Tahrah:
Touché

Oyindidi:
You did same to op's fiancée. Did you investigate before judging her?

ifenuwon:
Good day pple,
I need your advice on some issues bothering me now
My gf( dating for 2 years now with pastor and parents consent) has been behaving very funny this days
She suddenly starts flirting with other guys openly and anytime I ask her who those guys are, she gets angry and tells me I have no right to ask her who they are even after I discovered she is having hidden chats and dates with them
The first instance happens to be on her birthday,I planned to take her out and on getting to her shop I met dis man there, though I didn't ask her who he was bt on getting to the eatery she became very cold and didn't eat any of the things I bought for her...On asking her who the guy was she started telling me I shouldn't ask her bt I later got to know the man cos his wife happens to be a patient of mine( I am a male nurse)
Second instance happens to be with a street guy I know
Though I recently started seeing the guy in her shop every day bt didn't ask her anything.my suspicion arose wen the few times I actually met the guy in her shop
She starts acting strange and both of then get very quite
In one instance the guy was just in front of her and she texted him not knowing I saw what she was doing... And the following they I met them together on the way and immediately the guy saw me...he pretended like he wasn't with her and stylishly walked away
Wen I asked her who he was
She started over reacting and telling me I shouldn't ask her and if I don't trust her that is my problem
Now I don't know what to do about her cos our families her close and we go to the same church...pls I need ur opinion
No insults

Aderola15:


Errrrrmmm, maybe you should read my post again.

ifenuwon:
Good day pple,
I need your advice on some issues bothering me now
My gf( dating for 2 years now with pastor and parents consent) has been behaving very funny this days
She suddenly starts flirting with other guys openly and anytime I ask her who those guys are, she gets angry and tells me I have no right to ask her who they are even after I discovered she is having hidden chats and dates with them
The first instance happens to be on her birthday,I planned to take her out and on getting to her shop I met dis man there, though I didn't ask her who he was bt on getting to the eatery she became very cold and didn't eat any of the things I bought for her...On asking her who the guy was she started telling me I shouldn't ask her bt I later got to know the man cos his wife happens to be a patient of mine( I am a male nurse)
Second instance happens to be with a street guy I know
Though I recently started seeing the guy in her shop every day bt didn't ask her anything.my suspicion arose wen the few times I actually met the guy in her shop
She starts acting strange and both of then get very quite
In one instance the guy was just in front of her and she texted him not knowing I saw what she was doing... And the following they I met them together on the way and immediately the guy saw me...he pretended like he wasn't with her and stylishly walked away
Wen I asked her who he was
She started over reacting and telling me I shouldn't ask her and if I don't trust her that is my problem
Now I don't know what to do about her cos our families her close and we go to the same church...pls I need ur opinion
No insults

Aderola15:


She started flirting with him first, that should have told you how he got her nudes plus only a deranged person would go about snapping nude without the consent of the other party and I don't go about thinking the worst of people. So, you should understand why I didn't see him in that light. I replied you earlier because I was yet to go through your profile, don't look forward to any mention from me. Au revior

Victornezzar:

I did before quoting u

Aderola15:


Abi you dinnur see me see trouble nii, laaro kutukutu ojo Jimoh

Tahrah:
Atention seeker ni

Aderola15:

Jesu

Some girls sef

Azumoney44:
just gf and I didn't, she likes money just like naija girls always do, I only showed one guy ( friend) then delete, its just a game, I wanna know how it feels like having a female nude pix, it happened like this.

one faithful day I was loaded at home ane bored, I dont wanna to catch fun outside ao I pic my fone ane call her to come ane spend weekend with me( fri. - mon) ahe honor my iv so on Saturday morning after breakfast, I st startef romancing her, kissing suck her breast then suck her pussy till she cum ans push my head away and I relax, then after 5 mins be ask me to Bleep her and I refuse I did it on a purpose becos the say calabar girls are good in bed and kitchen so I want feel it too.

after pleading I Bleep her till she loose her inner strenght, she was so tired and sleep off so I was just there staring at the naked body so some pup up in my head I pick up my fone and snap her naked just to see howit will llook like on camera.

so my friend thats how it happen, I only show one of my co worker telling him that I thoughtthey say calabar girls can Bleep but look at how I killed someone child in my room we just giggled about it then I delete it.

am bad in bed not in attitude

ifenuwon:
Good day pple,
I need your advice on some issues bothering me now
My gf( dating for 2 years now with pastor and parents consent) has been behaving very funny this days
She suddenly starts flirting with other guys openly and anytime I ask her who those guys are, she gets angry and tells me I have no right to ask her who they are even after I discovered she is having hidden chats and dates with them
The first instance happens to be on her birthday,I planned to take her out and on getting to her shop I met dis man there, though I didn't ask her who he was bt on getting to the eatery she became very cold and didn't eat any of the things I bought for her...On asking her who the guy was she started telling me I shouldn't ask her bt I later got to know the man cos his wife happens to be a patient of mine( I am a male nurse)
Second instance happens to be with a street guy I know
Though I recently started seeing the guy in her shop every day bt didn't ask her anything.my suspicion arose wen the few times I actually met the guy in her shop
She starts acting strange and both of then get very quite
In one instance the guy was just in front of her and she texted him not knowing I saw what she was doing... And the following they I met them together on the way and immediately the guy saw me...he pretended like he wasn't with her and stylishly walked away
Wen I asked her who he was
She started over reacting and telling me I shouldn't ask her and if I don't trust her that is my problem
Now I don't know what to do about her cos our families her close and we go to the same church...pls I need ur opinion
No insults

