skelefish:

@bold hmmm
What kind of a married man makes cooking 3 meals everyday his pleasure?

I know it is good for a man to assist his wife, but not the way your husband is doing it.

I always tell men of this generation to be careful about the kind of woman they settle down with, because considerable number of women of this generation lacks morals & are extremely lazy.

If not, how can a woman come online to boastfully say her husband cooks for the family all the time, while she practically does nothing...if i may ask what are u teaching your daughters? None of my sisters will dare make such a comment in the presence of mum.

Without wishing to sound obnoxious, it doesn't reflect well on u as a mother. How do your mum feels when she comes for a visit & see your husband doing the cooking all the time?

I really don't know what this generation is turning into.

The real wives are our mothers

Janeyinspires:
I no even know where to begin put mouth for this matter......If a wife won't cook for the husband(family),who will do it for her? Abi she wan swap role? Is cooking not inclusive in taking care of the home, as being the duty of a wife? If there is love and understanding in a home,I wonder the place of this lubbish campaign! Btw,is the home a place to claim equality?

TonyeBarcanista:

I laughed when I saw it but whatever goes on in her home is their business.


Man's mother visits her son and meets wife in the sitting room...


Mama: My daughter where is my son, your husband?

Wife: He is in the kitchen preparing dinner


THE NEXT MORNING

Mama: where is my son

Wife: he is in the kitchen preparing breakfast

LATER IN THE DAY

Mama: I haven't seen my son for a couple of minutes

Wife: He's in the kitchen preparing lunch


Mama: Chaaaaaaaaaaaiiiiiiiii! My enemies have succeeded in getting me ooooooo

baby124:

Na so. You are the one that is battered, frustrated, and on NL rejoicing on how you have taught your completely unhinged husband to learn to insult you and your family less. Your family obviously sold you into marriage to eat. Otherwise you will not be there enduring beatings and insults. Big fool. I never chop that is boasting that she feeds someone. Your family don chop? You are shameless and a big fool. You need help and you need to take your mad husband with you. You have lost it so much that you open a pathetic diary detailing your shamelessness and your failure in marrying a mad man with no proper home training. Dunce.

skelefish:

Lolzz...quite funny but true

I noticed alot of lazy women now use the word feminism as a euphemism for laziness these days.

pocohantas:
I have read it and I maintain you all should get your emotions in check. Every disgruntled woman isn't a feminist.
Were they with a feminist badge I ask again?

Marry the kind of women you want, simple!!!

Better go and call those rapists, corrupt politicians, kidnappers...etc to order. They're worse menace.

greatgod2012:
Any woman who is old enough to get married should know what is right for her to do! Nobody should be able to plant any seed of discord in anyone's marriage. Women should know what they want in their marriages and not waiting for what someone will tell them or write for them as guidance. Any woman who can't personally take decision as regards how she would run and maintain her marriage do not have business getting married in the first instance!



My humble opinion!

RadiantBae:


Lol. Cooking isn't my primary role... birthing the children is the only primary role of a woman in a relationship. #wifenotcook

My hubby cooks ALL the time because he enjoys it. I clean up after him but cooking our 3 meals is his pleasure and leisure. I assist him when I want to treat him. The point I'm making is the world is changing. Because things are done differently doesn't make it bad. If you are happy with the way your home is run then don't worry about how other people do it.

ahnie:
Grabs Pepsi and popcorn,this fight wee bee very sweet.

Pls E-tigress....i think you are not making sense.the op never insulted women.

aljharem:


Lol you know some women are foolish. The Bible says a wise woman builds her home but a foolish women tires it down.

skelefish:

@bold hmmm
What kind of a married man makes cooking 3 meals everyday his pleasure?

I know it is good for a man to assist his wife, but not the way your husband is doing it.

I always tell men of this generation to be careful about the kind of woman they settle down with, because considerable number of women of this generation lacks morals & are extremely lazy.

If not, how can a woman come online to boastfully say her husband cooks for the family all the time, while she practically does nothing...if i may ask what are u teaching your daughters? None of my sisters will dare make such a comment in the presence of mum.

