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Opinion: Guys, Can You Cope With A Nagging Girlfriend/wife? by optional1(f): 2:32pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
Hi fam. How you all doing? Hmmmm, the experience I had with my ex has been ringing in my mind lately. Hence the reason for creating this thread. As an Adult preparing to go into marriage, one should be prepared for eventualities. Like the saying goes, marriage isn't just a union of two entities. Rather, when you accept to date or marry somebody, you are in fact agreeing to marry their strengths and weaknesses. Regardless of how much we appraise ourselves, we are not without shortcomings. How we work on it or help others to grow will go a long way in ensuring a lasting relationship/marriage. So, here the question; guys how do you deal with a nagging girlfriend/wife? While I'm keen to hear a thing or two from you, I'll love to share my story. I dated a guy. Hmmmm, he has got almost everything you can ever look out for in a guy. Very intelligent and smart, one thing I so much look out for in my guy. Amidst all this outstanding qualities, this guy nags at everything thing I do. So how was I able to cope with him? With the love I had for him, I couldn't help but to take my time and study him. He is temperamental, no doubt. So by studying him, I was able to create a balance between him that I truly love and him that is temperamental. Anytime he nags, All I had to do was keep quiet, never interrupt him. Allow him to get done with whatever he is saying before I say anything. And if I must talk, no matter how much he snapped at me, I'll just say... " No one is infallible. I accept to date you because of your outstanding qualities and I have no regrets whatsoever" So, guys over to you. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Opinion: Guys, Can You Cope With A Nagging Girlfriend/wife? by YoungBlackRico(m): 2:35pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
Hell no, can't cope with a nagging partner . You can't change people and you definitely can't keep pretending you're okay with what they do all your life. You'll get pushed to the wall someday, and it will all come crashing down. ©YBR 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Opinion: Guys, Can You Cope With A Nagging Girlfriend/wife? by optional1(f): 2:35pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
cc. VickyRotex refiner zarzar TheSlyone2 femi4 dacovajnr SmellingAnus fredoooooo |
Re: Opinion: Guys, Can You Cope With A Nagging Girlfriend/wife? by Nobody: 2:36pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
Good piece. At the point, I'll reserve my comments til my bae VickyRotex comes.. Then, I'll comment my reserve. Optional1, I'm curious why in earth did he let you go? Some guys sha |
Re: Opinion: Guys, Can You Cope With A Nagging Girlfriend/wife? by VickyRotex(f): 2:37pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
TheSlyone2: Tani Bae e |
Re: Opinion: Guys, Can You Cope With A Nagging Girlfriend/wife? by constance500: 2:38pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
This is super stooorrrrrrry................ 2 Likes |
Re: Opinion: Guys, Can You Cope With A Nagging Girlfriend/wife? by Nobody: 2:40pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
VickyRotex:Just when I thought you were going to prove me wrong. Now you have proved one thing... You nag at me but I sha dey cope with you |
Re: Opinion: Guys, Can You Cope With A Nagging Girlfriend/wife? by VickyRotex(f): 2:41pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
optional1: Sweetheart! Question's for guys. Let's hear from them. Btw, I got you this sweety. 2 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Opinion: Guys, Can You Cope With A Nagging Girlfriend/wife? by VickyRotex(f): 2:42pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
TheSlyone2: Huh! I refuse to be tempted to derail my sisterboo's thread! |
Re: Opinion: Guys, Can You Cope With A Nagging Girlfriend/wife? by VickyRotex(f): 2:44pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
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Re: Opinion: Guys, Can You Cope With A Nagging Girlfriend/wife? by Splinz(m): 2:44pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
My dad married my sweet mother- a cool and calm woman for himself. And today, they're living in matrimonial bliss. So my prayer is: "Any woman that will come into my life and nag and nag and nag! Oh, may 'APC's wind of change' change her from my direction by fire by force!" 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Opinion: Guys, Can You Cope With A Nagging Girlfriend/wife? by Nobody: 2:44pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
VickyRotex:So, how did you cope with his nagging if at all he nags? |
Re: Opinion: Guys, Can You Cope With A Nagging Girlfriend/wife? by GloriaNinja(f): 2:45pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
SOMEBODY GIVE ME PEPPER MAKE I RUB FOR MY EYES. |
Re: Opinion: Guys, Can You Cope With A Nagging Girlfriend/wife? by LethargiQue: 2:45pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
