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hmmmmm

You have done well!

It shows you have conscience!


But what did he say when you gave him the divorce notice?


Can't you both adopt a child together instead of divorce? What is he saying about that!

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I can only imagine the level of discomfort, pain you are going through, it may be truly unbearable. However, i feel you should not throw away this genuine care just because of this pain. You have been enduring so why give Up now.

My options to you are

Both agree to adopt a child
Maybe he should get a second wife that way you remain to keep his care and love.

Please dont leave him alone at this period when he needed you most, you both will suffer depression and regret.

I wish you well

It's a good decision you took.

In lionel Richie's voice... "I am leaving on the midnight train tomorrow,I have packed all my troubles and thrown them all away"

Is that what he wants? What if your decision is causing him more pain than you thought?

Sincerely I never knew such women still exist...ladies who can take decision by themselves based on conscience. It is always somebody advicing them to satisfy their jealous nature or go to one babajuju blabla even though they know down their mind that its wrong.

But being a business partner with an ex-husband, my dear it won't work, if it does, it won't last long. Not every woman is like you. The new woman he'll find after you would manipulate him and initiate business disagreement somehow. So don't even think of it. You may agree to do it for d mean time but know it may not go on for long

LuvSwollenPussy:
Sincerely I never knew such women still exist...ladies who can take decision by themselves based on conscience. It is always somebody advicing them to satisfy their jealous nature or go to one babajuju blabla even thought they know down their mind that its wrong.

But being a business partner with an ex-husband, my dear it won't work, if it does, it won't last long. Not every woman is like you. The new woman he'll find after you would manipulate him and initiate business disagreement somehow. So don't even think of it. You may agree to do it for d mean time but know it may not go on for long

I know it won't be for long. Working on floating my own business and dividing all existing business interests into 2 in the near future. It's hard to face reality but if it makes him more fulfilled as a man and father, then so be it.

What tribe are you?
If you are Igbo(not all part tho)
You can marry him a wife and the lady will produce children for him.
Go to the villages, there are families looking for opportunities like this

chinybelle:
What tribe are you?
If you are Igbo(not all part tho)
You can marry him a wife and the lady will produce children for him.
Go to the villages, there are families looking for opportunities like this

Really? Unfortunately I'm yoruba and he's akwaibom.

Iamcool82:


I know it won't be for long. Working on floating my own business and dividing all existing business interests into 2 in the near future. It's hard to face reality but if it makes him more fulfilled as a man and father, then so be it.

Yes very true. God bless you

otunbablacq:
I can only imagine the level of discomfort, pain you are going through, it may be truly unbearable. However, i feel you should not throw away this genuine care just because of this pain. You have been enduring so why give Up now.

My options to you are

Both agree to adopt a child
Maybe he should get a second wife that way you remain to keep his care and love.

Please dont leave him alone at this period when he needed you most, you both will suffer depression and regret.

I wish you well

Adoption is not as simple as many people think. We've tried it all. To even think he impregnated my maid within the 2-3 times they made love is very disheartening. What I couldn't do in 15 years, she did in 3 days. It's better he has his own offspring

I feel so bad reading this?
l also understand your point but why bring up divorce when he hasn't talked about it.. You have to ask him what he wants.

Fervent prayer and sugery would help too..
Adoption would have been a perfect thing to do also.. Since you both are advancing in age, why not adopt three kids 10yrs, 6yrs and 3yrs? My opinion tho...
This is what you and your husband should have done since..
Adopted or Biological kids are children from God..
Love them like your own.. Its the bond that matters...


Aigoo, I'm so touched at this #unconditional love

Believe u me I thought it was my friend that was writing this until I said house made...

I have a friend exctly like this your case.. But her own case is opposite the man no fit pregnant and still treat her anyhow but the woman no wan comout. Every done talk.. The man even insult her family including her mum.
Its the same number of years with yours.. The woman is certified ok. But the man don't want to accept its his fault. Low sperm count. He said he is ok..

Hmm.. I like love your decision God bless you. And bless that man for loving you..

greatgod2012:
You have done well!

It shows you have conscience!


But what did he say when you gave him the divorce notice?


Can't you both adopt a child together instead of divorce? What is he saying about that!

so if Abraham adopted, would mankind be saved? Some people just want to have kids of their own please and they shouldn't be judged...

Pls dnt leave him. If money is not an issue, try surrogacy. Its been done at Lagos and Abuja,its same wit ivf but another woman will carry the pregnancy. The good side is its ut egg and his sperm. Genetically, the baby belongs to u both. The surrogate mother is just the oven. U ll contact all this ivf clinics to hook u up. Dnt be afraid, the carrier wont run off.
I sincerly love ur attitude and home.

Ladies like you are hard to get,God will bless u for ur kind heart

jashar:

such is life... But we just need people like father Abraham.

Hmmm
Why not talk to God about it...
A thousand years is just like a day in his eyes,use Sarah and Hannah in the Bible...

Cutehector:
such is life... But we just need people like father Abraham.

Hmm HIV positive and barren.

Modified....Wasn't my intention to add you more pain,I apologise

Cc loveanonymity

Why divorce your sweet husband when you can adopt a child?

Hey Angel, you sound really distraught, I see so much tears behind the firm disposition you're trying to put up with.....My advice: Adopting a baby or two isn't a crime visit the orphanage and adopt and watch the joy the kid/kids bring to your home, with necessary paperworks the kid/kids are yours for life.....Dunno why it's so difficult for people to adopt sef

I just wanna cry.... Not typing nothing

u have a human heart, u can look for a decent girl and help him marry.but dia must be sacrifice, it wasn't easy for Sarah and Haggai

Iamcool82:


Adoption is not as simple as many people think. We've tried it all. To even think he impregnated my maid within the 2-3 times they made love is very disheartening. What I couldn't do in 15 years, she did in 3 days. It's better he has his own offspring

Going by your original post and this post, you made the right decision for both of you. It wasn't an overnight decision but you thought about it thoroughly. You're still going to be in contact since you're business partners but yep, it's best to set him free to find another woman to settle down and have a child with. Hope you each find your own happiness. Keep your head up.

Wow, you have a good heart

torqque7:
Hmm HIV positive and barren?correct me if I'm wrong but someone with these must have lived a very reckless life when young..so karma might be at play here,people will not listen until it's too late..destroyed life just because one was too carried away by vanity when young..too bad.

Some men Sef get mind sha o..

Why are you judging her? You are a wicked soul.. How many of your wrongs have you corrected?