Mbliz:
Benigna dear pls I would appreciate it if u can look for mr and mrs. Its a Nigeria movie. And War Room is an American movie. A friend gave me to watch some months back, it was helpful. Im thinking since u av till month end to travel, anything can change before that time. And peace and love can be restored in your home. Mr and Mrs and War Room. Pls try and watch this two movies pls I beg u. Am not a film person but I Neva regretted watching it.it helped me. It can also help u.

War room? Mr and Mrs? Come on let's be realistic here a movie can't change him...I've read all his replies to those attacking him and all I can deduce is his immature. Let's stop encouraging women to stay with their abusers.

Please please and please my fellow mamas, let us not be to frustrated with benigna. Marriage that is littered with abuse so messes with your head that most often the abused is all over the place emotionally and she is post partum join.
That was why I advised her in the Beginning not to put more things out on social media as to not escalate the situation.
She alone is the only one physically in that house and knows their foibles and attitudes and she says that with her own parent's consent, she is leaving next week. Please instead of recriminations, let us support and guide her towards her goal and advise her on ways not to set him off again till then.
Be strong my sister.
It is not the end of the world rather it is the beginning of the rest of your life. Think of it that way.
God bless and keep you and your son.

Mbliz:
Benigna dear pls I would appreciate it if u can look for mr and mrs. Its a Nigeria movie. And War Room is an American movie. A friend gave me to watch some months back, it was helpful. Im thinking since u av till month end to travel, anything can change before that time. And peace and love can be restored in your home. Mr and Mrs and War Room. Pls try and watch this two movies pls I beg u. Am not a film person but I Neva regretted watching it.it helped me. It can also help u.

ah ah but mama why? movie is movie, reality is reality. Please this is not a time for movie. I've seen both movies and you can't liken them to this situation at all. Both parties involved here just need a lot of maturity and reorientation as to what life and marriage is all about please. They both need to grow up! I wanted to jump and pass o, this my mouth self. It's this mention of movie that dragged me out Lemme stop here.

Incident
:
Any type of abuse occurs (physical/sexual/emotional)

Tension Building
:
Abuser starts to get angry
Abuse may begin
There is a breakdown of communication
Victim feels the need to keep the abuser calm
Tension becomes too much
Victim feels like they are 'walking on egg shells'

Making-Up
:
Abuser may apologize for abuse
Abuser may promise it will never happen again
Abuser may blame the victim for causing the abuse
Abuser may deny abuse took place or say it was not as bad as the victim claims

Calm:
Abuser acts like the abuse never happened
Physical abuse may not be taking place
Promises made during 'making-up' may be met
Victim may hope that the abuse is over
Abuser may give gifts to victim


The cycle can happen hundreds of times in an abusive relationship. Each stage lasts a different amount of time in a relationship. The total cycle can take anywhere from a few hours to a year or more to complete.
It is important to remember that not all domestic violence relationships fit the cycle. Often, as time goes on, the 'making-up' and 'calm' stages disappear.

Spread the word so that everyone will know.

esha01:
Peace be to every one here. I greet all my seniors mama. My first post with my new username but I ve posted on diff occasions with my old username shat01.
Got my BFP after 4years of TTC. God decided to wipe my tears and put my mother_ in_ law to shame who called me a man living with her son. Don't even kw when it happened, but doc gave me Nov 10 plus two weeks as EDD. My birth month also.
Happy to b among u mamas. Anugod ,pls add me to ur team o.

Awwww... Thank God for you sis! And for putting your MIL to shame. The God who did it for you when you least expected will bring it to perfection. You will carry to term and bear your joy in your own arms.
Welcome ma EDD noted and added.


Ehen, now that's more like it
Where the rest?

Laureen007:
present cappo! Na me be last oo lol
Gender not yet known. I feel great here tho, can't hide anymore as I am over showing now lol ... it is well with us.

You mean you're showing very well now? Biko come and do bumpy Tuesday jor.

I'm not showing yet o, unless I wear a tight dress. I get biggy belle before, so I didn't believe when hubby and another colleague told me I'm showing already. I say na lie, na food bump, no be baby bump.

