safarigirl:
this is the only thing I CAN do (never had to do it though)....and contrary to your reason, I can do it in situations where I am meeting this guy for the first time and have no prior knowledge of him per se

It is a safety measure

BTW, why in heaven's name would you expect a girl to follow you home on a first date? There are so many dangers to doing that.

If I'm going on a date, I always make sure of the following:

1) I must be familiar with the location (enough to know my way home from there)

2) It must be a public place

3) I must have money on me for transport especially and even general expenses sometimes

If one or more of these conditions are not met, I will not be leaving the safety of my house to see any man. I have watched too many Crime Series to ignore certain things

Fear fear

kaboninc:


Fear fear

prevention is better than had I known

Ezionye:


They ordered heaven and earth and it summed up to only 5k? Lol. Must be mama Nkechis buka.

Anyways, I perceive lies here

How bout keep the change bae#? Wasn't it about 4700...In some states things are very cheap

safarigirl:
prevention is better than had I known

Hmmmm.. ..

Safarigirl...well you're a tigress nau

marvin902:
the last chick that pulled that no 2 stunt with me.will never forget what i did to her only me invite you come carry two of your friends come naija girls

That is the part I hate about some girls. Don't invite me along and I won't invite you along simple.

safarigirl:
if you have not heard of date rape, I have.

Like I said sha, I have never done it before and the day I do it, I will be sure to pay for whatever my friend is having so that one small boy will not use me to shine

Babe always be with cash or ATM just in case. I do it a lot. I won't take more than I can pay for just in case the guy wants to loosegaurd. lol

Angy55:
Babe always be with cash or ATM just in case. I do it a lot. I won't take more than I can pay for just in case the guy wants to loosegaurd. lol

Now u call it looseguard. How about u buy for the guy too will u die..

seguntijan:
Men are attracted by what they see, that's why women put on make up. Women are attracted by what they hear, that's why men lie. Problems start when the truth comes out and the make up is removed..

INCREDIBLE FACT

stop bin sentimental

what about Naija boys.

they are always prepared for sex like life is about give and take.

safarigirl:
this is the only thing I CAN do (never had to do it though)....and contrary to your reason, I can do it in situations where I am meeting this guy for the first time and have no prior knowledge of him per se

It is a safety measure

BTW, why in heaven's name would you expect a girl to follow you home on a first date? There are so many dangers to doing that.

If I'm going on a date, I always make sure of the following:

1) I must be familiar with the location (enough to know my way home from there)

2) It must be a public place

3) I must have money on me for transport especially and even general expenses sometimes

If one or more of these conditions are not met, I will not be leaving the safety of my house to see any man. I have watched too many Crime Series to ignore certain things

So what if d dude is pretendin to b nice on first n 2nd date....U went to his house d 3rd date n den d next we see on nairaland is PRETTY GIRL HZ BEEN MISSING SINCE YESTIDAY...im no referin to u ooo.#justsaying

YTderin:
I'll never understand the psyche behind me going on a date, and taking a friend along or following a friend .
Isn't it supposed to be private?
I'll never be able to wrap my head around it..

I concur!!! Wish I could see d full pix@dp...

Ezionye:


They ordered heaven and earth and it summed up to only 5k? Lol. Must be mama Nkechis buka.

Anyways, I perceive lies here

Calm down babe n re-evaluate d comment again

OP, you forgot to add that some of them will feed as if there's famine in the land on first date

tosyne2much:
OP, you forgot to add that some of them will feed as if there's famine in the land on first date

Hmmmm

oubi:


Now u call it looseguard. How about u buy for the guy too will u die..

He was the one that invited me on a date. I didn't beg him. by the way why you buy the matter?

nextstep:
This sh1t happed to me recently, and I'm thinking I should just carry olosho from now on*

I hate it when they bring a friend, order expensive drinks and food (I'm managing one beer and asun, and they drank 3k wine, on top 1k suya) and then want to carry more suya back for the remaining ones at home.

When I refused, girl was giving me long story that actually she didn't want to meet me, it was her friends who pushed her to come, and that I embarrassed her by refusing to buy this or that.

Is it a crime to ask a girl out on a date? Why is it we're really nice to people we don't know, but then bad to people we love? I can't start buying things for a whole gang on behalf of somebody I'm just getting to know.

*I don't mind from a safety point of view that she brings a friend, but not that you will start taking advantage... I work hard for my money.
*If it's only for sex, that 3k can guarantee me a good time with no bullshit.

Eehya! Consider d money spent as bad investment! U formed being nice...I don't do dat bro... D moment she brought her friends she shot herself in d leg... Date over!
One stupid geh tried dat poo with me..came with 2 of her friends n those ones started picking orders on menu without even properly greeting me.....I let 'em order,excused myself to d bathroom,winked at d security man n tipped him 500 to lemme escape ( I briefed him on d scenario) n walked out,took a bike home....I came by 3 days later n d security guy told me those gehs raked up a bill of 10k(pounded yam,nkwobi,suya,rice n drinks) when d fools couldn't pay,they were embarrassed totally, their phones were taken n their left footwear.....they chartered a bike home...in SHAME!!!!
Am I mad to pay for 3 EBINA gehs? Who am I ? Santa Claus?

Nickymezor:
Hmmmm

Shey I lie ni?

When are we having our first date Nicky?

MzJin:



I guess d both of u nid to hook up on a date plss.....stop love-dissing on nairaland epileptic-gf guy n stay-at-home n use bf chic.......just suggesting......