Please, you can cheat all you want.. Commit incest, have sex with dogs and horses.. But please I beg you, don't nag me.. I'll lose my mind.. 3 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Opinion: Guys, Can You Cope With A Nagging Girlfriend/wife? by VickyRotex(f): 2:47pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
TheSlyone2: Are you the Op? Op directed the question to you, guys. |
Re: Opinion: Guys, Can You Cope With A Nagging Girlfriend/wife? by GEExclusive: 2:53pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
If he nags, me I no feel deal o But if his riffle nags early in the morning, I'll just say Lego |
Re: Opinion: Guys, Can You Cope With A Nagging Girlfriend/wife? by Nobody: 2:56pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
VickyRotex:Ok, make I go rest na |
Re: Opinion: Guys, Can You Cope With A Nagging Girlfriend/wife? by optional1(f): 2:58pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
YoungBlackRico: Yes we can't change people but are you aware of the fact that no one is perfect? Do you know that we all have our shortcomings?? By you harbouring the notion "you can't change people" only prove that you are an island. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Opinion: Guys, Can You Cope With A Nagging Girlfriend/wife? by dingbang(m): 3:00pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
Nowadays I don't even know which one is better.. Whether living single or being in a relationship... 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Opinion: Guys, Can You Cope With A Nagging Girlfriend/wife? by YoungBlackRico(m): 3:00pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
GEExclusive: ©YBR |
Re: Opinion: Guys, Can You Cope With A Nagging Girlfriend/wife? by GEExclusive: 3:04pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
YoungBlackRico:Sorry, how I used the word "riffle". My man has got it and he know how to work me Thats why I called him the specialist |
Re: Opinion: Guys, Can You Cope With A Nagging Girlfriend/wife? by optional1(f): 3:12pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
VickyRotex: thanks big sis.. Please no derailling today... This is a serious issue... Btw i got you something too. 2 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Opinion: Guys, Can You Cope With A Nagging Girlfriend/wife? by YoungBlackRico(m): 3:12pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
optional1:Of course, we all have our shortcomings. But we don't have to force ourselves to live with something we don't like/want just because "no one is perfect". The reason most relationships don't last these days is 'cause people think love or whatever quality attracted them to their partner can overshadow their shortcomings. ©YBR 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Opinion: Guys, Can You Cope With A Nagging Girlfriend/wife? by optional1(f): 3:17pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
dingbang: which do you prefer |
Re: Opinion: Guys, Can You Cope With A Nagging Girlfriend/wife? by YoungBlackRico(m): 3:19pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
GEExclusive:Oh, I'm okay with the word A specialist who knows how to use his tool. He's lucky to have you too. ©YBR |
Re: Opinion: Guys, Can You Cope With A Nagging Girlfriend/wife? by SmellingAnus(m): 3:23pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
Excessive Nagging wether done by male or female is not good for the relationship, I must confess that certain lifestyle or behavior may increase the risk of nagging... On my own part... I will prefer less nagging but if she more than makes up for that shortcomings of hers in other areas I find very important , just maybe I may tolerate her and continue with the relationship. If it's marriage, well I honestly don't even have a choice than to work it out or tolerate her... Truth is that, we are all imperfect, it only depends on the level of imperfections from our partners/spouses that we are willing to tolerate. Optional1 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Opinion: Guys, Can You Cope With A Nagging Girlfriend/wife? by baralatie(m): 3:25pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
the bible advice to avoid a nagging woman
so I obeyed 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Opinion: Guys, Can You Cope With A Nagging Girlfriend/wife? by baralatie(m): 3:26pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
the bible advice to avoid a nagging woman
so I obeyed |
Re: Opinion: Guys, Can You Cope With A Nagging Girlfriend/wife? by Stanleysteno(m): 3:27pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
Never!!! I want to live long... Just the imagination alone dey give me headache 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Opinion: Guys, Can You Cope With A Nagging Girlfriend/wife? by Stanleysteno(m): 3:28pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
Never!!! I want to live long... Just the imagination alone dey give me headache 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Opinion: Guys, Can You Cope With A Nagging Girlfriend/wife? by GEExclusive: 3:30pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
YoungBlackRico:Thanchu hun |
Re: Opinion: Guys, Can You Cope With A Nagging Girlfriend/wife? by dingbang(m): 3:31pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
optional1:I said I don't know... |
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