WHY I THINK THERE ARE MORE BROKE GIRLS THAN BROKE GUYS (MY OPINION, GUYS ONLY)

I don't just know what's happening in this country. I no longer keep female friends, it is not even a girlfriend matter now. You are friends with a girl and out of the blues she starts telling you she needs money for this, money for that. In the past I used to be a bit more generous, but now I have had to put a stop to having close female friends altogether cos they will want to tax you for one thing or the other. I'm not saying this for likes or anything, this is my own reality.

Usually the money is small (cos I'm 'broke'). 5k here, 3k there, 7k there... over foolish things that really don't concern me. Add all these money cumulatively and it adds up to something quite significant that can be used for something much better. I have four sisters and I endeavour to send them money to attend to their respective needs cos I don't want them to be at the mercy of s.ex starved dudes. I'm just a hustler, scrounging up cash from here and there, I don't have a car (even though I'm hoping to get something decent by year's end), so by definition of the average Nigerian girl, I'm a broke dude.

Today, I can proudly beat my chest and say it anywhere. I am broke! Come and beat me.

This situation is not peculiar to me. Many of my friends, especially the ones that are financially better off, are faced with the same situation. You cannot be friends with a girl without her imposing frivilous demands on you under various pretexts. Note: Not even girlfriend o. This particular thing made me stop being friends with my ex, who started asking me for stoopid things like I didn't have problems of my own. When she needed something she would call and say 'I MISS YOU', like that was supposed to spark my brain and make me willingly part with money. I am pretty sure she had about 5 guys all lined up who she simultaneously bills for money. We all complain about yahoo guys and how they are tarnishing the image of this country, but no one talks about these girls who are all running local yahoo on us guys who start out open hearted and generous before life's lessons make us start displaying behaviours that make people refer to us as bitter or pained.

So, yes I am bitter. Yes I am pained.

But do you know what really pains my most?

When a guy is in dire straits and in need, who helps the guy? Who comes to his aid? NO ONE!

The same guy that gives out his little change to all these girls under the pretext of friendship will have to crack his brain and come up with a solution to solve his problem ALL BY HIMSELF. He can't ask his fellow guys cos guys generally don't help each other (unless na woman) unless it's a really bosom friend and you dare not ask a female 'friend' for help or else that is the ultimate confirmation of your broke status. Don't even try it. It may just be a topic of discussion between her and her friends.

In times like this I ususally remember one of my dad's favorite quotes from a yoruba song while growing up as a child - Kò easy lati jo m' okunrin (it's not easy to be a man).

So this is an epidemic, and is not specific to relationships alone. For most Nigerian girls, it's easier to request for money than to work for it, even if she has more money than you. It's easier to spread her legs for financial and personal favours than to put in the work. This is my personal observation and opinion. Insult me if you like.

Guys, if you are broke, OWN IT!

If you are scared that she will call you broke if you don't send her 'ordinary' N5,000, don't send it! Let her call you broke-ass nigga. You wee not die! When you are stranded the same female friend will not be able to help you with ordinary 1k.

Guys, you must learn to put yourselves first. Just as the women USUALLY do. You see, we are just a means to their own selfish ends. This is a truth that I have always known but it seems the economic situation in the country has made them not to even bother being subtle about it. Do not fall prey to societal machinations and gender stereotypes that will push you to shoulder responsibilities that will be an obstacle to your own personal goals and objectives. Enough is enough.

If a girl calls you broke cos you couldn't buy her 'ordinary' Samsung Galaxy (not even iPhone 7 o, just imagine ) just accept it. Just note that she is more impoverished than you cos she is asking you for something that she herself can't afford.


Don't allow a woman to use her reggae to spoil your blues. When shït hits the fan, she won't be there to help you. They hardly ever are.

Xoxo,

Wayward Pikin.


P.S - I also have wonderful female friends but they are in the vast minority. I can count them on one hand. Sorry, one finger.

Gracias!

