This is serious oooo


But where is the vow they made to each other o. their wedding day....



I pity the kids though

last35:
Please no abuse, just sincere advise from experience people.

I'm living in a state in the south-west, I have a neighbor married with 3 kids. Like due to the economic hardship the husband was badly affected, couldn't pay rent, and provide adequately school fees and feeding (I got to know through their daily heated argument). For almost a month now the wife has constantly been berating, abusing and cursing the husband on a daily basis evwry morning.

Telling him she's packing out and living the children. Fast forward to this morning. I started gearing noise around 730am. I though it was the daily argument session. Untill the first born started screaming. I opened my door and lo and behold.

I saw heaps of luggages by the door (the husband had packed all the wife loads outside) I asked the screaming girl what's wrong. He said I should pls enter their room, I was cautious till I'm sure they weren't naked I opened the door slightly and I saw the husband and wife in a serious fight. The husband was holding the wife's neck about to snuff life out of her. With God's grace and strength I was able to separate them.

They stopped fighting but continued arguing. I entered my room without uttering a word to them. Now the issue is from my experience about there issue the husband said the wife is hit entering the room again. The wife said she's moving out without the kids, the husband said if so he will take the 3 children to ijebu and use them for money rituals. Only God knows what will happen throughout today in my house.

This night will certainly be hot! But what can I do??

Have you called the police? Or you want to start giving statements when yawa gass?

lel Oga o. this Nigeria Economy sha dae Cause trouble

Beckham14:
Lol, they even have a timetable for fight sef.



Whenever they're having a "royal rumble" please leave that arena for your own safety sir.



Sometimes, it's good to mind your business to avoid any embarrassment.

u are sooo hilarious, wtf!!! did u actually say dat? @royal rumble

last35:
I didn't mediate because the wife is something else. Constantly cursing and abusing the husband. Infact the husband is the one washing his cloths and cooking food. The husband claimed the wife didn't work for 10yrs they were married but started selling things at bodija market last year due to financial hardship. Instead of her to help in the house she's keeping her money in cooperative. Now the wife have left for her stall in the market with shattered lips and swollen face. Her loads are outside. The children have gone to school, but the husband is at home cleaning out the room. The wife will return certainly in the evening. When they are likely to continue from where they stop. I'm afraid the worst might happen. The husband was about to hit the first born with a wood for screaming a while ago

In the future that small child will probably say "i love my mother, she was there for us"

"my father was wicked...he left us" etc.

Such a pity.

ReneeNuttall:



u are sooo hilarious, wtf!!! did u actually say dat? @royal rumble

Lol, what do you want me to call it ma?

Try to speak ro the husband since the wofe is something else. Calm him down and let him see the reason he has to be patience as the head of the family, besides, he should consider his children and not to be threatening them of miney ritual.
Please do something if it is because of those children only. As you do, God will help you.
Thanks.

fluxbush:
You are the stupid and idiotic one who can't reason objectively without going all macho on me. Where did I mention the man being a houseboy? So helping out in chores makes a man a houseboy? What an idiot you are! You think you are the only one who can spew out insults? Trust me, I an game. Arrogant slowpoke with a caveman attitude. Go and marry and let me see how long it will last with this attitude of yours.

Weh done ma

efavour:
Actually both of them are acting out of frustration caused by economic hardship. One person needs to be strong at this time. They are both like fish thrown out of water. They woman probably has never worked before and so has never been out of her comfort zone . And the man may have never been out of job and not so toughed up. Both need help. They both need each other comfort. Thats is why is not good for two people to mad to get mad at the same time. When one person is man,the other should be the calming voice and not add salt to injury and vice versa. The only problem i have with op is implying that something is wrong with a man washing his own cloth,haba. That is his cloth and keeping it clean is his duty and not his wifes.

You have a very good point especially since our source of the story is from a neighbor who heard from only one side of the issue. Has he ever asked the woman why she acts out like she does? Or asked the kids how the parents relate? People underestimate the reasoning power of kids. They see and understand things we think they don't. Yet, I have monkeys jumping on me because I made a neutral observation. Nonsense. Kudos to your sense of reasoning.