Without wishing to sound obnoxious, it doesn't reflect well on u as a mother. How do your mum feels when she comes for a visit & see your husband doing the cooking all the time?

I really don't know what this generation is turning into.

The real wives are our mothers

ifyan:


One of them l guess

RadiantBae:


A very proud one at that

ShaqFu:
So, if your husband choose not to pay your kids school fees you'll be okay with it?

ahnie:
Barcanista she nor reach to BULLY me.she z just one old frustrated feminist who z probably in her menopausal stage.

She has serious issues...let her be there while her husband goes into the kitchen with apron cooking for her(that z if she z even lucky to be married.she z just one old bittered useless old missfancypants.

TonyeBarcanista:
@Baby124 you don't have to go personal on Ahnie over her comment. Whatever happens in her home is no business of yours, you need not try to use it to maliciously bully her. Beside, aren't you confused? You claim to be a feminist but you are mocking another woman over alleged abuse in her home that APPEARS LIKE FALSEHOOD!

This is why I keep saying that people that parade themselves as "feminists" in this part of the world are nothing but embittered souls that always seek to find something to kill joy in the homes of married ladies. You just have to critically consider your stand my dear.

@Ahnie there is no need exchanging word with Baby

baby124:

How many beatings have you chopped this today? Coward. Instead of you to go and find work to release yourself from a place of deep slavery. You are on NL writing lamentations in name of diary. Hahahaha hahahaha. You are always going to be a big fool. You started it what your mind cannot carry, and you deserve to be faced with the truth. Your diary exposed you as a delusional, insane and hopeless creature.

RadiantBae:




You are militant! Abeg have mercy!

baby124:

My dear on a usual day I won't even go that way with a woman like her. Here I am, totally trying to understand the purpose of OP's post because it's completely senseless. Then comes this rat, that has been completely finished where she is and is frustrated to come and chook mouth insulting me slyly? No way! Shebi I am a tigress because I don't support the OP. Then she will see better Tigress since she is a mouse.

I will chop her whole and spit her bones out. She should learn next time to mind her business and get busy. Not having conversations with her 10personlaities on NL to make her diary continue.

We all know here that the diary is for the husband. She can market herself for her husband all she wants. But don't bring the madness to me. Her diary has given her guts to now come and try to prove her virtuousness for an abuser on this thread by insulting me. No way. I deal with her clean.

RadiantBae:


I hear you sis... I read the back and forth. You crack me up though. Enjoy your weekend and stay blessed hun.

ahnie:
Barcanista she nor reach to BULLY me.she z just one old frustrated feminist who z probably in her menopausal stage.

She has serious issues...let her be there while her husband goes into the kitchen with apron cooking for her(that z if she z even lucky to be married.she z just one old bittered useless old missfancypants.

pocohantas:
Some of you need to get your emotions in check.
A group of women gather for a campaign and you tag them feminist? Were they with a badge or you're so obsessed with feminism?

Why this issue of feminism gives you guys sleepless night is beyond me. Are you so insecure that you're constantly on the lookout for a woman to Lord over?
Marry the kind of woman you want, there are millions to billions of women in Nigeria, Africa...and the world. If you don't see your ideal woman in Nigeria, check Mozambique!

Everyday on front page, one rape news or the other, kidnap, murder...and your problem is that woman no gree cook? Nawa!

baby124:
Thanks jare, you too. Off to other threads. Mission complete here

TonyeBarcanista:
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Is it that some of you are suffering from comprehension problem?

I doubt you even understand the concept of FEMINISM, because what you and your kind are displaying is frustration.


Go read the thread again and understand.


Please do note that I have no intention of pleading with some misguided female folks, this thread clearly target our sensible sisters, wives and mothers, who are in their majority and deserve the best.

My dear, Tonye has never told you or any of your kind not to continue in your embittered path, that is meaningless. My target are the young ladies and reasonable women, which my mother and 5 sisters are part of.


Thanks Dear!