Safiaa:
Ok sir lol.

Don't mind those boys telling you that you are right. Tell it to a husband and he will never trust you again. Any call you answer must be questioned.

Men don't like hearing such thing. When married, let those old way go. I have a friend who is engaged and yet still want me to bleeeep her. She is telling the guy no sex till marriage but want some three some. I am running because I am responsible, I have virtues and values to protect.

The graph of relationship isn't linear. No one rule or law explains it completely.

Safiaa:
So I'm not marriage material to you?

I do not think so. I only think you are allowing some things to penetrate into you. Absorbing every style of living you think please you.

I also see emotionally weak lady who is trying to be very strong. I know that off Nairaland, you are not what you portray yourself to be here.

I also know that you have been into more than four fvcked relationship.

On whether you are a wife material or not to me depends on the tailor. While some will tell you that the yard is enough, when they tear the h.o.l.e. ,they will return it back.

Thanks for your opinion

MrsPhysics:

I do not think so. I only think you are allowing some things to penetrate into you. Absorbing every style of living you think please you.

I also see emotionally weak lady who is trying to be very strong. I know that off Nairaland, you are not what you portray yourself to be here.

I also know that you have been into more than four fvcked relationship.

On whether you are a wife material or not to me depends on the tailor. While some will tell you that the yard is enough, when they tear the h.o.l.e. ,they will return it back.

The thing is I'm not trying to be strong. Strong for wetin? I'm naturally quite opinionated, but people mistake that for the wrong thing.
If your opinion doesn't fit into the popular views,
its a problem. To be honest, i cannot express how much it doesn't affect me lool. I just find everything comical and entertaining. Its very useful for boring days.

MrsPhysics:

I do not think so. I only think you are allowing some things to penetrate into you. Absorbing every style of living you think please you.

I also see emotionally weak lady who is trying to be very strong. I know that off Nairaland, you are not what you portray yourself to be here.

I also know that you have been into more than four fvcked relationship.

On whether you are a wife material or not to me depends on the tailor. While some will tell you that the yard is enough, when they tear the h.o.l.e. ,they will return it back.

Safiaa:
Thanks for your opinion

Thanks for repenting.

Safiaa:
The thing is I'm not trying to be strong. Strong for wetin? I'm naturally quite opinionated, but people mistake that for the wrong thing.
If your opinion doesn't fit into the popular views,
its a problem. To be honest, i cannot express how much it doesn't affect me lool. I just find everything comical and entertaining. Its very useful for boring days.

Yeah, I got that. But Nairaland seems to be a different place like Facebook and so on. You. might have seen different monikers with rubbish names, there are used for such purposes. Before I joke here, I am always careful.

I hate taking the popular views opinion, but you don't apply that into some things. Some of which include moral standards, culture, values and beliefs. Aside this, you can be quite different from others.

Men are very mystical in a way. Hard to understand people just like women. You don't use a way to follow them. personally I don't want to know my wife's body count, neither should she be interested in mine. If I saw something in her that attracted me, what is the need of knowing how many persons she have opened those legs life and screamed for.
If she dare say it and it exceeds mine or my tolerance number, then I will become a single man.

No. I just see life differently from the average nigerian.
Most nigerians are hypocrites anyways, so i follow my own beliefs and opinions.

Thats understandable. But what happens when her history catches up with her, for example? You find out that she's had sex with a colleague, friend or whatever it may be. Isn't it better for you to know beforehand? This world is a very small world, and somebody will know somebody that you know. Thats why i just believe in being honest, so nothing becomes a shock.

MrsPhysics:

Yeah, I got that. But Nairaland seems to be a different place like Facebook and so on. You. might have seen different monikers with rubbish names, there are used for such purposes. Before I joke here, I am always careful.

I hate taking the popular views opinion, but you don't apply that into some things. Some of which include moral standards, culture, values and beliefs. Aside this, you can be quite different from others.

Men are very mystical in a way. Hard to understand people just like women. You don't use a way to follow them. personally I don't want to know my wife's body count, neither should she be interested in mine. If I saw something in her that attracted me, what is the need of knowing how many persons she have opened those legs life and screamed for.
If she dare say it and it exceeds mine or my tolerance number, then I will become a single man.

Safiaa:
No. I just see life differently from the average nigerian.
Most nigerians are hypocrites anyways, so i follow my own beliefs and opinions.

Thats understandable. But what happens when her history catches up with her, for example? You find out that she's had sex with a colleague, friend or whatever it may be. Isn't it better for you to know beforehand? This world is a very small world, and somebody will know somebody that you know. Thats why i just believe in being honest, so nothing becomes a shock.

