching on his space thereby bringing a clash of interest, pls do the needful.....

BOSS...!
Am still wobbling..
Running out of time.

Walking out for a while...!

thesuave10:


Dude chill. Let it be clear that Harddon has not assigned me to do all these as you can see our methods are different. Mine is faster and definitely more accurate. It's very practical and very informative. I don't jump around the bush with statements like "do it right, show confidence all that crap. I let you develop yourself as a person Cuz self fulfillment is the key to success and therefore become Your Own guru one of the things I like to do is to give you every possible response a girl can give you and every possible statement to respond. So that you find your own style that works for you. As regards people meeting me, dude I'm at a greater risk than practically everyone but I have used this as a medium so that people can learn the best ways. Online tutorial doesn't cut it. Showing people the real stuffs live is way better than anything else. Body language, touch. Eye contact are extremely important and these things are not properly taught here. My method is by far one of the most practical out there, very fast and effective. Less talk required too much is not good in gaming. No risks, no bullshit. You Harddon try it out yourself and see how it works. Fashi all these online stuff. Show them the real stuff. #peace

body language keh.......
once you can establish good eye contact and confidence and folow all harddon simple senses rules.. #shikena .then develop yourself natural. ..
how body language go help once i stand erect and straight and my sitting position is correct... like a relaxed gentleman..wetin i need again
# una they make woman mata complex jare

Meel:
Mr Hardon please help me out with these girl.


This girl is my old friend, (friends from secondary school). I have always had a crush on her, but have always lacked the courage to ask her out, though we are tight friends. I
It has been 5 years that we saw each other last, God willing last year December being our alumni get together, she got my phone number from my other friends. Then she messaged me on WhatsApp, since then we have been in touch together, I do talk with her either on chat messenger or phone call atleast three times in a week, if I don't message/call her she will.


I wanted to ask her out so I started by asking her, her
relationship status , lo and behold she didn't reply( after she has read the message I.e It has been marked blue), I then called her again that same night(to let her know am expecting an answer but I never spoke about the question on call with her).The following day when I haven't seen her reply I apologised for intruding on her privacy, (though she never replied). For the past two weeks that this happened , she has been trying to make our conversation very short( answering my WhatsApp message with letters instead of words, short calls instead of a lengthy one) . It has been a week we talked last, we haven't call nor message each other.

What is the forward?
N.b We school at different states but it is thirty minutes drive from each other.

U jumped on this thread i can tell, we hv dealt wit issues like this ealier

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