Pls where is your house make I come dey enjoy this daily action nollywood movies,my Dstv Subscription don expire

AuroraB:
In one word, you are suggesting this gentleman should walk-by, okwaya? And we keep screaming 'where's humanity'. You are a Reuben. And hey, the Op's conscience ain't dead. Do you realize he may have stopped a murder?
Op, tell your Landlord to involve their people.
Police can equally do. If this results to murder, I bet you wouldn't want to live in that house again. Recession wa n'ita ooo

I gave my own advise. Pls kindly advise the Op and don't quote me.

Many thanks as you do that.

last35:
from the little I have seen the husband is a good man. The wife is the one not patient. She curse her children at every slight instance. Abuse the husband in the morning night and midnight. The husband ds mornin after the wife left still helped her in retrieving her clothes she washed which fell on the ground.

He married a tiger. He needs to take his children and move away from that woman asap.

Well that's if he wants to live long, not everybody want too...

AceRoyal:

You scream gender EQUALITY but turn a blind eye to gender EQUITY!

What are you even blabbing on about? Please just stay for your lane. I don't have the time and strength for your toxicity. If you can't read what I said without bringing in feminism and whatever,then just ignore my post. It is not by force to post.

last35:
Update ppl. Another marriage has bite the dust! After 11 years of marriage and 3kids the wife arrived few minutes ago broke down the door, destroyed electronics with shovel and moving her things out together with her friend!

Her friend...that's the problem. A friend that would help you pack your things from your husband and children of 11 years.

This goes for men and women: Watch the company you keep!!!

jakandeola:
lol I knw u will support de woman

As for you, continue stalking me from thread to thread. Go and face your babe and continue beating her. Stop disturbing my mentions.

tolugar:
Come out of your room op

Pls we need video and pics

ASAP

So as to knw the angle we ll take.


Meanwhile don't stop seperating them







Be capturing this in 3D abi your phone no get camera.


Waiting for more update

Obviously you are a teenager who has little good upbringing.

Beckham14:
Lol, what do you want me to call it ma?

nothing

d4guy:

Weh done ma

Thank you sir.

kunlesufyan:
Marriage is a different ball game entirely, if she spends time thinking of how she can contribute rather than cursing or abusing the husband maybe things would have been easier.
You won't blame guy that want to be made before contemplating marriage.

My bro, life turns, the unexpected happens, a man with riches today can be in rags tomorrow, a made man can be church rat poor in the blink of an eye. Anythingcan rresult into it.

Someone in my estate was by all standards living the life until he had a stroke and life turned, they really struggle now, the wife has becomethe man of the house wwithout any noise. She now hustles to cater for home, it's been over 2 years and I'm yet to hear a noise from that household.

Any pray you marry a good woman, a woman who won't make your life miserable just because things aren't so rosy as it used to be.

fluxbush:
You are the stupid and idiotic one who can't reason objectively without going all macho on me. Where did I mention the man being a houseboy? So helping out in chores makes a man a houseboy? What an idiot you are! You think you are the only one who can spew out insults? Trust me, I an game. Arrogant slowpoke with a caveman attitude. Go and marry and let me see how long it will last with this attitude of yours.

look at this dingbat,your frustrated life is getting the Better part of you that's why you can't analyse issues objectively. yes! i will get marry but not necessary a useless and stupid woman with a questionable character like you.

fluxbush:
You are the stupid and idiotic one who can't reason objectively without going all macho on me. Where did I mention the man being a houseboy? So helping out in chores makes a man a houseboy? What an idiot you are! You think you are the only one who can spew out insults? Trust me, I an game. Arrogant slowpoke with a caveman attitude. Go and marry and let me see how long it will last with this attitude of yours.

Madam are you married, I would like to know the "lucky" man...lol

Poverty. Check

Domestic battery and violent abuse. Check

Money rituals (threat). Check

Nah Dem. From that region

OP why are you wasting your time? Why wont they try to kill themselves outta frustration? They wanted this change naa

Abeg where is that pic?