Mehn I'm tired of seeing broke this broke that...make una sniff evostics make we hear word joor

Lol. I can relate

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Safiaa bring rope, comman snuff the life out of him, he's broke, he doesn't deserve life

Lalasticlala comman do justice jewh

I liked your post..

But my bae is an exception tho.

emeijeh:
Hey kid (Op) go and prepare for your JAMB.

Just cos you wrote jamb 9 times doesn't mean others are as useless as you young man.

Op you get sense finish...., I wish guys wud stand up to please themselves rather than ladies..if she like mk she say u nor reach tell her say u like am like dat, but ur shi shi nor go drop....


Spend for a girl u knw is worth it and wud do likewise wen u need her..nor be dis oloshos

BiafranBushBoy:
I liked your post..

But my bae is an exception tho.

Mine has been an exception so far too. Which is why we are dating. Tell me, why wouldn't I go above and beyond for such a person?

waywardpikin:


Mine has been an exception so far too. Which is why we are dating. Tell me, why wouldn't I go above and beyond for such a person?

That's why I love her...!!

waywardpikin:


Just cos you wrote jamb 9 times doesn't mean others are as useless as you young man.

I won't be surprised if i found out you have already shattered "my JAMB record", imp

emeijeh:

I won't be surprised if i found out you have already shattered "my JAMB record", imp

Noted. Now swerve.

Very right, few of them will hold a job. Slay queens as the lazy ones are called. Filter & makeup warriors.

You are right.

If ladies do not have all those things in their body they use to make money, there would have been more female arm-robbers, fraudsters and ritualists.

who finish reading it

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We are talking about leeches making our pockets porous you are on every thread spamming and annoying somebody with this your mtn frivolities

OP, your perception of things is spot-on...

I don't know, maybe it because of the society we live in or the deteriorating state of Africa's economy, most ladies have since accepted the notion that whatever it takes, they can't and won't settle with a broke guy...

Who wants to marry a liability? The same way ladies are selective on who to or not marry, men are equally expressive when it comes to taste and preference...

Ego aside, the most important reason why it not advice able for a guy to marry a liability is because doing so has a massive impact on the children. That's for couples who have space for eventualities and contingencies...

What happens, when your man loses his job? Aren't you as a wife ought to be mentally and financially prepared to assume the responsibility of taking care of the home when the hobby isn't around...


My submission, only a lazy ass lady will depend on men for every dime she has to spend...

Ladies, men stopped being an ATM a long while ago. The overwhelming gap between a male and a female is gradually getting closer and as such, the wise ones has started devising means to be ready, financially and otherwise should the right man come around...

firstking01:
We are talking about leeches making our pockets porous you are on every thread spamming and annoying somebody with this your mtn frivolities

Lol the funny thing is that dude is probably a scammer.

Uwa mmebi!

All these stingy and broke guys self mtcheeeeewwwww

I wonder why people are talking about money.
Money doesn't move me, other things does

GEExclusive:
I wonder why people are talking about money.

Money doesn't move me, other things does

You are not thinking about money cos you are probably not part of the broke girls (who are in the majority) that I was referring to in the original article, which is refreshing.

What other things move you dear?

waywardpikin:


You are not thinking about money cos you are probably not part of the broke girls (who are in the majority) that I was referring to in the original article, which is refreshing.

What other things move you dear?

You are probably new here

GEExclusive:
I wonder why people are talking about money.

Money doesn't move me, other things does

if no b say I de mind my business eh..I for talk say u de lie....person wey nàked no de chuk hand for pocket..me I no de hide am..I b broke guy..who no like am make e con beat me

GEExclusive:
You are probably new here

Funny

GEExclusive:

You are probably new here

Hahahaha

Should I tell him what moves you?

Aderola15:

Hahahaha
Should I tell him what moves you?

Aunty no o... Let him find out

tayoxx:
if no b say I de mind my business eh..I for talk say u de lie....person wey nàked no de chuk hand for pocket..me I no de hide am..I b broke guy..who no like am make e con beat me

Lol I like you already. Own that shït and it can never be used against you

Aderola15:


Hahahaha

Should I tell him what moves you?

telled me