Ezionye:


say hi to her for me. U know who

Madamme abeg shift...if it were a pretty lady I would understand...you wey your face be like beans wey dem press with concave shaped spoon...thank the guy wey dey help your ministry biko...

Sometimes, people never get what they deserve because they're too busy holding on to things they're supposed to let go of.
For ladies they won't bother to think about the source of the income they will juz attach there destiny to the man's world...for ladies #Ma middle finqer up#[color=#990000][/color]

Ok.You not ready to settle down with a man

Omotayor123:
why not those who earn less than that are happily married.

To me sef, 100k per month is Big Money, with time it will multiply.

#TeamOrente

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Amarabae:
why do some people see marriage as a poverty alleviation enterprise?
The guy is earning 100k a month,the question is what am I as the lady earning as monthly income?
100k is very ok for a man to start a home if the lady has something doing(work, business).
Being a financial liability sucks in marriage.
Marriage is like a Team work, a value chain network.

I love your sense of belonging. Infact you have a sexy brain. I hope the heart is the same?

nkemdi89:

A police sergeant earns less than that and most of them are married to full time house wives, a level 10 state civil servants earns less than 60k too.

With the kind of comments I have been reading here even from girls, I now know that all hope is not yet lost on getting a right thinking lady as a wife. All one need do is just watch out & be a little more serious with oneself. If a lady can't settle with me when am earning less than 100K why will I settle with her when I get to GL 12. Some will just hang around looking out to see if your income will triple in 2 yrs. Many young girls will face the too late if they are not careful.

HAH:
then that 100k salary will be an assistant directors salary in some states

Most girls looking down on salary of 100k are still living in school illusions

Lol... I will say it will be salary of GL 14 for some states and one knows how many yrs u have to put in to get there. But bros at a time in d service u will be earning 3 times ur salary from even non corrupt means. Believe me some girls are so short sighted. Their Intellect is always their worst enemy

nkemdi89:
Most ladies are now commenting why not if not so that they should be commended as wives material. The question should be if a lady could stay in a marriage of 100k?. Getting married to a man with that amount isn't the issue, we know out of desperation, circumstances, religious affiliation and family reasons many women will. But if the man over the years doesn't improve will she cope? Yes I can, does it mean the lady will be happy in the marriage when she sees her peers or co wives flaunting flamboyant lifestyles. What happens if eventually she start earning more than the man, will she remain humble? Are there chances of her not cheating on the man because she wants to cater for a certain lifestyle she is or was accustomed to. Men use your head don't get carried away by all these sugar coated tongues ladies saying they can.

I get your drift Nkem, some girls are good at saying things but when it comes to doing it u will see them doing another. I also think that many disaffection towards ones marriage, relationship or job comes from comparing ourselves with others. The moment we start comparing our earnings with others it can only lead to 2 evils either Arrogance that u are way better than your contemporaries or unhappiness that your mates are better than u. Is hard coming by serious minded & right thinking ladies, I don't know if its the same with Ladies.

Reginleit:
Some weeks ago, my roommates and I were involved in a serious argument about this issue..the original argument was whether we can marry someone that earns 100k as monthly salary..most people argued that 100k was too small, when you include daily expense, plus house rent etc..
I argued that 100k was enough to start up a home, if the rent has been paid. Also if the man has the tendency to do better..then I see no reason why I can't settle down with someone who earns that amount...

Sooo ladies , over to you...what do you think??

I'm coming to marry you straightaway. Chop all my money, I like your kind of girls not all those girls who will end up divorced cos of material things

chronique:
Well, I never thought 100k a month was a lot of money but comments here, are actually giving me serious food for thought. All the same, if you can cope with that, then marry him. If you can't, please don't. It makes absolutely no sense to frustrate the dude and yourself. One thing I've learnt is never to completely judge women who try to set certain standards so long as they are products of such standards. The ones I have problems with, are the ones who do not come from the background they try to fit into.

A very good view too.

Na so! They always come up with "stories". If the ladies can marry a man that earns 100k monthly?
Why must it be about what the man earns? can't the lady earn her own and take care of responsibilities without waiting on the husband?
Same reason i have ruled out getting married to a woman who is a LIABILITY
we should both work and earn " independent woman", OMG! Lazy ass females everywhere..

ladies should start reasoning well. A man earning 100k asked ur hand in marriage and u are still contemplating still leaving with ur parents at 30years sister u need sense. Although those kind argument is for under 20 girls, by the time u will reach 30 u will want a 20k salary earner

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Amarabae:
why do some people see marriage as a poverty alleviation enterprise?
The guy is earning 100k a month,the question is what am I as the lady earning as monthly income?
100k is very ok for a man to start a home if the lady has something doing(work, business).
Being a financial liability sucks in marriage.
Marriage is like a Team work, a value chain network.