Wiseoldman:


Madam are you married, I would like to know the "lucky" man...lol

Oh yes, I am very married and my husband is very lucky to have me and so am I lucky to have him. If you wanna be sarcastic and diss my marriage, just pass me by. I really don't want to have a dissing contest with you. When you are ready to have an objective and reasonable discourse with me, you know where the quote button is.

fluxbush:
Who sounds frustrated ? Who spewed insults and started frothing in the mouth cuz of a post? It is not my fault that you are affected by the recession. Don't transfer your aggression and frustration on me. You are not even married and you have the nerve to advise a married couple. Instead of refuting my comments with objective talk,you came here to insult me and you call me useless? You are a hopeless nonentity and your likes are found at the garage. You think because you managed to get free data you can sit behind the anonymity of the internet and bully me for my opinion. Nah! I have faced worse bullies than you and I say,you are absolutely worthless. Get out of my mentions till you can talk like the adult you are supposed to be.

you started it first becos you were being all emotional with the whole thing. is understandable becos the bible say out of the abundance of the heart speaketh the mouth, why won't you be bully when you lack manners.

Una see wetin buhari dey cause?

fluxbush:
Why are you blaming the woman for this? You said she has always been a housewife but started selling just last year due to the recession. An entitled and lazy woman won't even bother doing anything to help out in the family. You don't live with them,so you don't know if the husband strikes back at her verbally cuz of frustration. I know that broke and frustrated men lash out at their wives and children unfairly. Again, do you expect her to work all day and come back home to start all the chores? Please be realistic. Enough with all the macho. There is nothing wrong with the man helping in the chores since he has nothing doing at the moment.

Lastly,which responsible husband and father will attempt to use a heavy object on his kid? He even threatened to use them for rituals. Smh.. That man is the one with the issues and you as a fellow man,have no other option than to support him with rose coloured glasses.

At the risk of being insulted by you, Somebody needs to tell you the truth, no matter how bitter it tastes.

You're not a good person.

I read that post over and over and then I read your comments and they are very wicked comments.
I'm sure you read where the man was badly affected by the recession. I'm sure tiu read where the children were well fed and going to a private school when the going was good. I'm sure you read where the wife was a full time house wife, meaning that the man shouldered ALL the financial responsibility for the family. I'm sure you read where the Op said he made the children of the man his friends and they told him of his their home was once a happy home. All that CHANGED when his FINANCES were hit.
You read where the Op said HIS WIFE constantly BERATES, CURSES and ABUSES the husband NIGHT and DAY. The Op also said the wife KEEPS HER MONEY with cooperative and DOESN'T HELP her husband. The TRUE COLOURS of the wife has come out. A good woman would also NEVER ABUSE HER KIDS. she would NEVER LEAVE HER KIDS. a wolf can wear sheep's clothing but still behave like the wolf it is. She's a bad egg. Period. Don't defend her.

delishpot:
Call police for them

dats rite.

kunlesufyan:

Exactly, just try all you can sha... So that tomorrow 's head line won't read " man murders wife in cold blood"

hahahahah

last35:
Please no abuse, just sincere advise from experience people.

I'm living in a state in the south-west, I have a neighbor married with 3 kids. Like due to the economic hardship the husband was badly affected, couldn't pay rent, and provide adequately school fees and feeding (I got to know through their daily heated argument). For almost a month now the wife has constantly been berating, abusing and cursing the husband on a daily basis evwry morning.

Telling him she's packing out and living the children. Fast forward to this morning. I started gearing noise around 730am. I though it was the daily argument session. Untill the first born started screaming. I opened my door and lo and behold.

I saw heaps of luggages by the door (the husband had packed all the wife loads outside) I asked the screaming girl what's wrong. He said I should pls enter their room, I was cautious till I'm sure they weren't naked I opened the door slightly and I saw the husband and wife in a serious fight. The husband was holding the wife's neck about to snuff life out of her. With God's grace and strength I was able to separate them.

They stopped fighting but continued arguing. I entered my room without uttering a word to them. Now the issue is from my experience about there issue the husband said the wife is hit entering the room again. The wife said she's moving out without the kids, the husband said if so he will take the 3 children to ijebu and use them for money rituals. Only God knows what will happen throughout today in my house.

This night will certainly be hot! But what can I do??

Can you repeat all this to somebody ?


I know aBishop who if he hears this story, could help, super connected.. hit me up.