You cannot comprehend bro. You can see the guy sounds like a privileged "i am fine mentality kinda guy" and the girl is way out of his league, so tell me how dem go fit date? Na chin-chin and puff-puff sellers the guy dey follow upandown.

Angy55:
Babe always be with cash or ATM just in case. I do it a lot. I won't take more than I can pay for just in case the guy wants to loosegaurd. lol

I don't even order for anything myself, I let the guy order, then if the prices are listed, I look at it before agreeing to buy anything.

I no wan hear story

I remember years back, I invited a lady for a date. I gave her a location where to pick her, getting there, saw her with 2 of her friends from afar, ran as much as I could switch off phone,

mzhorlah:
stop bin sentimental


what about Naija boys.


they are always prepared for sex like life is about give and take.

So true... It can be very annoying

tosyne2much:
OP, you forgot to add that some of them will feed as if there's famine in the land on first date

Chai most guys are really really poor... If you are worried about the food consumed on a date, you might as well sit your ass home, food oh na im people go dey complain about. Babes, make una date "Northerners" na all these ijebu, ekiti and ibo boys dey complain about "food". Recently one ibo guy complained that a babe that used his bathroom used too much "tissue". can you imagine I still no understand how ol boy take eye gauge tissue come determine say the thing don too reduce. Guys, if you don't have it, tell the girl upfront say no kaka for pocket, the one wey go follow you go follow you, pls stop complaining and counting the # of meat consumed on a date, its poverty mentality.

tosyne2much:
Shey I lie ni?

When are we having our first date Nicky?

A bit oo...na a handful of ladies wey dey do dat...

I dey always gauge before I flex babe comot because naija girls too hungry.

tosyne2much:
OP, you forgot to add that some of them will feed as if there's famine in the land on first date

One thing I won't tolerate on a date is bringing friends along. The whole purpose of a romantic date is to ensure a modicum of privacy when conversing with the person you like.

Sometimes I don't blame some ladies coming with escorts(friends),since some guyz will be confidently claiming they've got it all,when they know they r still managing themselves.. Why won't d girl seize that opportunity to exploit u

NB:Stick to d truth "I KNOW GET"

luminouz:

Eehya! Consider d money spent as bad investment! U formed being nice...I don't do dat bro... D moment she brought her friends she shot herself in d leg... Date over!
One stupid geh tried dat poo with me..came with 2 of her friends n those ones started picking orders on menu without even properly greeting me.....I let 'em order,excused myself to d bathroom,winked at d security man n tipped him 500 to lemme escape ( I briefed him on d scenario) n walked out,took a bike home....I came by 3 days later n d security guy told me those gehs raked up a bill of 10k(pounded yam,nkwobi,suya,rice n drinks) when d fools couldn't pay,they were embarrassed totally, their phones were taken n their left footwear.....they chartered a bike home...in SHAME!!!!
Am I mad to pay for 3 EBINA gehs? Who am I ? Santa Claus?

Luminouz, eheeen, God don catch you i don follow you reach here today. Nobi me wey you dey nack mouth the other day for ?? Shege dan boroubaaa. haaa, so how u escape, so you no even get liver to tell the girls politely say you cannot afford all that, you go follow back door comot, maybe you climb fence sef, if you fall down in the process nko? Chai, chai, diaris God oh.. I don first talk am say you no too get shit for yansh. lol. hahahahaha. You sort security, come bail, ok, so na so babe dey catch you mugu. Ok i see your frustration. Make you learn from the MASTER ok? Make i teach you as we dey do am. See here, no shame there, if i were in your shoes, i will tell her categorically and from the onset that i was not expecting her and her friends, if i dont have enough money, i will tell them right there and then the date is cancelled cos i did not prepare for all that. Now, if i can afford the food, i will tell them to go ahead and order and if i see they are taking advantage, i will say No, no you cannot have that, and if anyone should give me attitude, i will ask if they will rather pay for it? It is my money i am in control and if i see they are not being reasonable, i will control what is ordered and if you don't like it, the alternative is that you pay for it period. So next time, bros, you don't have to bail, sit down and be in CONTROL and whoever does not like it can get up and leave, shikena.

luminouz:

winked at d security man n tipped him 500 to lemme escape ( I briefed him on d scenario).
Am I mad to pay for 3 EBINA gehs? Who am I ? Santa Claus?

Ma niggah!

safarigirl:
I don't even order for anything myself, I let the guy order, then if the prices are listed, I look at it before agreeing to buy anything.

I no wan hear story

You are reasonable. Reading all these comments one can just imagine how bad things are generally. You have broke ass girls that are unreasonably taking advantage of situations and you equally have pathetic broke ass guys counting the number of meat or suya consumed on a date, its all recession my sister.

Organs:



You are reasonable. Reading all these comments one can just imagine how bad things are generally. You have broke ass girls that are unreasonably taking advantage of situations and you equally have pathetic broke ass guys counting the number of meat or suya consumed on a date, its all recession my sister.

I don't even know how some girls live with themselves when they rip off guys like that.

If you don't like someone, tell him. If he insists on a date, you can go, but don't don't use it as an opportunity to deal with him by inviting your friends or ordering in excess. There are other ways to pass a message without ripping someone off

Odunharry:

So i will take you out and you come along with your friends?? why??

yes . Because my satisfaction is ur happiness.

safarigirl:
I don't even know how some girls live with themselves when they rip off guys like that.

If you don't like someone, tell him. If he insists on a date, you can go, but don't don't use it as an opportunity to deal with him by inviting your friends or ordering in excess. There are other ways to pass a message without ripping someone off

Some girls will never tell u straightup they don't like u just to keep u close n rip u off whatever they can lay their filthy hands on