HAH:
then that 100k salary will be an assistant directors salary in some states

Most girls looking down on salary of 100k are still living in school illusions

Even directors.

but come o, all these girls, is it the man or the money you are marrying? lets get this shiit straight from the get go.

I cannot marry a girl that earns 100k either

Most ladies are now commenting why not if not so that they should be commended as wives material. The question should be if a lady could stay in a marriage of 100k?. Getting married to a man with that amount isn't the issue, we know out of desperation, circumstances, religious affiliation and family reasons many women will. But if the man over the years doesn't improve will she cope? Yes I can, does it mean the lady will be happy in the marriage when she sees her peers or co wives flaunting flamboyant lifestyles. What happens if eventually she start earning more than the man, will she remain humble? Are there chances of her not cheating on the man because she wants to cater for a certain lifestyle she is or was accustomed to. Men use your head don't get carried away by all these sugar coated tongues ladies saying they can.

Oya na ladies am looking for a wife ooo

even 30k is anough

Reginleit:
Some weeks ago, my roommates and I were involved in a serious argument about this issue..the original argument was whether we can marry someone that earns 100k as monthly salary..most people argued that 100k was too small, when you include daily expense, plus house rent etc..
I argued that 100k was enough to start up a home, if the rent has been paid. Also if the man has the tendency to do better..then I see no reason why I can't settle down with someone who earns that amount...

Sooo ladies , over to you...what do you think??

you girls should be busy thinking of how to make millions yourselves like your mates are doing rather than tying love to money. Who you marry should depend on who you love. It should be a function of his character and not salary. Stop destroying the path for our young kids, stop creating the wrong values in life.

Please comman marry me!

Reginleit:
Some weeks ago, my roommates and I were involved in a serious argument about this issue..the original argument was whether we can marry someone that earns 100k as monthly salary..most people argued that 100k was too small, when you include daily expense, plus house rent etc..
I argued that 100k was enough to start up a home, if the rent has been paid. Also if the man has the tendency to do better..then I see no reason why I can't settle down with someone who earns that amount...

Sooo ladies , over to you...what do you think??

Eaa247:

wow! this coming from a lady? ur type can't b a liability

Forget that thing, na her type dey be pass o. #Experience

A lady just told me she can marry a guy that earns even 50k as long as the guy has saving and investment mentality...

REMINDS ME OF MY SECONDARY SCHOOL DAYS WHEN WE USED TO SAY I WANT TO BECOME A MEDICAL DOCTOR, LAWYER ETC.

GIRLS BEING AMBITIOUS, ANYWAY WHEN YOU MEET A 70K MATERIAL, HOLD AM TIGHT PLEASE COS YOU MAY END UP MARRYING A JOBLESS FELLA.

nkemdi89:
Most ladies are now commenting why not if not so that they should be commended as wives material. The question should be if a lady could stay in a marriage of 100k?. Getting married to a man with that amount isn't the issue, we know out of desperation, circumstances, religious affiliation and family reasons many women will. But if the man over the years doesn't improve will she cope? Yes I can, does it mean the lady will be happy in the marriage when she sees her peers or co wives flaunting flamboyant lifestyles. What happens if eventually she start earning more than the man, will she remain humble? Are there chances of her not cheating on the man because she wants to cater for a certain lifestyle she is or was accustomed to. Men use your head don't get carried away by all these sugar coated tongues ladies saying they can.

I like ur shirt.. Is it from BODEN? (boden.co.uk)

nkemdi89:
Most ladies are now commenting why not if not so that they should be commended as wives material. The question should be if a lady could stay in a marriage of 100k?. Getting married to a man with that amount isn't the issue, we know out of desperation, circumstances, religious affiliation and family reasons many women will. But if the man over the years doesn't improve will she cope? Yes I can, does it mean the lady will be happy in the marriage when she sees her peers or co wives flaunting flamboyant lifestyles. What happens if eventually she start earning more than the man, will she remain humble? Are there chances of her not cheating on the man because she wants to cater for a certain lifestyle she is or was accustomed to. Men use your head don't get carried away by all these sugar coated tongues ladies saying they can.

