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Re: Love Or Parents Which Will You Choose ! by Nobody: 9:04pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
This is beyond the girl it's left for the guy to talk to his mum calmly about his love for his lady nd make her see reasons why he chose her among all ladies. If the mum loves her son she won't take away his happiness just like that |
Re: Love Or Parents Which Will You Choose ! by Nobody: 9:04pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
Bumbae1:O Yes,he needs to let his family respect his wife-to-be. He shouldnt leave her at their mercy.she is his to protect If he cant stand his ground and protect her,he is not mentally matured enough and ready to be a husband. My family (not even my mom) no fit help me try dat one.. I go change am for dem. whether na my mama i go marry,dem go tell me |
Re: Love Or Parents Which Will You Choose ! by yomi007k(m): 9:04pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
At times like ds I thank God for my mum. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Love Or Parents Which Will You Choose ! by Nobody: 9:05pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
TheSlyone2:Don't disturb him when you quote me. I'm doing great, you? |
Re: Love Or Parents Which Will You Choose ! by Nobody: 9:05pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
KennyID17: Lol @ hook up she dey engaged o Make she decide first nao before you step in Thanks will pass it on |
Re: Love Or Parents Which Will You Choose ! by Cutie09(m): 9:05pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
Is not worth the fight love my ass if the guy love her he should tell his family to back off and start respecting her. Naija and their crazy culture but is everywhere mother of the guy are the same either oyibo or dudu |
Re: Love Or Parents Which Will You Choose ! by boiz2men(m): 9:06pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
dingbang: bros na d truth i yarn u so... family above anythg else... ya fiance is only a girl.... theres nothing like true love... theres a reason u love her.. and plenty people dey wey get better features sef... as for me, if my ma still nor like you after 1 year... na to find aanother girl b dat oo.. i can not fight my mum over someone i am dating.. but if say i don marry am.. my ma kon dey do anyhow... that is the best time to let ya mum know that ya wife equally owns you too like her... not gf or fiance... be wise... choose ya mum first... but if say u sabi ya mum to dey do wicked thgs anyhow from ya childhood.... then ditch her words and follow ya hrt 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Love Or Parents Which Will You Choose ! by toseen7: 9:07pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
heckymaicon:Abi o, Mother in-law no like her, i don't even know how she go enjoy the marriage sef. |
Re: Love Or Parents Which Will You Choose ! by Nobody: 9:07pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
The guy should have a heart to heart talk with the mother and if they can't reach a compromise, the lady should move on cos the mother will keep making life hell for her and will surely turn the rest of the family against her. |
Re: Love Or Parents Which Will You Choose ! by Nobody: 9:08pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
Any particular reason why they don't like her? What's the guy saying? Does he defend her? Is the guy very close to his family? |
Re: Love Or Parents Which Will You Choose ! by Nobody: 9:09pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
Halfricanadiian: See a few of us said this .. In the beginning he should have put his foot down .. but his just one of those respectful guys im telling you he wont even frown at his mum .. she even accuse the girl of being barren lol how she knows i dont know But even then he kept saying that's how my mum is she doesn't mean it .. now his mum has become terror for the girl .. and she isn't one of those mouthed girls either .. just tired of the whole thing .. |
Re: Love Or Parents Which Will You Choose ! by dejonathan(f): 9:11pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
Tips as how?? |
Re: Love Or Parents Which Will You Choose ! by dejonathan(f): 9:11pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
Bumbae1:Hmmmmmmmm But am getting tired of her mums attitude cos me nd d gal no dey free... We're just dating like a primary 2 boy nd gal playing hide nd seek love 1 Like |
Re: Love Or Parents Which Will You Choose ! by Nobody: 9:12pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
1bkaye:Yes his very close to his mum ( even on his birthday she was there with her own friends like kilode ) His the only boy but she got girls too so not like his the only child .. could be the reason but its just weird .. Lolmaybe the mum knows something we don't cause its 3 years now by now she should just accept the girl |
Re: Love Or Parents Which Will You Choose ! by Nobody: 9:13pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
Bumbae1: bring her to me for special counselling in za oza room |
Re: Love Or Parents Which Will You Choose ! by Nobody: 9:13pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
dejonathan:Yh puts a huge strain on relationship We nigerian are very Respectful when it comes to parents so we find it hard to put them in their place |