History is history. If you go around looking for who your wife have slept with, you will see many of them. Once it's marriage, forget the old playing days. I won't bother about it.

Guys can claim there slept with a lady they didn't, all I am saying is that before you tell someone your body count, make sure you have his mumu button.

If my wife dated and slept with four guys at age 22 with an available one now? and she tell me that expecting me to be clapping for her, in as much as she is honest, I won't even accept she counted them right. Do you know how it feels knowing that someone around have slept with your wife. It's better not to be informed about it so you will be free from worries. If I know and she answers any male call, I will think that she is about to make them 5 at age........ (please tell me)


Who is an average Nigerian?

Thats your opinion.

An average nigerian is a nigerian whose opinions are strictly based off traditional culture and extreme religious beliefs. Anything opposing those views are seen as immoral and wrong. The western culture is demonic and women are oppressed by misogynistic and narcissistic rules.

MrsPhysics:

History is history. If you go around looking for who your wife have slept with, you will see many of them. Once it's marriage, forget the old playing days. I won't bother about it.

Guys can claim there slept with a lady they didn't, all I am saying is that before you tell someone your body count, make sure you have his mumu button.

If my wife dated and slept with four guys at age 22 with an available one now? and she tell me that expecting me to be clapping for her, in as much as she is honest, I won't even accept she counted them right. Do you know how it feels knowing that someone around have slept with your wife. It's better not to be informed about it so you will be free from worries. If I know and she answers any male call, I will think that she is about to make them 5 at age........ (please tell me)


Who is an average Nigerian?

Personally I don't counter the viewpoint of others. The OP is not far away from the truth coz she's in tune with reality. lt's just that what she said goes against the general opinion especially in the moral and religious sense. Having said that, it depends on how understanding one's partner is. Some might not take it too well while some might be a lil on the liberal side. Tho on a sidenote,I really don't wanna know how many men my future wife has slept with. It's much better to let sleeping dogs lie tbh

Safiaa Ignorance they say is bliss.
When I meet you, I should have an idea about you,
Once I accept you for what I observe, no need telling me about your sexual past.
Of what use is it to me?
Are we haggling on highscores as regards sex bodycounts?
Who cares?!
You're mine now.. and that's all that matters.

As long as we do tests, you're fertile. We vibe..
That's all that matters..
Not how many people you slept with, or who.

Safiaa:
Thats your opinion.

An average nigerian is a nigerian whose opinions are strictly based off traditional culture and extreme religious beliefs. Anything opposing those views are seen as immoral and wrong. The western culture is demonic and women are oppressed by misogynistic and narcissistic rules.

That's wrong. Very wrong

aladeokin1000:
Personally I don't counter the viewpoint of others. The OP is not far away from the truth coz she's in tune with reality. lt's just that what she said goes against the general opinion especially in the moral and religious sense. Having said that, it depends on how understanding one's partner is. Some might not take it too well while some might be a lil on the liberal side. Tho on a sidenote,I really don't wanna know how many men my future wife has slept with. It's much better to let sleeping dogs lie tbh

Why will she know when you are telling her that she is not far from the truth. She is 5 billion light-years away from the truth.

You know what? She is assuming an perfect situation. And there is no such that in the real world. Why men will tell her she is saying the truth, but in reality you don't want to know how deep the h.o.l.e have been dug. So why encourage her to make that mistake and start answering a baby mama.

Op is still a young girl of 22 years, still very young. She is fascinated by the western culture where she is living. That's completely different from what is obtainable here, and some of those cultures are wrong and we all know that.

What happened to China? China refused to accept the whole civilization brought to them by the westerners. Rather, they mixed it with their culture and today China's language is officially know, and there are competing with the US.

ElDadd:
Ignorance they say is bliss.
When I meet you, I should have an idea about you,
Once I accept you for what I observe, no need telling me about your sexual past.
Of what use is it to me?
Are we haggling on highscores as regards sex bodycounts?
Who cares?!
You're mine now.. and that's all that matters.

As long as we do tests, you're fertile. We vibe..
That's all that matters..
Not how many people you slept with, or who.

This is nothing but the truth. Reality, I have come to understand that women think in a very shallow way irrespective of their academic intelligence or their level of smartness. They don't think deep

MrsPhysics:


Bros fear God. Your last paragraph, you just finished this slay hole. Abeg pity her.

Lol, now I feel bad.. but let's call a spade a spade my brother, the girl lacks sense. You've slept with a full football team A and Team B, keep it to yourself, repent, lock up your cunt with super glue and ask God and your future husband for mercy, don't come on Nairaland and be spewing oro jati jati just to make yourself feel better, she a hoe! simple.. that's forgivable, but what's worse?.. she's a proud hoe! now that's simply terrible!