Babe, we are talking about getting married to a man with monthly salary of 100k at the moment which is even more than enough, we all know as time goes on, such expenses may not cater for all expenditures of the hoe. With time, his financial status will change, not as if he will remain like that. For those peers flaunting their flamboyant lifestyles, well tonto dikeh story is a referral to this which speaks much about some of them living fake life trying to impress.

alexialin:
I can marry such man, be it Lagos, Ibadan, Tokyo whatever. As long as he's not jobless.

What I look out for is sincerity, zeal to succeed and be the best he can be. In his career or biz and life. true genuine love and dedication and loyalty to me and his new incoming family .

Such a man I can go through the ends of the earth for. It's no biggie to me. We are simply a team.

hello, can I give u a call? Got ur number from ur profile.

For me this question is meant for girls maybe 20 below,when u reach 30 nd above,u go remember say nkechi married a vulcanizer nd they re living happily,when girls re young,they say they will marry the president,then governor,minister,till they knw that even local government is nt available,then they 25,then any good business man,when dey don dey reach 30 nd see that those guys with range rover that drops them nd carry them have reduced nd face the younger ones,they will start facing reality,and also pressure from parents.they will now see the guyz growing their business they snubbed re now big nd have married,they will now beg for any man,some who re successful end up paying the man to marry her,sometimes pay her bride price herself.few girls reason well

30k salary earners are getting married and living comfortably. And u eventually find someone that earns a 100k and you complaining its too small, you yourself how much you dey earn. Gold diggers everywhere.

Amarabae:
why do some people see marriage as a poverty alleviation enterprise?
The guy is earning 100k a month,the question is what am I as the lady earning as monthly income?
100k is very ok for a man to start a home if the lady has something doing(work, business).
Being a financial liability sucks in marriage.
Marriage is like a Team work, a value chain network.

Please reply my PM

nkemdi89:
Most ladies are now commenting why not if not so that they should be commended as wives material. The question should be if a lady could stay in a marriage of 100k?. Getting married to a man with that amount isn't the issue, we know out of desperation, circumstances, religious affiliation and family reasons many women will. But if the man over the years doesn't improve will she cope? Yes I can, does it mean the lady will be happy in the marriage when she sees her peers or co wives flaunting flamboyant lifestyles. What happens if eventually she start earning more than the man, will she remain humble? Are there chances of her not cheating on the man because she wants to cater for a certain lifestyle she is or was accustomed to. Men use your head don't get carried away by all these sugar coated tongues ladies saying they can.

Does living a flamboyant life put food on her table or does it add money to her pocket. Life has no formula, it's not a competition. And a a matter of fact she who loves to live a flamboyant life should have enough money to support that.

i laff in french. who told u u will marry a man that earns a whooping 100k as salary? some of dem will end up with a man that earns an average of 40k or less. small small pikin wey no knw anything

Reginleit:
Some weeks ago, my roommates and I were involved in a serious argument about this issue..the original argument was whether we can marry someone that earns 100k as monthly salary..most people argued that 100k was too small, when you include daily expense, plus house rent etc..
I argued that 100k was enough to start up a home, if the rent has been paid. Also if the man has the tendency to do better..then I see no reason why I can't settle down with someone who earns that amount...

Sooo ladies , over to you...what do you think??

ediama:
You can see the very reason why most of us are still living with our parents even when we are due for marriage.

Ask yourself one question.... How many official jobs in Nigeria pays its workers 100k a month. Even government jobs only few positions pays up to that or even more.

My lecturer once told us something during lectures...something made him deviated. He said, NOT ALL WOMEN ARE DESTINE TO MARRY. He further said that, some women knows that no man can marry them. so they are out to destroy other people's lives. You came to this world alone. Alone you will return.

Don't be led by what people says or by what you see. be led by the word of God. God began the world with two people! look at us today.

Do not let another person misery infect you.

God bless u brother

Omotayor123:
why not those who earn less than that are happily married.

To me sef, 100k per month is Big Money, with time it will multiply.

#TeamOrente

U r highly gifted dear. Can we be friends?

Akalia:
hello, can I give u a call? Got ur number from ur profile.