Re: Love Or Parents Which Will You Choose ! by kingDELE(m): 9:13pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
KennyID17:
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Re: Love Or Parents Which Will You Choose ! by KennyID17(m): 9:13pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
Bumbae1: Her hubby should be doing more, except u ain't telling us all, this ain't her fight alone, he should make sure he does his best to make them realise she is the best and only choice for him. His folks should understand and respect his decision. For him to b considering marriage, he ain't no kid no more and he shouldn't allow family pressures sway him! In short, all these boils down to d dude, according to ur story, don't sound like he really wants ya friend! Once again, tell her to contact me, I'm looking to settle down! 2 Likes |
Re: Love Or Parents Which Will You Choose ! by Nobody: 9:14pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
Bumbae1: Eeya prayer is wat can solve this |
Re: Love Or Parents Which Will You Choose ! by Nobody: 9:15pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
Old woman,you have changed your profile picture Backstabber!!! |
Re: Love Or Parents Which Will You Choose ! by KennyID17(m): 9:16pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
kingDELE: Baba! How na? |
Re: Love Or Parents Which Will You Choose ! by Nobody: 9:16pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
KennyID17: Hmmm So if he doesn't want her why get engaged after 2 years! E no make sense nao Think his just a mummy's boy and being a whimp as you know women can see things guys wont see also its not just what she says .. its behaviour and her actions too Ok like not attending engagement party .. what is that telling the girl ? |
Re: Love Or Parents Which Will You Choose ! by Donjazzy12(m): 9:17pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
Bumbae1:Why does her boyfriends mother hate her? Make una dey talk tori finish na! There must be a reason. When she tells us the reason then we can advice her. 1 Like |
Re: Love Or Parents Which Will You Choose ! by Nobody: 9:20pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
What she did do to her soon to be Mom in law, she can't just hate her for no reason |
Re: Love Or Parents Which Will You Choose ! by Nobody: 9:21pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
Donjazzy12:Said she never did anything to her That it has always been like that from day one he took her to meet his mum .... lol can't post screenshot sorry Hmm maybe she should just leave the guy wasted 3 years of her life ! Or he should just tell his mum where to go .. |
Re: Love Or Parents Which Will You Choose ! by Nobody: 9:22pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
Bumbae1: Eya mummy's boy can't defend his girl. My mom didn't like my ex and I told her she's not the one dating my ex and she kept quiet about it. Women will always be women if she doesn't like the girl for no reason well that's the moms problem and the guy has to let the mom know she's part of his life. If he can't handle this then he should let the poor girl go because when they marry he won't be able to do anything 1 Like |
Re: Love Or Parents Which Will You Choose ! by KennyID17(m): 9:23pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
Bumbae1: Hmmmnn! Like i been saying, he needs to do more, man up! Talk to his mum, ask her what her objections are based on, albeit in a respectful manner. Btw, who didn't attend engagement party? |
Re: Love Or Parents Which Will You Choose ! by chiraqDemon(m): 9:24pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
ednut1:Lol Una de throw the word abroad around anyhow U nor even know if na persin wey fit pay trans to Lag |
Re: Love Or Parents Which Will You Choose ! by chiraqDemon(m): 9:26pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
Sunmibare6:Would u tell ur babe to keave if ur mom dis this? |
Re: Love Or Parents Which Will You Choose ! by Maxi112: 9:27pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
funny enough people still talk about love over family. OK! |
Re: Love Or Parents Which Will You Choose ! by LaExpert: 9:27pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
Bumbae1: The guy is the only one that can make a difference in situations like these. If he loves her truly, he should speak with his parents or is he still dependent on his parents? |
Re: Love Or Parents Which Will You Choose ! by Exceptional96(f): 9:27pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
[quote author=Bumbae1 post=56047564]Hi All .. first topic lol been a while So currently I have a friend who is going through some stuff . She is so so inlove with her now fiancé but the problem is the guys family does not like her .. basically treat her like sh!t (3 year relationship) She has tried everything to please them but the mum insults her calling her names and to leave her son ..regularly You know how we females are when we get together for good gist now what advice would you give that If the guy cannot convince his family to love and accept his wife to be, the girl should walk away. Also she should commit this in prayers because some forces might be behind it. |
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