Oyindidi:
Clap for yourself

Oyindidi:
Clap for yourself

Sheflex4real:
I can only imagine what you are going through right now. Since all the funny behaviour is just happening I won't suggest u give up on what you have been unto for 2 years just like that. U want her back in her place here are the things you need to do:
1. Never ask her about her guy friend of hers anymore. That's shows you are not secure.
2. You need to give her a little break. By that I mean don't call her more than once in a day, call her when you assume she's less busy, if she missed the call Never call back until she reach out to you. Even it takes days.
3. While this is going on, Make sure you are not always available. Give her time to miss your present.
4. Try hard not to be miserable, cos she must not see or hear that you are.
5. Don't make the mistake reasoning, begging or buying stuff for her with the hope getting her back on track, It will only push her further away, cos she will see right through it, and Nothing kill attraction faster than desperation.
6. The next thing is make her jealous a little, I.e put you phone on password,when you with her and your phone rings, if it someone you can call back don't pick the call just put it on silence and pocket the phone, make it look like u have something to hide even though you have nothing to hide. But don't over do it though.
REMEMBER what ever you chase run and things you seems to be running from will chase you at some point. Its one off the law of nature.


Finally I understand doing those things will be hard "Really hard" but it is what it is!

If you do it right within a week he should be back on track, belief in me she dosen't want to lose you either, but the problem is you are always there, always around so she tend to take you for granted. If u were to be in her shoes u will do the same.

You need not worry about the new guys. You share with her what they don't "HISTORY" and that will always give u a upper hand.

Hope it helps

Don_Lex

Oyindidi:
Op, pls tell me how she flirt with the guys, I didn't see it in your post.

Everyone ignored the fact that she is selling and has a chop. Op, mind telling us her line of business?

Oyindidi:
Clap for yourself

Oyindidi:
Op, pls tell me how she flirt with the guys, I didn't see it in your post.

Everyone ignored the fact that she is selling and has a chop. Op, mind telling us her line of business?

NevetsIbot:
why do you talk like a blind person?

StrawberryGloss:
You must respect yourself first and foremost if you want somebody else to respect you back. What she is doing is a lack of respect. You need to think that the reason for doing that is that she is lacking attention from you, or yours isn’t enough.

Flirting is a symptom of future cheating. Think about it, if you were married.. would you want the mother of your children doing that? Would you be okay with that? It is all about perspective and putting yourself in the shoes of your future self.

Think ahead. A woman needs a man. Be a man. Take charge. Sit her down, confront her and tell her to stop or it’s over.

robosky02:


AngelicBeing

ifenuwon:
Actually she is a fashion designer and most of customers are ladies....at least all
I have spoken to her more than 6 times concerning her change in behavior bt she alway says we should just leave it like that
The worst thing is that my mom got back from surgery abt two months now and my supposed Gf hasn't called called her or come to see her ( she stays 10mins walk from my house)
I really do love her bt with all these things she has been doing I am fed up
I can't really imagine why she finds it hard to explain to me who those guys are....

PrickGetSize:
This is why I'm against marriage/commitment of any kind. Have a girlfriend and keep fvcking her till you're tired, then move to another girl. Girls should do the same too. Love is a scam.

ifenuwon:
Good day pple,
I need your advice on some issues bothering me now
My gf( dating for 2 years now with pastor and parents consent) has been behaving very funny this days
She suddenly starts flirting with other guys openly and anytime I ask her who those guys are, she gets angry and tells me I have no right to ask her who they are even after I discovered she is having hidden chats and dates with them
The first instance happens to be on her birthday,I planned to take her out and on getting to her shop I met dis man there, though I didn't ask her who he was bt on getting to the eatery she became very cold and didn't eat any of the things I bought for her...On asking her who the guy was she started telling me I shouldn't ask her bt I later got to know the man cos his wife happens to be a patient of mine( I am a male nurse)
Second instance happens to be with a street guy I know
Though I recently started seeing the guy in her shop every day bt didn't ask her anything.my suspicion arose wen the few times I actually met the guy in her shop
She starts acting strange and both of then get very quite
In one instance the guy was just in front of her and she texted him not knowing I saw what she was doing... And the following they I met them together on the way and immediately the guy saw me...he pretended like he wasn't with her and stylishly walked away
Wen I asked her who he was
She started over reacting and telling me I shouldn't ask her and if I don't trust her that is my problem
Now I don't know what to do about her cos our families her close and we go to the same church...pls I need ur opinion
No insults