Hmm but are u the guy who called some minutes ago?

Reginleit:
Some weeks ago, my roommates and I were involved in a serious argument about this issue..the original argument was whether we can marry someone that earns 100k as monthly salary..most people argued that 100k was too small, when you include daily expense, plus house rent etc..
I argued that 100k was enough to start up a home, if the rent has been paid. Also if the man has the tendency to do better..then I see no reason why I can't settle down with someone who earns that amount...

Sooo ladies , over to you...what do you think??

Those dt cant settle with such man are lazy, what happens to supporting the man with her own earnings 60 to 80k

Well, I never thought 100k a month was a lot of money but comments here, are actually giving me serious food for thought. All the same, if you can cope with that, then marry him. If you can't, please don't. It makes absolutely no sense to frustrate the dude and yourself. One thing I've learnt is never to completely judge women who try to set certain standards so long as they are products of such standards. The ones I have problems with, are the ones who do not come from the background they try to fit into.

What happened to " cut your coat according to your size".
100 k sure can start a family. Saving and investing will help sustain it and of course with help from the spouse.

Not surprising that your friends left out what their contributions would be

JustCalMeDBoss:
Well to me 100k is small when u stay in a city like lagos, but. As u have said prospect matters.

how much do you make now?

Reginleit:
Some weeks ago, my roommates and I were involved in a serious argument about this issue..the original argument was whether we can marry someone that earns 100k as monthly salary..most people argued that 100k was too small, when you include daily expense, plus house rent etc..
I argued that 100k was enough to start up a home, if the rent has been paid. Also if the man has the tendency to do better..then I see no reason why I can't settle down with someone who earns that amount...

Sooo ladies , over to you...what do you think??

ok just tell us say u dey find husband

If N100k is all I earn a month, there are certain ladies I won't approach for marriage.

It would be stup!d of me to approach a lady who spends 20k on her hair bi-monthly.

I will respect your friend's opinion only when they learn to respect other differing views.


The fact remains that, you cannot buy beauty, intelligence and manners with money. That you earn N1 billion/monthly is not a guarantee that you will get the best woman with the best manners, intelligence, morals and culinary skills.

With N50k salary, a good man can get a beautiful and intelligent virg.in as a WIFE. It is not about how much you earn. Of what use is a 50k Peruvian hair on a coconut head?

Reginleit:
Some weeks ago, my roommates and I were involved in a serious argument about this issue..the original argument was whether we can marry someone that earns 100k as monthly salary..most people argued that 100k was too small, when you include daily expense, plus house rent etc..
I argued that 100k was enough to start up a home, if the rent has been paid. Also if the man has the tendency to do better..then I see no reason why I can't settle down with someone who earns that amount...

Sooo ladies , over to you...what do you think??

when you graduate and enter into the labour market,u will answer ur questions urself

kizyalex10:
For me this question is meant for girls maybe 20 below,when u reach 30 nd above,u go remember say nkechi married a vulcanizer nd they re living happily,when girls re young,they say they will marry the president,then governor,minister,till they knw that even local government is nt available,then they 25,then any good business man,when dey don dey reach 30 nd see that those guys with range rover that drops them nd carry them have reduced nd face the younger ones,they will start facing reality,and also pressure from parents.they will now see the guyz growing their business they snubbed re now big nd have married,they will now beg for any man,some who re successful end up paying the man to marry her,sometimes pay her bride price herself.few girls reason well

Mtchew abeg make we hear word. I wonder where pple get this kind of thinking from

ruggedised:
op u and your silly friends should pray u even see a husband who earn 50k per month to marry self. Seems you people don't know husbands are scares

bunch of foolish gold diggers

Dnt mind those kids they always think like dt when less than 21 years by 28 they will even marry a jobless man

Amarabae:
why do some people see marriage as a poverty alleviation enterprise?
The guy is earning 100k a month,the question is what am I as the lady earning as monthly income?
100k is very ok for a man to start a home if the lady has something doing(work, business).
Being a financial liability sucks in marriage.
Marriage is like a Team work, a value chain network.

Bia, why am I feeling this attracted to your posts and comments? You have a good heart, and so lovely!