Wicked.But once trad has been done, the woman automatically becomes his wife. Why still call her fiancee?

Your cousin wan be sharp guy . He no wan dey pay for all this lesson teacher nonsense the guy no want olodo as wife in the first place. Lol . Call of the fvxking whites . Better still make he go law school gate go find lawyer wey hin go marry

obitee69:
Good day guys, my brother just confided in me that his wife to be lied to him. She told him she studied law from a UK uni with 2.2 as her grade. She never wanted to go to law school and my cousin has since been encouraging her.

Now he just stumbled on her certificate which says she studied Sociology and graduated with a pass!!

Now hes depressed. Hes white is in 2months time and he has already done trad. Pls what should he do!!

#Faint



I remove cap4girls.

Show me a man without a history of told lies? Abeg ur cousin should forgive and forget; probably he should find a remedy to her not so good academic qualification.

What else could she b lying about ?he'll perceive her as a total stranger I wonder y she'd lie bout that thou,abeg me I no go school ooo bt I wan learn work who's single nd ready to share err parents wit me

Daz hw precious lied to me dat she is studying in UNIBEN after 2 years i saw her and asked her abt service coz sha claimed she was in 300 level then. Only to tell ne dat, m sorry dear i lied to u i was in auchi poly. OMG! After buhari fear women

HalfAmazing:
In as much as i hate lies, maybe ur cousin kept her in a tight situation, so she had to lie. For me ooh, kwali nor mata...Just gimme a good woman.

There are NO plausible reasons why someone should/would lie about their education status.... It's also a very stoopid move as it is very easy to discover the truth.

Now I certainly can understand the anger from the dude who thought that the mother of his future kids is a "possible" lawyer, only to realize later than she isn't remotely close to one.

Hxx

All of you that are saying certificate this certificate that, are not being fair at all. The issue here is the lie. Why for God's sake will you lie to your partner at this onset of your union. A single lie at this stage seems gross and devastating. It can undermine what ever effort you may put in the union tomorrow. Having said that, opp the choice is still your cousins' to make. He can also use his love and experiences in the relationship as a case study, to determine the way forward.

ogawisdom:


This is funny ooo sociology pass degree vs 2.2 uk law degree

My only problem is dt she lied n waited to get bursted nt her degree. If she confessed herself it would ve been easier to forgive.

This is jst one of alot of things she may ve lied abt n dts a major concern.

It's difficult to trust a liar, it will be difficult to continue if na me

Well your brother will have to make a choice what he wants her or the degree
Well a lie is a lie and i don't envy him at the moment

GoldCircle:
Its entirely his choice! Na certificate/lawyer him wan marry abi na better wife?

If she lied about some degree she doesn't possess just to trap him, she might as well have lied about some other vital things just to get him.

In my honest opinion, she's not to be trusted and they'll be living a lie from the get go. A relationship built on lies will come crumbling sooner or later because trust will be lacking. You don't wanna deal with a lying partner for the rest of your life

I will advice that he suspend the white wedding .
He has done trad, so traditionally, he has married her already, but he should punish her by not wasting his money on the white.

its just my 2 cent advice as a married man

I was expecting to read something more serious ... if that's enough reason for your cousin to call off his wedding, then he never loved that girl in the first place.

For her to lied about her education, and must have told a lot of other lies. A woman that lies would cheat.

Has your cousin confronted her for the truth or the reason for the lie?

obitee69:
My cuzin has been boiling. But its too late

We get it wrong here. Its too late to call off a wedding but it is not too late to call off a marriage. Its too late to call off a mere social party but it will not be too late to get a divorce. Thats not right, that is hypocritically wrong and an unjust stereotype. If he wants to continue with a wedding because invites have been sent out, hall hired and rice and beans ready, that must be because he would want to stay it out without regrets. The basis of this union now already discovered to be dotted with lies and deceit, are indicators and a pointer to a failed or unhappy marriage. There are faultlines that ought not be neglected just because of a "social jamboree" called wedding already planned.

GoldCircle:
Its entirely his choice! Na certificate/lawyer him wan marry abi na better wife?

u seems not to understand, issues like dis are not abt d certificate or d profession, its about wat more cud she be hiding or lying abt?

I av seen some one hu almost cancelled his wedding cos his fiancee whom he tot was from a poor home was Infact from a well to do family, his reasons where dat: wat more cud she be hiding...

A man tells u he doesn't smoke or womanize but after marriage , u find out hr smokes and keeps side chicks, so the woman should divorce him?

Did he marry her because of the UK degree ? if this is the case why did he not ask for the certificate before marrying her? Why was he looking for the certificate after trad? wat is his own motive ?

See, no one is a saint, wen u marry a person, its not just the looks and all, u got the whole package.

Yes she lied , very wrong! what next?

they both need to sit down and talk things over. this is just the first test, of many more to come..it could be the guy caught lying tomorrow..Its all about communication .

Marriage is not what u see on TV, it comes with different packages for different ppl like pregnancy
but with communication, even cheats are forgiven.

First, let them talk, slowly, with understanding...it starts from there and fails from there if not done right

GoldCircle:
Its entirely his choice! Na certificate/lawyer him wan marry abi na better wife?

Why the lie?
You just said it as if if you are in the guy's shoe you would n't mind.
You did the guy will ever trust her again?

obitee69:
Good day guys, my brother just confided in me that his wife to be lied to him. She told him she studied law from a UK uni with 2.2 as her grade. She never wanted to go to law school and my cousin has since been encouraging her.

Now he just stumbled on her certificate which says she studied Sociology and graduated with a pass!!

Now hes depressed. Hes white is in 2months time and he has already done trad. Pls what should he do!!

He should "Ben Johnson",a stitch in time saves nine!

diva90:
I was expecting to read something more serious ... if that's enough reason for your cousin to call off his wedding, then he never loved that girl in the first place.

this is the most stupid comment I have ever read on nairaland, believe me honestly.

another relation to liar Mohammed spotted

He should pray.

fineboynl:
.I m currently raising a movement to put stop to marriage as it sure needs to be outlawed. it's a scam and I have heard enough of it.

Where are you guys moving towards so I can join you. Is it 3rd Mainland Bridge

obitee69:
Good day guys, my brother just confided in me that his wife to be lied to him. She told him she studied law from a UK uni with 2.2 as her grade. She never wanted to go to law school and my cousin has since been encouraging her.

Now he just stumbled on her certificate which says she studied Sociology and graduated with a pass!!

Now hes depressed. Hes white is in 2months time and he has already done trad. Pls what should he do!!

He should cancel the wedding and request for a refund...

How can you go to the market and purchase a Samsung phone, and later find out its tecno reworked with a Samsung casing...

The babe lied an unforgiveable lie and she did it with confidence..

From law to Sociology.
Anyways, I don't see why he can't continue with the wedding. If he loves her and never thought about been married to her for the main purpose of bragging rights ( My wife studied abroad and has a law degree), then all she had to do is come clean if she has any other truths to fess up.
Besides, who law degree help for Ninja and even for UK sef?

obitee69:
My cuzin has been boiling. But its too late

So if you guys think it's late, what other advice do you want? You are looking for who will rubber stamp your decision?

Acidosis:
People tell lies on first dates.

Did you the part that says:

She told him she studied law from a UK uni with 2.2 as her grade. She never wanted to go to law school and my cousin has since been encouraging her.

adisabarber:
Wetin he find reach where the certificate dey? Be careful when searching for the truth because the truth might kill you.

d truth shld rather kill me than believin lies.