Sweetheart u've got good thinking faculty up there.... Keep it up and you are a great treasure in your man's life.

Omotayor123:
why not those who earn less than that are happily married.

To me sef, 100k per month is Big Money, with time it will multiply.

#TeamOrente

Will you marry me?

[quote author=Omotayor123 post=54298209]why not those who earn less than that are happily married.

Omotayor, lovely. U are real, pls send me a message on 08167846370 on wats app

Most of those ladies are gold diggers!

Abeg ask most of the people here saying N100K/mo. isn't enough to start a home, if their parents were making that when they started life and even when they were sending these ignorant people to the school/ university....Nope! Yet most of your needs that gets you here was met. What we have nowadays are lazy-spoil young people and enable by their parents, letting them still be under their roof. Remember though, the longer you wait at home and don't make move, the longer the suffering ahead for you and the closer you get older. Goodluck....

alexialin:




For me, money is not the issue.. Any guy can make money when given the opportunity, placed at the right place and at the exact right time .
One can be with a rich guy but no peace of mind or joy. Cause his arrogance is out of this world! Jeez! For me, such relationship will be suffocating and the next thing am. Gone.
I honestly can't deal. I have a very strong personality but am humble. I can balance both. So the last thing I need is a rich obnoxious guy breathing down my neck

Arrgh!!!

I can still work with below 100k kind of guy cause I know no condition is permanent. Also I work. And am looking at adding into his life.. Not just take take and take... I hate such notion and idea.
Not for me at all.

With time u will get to meet ladies who have the same school. Of thought as mine. Just be positive

thanks... you're absolutely right.
I pray God grant you...your heart desires.

Truesapiosexual:
Thank u, true love is rare i cant jeoperdise it

you welcome.
yeah u are right true love is rare....
Dear I will love to be close to u and get to know u.please?
just pm me or should I?
thanks

Amarabae:
why do some people see marriage as a poverty alleviation enterprise?
The guy is earning 100k a month,the question is what am I as the lady earning as monthly income?
100k is very ok for a man to start a home if the lady has something doing(work, business).
Being a financial liability sucks in marriage.
Marriage is like a Team work, a value chain network.

You're one sensible bae

Reginleit:
Some weeks ago, my roommates and I were involved in a serious argument about this issue..the original argument was whether we can marry someone that earns 100k as monthly salary..most people argued that 100k was too small, when you include daily expense, plus house rent etc..
I argued that 100k was enough to start up a home, if the rent has been paid. Also if the man has the tendency to do better..then I see no reason why I can't settle down with someone who earns that amount...

Sooo ladies , over to you...what do you think??

I make exactly DAT! Will u marry me dear!
BTW! No Brazilian hairdo for u oo!

coolesmile:
If your husband loses his 300k job after wedding, will you divorce him?

Things do change. So that man earning 300k monthly today may be jobless tomorrow. What then do you do?

Wise saying

Amarabae:
why do some people see marriage as a poverty alleviation enterprise?
The guy is earning 100k a month,the question is what am I as the lady earning as monthly income?
100k is very ok for a man to start a home if the lady has something doing(work, business).
Being a financial liability sucks in marriage.
Marriage is like a Team work, a value chain network.

Beautiful speech! I like this.20000likes for you.

daniella04:
I can marry a guy that earns that amount IF I see a viable prospect in him.
But can a man marry a lady that earns three times that amount while he earns 100k and not feel inferior?
I have learnt not to date guys I earn more than sha

Wait for the guy that earns more than you do

It's not just about the money.
There are a lot of things to consider before settling for the guy who earns 100,000 naira.
First does he have a nack for saving?
Second is he vain?
Third can you control your impulses?
If you answered yes to 2 & no to 3 then maybe you should probably not settle for 100k because there will always be problems and debts for you two.

daniella04:
I can marry a guy that earns that amount IF I see a viable prospect in him.
But can a man marry a lady that earns three times that amount while he earns 100k and not feel inferior?
I have learnt not to date guys I earn more than sha

Thank God u earn more than me! I won't feel inferior! Just marry me!

coolesmile:
If your husband loses his 300k job after wedding, will you divorce him?

Things do change. So that man earning 300k monthly today may be jobless tomorrow. What then do you do?

Most girls no wan know this one. They will say, "it's not my portion, or, by the time we get to that bridge we will cross it".

hamzer:
idiot. continue to chase shadows
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Your brain is made of akamu and cold moi-moi. Look up the meaning of 'sarcasm' in your dictionary.

Humility017:

thanks... you're absolutely right.
I pray God grant you...your heart desires.

Amen!

Thanks

you must be very stupid for asking that question.