Lol....

Prettyenit18:
Why do you think its OK for men to sleep around. Am just curious.

temmypotter:
Lol, now I feel bad.. but let's call a spade a spade my brother, the girl lacks sense. You've slept with a full football team A and Team B, keep it to yourself, repent, lock up your cunt with super glue and ask God and your future husband for mercy, don't come on Nairaland and be spewing oro jati jati just to make yourself feel better, she a hoe! simple.. that's forgivable, but what's worse?.. she's a proud hoe! now that's simply terrible!

Very true.
Some of this guy's here telling her she's right won't even spare their wife for sleeping with two people. They won't also advise their sister to have a good number of body count and also tell her husband same.

I know women are h.o.l.e.s who are proud of their shameless activities. It's the guys that fvck them, yes I know, but these same guys won't advise you to tell them how many you have slept with.

Okay, the OP said she have been in four relationships, believe her at your own peril. Nairaland is filled with kids who have only online experience but not real life experience. Most of them are within age 20-25, they come here ranting and claiming professors of relationship affairs.

TheCabal:


How can we marry virgins or grade 1 tokunbo's when every girls spreads her legs once you show them money.

I blame their mothers, if they had proper up bringing..

Even the girls you think are better ... na dem go dey shout harder .. harder .. fu|ck me .. fu|ck me .. ooh oooh oh my god... i'll do anything ...
just fu... fu .. fuc|k me .. he ohh oooh hey



I thought you said you only had one boyfriend.

_{Ashewo OP}

Lol

MrsPhysics:


Why will she know when you are telling her that she is not far from the truth. She is 5 billion light-years away from the truth.

You know what? She is assuming an perfect situation. And there is no such that in the real world. Why men will tell her she is saying the truth, but in reality you don't want to know how deep the h.o.l.e have been dug. So why encourage her to make that mistake and start answering a baby mama.

Op is still a young girl of 22 years, still very young. She is fascinated by the western culture where she is living. That's completely different from what is obtainable here, and some of those cultures are wrong and we all know that.

What happened to China? China refused to accept the whole civilization brought to them by the westerners. Rather, they mixed it with their culture and today China's language is officially know, and there are competing with the US.

Respecting her opinion does not mean I feel thesame way. Maybe you should try to assimilate what I said well. I laid bare exactly wat I feel abt the ish. It's quite normal to have differing views

stupid!

dingbang:
kimbra how many guys have fvcked you?

so how many have you Bleep?

MrsPhysics:

Don't mind those boys telling you that you are right. Tell it to a husband and he will never trust you again. Any call you answer must be questioned.

Men don't like hearing such thing. When married, let those old way go. I have a friend who is engaged and yet still want me to bleeeep her. She is telling the guy no sex till marriage but want some three some. I am running because I am responsible, I have virtues and values to protect.

The graph of relationship isn't linear. No one rule or law explains it completely.

ladies can be devilish u can imagine, that is what one stupid girl m currently going out with is telling me.

nadleeh:
so how many have you Bleep?

would it make any difference if I tell you?

too much oyibo film. chaii

dingbang:
would it make any difference if I tell you?

so would it make any difference if she tell you.Hell if you know it makes no difference,why are you asking?!

nadleeh:
so would it make any difference if she tell you.Hell if you know it makes no difference,why are you asking?!

but I didn't ask u... Did I?

1234IKECHhukwu:
ladies can be devilish u can imagine, that is what one stupid girl m currently going out with is telling me.

Na their way. When Safiaa is ready to settle down, she will tell her guy the same thing.

Only Pocohantas is making me think opposite.

Body count my foot. And for you to see their shallow thinking, when they tell you how many body count they have had, they expect you to applaud them for being sincere. Lol and they also expect you to believe that body count.

Pocohantas, what's your body count? Mine remains..... you know it

Phaytte:
too much oyibo film. chaii

Hmmmm, typical Nigerian girl

Any sex besides marriage is condemnable. At least besides a rape. For the man, and the woman. It doesn't matter what you say or think.

NotOfThis:
For me, I don't have a body count, as I'm keeping myself from marriage.

But I think it's definitely good for women to be proud of and embrace their sexuality, however they define it for themselves. If the topic comes up with your partner, you should be able to speak your mind freely and if he wants to be judgemental, say goodbye and kick him to the curb. There's much more to a woman than her body count, or lack thereof.

Where have u been All this while,
I been looking for u all my life

dingbang:
kim.bra how many guys have fvcked you?

Rules of a gentleman.

You don't ask a lady you're not dating her body count.

kimbra:
Some men pick their wives from the brothel. Haven't you heard of that before?.

Really,?
You only see that in movies bro