No be you be last oo, they still dey road dey come. I jus arrange the names according to how we expect to drop by EDD, but 30th still dey road dey come
Besides, you fit still port enter front

Who brought him here? Begnina I hope you are safe right now?

esha01:
Peace be to every one here. I greet all my seniors mama. My first post with my new username but I ve posted on diff occasions with my old username shat01.
Got my BFP after 4years of TTC. God decided to wipe my tears and put my mother_ in_ law to shame who called me a man living with her son. Don't even kw when it happened, but doc gave me Nov 10 plus two weeks as EDD. My birth month also.
Happy to b among u mamas. Anugod ,pls add me to ur team o.

Congrats ma. God will sustain this preggy. The living (s) will come out of the living in Jesus name

I don't like to get involved in all this Kia fake story. Mamas e haff do o bikonu make una leave immature children seeking for attention! It is well o! You pipo should come out for bumpy tuesday. Na only one pics I don see since morning. Abeg come and show your sexy bump, amala bump, overfeeding bump, bump of africa etc

Please oh, make nobody beat me...as women let's stop using pray hard and wash this or that movie as an advice...prayer is good but its only the living that pray, its better to be on a safe side and pray.

The simple truth is that the man is feeling stuck, forced to grow up too soon, after all he just graduated. He never ready for responsibilities hence feeling overwhelmed....he's not even mature atol from the little nonsense I saw him reply on nairaland of all places. A husband should cover his wife even if she's an harlot not open it all for the world to see....

Beningna I don't know you but I love your courage, marriage no be by force.... Your inlaws too don't have your interest at heart sorry to say, because with the battering na them suppose relocate you self...sha I rest my case...no prayer or movie advice for now, let's give practical advise abeg

O

spongeisback:

No please I didn't.

We need a break oooo mamas. Let this matter rest. Thank you

So I followed the league of people who didn't go to work today because of rain Izzit my fault Body need rest biko. Thank God for the rain

In other news, please I need tangible info on frisomum gold. I heard its no more sold in Nigeria and that if I see anyone to buy at all.. It's fake. Please how true is this? E joor epp me

after several weeks of peeping , since morning sickness have carry bag and go. I want to officially join team December

Since belle-full mamas are not ready to show us their lovely bumps today, I will participate with my old bumpie pix... #teamDecember2016

Baby O and I @ 38weeks

Graciouscharis:


It's taken twice @ 6 and 10 weeks. I think they don't administer it once the baby is 24 weeks.
Biko Nnem, get out from that toxic environment. Don't let anyone cajole you to stay back. Even if he apologizes now, you really need some fresh air. Even if your in laws love you so much, you are married to their son and he doesn't deserve you. That boy has no iota of respect for you. You deserve better than this.
Nothing will happen to your baby. You have a future ahead of you. Forgive and forget him and never allow anyone to treat you this way again. Work on yourself and be the best God has created you to be. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

so can d rotavirus vaccine be taken alongside the normal 6weeks vaccine?

SisiNini:
Since belle-full mamas are not ready to show us their lovely bumps today, I will participate with my old bumpie pix... #teamDecember2016

Baby O and I @ 38weeks

Baby okikiola still baking den ...how is u in Jennifer's voice

Benignasweety:
so can d rotavirus vaccine be taken alongside the normal 6weeks vaccine?

Yes.

Naomi14:
I don't like to get involved in all this Kia fake story. Mamas e haff do o bikonu make una leave immature children seeking for attention! It is well o! You pipo should come out for bumpy tuesday. Na only one pics I don see since morning. Abeg come and show your sexy bump, amala bump, overfeeding bump, bump of africa etc

Lol

Ehen na wetin I wan dey see be dis!

SisiNini:
Since belle-full mamas are not ready to show us their lovely bumps today, I will participate with my old bumpie pix... #teamDecember2016

Baby O and I @ 38weeks

Benignasweety:
so can d rotavirus vaccine be taken alongside the normal 6weeks vaccine?

Benny u fuckup

nneejima:

Please sweetie save yourself from the insult the guy is hurling on u all bc of Benigna, cos she can't do without him and he knows her more than u. She ll stay back immediately dt man say sorry & she ll come back here to tell you its because of her son.

lol... Reply your pm plz... I wldnt want to say a thing here again cuz yes u all understand I have to leave, which is d bitte truth but no one understands d conditions involved for now until I leave at d earlier discussed time before dix issue arised. Reply me 1st...

Am not so stupid to go back to an abusive relationship where am d one doing all d loving.. Benigna is not daft!

Frosh bump at 36weeks . We reallly need a dancing emoji here joor. #Bumpytuesday#
TeamJulyforsupernaturaldelivery.
Cc Cappo Phlakkeys

Mama's in the house, please is it advisable to take rhogam injection after a miscarriage which lead to evacuation. Im negative while dh is positive

Rhemy2013:


Baby okikiola still baking den ...how is u in Jennifer's voice

Friend, I'm good... What of cutie 'Desire?

@Naomi14, Yes ooo ma'am... We shud discuss something else before e-fight would start due to different beliefs and opinions...

Rhemy2013:

Benny u fuckup

I don't think this is necessary.

Trish102:
Mama's in the house, please is it advisable to take rhogam injection after a miscarriage which lead to evacuation. Im negative while dh is positive

I googled this:

It is unknown when rhogam needs to be given in early pregnancy where there is either a miscarriage or an induced abortion. In most countries, rhogam is not given unless you are over 12 weeks pregnant when the pregnancy ends. In US, where we are more driven by pharmaceutical influences, we give it at any time, even though research shows it is unnecessary. So, unless you were over 12 weeks when you ended the pregnancy, there is virtually no risk of antibody-related pregnancy problems.

There is a simple blood test that was most likely drawn while you were pregnant. It would show the presence of antibodies. It is a routine test that is done during prenatal care – so if you saw a doctor for the pregnancy that miscarried, that information should be available. If it is negative, there is absolutely no risk for future pregnancies.

Trish102:
Mama's in the house, please is it advisable to take rhogam injection after a miscarriage which lead to evacuation. Im negative while dh is positive

And this........

How Soon After a Miscarriage Do I Need the RhoGAM Shot?
If you are Rh negative, meaning that your blood does not contain the Rh factor protein, your doctor will probably recommend that you get an Rh immune globulin shot (such as RhoGAM) within 72 hours of the start of your bleeding.


With the shot you have lower odds of developing antibodies (becoming sensitized) against Rh-positive blood from this pregnancy; if you have circulating antibodies against Rh factor, you can face problems in future pregnancies. If given later than 72 hours after the start of the miscarriage, the shot is not likely to make a difference.

If it has been more than three days since your miscarriage, however, don't panic. The odds that you have become sensitized against Rh factor are low. Although there's no strong evidence that the shot is totally necessary after a first-trimester pregnancy loss, the shot is low-risk, so doctors recommend it after any pregnancy bleeding because of the theoretical risk of Rh sensitization.

Still, it is a good idea to get it within the recommended time span if you can, as it makes the small risk of Rh sensitization even lower. There's much more evidence on the shot's necessity after a later pregnancy loss or after giving birth.

If you are concerned, you can ask your doctor about a blood test to check for RH sensitization so that you can set your mind at ease.

Trish102:
Mama's in the house, please is it advisable to take rhogam injection after a miscarriage which lead to evacuation. Im negative while dh is positive

It is necessary to take rhogam injection. Since you can't really verify either the foetus is -tive or +tive. So it's preferable you take it to be on the safe side.

I have been shouting on top of my voice, thanking God, dancing, crying infact I don't know what am doing now.
I was depressed, very down even thinking that God doesn't answered anymore since last week I was down staying in door forming am sick while is depression that is killing me. I left nairaland even to peep is hard for me because I think all hope is lost, I was alone feeling lonely I just say "let me read up from my gtc family and saw where somone mention @ itissettled birth story I quick jump out from the and sat on the floor.
Now I believed and believe and believed that nothing is impossible. Heyy God I shout out to your great wonders.
Congratulations to you @itissettled I tapped from your testimonial. You are really strong woman. May God Almighty that did this always be there for you and you family.
Nwannem isiri ike. Chukwu kwu gi n'azu.
Congratulations to all the pregnant mama, safe delivery to you.

Trish102:
Mama's in the house, please is it advisable to take rhogam injection after a miscarriage which lead to evacuation. Im negative while dh is positive

yes very very very